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arb
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Loanshark
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Cube
Canada777 Posts
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arb
Noobville17920 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:32 Loanshark wrote: go off yourself what does that even mean | ||
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Sadist
United States7205 Posts
Dont be a pussy. "Can you stop drinking for me?" Tell that controlling bitch to shut the fuck up. :D | ||
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arb
Noobville17920 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:36 Sadist wrote: holy shit dude Dont be a pussy. "Can you stop drinking for me?" Tell that controlling bitch to shut the fuck up. :D well i would have but, considering i drink like once a month it didnt seem like such a huge deal for me at the time. considering ive also lied since i told her that and drank like 4 days out of the week that really makes me feel like a dickhead now haha | ||
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Sadist
United States7205 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:38 arb wrote: well i would have but, considering i drink like once a month it didnt seem like such a huge deal for me at the time. considering ive also lied since i told her that and drank like 4 days out of the week that really makes me feel like a dickhead now haha who cares its the principle. You made yourself seem like a pushover bitch. You never do anything like that. Whiny controlling chicks are the fucking worst. They ruin men. You should realize when people are trying to manipulate you and only do go along with it if you realize itll play to your advantage later (like say if you were going for the fuck and dump routine) | ||
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arb
Noobville17920 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:40 Sadist wrote: who cares its the principle. You made yourself seem like a pushover bitch. You never do anything like that. Whiny controlling chicks are the fucking worst. They ruin men. You should realize when people are trying to manipulate you and only do go along with it if you realize itll play to your advantage later (like say if you were going for the fuck and dump routine) What would you do in this situation then? Personally im at a complete loss and trying to not be a dickhead seems to have failed me here. (no i was not going to hit n quit) | ||
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nebffa
Australia776 Posts
its not that she doesnt know what she wants. she knows what she wants, but these kinds of girls are in groups that culture the mindset that they dont have to fully care about other peoples well being. it sounds like from the start you were putting out most of the effort with her being a lot more reserved (saying shes not over her ex, im sure theres other little things that you didnt put in the story as well). these are very typical symptoms of this kind of situation. dont let these girls use you. they do not consider the inexperienced guy's feelings and so you end up feeling like dirt. until you learn from it, thats how youll continue to be treated by these girls, because that is just what they do. fool me once, shame on me... you know the rest | ||
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arb
Noobville17920 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:45 nebffa wrote: teenage high school girl, who is - yep - using you its not that she doesnt know what she wants. she knows what she wants, but these kinds of girls are in groups that culture the mindset that they dont have to fully care about other peoples well being. it sounds like from the start you were putting out most of the effort with her being a lot more reserved (saying shes not over her ex, im sure theres other little things that you didnt put in the story as well). these are very typical symptoms of this kind of situation. dont let these girls use you. they do not consider the inexperienced guy's feelings and so you end up feeling like dirt. until you learn from it, thats how youll continue to be treated by these girls, because that is just what they do. fool me once, shame on me... you know the rest this post truely enlightened me. I know now i have the dick not her. I will be in control from now on. | ||
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Jayme
United States5866 Posts
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arb
Noobville17920 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:55 Jayme wrote: She sounds like a total bitch, why do you want anything to do with her? Well i dont especially now, but she started out being okay then gradually got more against my lifestyle after a bit and then the above happened. Idk how things will work out here. But mostly cus shes hot. | ||
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Ftrunkz
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Caller
Poland8075 Posts
seriously screw her, develop a misogynistic mentality, and women will never take advantage of you again. | ||
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Sadist
United States7205 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:43 arb wrote: What would you do in this situation then? Personally im at a complete loss and trying to not be a dickhead seems to have failed me here. (no i was not going to hit n quit) anytime you see a chick like this you realize they are stupid as shit and it should be an immediate turn off unless you planning to bang her. You should not get involved with her at all unless you were planning to bang her. You should have called her out on trying to be a controlling bitch. The girl is obviously stupid as hell, its plain as day she was trying to control you she wasnt even subtle about it. Be more assertive, call her out for what she is. Shes trying to manipulate you and deserves no sympathy | ||
