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Lightswarm
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
Canada966 Posts
May 09 2010 23:20 GMT
#21
excuse me for being a jackass, but why NOT on TL?
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FlopTurnReaver
Profile Blog Joined January 2010
Switzerland1980 Posts
May 09 2010 23:22 GMT
#22
My ex-gf had a new guy 1 week after she broke up. It was a guy from my town I didn't even have an idea she knew him. After some talking and stuff i decided to ignore her

Dumb thing is just that she's in the same band as I am :s
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Slaughter
Profile Blog Joined November 2003
United States20254 Posts
May 09 2010 23:25 GMT
#23
Women are fickle and retarded, not worth it.
Never Knows Best.
bloopie
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
United States123 Posts
May 09 2010 23:28 GMT
#24
On May 10 2010 08:18 GeMicles wrote:
excuse me for being a jackass, but why on TL?


In case you havent noticed, TL isnt made up of just nerds.
<3 TL.
Lightswarm
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
Canada966 Posts
May 09 2010 23:33 GMT
#25
lol wat u talking about. TL is made up of nerds who have lives. NERDPOWER!!
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lowbright
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
308 Posts
May 09 2010 23:34 GMT
#26
reject politely and dont bother with her ever again
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Squeegy
Profile Joined October 2009
Finland1166 Posts
May 09 2010 23:41 GMT
#27
On May 10 2010 08:03 Rekrul wrote:
girls often do things like this in an attempt to make you jealous after the relationship ends how they didn't want it to

i had a girl that i was seeing but always was very honest w/ her and told her shes not my gf. obviously she wanted a real relationship but it wasn't going to happen. finally i cut things off for good but we were still on talking terms even tho she was def mad at me.

not so long ago she logged on msn telling me all about her new BF and how amazing he is in a pathetic attempt to get some 'revenge'

i typed 'lol' and blocked her. then she tried facebooking me. blocked there too. then she emailed me. no reply.


i would reject her, not politely or rudely, just straight up and if she tries to ask why just ignore her.

and if you really want to have fun, go there then tell her infront of her bf that you just tested positive for genital herpes and that she should go get checked out. for added effect throw in a 'but i have slept with 3 girls after we broke up so it might not be you...but anyways better to get tested to be sure'


There is something so hilariously awesome in this.

But yeah, you don't want to cause a scene. You're supposed to not give a shit, so don't, and act accordingly.
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vanskater
Profile Joined March 2010
United States146 Posts
May 10 2010 00:36 GMT
#28
tell her you want to stick it in her butt, if the WAPCE rejects, she wont talk to you, if she accepts well then you get to IDP. so its win, win.
meteorskunk
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada546 Posts
May 10 2010 01:24 GMT
#29
Maybe she's actually just trying to be nice. Like.. is she paying for dinner? I'd probably go for some dinner and if that dudes there just treat him like a normal dude and maybe even turn it into to a bro fest? Being nice is the best way! She will see your maturity and ability to cope with pain, and you'll be able to enjoy yourself more if you're not looking for things to be jealous over.

If she has malicious intentions and you're there to have a good time, she's gonna be the one who ends up looking like a turd.

I think we could end this whole secret meaning game girls play if we just stopped trying to read into these things.
Girl Blog Credentials: Comfortable talking to some women. Tried the sex once
Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
May 10 2010 01:33 GMT
#30
On May 10 2010 10:24 meteorskunk wrote:
Maybe she's actually just trying to be nice. Like.. is she paying for dinner? I'd probably go for some dinner and if that dudes there just treat him like a normal dude and maybe even turn it into to a bro fest? Being nice is the best way! She will see your maturity and ability to cope with pain, and you'll be able to enjoy yourself more if you're not looking for things to be jealous over.

If she has malicious intentions and you're there to have a good time, she's gonna be the one who ends up looking like a turd.

I think we could end this whole secret meaning game girls play if we just stopped trying to read into these things.


You're very right, but it's going to be hard for him to do that considering how emotionally invested he appears to be in this girl.
why so 진지해?
meteorskunk
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada546 Posts
May 10 2010 01:41 GMT
#31
On May 10 2010 10:33 Rekrul wrote:
Show nested quote +
On May 10 2010 10:24 meteorskunk wrote:
Maybe she's actually just trying to be nice. Like.. is she paying for dinner? I'd probably go for some dinner and if that dudes there just treat him like a normal dude and maybe even turn it into to a bro fest? Being nice is the best way! She will see your maturity and ability to cope with pain, and you'll be able to enjoy yourself more if you're not looking for things to be jealous over.

If she has malicious intentions and you're there to have a good time, she's gonna be the one who ends up looking like a turd.

I think we could end this whole secret meaning game girls play if we just stopped trying to read into these things.


You're very right, but it's going to be hard for him to do that considering how emotionally invested he appears to be in this girl.


Yeah, you forget how hard it is I guess.

The same thing happened to me, now that I reflect. I went crazy for a girl from my circle of friends and we dated and it ended and was emotionally taxing. She was like one of those who was in the bloom, and i got to her before she knew she was completely hot type of thing.

I thought I was like all cool and stuff, and then like 2 weeks later she has some new dude and is bringing him to all the gatherings and stuff, and everyone loved him but ofc i hated him. It was really painful to feel like so disposable.

