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Since you sound rather awkward around girls, I would say go for it. It'll be a good learning experience for you.
Don't expect her to actually accept, though. If she had been interested in you back then, she would have:
a) rescheduled.
b) turned down her aunt because she was going on a freakin' date.
Either that, or she's pretty awkward herself. In which case...gogo awkward couple? I guess? If she turns you down, try going out with one of those other girls, even if you know that the relationships won't work out. You're in high school, you most likely won't find your life-mate right away anyways.
If I misjudged you or you take offense to anything I said, I apologize. Just trying to be helpful.
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You should ask her again but don't make it seem so eager or formal like "I'm asking you out on a date".
Just say that you are doing something , going to grab coffee, having a drink, going to a party, whatever, and wondered if she'll like to come along.
In your mind, don't make it such a big deal either. Try to imagine that she's already accepted.
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Canada13389 Posts
reconnecting with an old friend of the opposite sex with whom you have/had a crush on and where the feeling was at least on some level mutual it can have good results :D (I'm going on almost 4 years with my GF with a similar situation happened to me and her - definitely gonna get married at some point)
So I say worth a try and I've seen this kind of thing work for others too so give it a chance :D
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On January 26 2011 12:21 HaruHaru wrote:
do itttt or else you'll have a lifetime of regret
Lifetime is a little melodramatic. You'll forget her your first two months of uni.
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Heh well thanks for the input so far guys, and just to clarify this was the first girl i had ever asked out to anything, and this happened early sophmore year, so If I seemed awquward that would be why. I by no means am up to my ears in pussy but I certainly have had my share of girls although none of them lasted for more than several months at a time. Anyhow most of you figured that out so thanks and keep it comin, kinda interesting to read you take.
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DO IT. let us know how it goes.
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haha ok well when i end up making a move I will let you guys know how it went 
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obviously. Stop being a wuss and take all the advice given here with a grain of salt and apply yourself. If it doesn't work out, no sweat. And if she gives you an awkward look or whatever just act like you don't even know her and she'll feel awkward alone.
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Be a man. Do the right thing.
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On January 26 2011 12:29 Chimpalimp wrote:Show nested quote +On January 26 2011 12:19 MOARpylons wrote:
Better to have tried and failed then not and spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been ^^ that + its already awkward, if your gonna have a shitty relationship now, why the hell not take it to the next level!
That's always been my motto. I'd rather look and feel like a jack ass (and have :D) for a week or so instead of for the rest of my life.
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I've tried the "don't do it" option with a girl I'd liked since middle school. I regret it very much now that I'll probably never see her again aside from some high school reunions since I'm in college now. Do it. Carpe diem.
+ Show Spoiler +Wow I feel pompous for using a Latin phrase or whatever language that is, not my intention, but really, do it.
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Kind of sad she don't dress slutty  . But do it. If she says no, throw paper airplanes at her all day long.
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Awwww it's so cute how he thinks this girl is different!
Yes sir, enjoy your blissful youth while you can!
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Do you want to grow to be an old man, waiting to die alone?
You must engage her in lively discourse, using the full abilities of your charm and wit. Show her you are an interesting and motivated individual. Confidence must emanate from your every pore. Make no mistake of plainly asking her to "go out", but instead be cool, collected, and invite her to some sort of semi-social locale (see suggestions above, i.e. ice skating, mini-golf) where bodily contact may inevitably ensue should she show true interest - of which of course I am certain will occur. Godspeed.
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heh, it sounds from the situation that she didn't know how to say "no" without hurting your feelings, so she said yes to the date and then figured out a way out of it. the fact that she didn't follow up and that things get awkward points to the high likelihood that she's not interested in you (and probably interested in someone else). so on that basis I voted don't go for it.
buuut since you're in high school, it's always good to have experience in figuring these things out and getting rejected, as long as it doesn't scar you =P
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Zurich15353 Posts
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Do it, you only live once. It's better to look back and regret something you did instead of something you didn't do.
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It's easier said than done, but just go for it. In a year you'll regret not doing it. Trust me.
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