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banana
Netherlands1189 Posts
Is she worth all the trouble? Then answer is most likely no always. Find a decent girl that doesn't treat people like garbage, and making you something like nr4 on the list incase everything goes wrong in other relations, she's not worth it. | ||
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Hittegods
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konadora
Singapore66117 Posts
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niteReloaded
Croatia5281 Posts
Realize that what has happened has happened, it is done with. You may feel the urge to hang on and try to fix things, but the sooner you realize you need to let go of this one, the better. What you CAN do, is give yourself some time to get your mind straight, and then make sure to not do the same mistakes. Here's what I recommend: - get an elbitz.net account (a private torrent) - download this: http://elbitz.net/details.php?id=18050 - and this: http://elbitz.net/details.php?id=20090 You'll thank me in a few months. | ||
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arb
Noobville17920 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:59 Sadist wrote: anytime you see a chick like this you realize they are stupid as shit and it should be an immediate turn off unless you planning to bang her. You should not get involved with her at all unless you were planning to bang her. You should have called her out on trying to be a controlling bitch. The girl is obviously stupid as hell, its plain as day she was trying to control you she wasnt even subtle about it. Be more assertive, call her out for what she is. Shes trying to manipulate you and deserves no sympathy How to call out this shit? I really do agree with you on most points here. However in my defense i really didnt realise this until quite recently. | ||
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konadora
Singapore66117 Posts
On January 05 2010 10:10 arb wrote: How to call out this shit? I really do agree with you on most points here. However in my defense i really didnt realise this until quite recently. I would just tell her that I don't want to have anything to do with her anymore and cut off everything I have to do with her | ||
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Garnet
Vietnam9013 Posts
"Well he has my number but he hasnt called me but idk why you would be mad we were just friends.." After this I would stop talking to her and reply to her texts with cold-hearted short answers. She's obviously one of those girls who just doesn't care about others' feelings. At least she seems to me. So what kind of quality does she have that make you like her? If it's just her looks then you can safely back off - "There are other fish in the sea". Or if it's her personality, then you can still be friends with her but just treat her like a normal friend and focus on your life. Go study/play starcraft etc... Though I really doubt a girl and a boy can ever be "normal" friends because boys always have sexual dreams about their female friends no matter what. Or at least for me I do. | ||
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Sadist
United States7205 Posts
On January 05 2010 10:10 arb wrote: How to call out this shit? I really do agree with you on most points here. However in my defense i really didnt realise this until quite recently. When she asks you to change something you say fuck no. When she tells you she still has feelings for whatever dick she had before, you tell her ok do you (unless you are trying to bang her) Basically you completely blow her off and ignore her or go about setting up lies and not caring about her feelings at all to try to bang her =). If you ever talk to someone like that again you just completely disregard them. Was pretty obvious she wasnt interested in you. When she said she loved you, you should have burst out laughing. | ||
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nebffa
Australia776 Posts
On January 05 2010 10:14 konadora wrote: I would just tell her that I don't want to have anything to do with her anymore and cut off everything I have to do with her i think he means he didnt see it happening, rather than being unsure about how to show her the door | ||
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konadora
Singapore66117 Posts
On January 05 2010 10:17 nebffa wrote: i think he means he didnt see it happening, rather than being unsure about how to show her the door oh Well then, to everyone saying it's very obvious, at that period of time, it isn't. So give this guy a break. | ||
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nebffa
Australia776 Posts
man... bitches aint shit | ||
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seRapH
United States9716 Posts
well, close enough anyways. you'll get over it, how soon depends on how willing you are to hate her. | ||
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Equaoh
Canada427 Posts
 She pulled some underhanded shit, though, good thing it didn't last. | ||
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Archaic
United States4024 Posts
On January 05 2010 10:23 nebffa wrote: yep, the emotional sway a girl can hold over you is pretty powerful. especially if shes telling you that she really likes you. weve all been there at some point. man... bitches aint shit Don't sweat it homes. EDIT: Okay, I get where you're coming from, but honestly, you let her go completely overboard... You can't let people walk all over you like that, girls, guys, attractive or not. | ||
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caldo149
United States469 Posts
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ludic123
Norway161 Posts
Also, your friend 'R' kinda seems like an arrogant prick. "You can have her..." Ugh! | ||
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ggrrg
Bulgaria2716 Posts