Then I just talked to the guy, and it got better from there. (point of the story is basically that I know how much it sucks)
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nayumi
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Australia6499 Posts
May 10 2010 01:46 GMT
#32
Reject politely. Make up excuses such as "I'm kinda busy that night" but you don't have to give a specific reason, just to basically tell her that she's no longer that important and you have other things to attend to.

P.S: I'm assuming that you're not comfortable with meeting her, but if you are, just go ahead and do it.

And by the way, she might not be cheating on you as you might have thought. A lot of girls I know are somewhat similar to yours. Quickly after her relationship with a guy ends, she starts a new one with her "used-to-be" close friend. Most of the time, it's because during the difficult period she was talking to the other guy a lot and he seemed to do well understanding and comforting her. Slowly he became someone for her to rely on and from there things progressed relatively fast. From the cover it might look like she's a total bitch and has been cheating behind your back. Thought it might not necessary be the case.


gl hf
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GoShox
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
United States1836 Posts
May 10 2010 02:06 GMT
#33
On May 10 2010 08:18 GeMicles wrote:
excuse me for being a jackass, but why on TL?


What's wrong with posting stuff about girls here?

I've actually seen (and received of course) some very, very useful advice here. And any post by Rekrul is worth reading
IaniAniaN
Profile Joined September 2007
Canada555 Posts
May 10 2010 03:03 GMT
#34
On May 10 2010 10:33 Rekrul wrote:
Show nested quote +
On May 10 2010 10:24 meteorskunk wrote:
Maybe she's actually just trying to be nice. Like.. is she paying for dinner? I'd probably go for some dinner and if that dudes there just treat him like a normal dude and maybe even turn it into to a bro fest? Being nice is the best way! She will see your maturity and ability to cope with pain, and you'll be able to enjoy yourself more if you're not looking for things to be jealous over.

If she has malicious intentions and you're there to have a good time, she's gonna be the one who ends up looking like a turd.

I think we could end this whole secret meaning game girls play if we just stopped trying to read into these things.


You're very right, but it's going to be hard for him to do that considering how emotionally invested he appears to be in this girl.

Yeah, I mean its only been 3 weeks. Give yourself longer, if you think it's done then let it be done.
Hypnosis
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States2061 Posts
May 10 2010 03:53 GMT
#35
On May 10 2010 08:03 Rekrul wrote:
girls often do things like this in an attempt to make you jealous after the relationship ends how they didn't want it to

i had a girl that i was seeing but always was very honest w/ her and told her shes not my gf. obviously she wanted a real relationship but it wasn't going to happen. finally i cut things off for good but we were still on talking terms even tho she was def mad at me.

not so long ago she logged on msn telling me all about her new BF and how amazing he is in a pathetic attempt to get some 'revenge'

i typed 'lol' and blocked her. then she tried facebooking me. blocked there too. then she emailed me. no reply.

i would reject her, not politely or rudely, just straight up and if she tries to ask why just ignore her.

and if you really want to have fun, go there then tell her infront of her bf that you just tested positive for genital herpes and that she should go get checked out. for added effect throw in a 'but i have slept with 3 girls after we broke up so it might not be you...but anyways better to get tested to be sure'



yep

ignore her
Science without religion is lame, Religion without science is blind
tonight
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
United States11130 Posts
May 10 2010 04:01 GMT
#36
Say, no thanks and then after she asks why, and she will, just don't respond.
if I come without a thing, then I come with all I need @tonightsend
Rev0lution
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States1805 Posts
May 10 2010 04:08 GMT
#37
Either she's trying to make you think about her in order so that you are "bound" to her. That way she controls your shit, or she wants to have you as a fuckbuddy.

Who the hell knows dude, your not bieng very specific here. Dinner is dinner or dinner + dessert if you know what I mean...
My dealer is my best friend, and we don't even chill.
zZygote
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
Canada898 Posts
May 10 2010 04:27 GMT
#38
Maybe she wants to be your FB.

I think you should accept politely and let her make the moves
[NyC]HoBbes
Profile Blog Joined January 2010
United States803 Posts
May 10 2010 04:41 GMT
#39
Reject politely, then ignore her for a few days, then counteroffer to meet for dinner or drinks on YOUR terms.

This accomplishes a bunch of things.

1)- it shows her that you're not a pushover, and that she's going to have to actually try if she wants to have any sort of relationship with you, whether it be friendship or romantic

2)-shows that you still have some kind of interest, but not too much

3)-shows you are mature enough to handle a bad breakup

4)-shows that she's not succeeding if she's trying to make you jealous
Where'er you walk cool gales shall fan the glade
Slurgi
Profile Joined March 2010
United States118 Posts
May 10 2010 05:09 GMT
#40
On May 10 2010 07:41 Sonnet wrote:
I shall advise you as my father would,
And wisely suggest you take option C,
For should you accept you very well could,
Take your revenge most elegantly

Bear with me know as I recommend,
A plan for which you must be resolute,
Go under guise of making amends,
But bring with you a fine prostitute

Sit through dinner like a man of high bearing,
But as you wait for desert, start getting heavy,
Try too to tear the clothes that she's wearing,
Your ex will feel stress, and I'm betting envy

But for dessert wait, in case timing's poor,
Pull it too early and she'll know she's a whore


I give this reply 5 stars.

Option C.
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