So two nights ago, I just turned on my laptop after not using it in about a year. I opened firefox and one of the tabs on it was omegle. I haven't used it in a while but I was really really mad at everything after my girlfriend of six months decided to break up with me and yada yada yada...
Well anyway, I start talking to some people, most people just said "Horny female?" and I would disconnect. Well finally, I started talking to someone and figured out she is my age and lives nearby. She said both these things before I told her where I live so I'm really sure she was telling the truth. Also, we were able to talk about a lot of local things so I'm sure that she's where she's from.
After talking for a while, we decided to exchange names and become friends on facebook. After talking to her a lot, it turns out we have a ton in common and she thinks a lot like me.
This is a big deal for me because I'm not usually a 'normal' thinking guy, and it would be just wonderful if I got to finally meet someone that I can connect with. However, I haven't told anyone about this until you guys and I have no idea what to do next.
I don't know if I should meet her in real life, or tell my parents, or just stop talking to her. Any ideas?
I don't know if I should meet her in real life, or tell my parents,
just invite her to your place so she can meet your parents [x] problem solved
no seriously, just tell her you like her. like, in a not frightening way
id really recommend meeting her and going out on a date a few times first, people on the internet can be very different from in real life..
also how would you rate her on a scale of 1-10?
There's one GIANT problem: I'm almost 17 and I don't have my license yet Also, I'm not necesarily interested in dating her yet, just getting to know her.
I don't know if I should meet her in real life, or tell my parents,
just invite her to your place so she can meet your parents [x] problem solved
no seriously, just tell her you like her. like, in a not frightening way
id really recommend meeting her and going out on a date a few times first, people on the internet can be very different from in real life..
also how would you rate her on a scale of 1-10?
There's one GIANT problem: I'm almost 17 and I don't have my license yet Also, I'm not necesarily interested in dating her yet, just getting to know her.
You have your permit right? Also if she doesnt live far just walk or something, much better than having your mommy bring you, or hell ask if she drives
On March 29 2010 00:18 Gogleion wrote: Yeah, but since she doesn't go to my school my parents are going to ask how we met.
Thanks everyone for all your answers too, these are all good
What the fuck. Why would your parents ask you how you meet. Its your fuckin business and they don`t have a fucking thing to tell you there. This is your personal life.
Do you really want to live like that ? Always worried about what your parents will say or whether they will let you something or agree ?
Why don`t you tell your parents that they will not ask you a damn thing about it because this is your personal stuff that no one has right to touch and taint with their expectations or opinions ?
On March 29 2010 00:18 Gogleion wrote: Yeah, but since she doesn't go to my school my parents are going to ask how we met.
Thanks everyone for all your answers too, these are all good
What the fuck. Why would your parents ask you how you meet. Its your fuckin business and they don`t have a fucking thing to tell you there. This is your personal life.
Do you really want to live like that ? Always worried about what your parents will say or whether they will let you something or agree ?
Why don`t you tell your parents that they will not ask you a damn thing about it because this is your personal stuff that no one has right to touch and taint with their expectations or opinions ?
I have to agree with this guy. You are 17. Why the fuck does it matter where you met this girl. You are acting like you are still 12. As a guy above said, meet her or you will regret it later.
Hey that's not really fair. I'd say all those things to my parents too but everyone has different shit at home and some people have (I want to say nutjobs) but I'll settle for 'difficult' parents. You only get one set, it's not worth starting world war 3 in your home over independence issues. Also, it's easy to give some guy that advice and different if you're in his shoes.
As for meeting her, yes definitely do it. And yes, in public is also a good idea. It'll also put her at ease if you suggest a very public place (if guys should be worried, girls doubly so). Go for a coffee. I met a girl that way when I was younger, and as someone said, always good meeting new people.
You never know what will come from it, so go for it
As for if your parents wouldn't approve just lie. Tell them you met her through a friend of a friend or at school or a party or think up something more appropriate to your situation that they'd believe.
If you find you don't meet alot of girls who are similiar to you, then this could be a huge opportunity. Trust me, finding people who think the same way you do or you have alot in common is so important. And as was said, you'd regret it later and always wonder if you don't.
On March 29 2010 00:18 Gogleion wrote: Yeah, but since she doesn't go to my school my parents are going to ask how we met.
Thanks everyone for all your answers too, these are all good
What the fuck. Why would your parents ask you how you meet. Its your fuckin business and they don`t have a fucking thing to tell you there. This is your personal life.
Do you really want to live like that ? Always worried about what your parents will say or whether they will let you something or agree ?
Why don`t you tell your parents that they will not ask you a damn thing about it because this is your personal stuff that no one has right to touch and taint with their expectations or opinions ?
Are you saying you're okay with me fucking your children?
Uhh... the parents are going to ask how they met because they love their son and have an interest in his life. It's not a, "Whatever, DAD, I'm my own man, JEEZ" situation here. If you really feel like the parents have NO RIGHT to know, you can go rent an apartment in a year.
Besides, friend of a friend is the easy excuse, though I would probably try and avoid lying in the first place.
On March 29 2010 00:18 Gogleion wrote: Yeah, but since she doesn't go to my school my parents are going to ask how we met.
Thanks everyone for all your answers too, these are all good
What the fuck. Why would your parents ask you how you meet. Its your fuckin business and they don`t have a fucking thing to tell you there. This is your personal life.
Do you really want to live like that ? Always worried about what your parents will say or whether they will let you something or agree ?
Why don`t you tell your parents that they will not ask you a damn thing about it because this is your personal stuff that no one has right to touch and taint with their expectations or opinions ?
Are you saying you're okay with me fucking your children?
