Quick girl question - Page 3

VampireLady

Netherlands283 Posts

May 10 2010 06:09 GMT

#41

It depends on how your state of mind is.. Are you still hurt she left you? Did you get over that very same fact? Are you willing to be friends with her?

Personally, id go for A.. just becuz i had an experience where my ex bf left me all of a sudden .. i was shocked and totally distraught.. All he could say was " we can still be friends "
I didnt reply but what was going through my mind was this

" Friends!? the guy i loved who left me .. didnt call or txt me or talked to me ever since.. and u wanna be friends?.. while i still miss you long for those days back when we were together.. how could he think that?!"
I decided to avoid contact of any sort and im trying to get over him.. but i still caught myself trying to get to know what he is up to or hoping in vain that he is still going to call me.

So if you're like me.. and u cant put ur ex in a friendzone.. just forget about her.. get her totally out of your life and begin with a fresh new start..

good luck

MaReK

Australia446 Posts

May 10 2010 06:31 GMT

#42

On May 10 2010 07:44 decafchicken wrote:
Reject or accept and ask if you can bring a date.

Speaking of which i broke up with my gf like a month ago and havent talked to her...is that normal?

I haven't talked to my ex for 3 months now, like not even a word.

To the OP, rejecting the offer is the best move to make.

starfries

Canada3508 Posts

May 10 2010 08:53 GMT

#43

On May 10 2010 15:31 MaReK wrote:

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I haven't talked to my ex for 3 months now, like not even a word.

To the OP, rejecting the offer is the best move to make.

yeah unless you really want her back (generally a bad idea imo) just ignore her and focus on finding a new one. i ignored my ex for 3 months even though she tried to contact me and when i finally ran into her i still had my dignity and she didn't.