She seems to be a total bitch that's not worth your time and even less your feelings. Apparently, she does not really care for you and most likely she never will. Change your mindset from | ||
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deth
Australia1757 Posts
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ludic123
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arb
Noobville17920 Posts
On January 05 2010 11:14 ludic123 wrote: Well, this girl sounds stupid as hell and probably ain't worth your time. Heed konadora's advice, and tell her you don't want anything to do with her. It'll be easier on you in the long run. Whenever you feel depressed, try to find some friends to hang with or go out and party. Try to invest time into something more or less productive instead of moping around. It's hard, but a much better way to cope in the long haul. Also, your friend 'R' kinda seems like an arrogant prick. "You can have her..." Ugh! Special thanks to poke before he goes off bitching >.> I also told him straight up he did me shitty and he knows it, there was a little more conversation but that basically summed it up. After that i basically told him he could have her i dont give a fuck anymore. Basically thinking about it now when im less pissed off really makes me realise that i was not the only friend she'd ever need and bullshit like this and know that i was just going to get fucked over in the end. I should have heeded the signs but i didnt. Im not going to be the bitch to another girl like that again. | ||
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Warrior Madness
Canada3791 Posts
Now onto her bitching. Every girl does this for some reason. They bitch test you. No matter how sweet you think the girl is, or how perfect she is, she will bitch test you. She'll do it for many reasons, to see WHAT she can get away with, how far she can push you, how available you are, and how you'll react (i.e. assertive, non-needy vs approval seeking, agreeable, fake). You always, always have to call them out on their bitching/bullshitting. It's not a matter of being a dick far from it. Most guys lie without even knowing they do. When you're agreeable and you say and talk about things that you think she'll like, you are being disingenuine. So when asks you a ridiculous request like, "Will you quit booze for ME xoxoxox *bat eye lashes*", tell her what you really think. And always be honest about your intentions. As soon as she said, "I have to get over my boyfriend before I go out with you." I would have said, "Listen.... I like you, there's something about you I can't put my finger on, but I know you're a smart girl and you can figure this thing out about your ex. I have a lot of friends, so that's just not what I'm looking for, so if you ever make up your mind, you know where to reach me. Bye." Now and then I will get into a situation like this. "You're too young, I still have feelings for my ex, I'm getting married next month...etc etc." But I always say something like that when it happens. And more often then not, I'll get a call back, sometimes the very next day. But then sometimes I will not get a call back, that's just the way it is. You have to be prepared to lose her but winners are risk takers after all. It beats your other option.... Listening to radiohead all day long and watching Garden Statte over and over again. | ||
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Warrior Madness
Canada3791 Posts
If I can recommend two books: "Getting Real: Ten Truth Skills You Need to Live an Authentic Life" "Be Yourself, Everyone Else is Already Taken: Transform Your Life with the Power of Authenticity" http://www.amazon.com/Getting-Real-Truth-Skills-Authentic/dp/0915811928/ref=pd_sim_b_6 http://www.amazon.com/Yourself-Everyone-Else-Already-Taken/dp/047039501X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1262659872&sr=1-1 | ||
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Sprite
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LuMiX
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HeavOnEarth
United States7087 Posts
the vernacular is "go kill yourself" Used in good ol' mafia days :O | ||
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Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
I went through a few similar situations myself. Most of high school I pursued a girl who didn't really know what she wanted. We became best friends instead, but that eventually crumbled since I was expecting it to go somewhere. In college my first real girlfriend changed over a summer break. We dated for about a year, I got an internship 800 miles away, and when I returned four months later I was taken for granted on several occasions and then got the whole "I'm not in love with you anymore" breakup speech. Women downright suck sometimes... A long time ago I was taught "A relationship should end when it no longer builds the human spirit". Corny, I know, but you seem to be getting way more grief out of it than necessary. Knowing what someone is capable of is one thing, but what they are showing you is a bigger picture of who they actually are. If it's making you angry enough to break things I suggest moving on. | ||
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Pyrrhuloxia
United States6700 Posts
On January 05 2010 10:07 niteReloaded wrote: You made so many mistakes I won't even consider typing them all out. Realize that what has happened has happened, it is done with. You may feel the urge to hang on and try to fix things, but the sooner you realize you need to let go of this one, the better. What you CAN do, is give yourself some time to get your mind straight, and then make sure to not do the same mistakes. Here's what I recommend: - get an elbitz.net account (a private torrent) - download this: http://elbitz.net/details.php?id=18050 - and this: http://elbitz.net/details.php?id=20090 You'll thank me in a few months. How do I get one of these accounts? | ||