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no he isn't saying that at all. are you trolling or did you not even read his post?
I don't know if I should meet her in real life, or tell my parents,
just invite her to your place so she can meet your parents [x] problem solved
no seriously, just tell her you like her. like, in a not frightening way
id really recommend meeting her and going out on a date a few times first, people on the internet can be very different from in real life..
also how would you rate her on a scale of 1-10?
There's one GIANT problem: I'm almost 17 and I don't have my license yet Also, I'm not necesarily interested in dating her yet, just getting to know her.
You have your permit right? Also if she doesnt live far just walk or something, much better than having your mommy bring you, or hell ask if she drives
Yeah, I have a permit, and I get my license in a couple months. I'll probably have to ask her if she drives because its too far to walk or bike.
Is there like a mall or movie theater you guys are close to? You could ask ur parents to drive you there and just say you are going with some friends. Its a public place, your parents wont get too suspicious, and she could get there easily too
On March 29 2010 00:18 Gogleion wrote: Yeah, but since she doesn't go to my school my parents are going to ask how we met.
Thanks everyone for all your answers too, these are all good
What the fuck. Why would your parents ask you how you meet. Its your fuckin business and they don`t have a fucking thing to tell you there. This is your personal life.
Do you really want to live like that ? Always worried about what your parents will say or whether they will let you something or agree ?
Why don`t you tell your parents that they will not ask you a damn thing about it because this is your personal stuff that no one has right to touch and taint with their expectations or opinions ?
Are you saying you're okay with me fucking your children?
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When someone tells you that it might be time to walk on your own - do you ask him if he wants to kill you ?
No. You learn to walk because soon you will need to do it by yourself and noone will be helping you and you really wouldn`t even want anyone to help you with that.
Get a knife strap it to the inside of your ankle and go have a nice time. If you think your parents wont let you just lie to them... I mean this is all if you are at least 17... otherwise I would just listen to my parents on this one because getting raped or kidnapped is no fun. Plus you have to realize this girl is a long shot anyways. but seriously.. bring a weapon and be prepared to stab if needed. Odds are low but the reality of the loss if you are wrong is too great.
Do not bring a weapon . That is the worst advice I've ever heard (sorry Bebop). I mean I guess it's different in different parts of the world but it says 'US' as your location. And as far as I know there isn't a huge slave trade in young men there.
Seriously, you meet in a public place like a shopping mall or a park with 40 ppl around and your safe. I don't carry a knife around generally "in case" I get attacked or sometime tries to kidnap me. Same rules apply for this situation.
wtf LOL @ bringing a weapon. Meeting someone IRL that you met over the internet isn't the safest thing in the world to do but bringing a knife? And strapped to your ankle no less, haha wow. I hope people don't actually do that.
I'm guessing that if a kidnapper was able to take someone in a public place who is unarmed, they should just go down there and not go through an elaborate setup to do this. Also, I'm not terribly worried about the slave trade/getting raped/getting kidnapped from a public place in the midwest region of the US.
but seriously if you like talking to her and she seams interested in you just tell your parents you met on facebook or myspace or whatever it is you kids use these days and go see her, might be a trap and it might be something special. you can sit in your room and chat online and never know or you can suck it up and take the plunge. all up to you man. gl
On March 29 2010 03:57 UFO wrote: Imagine a girl seeing the knife on your ankle from this perspective.
Yeah, I think that bringing a weapon would defeat the purpose of establishing trust.
Except she better be bringing pepper spray or something because she has no idea if you're a creep or not. Neither of you have reason to put that much trust in the other yet. Just meet in public, be careful and have fun.
Meet her. Or him. Either way it can only end epicly, be it with an epic brawl or an epic affair! Go for it man! And if it's a dude, smack him down and tell all your friends about it! :D Remember kids! Violence is cool.
I donno if someone said this, but there is a way to see the general region of where you live on chatroullete. So whoever it is could be fucking with you!
On March 29 2010 05:17 Rotodyne wrote: I donno if someone said this, but there is a way to see the general region of where you live on chatroullete. So whoever it is could be fucking with you!
On March 29 2010 00:18 Gogleion wrote: Yeah, but since she doesn't go to my school my parents are going to ask how we met.
Thanks everyone for all your answers too, these are all good
What the fuck. Why would your parents ask you how you meet. Its your fuckin business and they don`t have a fucking thing to tell you there. This is your personal life.
Do you really want to live like that ? Always worried about what your parents will say or whether they will let you something or agree ?
Why don`t you tell your parents that they will not ask you a damn thing about it because this is your personal stuff that no one has right to touch and taint with their expectations or opinions ?
Are you saying you're okay with me fucking your children?
-.-
When someone tells you that it might be time to walk on your own - do you ask him if he wants to kill you ?
No. You learn to walk because soon you will need to do it by yourself and noone will be helping you and you really wouldn`t even want anyone to help you with that.
Same goes to parent-care vs self-care.
Why the hell wouldn't they ask? Oh so when your kid gets shit on by some unknown random person they met on online, you'll be cool with it? It's what good parents do, they ask because they care. "Taint with their expectations or opinions", you're telling him to go out by himself but he can't even think for himself, what kind of fucked up logic is that?
Tell ur parents u called an escorte line and she is who showed up and u got her prego by mistake.
allow them to get mad and soak that news in then tell them the true story, now it wont seem like such a big deal lol.
but for real just go meet her ur folks dont need to know, after u2 become real life friends just make up a story how u met her if u dont want them to know.
its a new age now bud, meetin people off the net aint as crazy as it once was. Heck most my irl friends now i knew on the internet first. Good Luck!
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