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Recently blog have alot Love Problems so let me share some experience.
I am not an expert, but just share my experience. Because I find it interesting. kkkkkk!
I remember when I first got into university, I tell myself I have to change. So I become more cheerful and being nice to every1.
So I try to make friends. And sometimes I am happy I will treat lunch. I just feel good being nice keke.
Then wierd stuff happens. U know, one guy like me, it is already too obvious to me. But he did not tell me, just hinting. Hint me to visit his blog. So I visit kkk.
His blog wrote things like, she treat me lunch and buy me gift. But she also buy it for the other guy. Is she trying to decide which guy to go for? Or she is just being flirt? Or give up on me and go for other guy because I am too dumb?
Actually his blog turns me off. He expect me, go his blog. Know he love me, so I will declare my love? Kekeke. No way. No way. No way. No Fucking Way!
His msn nick is Sigh...Girls are hard to understand. Why do pretty Girl do not understand TRUE love? They are just plain realistic and anyhow.
Ah, ask him find ugly girl as girlfriend then! So many request.
Actually at that time I feel nice being with him, I think if he really do his best, I think I might have fallen to him.
Right now it is a fail relationship. Didn't even start, fail already. I don't really put it @ heart, because my love for him is not strong. But his love for me is very strong. And now he hate me alot.
He does things like, I do programming in free access lab. Then I went toilet for awhile. He go delete all my program and wrote Fuck You Bitch on the screen. The time I come back I cry, he delete all the saved files too. Point middle finger at me whenever we meet. He kicked me before so I am really hate him to the core. Not to mention all the silly childish stuff that make me feel embarassed in lecture hall and my classmates.
He did not know last time I treat him is genuine. He cannot be so mean to me, he is not my father.
Some1 told me Guy love Girl , the love meter is decreasing. While Girl love Guy, the love meter is increasing. I think this have some merit. At first, Guy Chase Girl. Guy see girl pretty, Love in @ the air. Guy meter is full. Girl meter is empty or little bit.
But as Guy gradually got to know the girl, get to go out with the girl. Get to know her number, her msn, her past, able to chat with her... the love meter will decrease slightly.
Girl will start to like the guy? Meter will increase..
Ah, skip long winded story. In the end it will become Husband bully Wife because wife cannot live without husband while husband might already like some other girl.
Okay, the last sentence maybe a little bit harsh. But I think the idea I want to share is do your best to chase girl? Because before she is urs, she might not return the feeling & gratitude u given to her. But after she is urs, maybe she will return 10-folds or 100-folds.
Okay, maybe what I say above is just some merit and not the entire truth. Let me tell the simple truth, love sum1, just go spartan until u get it?
Ah, just be more brave and be nicer to the girl and see how it goes after that.
AND DO NOT SHOW YOUR WEAK SIDE like that stupid guy screwing my life.
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holy shit. he kicked you???
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Oh wow he deleted your work? That's just sad! Guys there sound plain scary lol, don't think this type of shit would fly here at all.
But stay strong, like you said, be brave!
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what an child....seriously he should get over it....
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hahah it sounds like pretty interesting stuff. o dear hopefully you are alright with that guy bulling you O_O thanks for the advice and info!
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Dude sounds like an ass; good to have a girl saying some stuffs.
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On July 02 2010 14:48 unit wrote: what an child....seriously he should get over it....
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That Spartan line was heroic.
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On July 02 2010 14:53 Nal_rAwr wrote: hang in there man its a she!!!
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On July 02 2010 14:53 Nal_rAwr wrote: hang in there man You fail.
Sad story, really fits the rest of the blog section though!
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you seem to be a really happy person despite having to put up with that douchecunt. I hope everything works out for you
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On July 02 2010 14:53 Nal_rAwr wrote: hang in there man i would suggest reading the OP before posting
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Ah, the only thing I regret is I cried, infront of him. Must have make him real happy
Not really infront of him..but he saw me cry in the lab. And he just do his own stuff without showing emotion .
You know somehow in my heart I wished he feel a little bit guilty, and after this incident he might treat me better, or let me off a little bit. Actually after I cry there is a period of peace afterwards. He did not do harsh things for awhile. But I think things just went back to normal when he saw me hanging out with other guys and not him.
kekkeke, that time I really feel lost and scare, but now I am doing quite well. Because I am used to it and I think he got a little bit tired or maybe he grown up. Things are not as bad as last time.
I don't know it is luck, or it is his choice. We chose the same core subject and still classmate still same lecture hall >.< Ah...
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He looks very childish and over reacting. When I see what he did to you just because you ignored the "hints" on his blog, I can't imagine what he could have done if you were in a relationship for two years and you break up.
But yeah chinese girls are complicated and hard to understand ^_^
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lol, seems pretty straightforward here
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On July 02 2010 14:40 XiaoJoyce- wrote: He cannot be so mean to me, he is not my father.
Asian families lol.
Cool read though, nice to have a love blog from the other side for once.
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On July 02 2010 15:22 Scarecrow wrote:Show nested quote +On July 02 2010 14:40 XiaoJoyce- wrote: He cannot be so mean to me, he is not my father.
Asian families lol. Cool read though, nice to have a love blog from the other side for once. but if he was the spartan kick would have been acceptable.
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On July 02 2010 15:15 endy wrote: He looks very childish and over reacting. When I see what he did to you just because you ignored the "hints" on his blog, I can't imagine what he could have done if you were in a relationship for two years and you break up.
But yeah chinese girls are complicated and hard to understand ^_^
Keke, I feel sorry for his future girlfriend ahahahaha. Maybe he end up in newspaper headline? Ah, I am so bad.
Sometimes I feel no1 understand me, girl so hard to understand? Keke, maybe think simple, u will understand girl.
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