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Hey all TL
So two nights ago, I just turned on my laptop after not using it in about a year. I opened firefox and one of the tabs on it was omegle. I haven't used it in a while but I was really really mad at everything after my girlfriend of six months decided to break up with me and yada yada yada...
Well anyway, I start talking to some people, most people just said "Horny female?" and I would disconnect. Well finally, I started talking to someone and figured out she is my age and lives nearby. She said both these things before I told her where I live so I'm really sure she was telling the truth. Also, we were able to talk about a lot of local things so I'm sure that she's where she's from.
After talking for a while, we decided to exchange names and become friends on facebook. After talking to her a lot, it turns out we have a ton in common and she thinks a lot like me.
This is a big deal for me because I'm not usually a 'normal' thinking guy, and it would be just wonderful if I got to finally meet someone that I can connect with. However, I haven't told anyone about this until you guys and I have no idea what to do next.
I don't know if I should meet her in real life, or tell my parents, or just stop talking to her. Any ideas?
 
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Meet her. Getting to know new people's always cool. And who knows, she might actually be cool!
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Yeah you should go meet her, I mean you have nothing to lose right? May as well give it a go.
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Thanks guys, I just don't know how to tell my parents because they usually wouldn't approve of meeting random people.
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If you don't you will always regret it. That should be enough motivation.
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The most important part of meetin- wait pics?
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Since we're friends on facebook we've seen pics of each other. And no- I'm not going to post them on here 
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On March 28 2010 23:51 Gogleion wrote:
I don't know if I should meet her in real life, or tell my parents,
just invite her to your place so she can meet your parents
[x] problem solved
no seriously, just tell her you like her. like, in a not frightening way
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Yeah, but since she doesn't go to my school my parents are going to ask how we met.
Thanks everyone for all your answers too, these are all good
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On March 29 2010 00:14 Djin)ftw( wrote:Show nested quote +On March 28 2010 23:51 Gogleion wrote:
I don't know if I should meet her in real life, or tell my parents, just invite her to your place so she can meet your parents [x] problem solved no seriously, just tell her you like her. like, in a not frightening way
id really recommend meeting her and going out on a date a few times first, people on the internet can be very different from in real life..
also how would you rate her on a scale of 1-10?
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On March 29 2010 00:48 arb wrote:Show nested quote +On March 29 2010 00:14 Djin)ftw( wrote:On March 28 2010 23:51 Gogleion wrote:
I don't know if I should meet her in real life, or tell my parents, just invite her to your place so she can meet your parents [x] problem solved no seriously, just tell her you like her. like, in a not frightening way id really recommend meeting her and going out on a date a few times first, people on the internet can be very different from in real life.. also how would you rate her on a scale of 1-10?
There's one GIANT problem: I'm almost 17 and I don't have my license yet 
Also, I'm not necesarily interested in dating her yet, just getting to know her.
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On March 29 2010 00:52 Gogleion wrote:Show nested quote +On March 29 2010 00:48 arb wrote:On March 29 2010 00:14 Djin)ftw( wrote:On March 28 2010 23:51 Gogleion wrote:
I don't know if I should meet her in real life, or tell my parents, just invite her to your place so she can meet your parents [x] problem solved no seriously, just tell her you like her. like, in a not frightening way id really recommend meeting her and going out on a date a few times first, people on the internet can be very different from in real life.. also how would you rate her on a scale of 1-10? There's one GIANT problem: I'm almost 17 and I don't have my license yet Also, I'm not necesarily interested in dating her yet, just getting to know her.
You have your permit right? Also if she doesnt live far just walk or something, much better than having your mommy bring you, or hell ask if she drives
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make sure you meet in a public place. you just never know.. o.o
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I met my gf kinda the same way, so go for it
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Just go for it.you have nothing to lose.just don't meet her in private just to be safe.
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On March 29 2010 00:18 Gogleion wrote:
Yeah, but since she doesn't go to my school my parents are going to ask how we met.
Thanks everyone for all your answers too, these are all good
What the fuck. Why would your parents ask you how you meet. Its your fuckin business and they don`t have a fucking thing to tell you there. This is your personal life.
Do you really want to live like that ? Always worried about what your parents will say or whether they will let you something or agree ?
Why don`t you tell your parents that they will not ask you a damn thing about it because this is your personal stuff that no one has right to touch and taint with their expectations or opinions ?
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On March 29 2010 01:26 UFO wrote:Show nested quote +On March 29 2010 00:18 Gogleion wrote:
Yeah, but since she doesn't go to my school my parents are going to ask how we met.
Thanks everyone for all your answers too, these are all good What the fuck. Why would your parents ask you how you meet. Its your fuckin business and they don`t have a fucking thing to tell you there. This is your personal life. Do you really want to live like that ? Always worried about what your parents will say or whether they will let you something or agree ? Why don`t you tell your parents that they will not ask you a damn thing about it because this is your personal stuff that no one has right to touch and taint with their expectations or opinions ?
I have to agree with this guy. You are 17. Why the fuck does it matter where you met this girl. You are acting like you are still 12.
As a guy above said, meet her or you will regret it later.
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Hey that's not really fair. I'd say all those things to my parents too but everyone has different shit at home and some people have (I want to say nutjobs) but I'll settle for 'difficult' parents. You only get one set, it's not worth starting world war 3 in your home over independence issues. Also, it's easy to give some guy that advice and different if you're in his shoes.
As for meeting her, yes definitely do it. And yes, in public is also a good idea. It'll also put her at ease if you suggest a very public place (if guys should be worried, girls doubly so). Go for a coffee. I met a girl that way when I was younger, and as someone said, always good meeting new people.
You never know what will come from it, so go for it 
As for if your parents wouldn't approve just lie. Tell them you met her through a friend of a friend or at school or a party or think up something more appropriate to your situation that they'd believe.
If you find you don't meet alot of girls who are similiar to you, then this could be a huge opportunity. Trust me, finding people who think the same way you do or you have alot in common is so important. And as was said, you'd regret it later and always wonder if you don't.
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On March 29 2010 01:26 UFO wrote:Show nested quote +On March 29 2010 00:18 Gogleion wrote:
Yeah, but since she doesn't go to my school my parents are going to ask how we met.
Thanks everyone for all your answers too, these are all good What the fuck. Why would your parents ask you how you meet. Its your fuckin business and they don`t have a fucking thing to tell you there. This is your personal life. Do you really want to live like that ? Always worried about what your parents will say or whether they will let you something or agree ? Why don`t you tell your parents that they will not ask you a damn thing about it because this is your personal stuff that no one has right to touch and taint with their expectations or opinions ?
Are you saying you're okay with me fucking your children?
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