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nayumi
Australia6499 Posts
That's all I can say. | ||
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WindCalibur
Canada938 Posts
1. You have anger problems. 2. Your friend is an asshole. 3. The girl is extremely stupid. 4. Since you said you are a dickhole, I'm going to assume you are one. Then after some consideration, I came up with: 1. Either you are really desperate or blind to like a girl like that, or you are stupid yourself. 2. You have no idea who you are and is somewhat ignorant of the events that revolve around you. 3. Since you are ignorant, you probably did not see what could happen if you and that girl are to ever marry. 4.I don't particularly know if you plan to be someone who dedicates himself to one girl or want to have sex with multiple partners. I don't think you know this yourself. Becareful on what you do in real life. Before jumping all over someone who likes you or who you like, try to think more ahead and forecast what could happen in the future. Don't be desperate about giving away your love and yourself but also don't be a complete fag who mistreats females. (I see how many people seem to treat women as objects or inferior beings. Superiority complex towards the other sex indicates bitterness, lack of education, and inconsideration.) | ||
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arb
Noobville17920 Posts
Gna go to bed ill post more responses to other posts tommorow when i get back. | ||
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WindCalibur
Canada938 Posts
On January 05 2010 13:45 arb wrote: K i know people are saying i have anger issues. Which normally id agree, it doesnt take very much to send me into a rage. However Put yourself in my situation and tell me honestly that you would not be more than pissed off. Hint theres no way you can honestly say you wouldnt. Gna go to bed ill post more responses to other posts tommorow when i get back. You don't get mad at something like this because they aren't worth your anger. You take a chill pill, take this as a life lesson, and play starcraft. | ||
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nebffa
Australia776 Posts
On January 05 2010 13:37 WindCalibur wrote: Things I picked up at first glance: 1. You have anger problems. 2. Your friend is an asshole. 3. The girl is extremely stupid. 4. Since you said you are a dickhole, I'm going to assume you are one. Then after some consideration, I came up with: 1. Either you are really desperate or blind to like a girl like that, or you are stupid yourself. 2. You have no idea who you are and is somewhat ignorant of the events that revolve around you. 3. Since you are ignorant, you probably did not see what could happen if you and that girl are to ever marry. 4.I don't particularly know if you plan to be someone who dedicates himself to one girl or want to have sex with multiple partners. I don't think you know this yourself. Becareful on what you do in real life. Before jumping all over someone who likes you or who you like, try to think more ahead and forecast what could happen in the future. Don't be desperate about giving away your love and yourself but also don't be a complete fag who mistreats females. (I see how many people seem to treat women as objects or inferior beings. Superiority complex towards the other sex indicates bitterness, lack of education, and inconsideration.) you say things very matter-of-factly. this is ok, but calling him a dickhole/ignorant? its a bit rude. these mistakes... almost everyone makes at some point. why not encourage, instead of scold? | ||
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Sadist
United States7205 Posts
On January 05 2010 13:37 WindCalibur wrote: Things I picked up at first glance: 1. You have anger problems. 2. Your friend is an asshole. 3. The girl is extremely stupid. 4. Since you said you are a dickhole, I'm going to assume you are one. Then after some consideration, I came up with: 1. Either you are really desperate or blind to like a girl like that, or you are stupid yourself. 2. You have no idea who you are and is somewhat ignorant of the events that revolve around you. 3. Since you are ignorant, you probably did not see what could happen if you and that girl are to ever marry. 4.I don't particularly know if you plan to be someone who dedicates himself to one girl or want to have sex with multiple partners. I don't think you know this yourself. Becareful on what you do in real life. Before jumping all over someone who likes you or who you like, try to think more ahead and forecast what could happen in the future. Don't be desperate about giving away your love and yourself but also don't be a complete fag who mistreats females. (I see how many people seem to treat women as objects or inferior beings. Superiority complex towards the other sex indicates bitterness, lack of education, and inconsideration.) I disagree with this. There are self respecting girls/women and then there are dumb bitches. You dont need to respect dumb bitches as a male. Maybe one day theyll be enlightened and their dumb bitch tendencies will go away but probably not. Its not to say you cant be attracted physically to dumb bitches or even attracted in general until you find out their dumb bitch tendencies. These are girls who havent thought taken a look at themselves and how they treat people or why they think what they think once in their fucking life. They are good for one thing and one thing only. I have no problem with women saying the same about scumbag guys. | ||
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Korea (North)220 Posts
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nebffa
Australia776 Posts
