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Luddite
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kb.RepulsE
China124 Posts
On August 05 2010 15:29 Luddite wrote: Next time you win a doubles match with her, pat her on the butt and see what happens. rofl. Too bad season's over. | ||
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Badjas
Netherlands2038 Posts
But hunting season  just opened. | ||
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TimmyMac
Canada499 Posts
YYEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHH | ||
IntoTheWow
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endy
Switzerland8970 Posts
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Nfi
United States357 Posts
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Loser777
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Don't be afraid to be flat out rejected if you make a move... much too often I see guys like us get stuck in the limbo friend zone. Ask her out to some kind of social event... Homecoming, WF... otherwise you'll just be unsure of where things are going all the time. That being said, make sure you know what you want before you make your move. If you don't want to be more than friends, don't make any risky moves that could make things awkward between you two. | ||
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mmp
United States2130 Posts
Get over your confidence issues and make a move. Now! | ||
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Navane
Netherlands2736 Posts
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Xyik
Canada728 Posts
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ZeaL.
United States5955 Posts
On August 05 2010 16:43 Loser777 wrote: Fellow asianman reporting in. The thing that I've noticed with girls is that they tend to date people of their own types, so to speak. The ones that are not overachievers will date laid back guys. The ones that are overachievers will date overachieving guys. Rarely does some kind of a mixture successfully happen. In this case, you should make it known that you are an overachiever (I hope that's a 3.97 UNWEIGHTED GPA you're talking about there...) Don't be afraid to be flat out rejected if you make a move... much too often I see guys like us get stuck in the limbo friend zone. Ask her out to some kind of social event... Homecoming, WF... otherwise you'll just be unsure of where things are going all the time. That being said, make sure you know what you want before you make your move. If you don't want to be more than friends, don't make any risky moves that could make things awkward between you two. Not sure if serious. I know plenty of overachievers that date laid back guys. My own gf is a super overachieving med student and I'm a lazy ass lab tech who games all day (granted I went to an Ivy league and I'm applying to PhD programs in bio right now, but that's not really "overachieving"). She makes me work and I make her play, its a good balance. I really don't think girls care too much about how much of an overachiever you are as long as you have some ambition and a plan for the future, no need to be Mr. Straight A's in all AP classes and graduate college in 2 years. That said, she could be the type that won't even consider someone who isn't uber successful but then why date someone like that? | ||
Chill
Calgary25963 Posts
I've never experienced Loser777's overachiever advice, but I'm white so maybe that's a factor. | ||
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ieatkids5
United States4628 Posts
On August 06 2010 00:24 Chill wrote: Off-topic: Is Asian self-esteem typically this low? I see so many posts here "I am *negative trait* because I'm Asian." Like why do you even need to mention you are Asian in this post? Maybe it's relevant to your strategy but it seems like you are both Americans. Like I know being white is pretty amazing but it's not like one is better than the other or something. I've never experienced Loser777's overachiever advice, but I'm white so maybe that's a factor. For some reason, many Asian American guys seem less confident, more shy, and to have lower self-esteem. It's a trait shaped into them as they grow up - through all of elementary, middle, high school. They start off a bit shyer than the white kids because they're different -> less friends -> less social life etc etc. It also doesn't help that there is a prevailing stereotype among many Americans that Asian guys aren't social (vicious cycle here), have a weird/different culture, are not sexual, just stay home on their computer all day, etc. Even if many people deny this stereotype, it's in the back of their mind, and people can't be helped to think differently because it's ingrained. And then a lot of white girls don't wanna go out with a weird/different/asexual/weaker guy -> Asian guys don't have a lot of experience with girls. It's just how they grow up and the society they're in. They can overcome these barriers though, like a lot of people. Still not the majority though  I'm Chinese American, and I thought it took a lot of 'work' and pushing myself to stop being the shy awkward kid who sits by himself. Most of it was forcing myself to be confident and to go talk to everyone (while seeming confident and friendly). Eventually, I started doing it naturally, and it makes social life a lot easier and fun. | ||
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chobopeon
United States7342 Posts
On August 06 2010 00:24 Chill wrote: Off-topic: Is Asian self-esteem typically this low? I see so many posts here "I am *negative trait* because I'm Asian." Like why do you even need to mention you are Asian in this post? Maybe it's relevant to your strategy but it seems like you are both Americans. Like I know being white is pretty amazing but it's not like one is better than the other or something. I've never experienced Loser777's overachiever advice, but I'm white so maybe that's a factor. The Team Liquid blog section makes me think the answer to this question is yes, they are much more reserved. Also, being white is fantastic beyond description. Let's not sugar coat it. This shit is thoroughly good. | ||
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Ian Ian Ian
913 Posts
Don't sit there and tell us why you shouldn't do it. Like, if you don't think you have a nice body, do something about it. Don't sit and complain lol. There's always a million reaosns not to do something, what's life if you're not going to take chances? Also, white power | ||
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chobopeon
United States7342 Posts
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Badjas
Netherlands2038 Posts
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kb.RepulsE
China124 Posts
On August 05 2010 16:43 Loser777 wrote: Fellow asianman reporting in. The thing that I've noticed with girls is that they tend to date people of their own types, so to speak. The ones that are not overachievers will date laid back guys. The ones that are overachievers will date overachieving guys. Rarely does some kind of a mixture successfully happen. In this case, you should make it known that you are an overachiever (I hope that's a 3.97 UNWEIGHTED GPA you're talking about there...) Don't be afraid to be flat out rejected if you make a move... much too often I see guys like us get stuck in the limbo friend zone. Ask her out to some kind of social event... Homecoming, WF... otherwise you'll just be unsure of where things are going all the time. That being said, make sure you know what you want before you make your move. If you don't want to be more than friends, don't make any risky moves that could make things awkward between you two. Haha your username is so perfect. Anyways. She's a year older than me, so what if she's the type of girl who is like, no sorry I don't go on dates with younger guys. | ||
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