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arb
Noobville17919 Posts
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Loanshark
China3094 Posts
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Cube
Canada777 Posts
.... now breathe out | ||
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arb
Noobville17919 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:32 Loanshark wrote: go off yourself what does that even mean | ||
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Sadist
United States7094 Posts
Dont be a pussy. "Can you stop drinking for me?" Tell that controlling bitch to shut the fuck up. :D | ||
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arb
Noobville17919 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:36 Sadist wrote: holy shit dude Dont be a pussy. "Can you stop drinking for me?" Tell that controlling bitch to shut the fuck up. :D well i would have but, considering i drink like once a month it didnt seem like such a huge deal for me at the time. considering ive also lied since i told her that and drank like 4 days out of the week that really makes me feel like a dickhead now haha | ||
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Sadist
United States7094 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:38 arb wrote: well i would have but, considering i drink like once a month it didnt seem like such a huge deal for me at the time. considering ive also lied since i told her that and drank like 4 days out of the week that really makes me feel like a dickhead now haha who cares its the principle. You made yourself seem like a pushover bitch. You never do anything like that. Whiny controlling chicks are the fucking worst. They ruin men. You should realize when people are trying to manipulate you and only do go along with it if you realize itll play to your advantage later (like say if you were going for the fuck and dump routine) | ||
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arb
Noobville17919 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:40 Sadist wrote: who cares its the principle. You made yourself seem like a pushover bitch. You never do anything like that. Whiny controlling chicks are the fucking worst. They ruin men. You should realize when people are trying to manipulate you and only do go along with it if you realize itll play to your advantage later (like say if you were going for the fuck and dump routine) What would you do in this situation then? Personally im at a complete loss and trying to not be a dickhead seems to have failed me here. (no i was not going to hit n quit) | ||
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nebffa
Australia776 Posts
its not that she doesnt know what she wants. she knows what she wants, but these kinds of girls are in groups that culture the mindset that they dont have to fully care about other peoples well being. it sounds like from the start you were putting out most of the effort with her being a lot more reserved (saying shes not over her ex, im sure theres other little things that you didnt put in the story as well). these are very typical symptoms of this kind of situation. dont let these girls use you. they do not consider the inexperienced guy's feelings and so you end up feeling like dirt. until you learn from it, thats how youll continue to be treated by these girls, because that is just what they do. fool me once, shame on me... you know the rest | ||
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arb
Noobville17919 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:45 nebffa wrote: teenage high school girl, who is - yep - using you its not that she doesnt know what she wants. she knows what she wants, but these kinds of girls are in groups that culture the mindset that they dont have to fully care about other peoples well being. it sounds like from the start you were putting out most of the effort with her being a lot more reserved (saying shes not over her ex, im sure theres other little things that you didnt put in the story as well). these are very typical symptoms of this kind of situation. dont let these girls use you. they do not consider the inexperienced guy's feelings and so you end up feeling like dirt. until you learn from it, thats how youll continue to be treated by these girls, because that is just what they do. fool me once, shame on me... you know the rest this post truely enlightened me. I know now i have the dick not her. I will be in control from now on. | ||
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Jayme
United States5866 Posts
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arb
Noobville17919 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:55 Jayme wrote: She sounds like a total bitch, why do you want anything to do with her? Well i dont especially now, but she started out being okay then gradually got more against my lifestyle after a bit and then the above happened. Idk how things will work out here. But mostly cus shes hot. | ||
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Ftrunkz
Australia2474 Posts
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Caller
Poland8075 Posts
seriously screw her, develop a misogynistic mentality, and women will never take advantage of you again. | ||
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Sadist
United States7094 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:43 arb wrote: What would you do in this situation then? Personally im at a complete loss and trying to not be a dickhead seems to have failed me here. (no i was not going to hit n quit) anytime you see a chick like this you realize they are stupid as shit and it should be an immediate turn off unless you planning to bang her. You should not get involved with her at all unless you were planning to bang her. You should have called her out on trying to be a controlling bitch. The girl is obviously stupid as hell, its plain as day she was trying to control you she wasnt even subtle about it. Be more assertive, call her out for what she is. Shes trying to manipulate you and deserves no sympathy | ||
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banana
Netherlands1189 Posts
Is she worth all the trouble? Then answer is most likely no always. Find a decent girl that doesn't treat people like garbage, and making you something like nr4 on the list incase everything goes wrong in other relations, she's not worth it. | ||
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Hittegods
Stockholm4640 Posts
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konadora
Singapore66063 Posts
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niteReloaded
Croatia5281 Posts
Realize that what has happened has happened, it is done with. You may feel the urge to hang on and try to fix things, but the sooner you realize you need to let go of this one, the better. What you CAN do, is give yourself some time to get your mind straight, and then make sure to not do the same mistakes. Here's what I recommend: - get an elbitz.net account (a private torrent) - download this: http://elbitz.net/details.php?id=18050 - and this: http://elbitz.net/details.php?id=20090 You'll thank me in a few months. | ||
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arb
Noobville17919 Posts
On January 05 2010 09:59 Sadist wrote: anytime you see a chick like this you realize they are stupid as shit and it should be an immediate turn off unless you planning to bang her. You should not get involved with her at all unless you were planning to bang her. You should have called her out on trying to be a controlling bitch. The girl is obviously stupid as hell, its plain as day she was trying to control you she wasnt even subtle about it. Be more assertive, call her out for what she is. Shes trying to manipulate you and deserves no sympathy How to call out this shit? I really do agree with you on most points here. However in my defense i really didnt realise this until quite recently. | ||
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