On January 05 2010 14:50 Sadist wrote: I disagree with this. There are self respecting girls/women and then there are dumb bitches. You dont need to respect dumb bitches as a male. Maybe one day theyll be enlightened and their dumb bitch tendencies will go away but probably not. Its not to say you cant be attracted physically to dumb bitches or even attracted in general until you find out their dumb bitch tendencies. These are girls who havent thought taken a look at themselves and how they treat people or why they think what they think once in their fucking life. They are good for one thing and one thing only. I have no problem with women saying the same about scumbag guys. sure, if two people want to have sex and neither of them expect anything more then you can go for it. but durr, we know its not going to happen here. someone is going to get emotionally attached and then someone gets hurt. is that a good outcome? was it even the right thing to do in the first place? what i think is the worst part about what you say is that you advocate being a bad person, and then justify it saying 'they had it coming'. is that REALLY the kind of person you want to be? | ||
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genryou
Malaysia390 Posts
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Lokomis
United States72 Posts
R sounds like the only person that knows what they want, gets it, and is done. Maybe they'll have some trouble developing meaningful relationships later in life but I don't know them well enough so it isn't for me to say. I'm pretty certain this girl & yourself are in that boat though. At least R is smart enough to know she doesn't know what she wants whereas you want to love this indecisive & immature girl. That she would ask you to quit drinking is a sign she might be a manipulative type. She might ultimately want to mold you into something more fitting to her tastes (which probably change with every passing second). Later on down the road she might decide she herself enjoys an occasional drink. You don't know and she definitely doesn't know who she'll be a few years down the road either. That you recanted your agreement when things didn't go your way is indicative that you can't be trusted to fit these ever changing desires of hers and that probably bumped you down lower on the list of her potential suitors (which, again, fluctuates as frequently as her heart beats right now). Good relationships require compromise but she'd want something different every other day and you'd just keep making promises you'd ultimately break later on after you realize it has been keeping you from enjoying your life as you would like to define it. After she tried lying to you to get his number & then disregarded your warning that he would just dump her it should've become clear she has no respect for your opinion (or herself). That she would make these intentions known while fully aware of your feelings for her should make it all the more obvious that she has no respect for you. She doesn't know what she wants but she is going to lead you (and anyone else) on and do whatever she needs to get it. I'd advise you not to bother developing a serious relationship with her (or friendship for that matter) but then I might be left without further entertainment and I lead a pretty boring life. So my advice is to fight for her. By all means chase that ass; Godspeed sir! Just don't be surprised when, if she finally caves and hooks up with you, you end up realizing she isn't quite as attractive as when you were still jumping through hoops after her. Or don't be surprised if she dumps you fifteen seconds into the relationship for the next person making her loins moist. Edit: + Show Spoiler + In all seriousness I don't believe she is worth your time. It isn't that she is a bitch and most likely she never intended to be cruel. She is a young girl that probably has some trust issues and not much of a clue as to what she wants right now so she is quick to bounce around. Her & your hormones are kicking and everything is a fucking mess for the both of you. It's a great time in both your lives for confusing quasi-relationships, sex you'll both regret and madness; all of which I'd avoid like the plague so that you can look back on High School and not totally hate those years. Especially the sex. Not every girl is going to try and trap you with a *fake* pregnancy and "I'm on the pill" should be responded to with "I'm gonna rubber up anyway" unless you're looking to risk having a kid. My buddy gets foodstamps and hands over all his money for child support 'cause a girl tried to trap him into a relationship. Anyway, I finally read some of the comments and if you ignore all the posts by misogynistic twelve year olds offering advice on how to get your noodle wet (not a one of them has seen a vagina that wasn't downloaded via Limewire since they left the womb) there is some great advice in this thread. Warrior Madness makes some great points. One of the most important things you can be doing in this stage of your life is defining who you are and what you want out of life. Without identity and a game plan what more are you in this world than a lump of unshapely clay? The point being that who you are is for you to mold. You need to ask yourself if you're going to spend this time trying to sculpt yourself into what you think she wants or if you're going to become who you want to be and find somebody who likes you for that. There are a lot of careers, religions & philosophies, political & moral stances... if she doesn't like who you decide you like being is she really worth your time? Do you really want somebody that doesn't want you back for who you are? Someone that'll settle for you if you change x, y & z? There are a lot of women in this world; So many so that bending over backward for one looks really foolish. In regards to your anger over the situation you try to retort with the "put yourself in my situation" and "tell me you wouldn't be" but the only people who are going to answer in the affirmative are the ones that need the same advice as yourself. Most of us know well enough not to end up in the same situation but it