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On September 23 2010 00:54 Kouda wrote:UPDATE TO : http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?id=153865So we broke up. :/. It kinda sucks too. The 24th would've been our 3 month anniv. Its funny, cause I showed her this card I made her on monday night. Then tuesday morning, I get a message saying she wants to break up with me. I didnt even have a chance to fight for her, she told me she made up her mind. :/ sigh . Im depressed as hell right now, Im taking a day off school. I just dont know what to do right now Lol. She told me it was best for us, but it doesnt feel like that right now.. You guys ever get that empty feeling? It hurts.
She broke up with you over a MESSAGE?
You can do better. Get back out there. Also, exercise helps a ton when you're feeling down. Just turn it into anger into energy into work out and you'll feel a million times better when you're dead tired. Then move on to the next woman. Worked for me when i broke up after 2 years.
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You'll only become stronger. Don't let it effect you and show that you can live without her. Just do what you love and you'll be fine in time.
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On September 23 2010 01:42 Kouda wrote:Show nested quote +On September 23 2010 01:36 LastWish wrote:On September 23 2010 00:54 Kouda wrote:UPDATE TO : http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?id=153865So we broke up. :/. It kinda sucks too. The 24th would've been our 3 month anniv. Its funny, cause I showed her this card I made her on monday night. Then tuesday morning, I get a message saying she wants to break up with me. I didnt even have a chance to fight for her, she told me she made up her mind. :/ sigh . Im depressed as hell right now, Im taking a day off school. I just dont know what to do right now Lol. She told me it was best for us, but it doesnt feel like that right now.. You guys ever get that empty feeling? It hurts. It's a classic. I assume this was your first more serious relationship. You just try too hard. The pace should be slower, don't give presents each day and keep tracks of aniversaries on monthly basis. Actually I think if you get over her right now + ignore her, she'll come back to you. If you push further she'll move further away. Yeah the physics of relationships : you push she moves away, you pull she comes closer. Yeah its the first "serious" one :/ I fell for it too, I originally just wanted something casual. Just me and her, but she wanted more, and now she doesnt. =/ I think its a exaggeration for assuming I give her presents everyday. Lol. The card was just for the three months, but I see where you're coming from.
One Card for 3month is ok. you didn't try to hard based solely on this information. Maybe you called/texted too often?
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On September 23 2010 03:38 SkytoM wrote:Show nested quote +On September 23 2010 01:42 Kouda wrote:On September 23 2010 01:36 LastWish wrote:On September 23 2010 00:54 Kouda wrote:UPDATE TO : http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?id=153865So we broke up. :/. It kinda sucks too. The 24th would've been our 3 month anniv. Its funny, cause I showed her this card I made her on monday night. Then tuesday morning, I get a message saying she wants to break up with me. I didnt even have a chance to fight for her, she told me she made up her mind. :/ sigh . Im depressed as hell right now, Im taking a day off school. I just dont know what to do right now Lol. She told me it was best for us, but it doesnt feel like that right now.. You guys ever get that empty feeling? It hurts. It's a classic. I assume this was your first more serious relationship. You just try too hard. The pace should be slower, don't give presents each day and keep tracks of aniversaries on monthly basis. Actually I think if you get over her right now + ignore her, she'll come back to you. If you push further she'll move further away. Yeah the physics of relationships : you push she moves away, you pull she comes closer. Yeah its the first "serious" one :/ I fell for it too, I originally just wanted something casual. Just me and her, but she wanted more, and now she doesnt. =/ I think its a exaggeration for assuming I give her presents everyday. Lol. The card was just for the three months, but I see where you're coming from. One Card for 3month is ok. you didn't try to hard based solely on this information. Maybe you called/texted too often?
We talked a lot after school everyday, but she never really told me she felt like it was too much before. :/ Maybe I should've known aha.
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It's time for you to discover the wonderful world of (less-hardcore) substances, my friend. Ask around in your school, they'll make ALL your worries go away.
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On September 23 2010 03:56 ArbAttack wrote:
It's time for you to discover the wonderful world of (less-hardcore) substances, my friend. Ask around in your school, they'll make ALL your worries go away.
I dont mind if a friend rolls a blunt in front of me or some shit, but Im not into it myself aha.
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On September 23 2010 03:01 disciple wrote:
hahaha yes! that big ol' smiley face from disciple should do the trick and make you feel as good as new!
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Keep this up and you will soon be everyones favorite poster 
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