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Lightswarm
Canada966 Posts
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FlopTurnReaver
Switzerland1980 Posts
 Dumb thing is just that she's in the same band as I am :s | ||
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Slaughter
United States20254 Posts
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bloopie
United States123 Posts
On May 10 2010 08:18 GeMicles wrote: excuse me for being a jackass, but why on TL? In case you havent noticed, TL isnt made up of just nerds. <3 TL. | ||
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Lightswarm
Canada966 Posts
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lowbright
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Squeegy
Finland1166 Posts
On May 10 2010 08:03 Rekrul wrote: girls often do things like this in an attempt to make you jealous after the relationship ends how they didn't want it to i had a girl that i was seeing but always was very honest w/ her and told her shes not my gf. obviously she wanted a real relationship but it wasn't going to happen. finally i cut things off for good but we were still on talking terms even tho she was def mad at me. not so long ago she logged on msn telling me all about her new BF and how amazing he is in a pathetic attempt to get some 'revenge' i typed 'lol' and blocked her. then she tried facebooking me. blocked there too. then she emailed me. no reply. i would reject her, not politely or rudely, just straight up and if she tries to ask why just ignore her. and if you really want to have fun, go there then tell her infront of her bf that you just tested positive for genital herpes and that she should go get checked out. for added effect throw in a 'but i have slept with 3 girls after we broke up so it might not be you...but anyways better to get tested to be sure' There is something so hilariously awesome in this. But yeah, you don't want to cause a scene. You're supposed to not give a shit, so don't, and act accordingly. | ||
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vanskater
United States146 Posts
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meteorskunk
Canada546 Posts
If she has malicious intentions and you're there to have a good time, she's gonna be the one who ends up looking like a turd. I think we could end this whole secret meaning game girls play if we just stopped trying to read into these things. | ||
Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
On May 10 2010 10:24 meteorskunk wrote: Maybe she's actually just trying to be nice. Like.. is she paying for dinner? I'd probably go for some dinner and if that dudes there just treat him like a normal dude and maybe even turn it into to a bro fest? Being nice is the best way! She will see your maturity and ability to cope with pain, and you'll be able to enjoy yourself more if you're not looking for things to be jealous over. If she has malicious intentions and you're there to have a good time, she's gonna be the one who ends up looking like a turd. I think we could end this whole secret meaning game girls play if we just stopped trying to read into these things. You're very right, but it's going to be hard for him to do that considering how emotionally invested he appears to be in this girl. | ||
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meteorskunk
Canada546 Posts
On May 10 2010 10:33 Rekrul wrote: You're very right, but it's going to be hard for him to do that considering how emotionally invested he appears to be in this girl. Yeah, you forget how hard it is I guess. The same thing happened to me, now that I reflect. I went crazy for a girl from my circle of friends and we dated and it ended and was emotionally taxing. She was like one of those who was in the bloom, and i got to her before she knew she was completely hot type of thing. I thought I was like all cool and stuff, and then like 2 weeks later she has some new dude and is bringing him to all the gatherings and stuff, and everyone loved him but ofc i hated him. It was really painful to feel like so disposable. Then I just talked to the guy, and it got better from there. (point of the story is basically that I know how much it sucks) | ||
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nayumi
Australia6499 Posts
P.S: I'm assuming that you're not comfortable with meeting her, but if you are, just go ahead and do it. And by the way, she might not be cheating on you as you might have thought. A lot of girls I know are somewhat similar to yours. Quickly after her relationship with a guy ends, she starts a new one with her "used-to-be" close friend. Most of the time, it's because during the difficult period she was talking to the other guy a lot and he seemed to do well understanding and comforting her. Slowly he became someone for her to rely on and from there things progressed relatively fast. From the cover it might look like she's a total bitch and has been cheating behind your back. Thought it might not necessary be the case. gl hf | ||
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GoShox
United States1836 Posts
On May 10 2010 08:18 GeMicles wrote: excuse me for being a jackass, but why on TL? What's wrong with posting stuff about girls here? I've actually seen (and received of course) some very, very useful advice here. And any post by Rekrul is worth reading | ||
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IaniAniaN
Canada555 Posts
On May 10 2010 10:33 Rekrul wrote: You're very right, but it's going to be hard for him to do that considering how emotionally invested he appears to be in this girl. Yeah, I mean its only been 3 weeks. Give yourself longer, if you think it's done then let it be done. | ||
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Hypnosis
United States2061 Posts
On May 10 2010 08:03 Rekrul wrote: girls often do things like this in an attempt to make you jealous after the relationship ends how they didn't want it to i had a girl that i was seeing but always was very honest w/ her and told her shes not my gf. obviously she wanted a real relationship but it wasn't going to happen. finally i cut things off for good but we were still on talking terms even tho she was def mad at me. not so long ago she logged on msn telling me all about her new BF and how amazing he is in a pathetic attempt to get some 'revenge' i typed 'lol' and blocked her. then she tried facebooking me. blocked there too. then she emailed me. no reply. i would reject her, not politely or rudely, just straight up and if she tries to ask why just ignore her. and if you really want to have fun, go there then tell her infront of her bf that you just tested positive for genital herpes and that she should go get checked out. for added effect throw in a 'but i have slept with 3 girls after we broke up so it might not be you...but anyways better to get tested to be sure' yep ignore her | ||
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tonight
United States11130 Posts
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Rev0lution
United States1805 Posts
Who the hell knows dude, your not bieng very specific here. Dinner is dinner or dinner + dessert if you know what I mean... | ||
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zZygote
Canada898 Posts
I think you should accept politely and let her make the moves | ||
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[NyC]HoBbes
United States803 Posts
This accomplishes a bunch of things. 1)- it shows her that you're not a pushover, and that she's going to have to actually try if she wants to have any sort of relationship with you, whether it be friendship or romantic 2)-shows that you still have some kind of interest, but not too much 3)-shows you are mature enough to handle a bad breakup 4)-shows that she's not succeeding if she's trying to make you jealous | ||
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Slurgi
United States118 Posts
On May 10 2010 07:41 Sonnet wrote: I shall advise you as my father would, And wisely suggest you take option C, For should you accept you very well could, Take your revenge most elegantly Bear with me know as I recommend, A plan for which you must be resolute, Go under guise of making amends, But bring with you a fine prostitute Sit through dinner like a man of high bearing, But as you wait for desert, start getting heavy, Try too to tear the clothes that she's wearing, Your ex will feel stress, and I'm betting envy But for dessert wait, in case timing's poor, Pull it too early and she'll know she's a whore I give this reply 5 stars. Option C. | ||
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