does still happen to the best of us. No shit it hurts but how you react to the pain is important. The best thing you can do is just remain a gentleman. You can try to remain friends but, if need be, write her off (without being a dick). Let her know indecisiveness isn't going to be on your menu tonight so she'll have to dine alone. Maybe she'll come back to you after she realizes the relationships she has been pursuing aren't good ones or once she has a better idea of who she is and what she wants in life. Maybe you'll be in a good relationship when that time comes and it'll be her loss. No need to be smug or rub it in her face since it will probably already hurt for her. If you're not in a relationship maybe you'll be more cautious and less head over heels if you decide to give her that second chance. You won't know if she's still going to be indecisive and fickle until that time comes but at least you will not have overly invested your emotions if you agree to give her that chance. Get your shit together kid & best of luck to you. You'll do alright if you relax, expand your mind a bit and take some things less seriously at first. | ||
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erin[go]bragh
United States815 Posts
Adolescence is a crazy, unpredictable, pretty retarded thing. Especially when it concerns women. From the sound of it she's simply crazy, or at least a bit off. It's actually kind of weird because she seems to have a lot of parallels to a girl I knew in HS (right down to the asking me to quit drinking thing) and let me tell you, if she's anything like the girl I knew I'd turn tail and run. In all seriousness though it sounds like the best thing for you to do (emotional health wise) is to just detach yourself from this girl. If you have some genuine affection for her then that's a tough pill to swallow, but I learned the hard way that no matter what you do, no matter how nice or understanding you are, you just can't get through to girls like that. Using pregnancy as a desperate attempt to get an old boyfriend back is a pretty big clue that she's pretty messed up emotionally. Not that I'm trying to say there's something wrong with her, it's really all just part of adolescence. But she seems to be right in the middle of the "i don't know what I want or what I need" phase, and you're in for a lot of anger and heartache if you stick it out with someone like that. Regardless, I'm no psychiatrist, and everything I've said are basically assumptions I've made from what you wrote combined with what I experienced. In the end you just got to follow your instincts. | ||
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FyRe_DragOn
Canada2055 Posts
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arb
Noobville17920 Posts
On January 05 2010 17:14 FyRe_DragOn wrote: lol i knew she was after R and not you the moment i read that sentence. its not worth being involved with some1 like that tho, it sounded like let it drag on too long. Well from what i learned from a few friends earlier he doesnt really like her and is just going to fuck around with her for abit(just what i heard) and i know he knows how bad it pisses me off and after today i dont think ive ever been so fucking mad over anything in my entire life. But after breaking a teachers pen pissing one off to the point wh ere he told me to go fuck off somewhere and then one of her friends bitching at me for someone saying that i got used i rememberd i had to stay after and. I stayed after today and god damnit she was there fucking great is waht i thought. While every moment i walked past her at school today she kept giving me a kind of death stare(except it wasnt really angry) but something like one of those things you get when you really want something like in the TV shows where stars go in their eyes or something is how i can describe it. then like 45 minutes in she asks if im mad at her and why ppl were saying i got used by her in every way possible. Deciding to be nice i said im not really that mad at her(bullshit) and am more mad at R than i am anyone else because he is doing me shitty and he knows it. I decided to be the gentleman today and not come straight out with "Its fucking true isnt it". I guess this worked out for the best but idk. Im pretty confused over the entire thing cus she clearly dont know what the fuck she wants and that pisses me off pretty fuckin bad. Also thanks for all of the advice its actually helped me quite alot. | ||
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Zapdos_Smithh
Canada2620 Posts
 And wtf is with the 2/5 seriously people, so many fucking haters on TL, this is a good blog. | ||
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Sadist
United States7205 Posts
On January 05 2010 15:16 nebffa wrote: sure, if two people want to have sex and neither of them expect anything more then you can go for it. but durr, we know its not going to happen here. someone is going to get emotionally attached and then someone gets hurt. is that a good outcome? was it even the right thing to do in the first place? what i think is the worst part about what you say is that you advocate being a bad person, and then justify it saying 'they had it coming'. is that REALLY the kind of person you want to be? smuts dont have feelings | ||
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Noobville17920 Posts
After reading all of these and the posts about Anger problems i decided to look up some sites on Anger issues, and as it turns out most of them suggest i seek an anger management course because everything i do seems to imply that am an incredibly angry individual. However i do believe that i am going to end things with her. I already told her friend i hope they both die in the slowest way possible when he tried to play friends with me which really just ended up pissing me off more. Hopefully tommorow will not be as bad as today. | ||
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