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Garnet
Profile Blog Joined February 2006
Vietnam9031 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-06-14 17:15:20
May 31 2010 09:12 GMT
#1
Edit: problem half-solved, all thanks to economic_vn!


keV.
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
United States3214 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-05-31 09:21:39
May 31 2010 09:20 GMT
#2
Sounds like a shitty situation.

I am just having trouble believing that all hell will break lose for if you don't get 50 dollars. I'm not exactly Mr. Moneybags either, but the numbers you are mentioning can't possibly match the tragedy of your situation.
"brevity is the soul of wit" - William Shakesman
otsukaresama
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
Japan23 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-05-31 10:19:34
May 31 2010 09:27 GMT
#3
Disregard my post, it was poorly thought out.
otsu!
HeavOnEarth
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States7087 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-05-31 09:58:18
May 31 2010 09:57 GMT
#4
On May 31 2010 18:20 keV. wrote:
Sounds like a shitty situation.

I am just having trouble believing that all hell will break lose for if you don't get 50 dollars. I'm not exactly Mr. Moneybags either, but the numbers you are mentioning can't possibly match the tragedy of your situation.

this. what the fuck at the money amounts? lol
i mean shit i knew inflation was bad in vietnam, but daamn. O_o
"come korea next time... FXO house... 10 korean, 10 korean"
SilverSkyLark
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Philippines8437 Posts
May 31 2010 10:12 GMT
#5
Dude..I feel your pain..

try to get a scholarship/financial aid maybe?

which reminds me what I don't like about my school but meh..don't want to derail this.
"If i lost an arm, I would play w3." -IntoTheWow || "Member of Hyuk Hyuk Hyuk cafe. He's the next Jaedong, baby!"
GoodWill
Profile Joined February 2009
Canada149 Posts
May 31 2010 11:03 GMT
#6
Does either of your parents work?
Kim_Hyun_Han
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
706 Posts
May 31 2010 11:40 GMT
#7
Oh man

i understand you

in past my parents had finantial problems and struggled hard to honor our debts

Do your college have a tolerance time after the estabilished limit? Being in college i believe you can try some Student finantial Aid, or at least some comprehension so they can wait a bit till those ppl pay your mother.
fight_or_flight
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
United States3988 Posts
May 31 2010 11:40 GMT
#8
Are you familiar with day labor? Its a way for you to work for a day at minimum wage and get paid the same day.

Look up temporary labor in your phone book, or look for a place called Labor Ready. If you want to be guaranteed a job for the day you have to show up at like 5 am. Wear work clothes and maybe bring a lunch and something to drink and thats all you need.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Day_labor
http://www.laborready.com/Page.aspx?nid=17

This is assuming you're in the US...not sure how other countries work.
Do you really want chat rooms?
CharlieMurphy
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
United States22895 Posts
May 31 2010 11:49 GMT
#9
yea, day labor is easy quick money. Your dad sounds like a cool guy, do you play sc with him?
..and then I would, ya know, check em'. (Aka SpoR)
economist_
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Vietnam719 Posts
May 31 2010 11:59 GMT
#10
I can lend you 50$, PM me if you think you want to borrow. I am also in town and pretty close to that Clever Learn
Economics forecast assumes everything, except responsibilities
Jugan
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
United States1566 Posts
May 31 2010 12:08 GMT
#11
On May 31 2010 18:12 Garnet wrote:
and mom stole all his money anyways


This upsets me. Your mom doesn't seem like a very nice person :/

Crappy situation man, I hope things turn out good for you.
Even a Savior couldn't fix all problems. www.twitch.tv/xJugan
Pika Chu
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
Romania2510 Posts
May 31 2010 12:54 GMT
#12
On May 31 2010 20:59 economist_ wrote:
I can lend you 50$, PM me if you think you want to borrow. I am also in town and pretty close to that Clever Learn


And some tell TL is no community.


I hope you manage to help the OP. It would suck for him to lose his school because of not being able to pay the last tax .
They first ignore you. After they laugh at you. Next they will fight you. In the end you will win.
matt09
Profile Joined May 2010
United States21 Posts
May 31 2010 13:05 GMT
#13
you can always land a job at fastfood. it may suck and be a crappy work enviroment but hey some money is better than no money.
im a zerg guy.
illu
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
Canada2531 Posts
May 31 2010 13:42 GMT
#14
Where do you live....?

In Canada I am sure it is illegal to have this kind of ridiculous gender discrimination ~.~
:]
SnowFantasy
Profile Blog Joined September 2006
4173 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-05-31 13:59:21
May 31 2010 13:58 GMT
#15
I think he lives in Vietnam. Obviously I'm just going by his location.
AppleTart
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States1261 Posts
May 31 2010 17:41 GMT
#16
This is going to sound almost cruel, but sometimes you need to just get away from the situation.
You need to go somewhere else and start a life there. The only way you will be able to break out of the cycle is if you first go out and settle down first. Once you make an income you can help your mom. I feel that you need to be free from this to focus as a student.

May I ask, how did this all arise? The debts, people owing your mom money, and your dad just not doing anything?
always tired -_-
Garnet
Profile Blog Joined February 2006
Vietnam9031 Posts
June 01 2010 04:52 GMT
#17
On June 01 2010 02:41 AppleTart wrote:
This is going to sound almost cruel, but sometimes you need to just get away from the situation.
You need to go somewhere else and start a life there. The only way you will be able to break out of the cycle is if you first go out and settle down first. Once you make an income you can help your mom. I feel that you need to be free from this to focus as a student.

May I ask, how did this all arise? The debts, people owing your mom money, and your dad just not doing anything?

So my parents had a fight last night, and it turned out my mom had been in debts since years ago, and now she's making the same damn mistakes again. Dad was so tired of his wife that he stopped caring. I think the recent debts started when some guy bought a lot of stuffs from her and kept delaying the payment. Those wasn't HER goods though, I think she borrowed money from people to buy them. As you said, it's a circle and I really need to get out and start a new life. But how? I don't even have money to buy gas to travel now. I'm searching for a job everywhere, but it isn't looking very promising.

To everyone else: yes I'm living in Vietnam.
condoriano
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States826 Posts
June 01 2010 05:04 GMT
#18
Life is tough, stay strong my man. Hope you eat well at least. Keep looking for a job, this is the only way to bust this vicious circle. If you absolutely have to beg - then do it, I'm not too sure what begging looks like. Maybe you can talk to your uncle yourself without involving your father? How much money will you need total in order to graduate?
Ridentem dicere verum quid vetat?
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32091 Posts
June 01 2010 13:42 GMT
#19
you really should have had a job already if you knew you had shit to pay off and that your parents were in a shitty financial situation...

at least take from this that you need your own job, even if it's shitty, and that you need to get your own savings account that your parents cant touch
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meeple
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
Canada10211 Posts
June 01 2010 17:38 GMT
#20
I'd have to kinda agree with Hawk here... You should've got a job a while back. I know its not as easy as that, but there are always jobs around for you to get.
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