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On January 13 2011 07:18 Haemonculus wrote:Show nested quote +On January 13 2011 07:14 Frits wrote:On January 13 2011 06:30 Haemonculus wrote: She sounds really insecure.
Does she like, not masturbate herself? Wtf? porn is the issue, not masturbation But surely she browses some form of erotic material to get herself in the mood... yes? seeing how porn is 90% directed at guys probably not?
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Are you both still in high school?
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Invite her to watch with you?
My GF doesn't care/encourages me to watch porn, she says it's less pressure for her... lol
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On January 13 2011 09:34 HeavOnEarth wrote:Show nested quote +On January 13 2011 07:18 Haemonculus wrote:On January 13 2011 07:14 Frits wrote:On January 13 2011 06:30 Haemonculus wrote: She sounds really insecure.
Does she like, not masturbate herself? Wtf? porn is the issue, not masturbation But surely she browses some form of erotic material to get herself in the mood... yes? seeing how porn is 90% directed at guys probably not? They may be the intended audience, but we can still enjoy it, lol.
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Can't say I've ever had this discussion with a gf in the past...
Personally I stop looking at porn when I have a gf; I save up all that energy for sex with her and it tends to be much better that way.
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put a bright blue wig on her. you'll want to tear her clothes off
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On January 13 2011 10:13 KurtistheTurtle wrote: put a bright blue wig on her. you'll want to tear her clothes off
marge simpson?
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On January 13 2011 09:34 ATeddyBear wrote: Are you both still in high school?
i am not. she is about to graduate this year.
we worked it out and she understands now. we made some compromises and i'm thankful for all your guys' help. it was greatly appreciated.
the site was [mod edit] , i figured i might as well post it since i know many people are curious.. thanks guys.
User was warned for this post
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On January 13 2011 12:23 alffla wrote:Show nested quote +On January 13 2011 10:13 KurtistheTurtle wrote: put a bright blue wig on her. you'll want to tear her clothes off marge simpson? not if your favorite color is purple
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wow thankyou for sharing that link. im not telling my gf
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If you're not watching porn, you're just going to come up with the same shit in your head anyway so what's the difference? It's just less effort this way lol.
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On January 13 2011 13:25 KurtistheTurtle wrote: wow thankyou for sharing that link. im not telling my gf I highly recommend the shoots from that site with Tori Black and Amia Moretti.
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On January 13 2011 12:40 AyeH wrote:Show nested quote +On January 13 2011 09:34 ATeddyBear wrote: Are you both still in high school? i am not. she is about to graduate this year. we worked it out and she understands now. we made some compromises and i'm thankful for all your guys' help. it was greatly appreciated. the site was [mod edit] , i figured i might as well post it since i know many people are curious.. thanks guys.
Ok new problem here is that you pay for porn..
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To the OP though - sounds like porn isn't the issue... You have 'inner massage needs' that aren't being fulfilled.
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On January 13 2011 05:39 Live2Win wrote: As much as I will regret putting my thoughts here, I'll put it anyways.
From what I gather it seems that you believe that pornography is okay to look at and "enjoy", while she does not. Therefor either you will have to agree that pornography is wrong, or convince her that pornography is not wrong.
If you are dating someone of Christian faith, and I mean serious faith and not just "I believe in God as long as it suits me" then you will have a problem. You will not be able to convince her to accept your view because this view is NOT acceptable in Christian belief. Pornography goes completely against biblical teachings.
So really, you must now either get her to disband her faith, or you must become someone of faith and understand WHY pornography is viewed as wrong.
Also I must warn that if you don't believe in Christian beliefs and she does, this kind of issue will be just the beginning of many to come.
Well, yes, but one is not supposed to have pre-marital sex if one is Christian anyway... :/
@OP: glad it worked out, I guess >.<
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On January 13 2011 05:07 AyeH wrote: god damn. she just texted me saying she talked to her teachers about the issue and they said that she was right, i was wrong. she goes to a catholic private school and one teacher was a fuckin theologist (bible person) and the other a catholic woman. she said that her teacher almost made her break up with me so i said fuck it, if you can't even bother to let go of this thing when i forgave you for cheating on me, you aren't worth sticking around for. all this was via text since she can't txt while in class. FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK.
wait what? she cheated on you and you're taking this crap? omg what are you thinking.. she needs to back the fuck off and learn the position she is in (no pun intended, although it does sound funny haha)
oh. the other poster who pointed out your sig meant it was ironic for you to have that sig. your sig sounds like a sexual question haha
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On January 13 2011 14:35 eNtitY~ wrote:Show nested quote +On January 13 2011 12:40 AyeH wrote:On January 13 2011 09:34 ATeddyBear wrote: Are you both still in high school? i am not. she is about to graduate this year. we worked it out and she understands now. we made some compromises and i'm thankful for all your guys' help. it was greatly appreciated. the site was NSFW PORN LINKZZZZ , i figured i might as well post it since i know many people are curious.. thanks guys. Ok new problem here is that you pay for porn..
i dont pay for the shit bro. it's all available through torrents. :D
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On January 13 2011 10:11 Brett wrote: Can't say I've ever had this discussion with a gf in the past...
Personally I stop looking at porn when I have a gf; I save up all that energy for sex with her and it tends to be much better that way.
Amen, resolved this issue in my head immediately. It's hard to imagine that one can have an adequate sex life and require porn, unless you go away for long periods of time or something
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On January 13 2011 05:36 koreasilver wrote:Show nested quote +On January 13 2011 05:07 AyeH wrote: god damn. she just texted me saying she talked to her teachers about the issue and they said that she was right, i was wrong. she goes to a catholic private school and one teacher was a fuckin theologist (bible person) and the other a catholic woman. she said that her teacher almost made her break up with me so i said fuck it, if you can't even bother to let go of this thing when i forgave you for cheating on me, you aren't worth sticking around for. all this was via text since she can't txt while in class. FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK. LOL just forget this girl.
LOL, why the hell did she ask an opinion from some dumb hypocrites? I was going to suggest you that she talks to an older woman (example would be her big sister that has a bf that watches porn as well, also ask the opinion of a male who usually watches porn) so that she would realize that is something that's very natural.
Because I had the same state, my girl kept bugging me why the fuck do I watch porn and then she asked her sister and his brother-in-law about it told her that it's nothing that she should be jealous about and everyone is happy!
Btw, I love sasha grey man!
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