On December 25 2010 12:35 DarthThienAn wrote:
Was that intentional?

Also, I'm pretty sure you're a Snorlax. 1) always asleep, and 2) ... kekekeke. nomnomnom

maybe >>

also, i ate so much food that all i want to to do is roll over and sleep. does this make me a snorlax? are female snorlaxes attractive? what is the plural of snorlax?

Haemonculus

United States6980 Posts

December 25 2010 03:47 GMT

#42

Attractive to other snorlax i suppose?

LuckyFool

United States9015 Posts

December 25 2010 03:53 GMT

#43

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haha nothing like a little photoshop fun on christmas eve.

Haemonculus

United States6980 Posts

December 25 2010 03:54 GMT

#44

LOL

edit: THAT IS ADORABLE

Zlasher

United States9129 Posts

December 25 2010 04:02 GMT

#45

loooooool

Inzek

Chile802 Posts

December 25 2010 04:03 GMT

#46

On December 25 2010 04:05 Chef wrote:

I like to think that the girl I want to be with is the girl who will be receptive to my approach. If a girl wants hackneyed compliments, then I probably don't want to be with her anyway, yaknow? Not that I'm Mr. Successful, but no one on these forums is, and at least I can get girls to watch StarCraft VODs with me.

I think being too afraid to lose and trying to be perfect and get everything right or not try at all is a recurring theme with TL nerd-issues. You have to be willing to lose to have any chance to win

pure truth

hazelynut

United States2196 Posts

December 25 2010 04:09 GMT

#47

On December 25 2010 12:53 LuckyFool wrote:
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haha nothing like a little photoshop fun on christmas eve.

ahahahaha

you know, i was just thinking of putting haemonculus's face onto a pidgey, too.

Zlasher

United States9129 Posts

December 25 2010 04:16 GMT

#48

mona you need to hit me up with one of your CSL connections next, gogo hahaha

Haemonculus

United States6980 Posts

December 25 2010 04:18 GMT

#49

ohhhh god plz don't me + pictures/camera = FML

LuckyFool

United States9015 Posts

December 25 2010 04:52 GMT

#50

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hazelynut

United States2196 Posts

December 25 2010 04:59 GMT

#51

ahahahah thanks LF.

i was trying to find that picture for ages by searching for references to smix + haemonculus at the same time -_- ended up with this:
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Haemonculus

United States6980 Posts

December 25 2010 05:15 GMT

#52

ajsoduhfiasdu

wow t.t

Servius_Fulvius

United States947 Posts

December 25 2010 05:38 GMT

#53

Whew. This post reads a lot more practical than the other one! Then again, the other gives tips on getting a date, this one is more on how to get a relationship. Here's something I feel is missing:

Early Relationship vs. Later Relationship

Common scenario: you and a girl hit it off, spend a lot of time together, and decide to start dating. Both of you are so happy to have found each other. Life focuses on them for a while and honestly, you couldn't be happier. You're spending countless hours together, learning about each other at a rapid rate, you may hardly see their faults and, as a lot of people choose, gratuitous amounts of sex! Unfortunately, this isn't a "real" relationship. This is a short-term obsession; a wonderful time that, after the break up, many people yearn to have back. Yes, it's great. Yes, enjoy it. No, don't believe that this is the modus operandi.

After a varying amount of time this early phase wears off. You're not constantly thinking about her, her faults become more apparent, and reality drives a wedge into your emotional vacation. The REAL relationship has begun! Ask yourself: do I want the relationship to continue? I imagine a lot of people would prefer this option, so assuming the answer is "yes" now ask yourself: Am I willing to give an enormous amount of effort to stay with this person? Relationships take a lot of hard work, so for their sake, make sure you're up to it. So how do you keep it going? Communication, trust, honesty, maturity, etc.

Of course there's a lot of gray, and even the best intentions can go sour. You may think your girlfriend is the greatest thing to ever happen to you and, even though you've only been dating a few months, you want to marry her and spend the rest of your days in bliss. That's all well and good, but one test remains - the test of time. Don't sweat it if your relationship doesn't last. However, I strongly believe that once you've found that person you successfully fight to stay with over a long period of time (years) is a person you should consider committing your life to!

LuckyFool

United States9015 Posts

December 25 2010 05:43 GMT

#54

On December 25 2010 14:15 Haemonculus wrote:
ajsoduhfiasdu

wow t.t

equally adorable as monalax imo

Servius_Fulvius

United States947 Posts

December 25 2010 05:58 GMT

#55

On December 24 2010 19:38 Xeris wrote:
I've also found that creating a relationship on a more light-hearted / whimsical nature is a lot better than getting serious really fast. Everything builds better for a long term relationship when it doesn't start seriously. My last relationship got serious very fast, and it eventually created a ton of tension. My current relationship is just about having a good time together and enjoying each other's company and I just feel like it is so much more healthy.

YES! I personally feel that a relationship built on having fun with each other while being yourself is the best way to start things. That's how me and my most recent girlfriend started. The first five weeks were a breath of fresh air; I never knew something so simple made things so much better.

Looking back, it was more of a bad thing for her to drop the l-word after the fifth week. I didn't reciprocate for over two full months, but it shifted the perspective a lot. Instead of just enjoying ourselves she had this added pressure of maintaining her words. When I finally dropped the bomb too we both committed to the pressure of keeping that alive.

After being together just over three months I took an out-of-state internship (900 miles away) for three months and then started grad school (1000 miles away, different direction). The "early stages" were over and we decided to stay together since, you know, we said we loved each other. Unfortunately communication broke down on her end (she didn't tell me she was having doubts), she started lying for months (claiming things were fine when she was having doubts - even saying she loved me for a full month when she knew she didn't), and then she broke up with me. Heartbreaking? Yes. Worse because we went too serious too fast? Very Yes!

From now on if I think I love someone I'll wait to tell them. That way, instead of molding a relationship to fit something and adding a lot of pressure on myself and her, I'll just call it as is!

Xeris

Iran17695 Posts

December 25 2010 06:09 GMT

#56

this blog took several different turns, lul!