I am not an expert, but just share my experience. Because I find it interesting. kkkkkk!
I remember when I first got into university, I tell myself I have to change. So I become more cheerful and being nice to every1.
So I try to make friends. And sometimes I am happy I will treat lunch. I just feel good being nice keke.
Then wierd stuff happens. U know, one guy like me, it is already too obvious to me. But he did not tell me, just hinting. Hint me to visit his blog. So I visit kkk.
His blog wrote things like, she treat me lunch and buy me gift. But she also buy it for the other guy. Is she trying to decide which guy to go for? Or she is just being flirt? Or give up on me and go for other guy because I am too dumb?
Actually his blog turns me off. He expect me, go his blog. Know he love me, so I will declare my love? Kekeke. No way. No way. No way. No Fucking Way!
His msn nick is Sigh...Girls are hard to understand. Why do pretty Girl do not understand TRUE love? They are just plain realistic and anyhow.
Ah, ask him find ugly girl as girlfriend then! So many request.
Actually at that time I feel nice being with him, I think if he really do his best, I think I might have fallen to him.
Right now it is a fail relationship. Didn't even start, fail already. I don't really put it @ heart, because my love for him is not strong. But his love for me is very strong. And now he hate me alot.
He does things like, I do programming in free access lab. Then I went toilet for awhile. He go delete all my program and wrote Fuck You Bitch on the screen. The time I come back I cry, he delete all the saved files too. Point middle finger at me whenever we meet. He kicked me before so I am really hate him to the core. Not to mention all the silly childish stuff that make me feel embarassed in lecture hall and my classmates.
He did not know last time I treat him is genuine. He cannot be so mean to me, he is not my father.
Some1 told me Guy love Girl , the love meter is decreasing. While Girl love Guy, the love meter is increasing. I think this have some merit.
At first, Guy Chase Girl. Guy see girl pretty, Love in @ the air. Guy meter is full. Girl meter is empty or little bit.
But as Guy gradually got to know the girl, get to go out with the girl. Get to know her number, her msn, her past, able to chat with her... the love meter will decrease slightly.
Girl will start to like the guy? Meter will increase..
Ah, skip long winded story. In the end it will become Husband bully Wife because wife cannot live without husband while husband might already like some other girl.
Okay, the last sentence maybe a little bit harsh. But I think the idea I want to share is do your best to chase girl? Because before she is urs, she might not return the feeling & gratitude u given to her. But after she is urs, maybe she will return 10-folds or 100-folds.
Okay, maybe what I say above is just some merit and not the entire truth. Let me tell the simple truth, love sum1, just go spartan until u get it?
Ah, just be more brave and be nicer to the girl and see how it goes after that.
AND DO NOT SHOW YOUR WEAK SIDE like that stupid guy screwing my life.