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Silentness
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
United States2821 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-12-27 22:13:42
December 27 2009 22:12 GMT
#61
On December 28 2009 02:22 KwarK wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 27 2009 22:16 Bebop Berserker wrote:
your probably mentally handicapped.

lol


LOL oh shit I see what you did there
GL HF... YOLO..lololollol.
yooniball
Profile Joined October 2009
United States21 Posts
December 28 2009 00:39 GMT
#62
You said you "care about her a lot" and you don't want to "hurt her." You will undoubtedly think about her a lot if the relationship ends, but make sure to make the right choice. Also consider that you may lose her as a friend in the process, and take the right steps if you desire to keep her as a friend.

This "loss" of interest is normal. It happens to the most happiest couples. You will never find someone to tie the knot with if you just equal a loss of interest to not "loving" the person anymore.

You ought to take a break from your relationship. A break equals complete separation and no contact with her. Don't text/call her. Don't talk to her friends. Don't talk about her with others. Tell her you want this so that you can really see for yourself the commitment you have in the relationship. I would suggest not going around and picking up girls. It will come back and bite you in the ass. After the break, if you still feel that you don't desire to see her or talk to her, you will know. It will be obvious. Best of luck to you with this.
One Shot. One Opportunity.
Roggles
Profile Joined December 2009
United States38 Posts
December 29 2009 00:32 GMT
#63
Somebody said earlier that you're leaving the excitement and entering the comfort stage, and I agree with that. Nothing in life can be pure, sustained, pleasure, but the even best relationships develop into a happy sense of belonging. True, you're not married, so it's not quite the same, but that doesn't make your loss of interest bad.

I think you should go for this:
On December 28 2009 09:39 yooniball wrote:
You ought to take a break from your relationship. A break equals complete separation and no contact with her. Don't text/call her. Don't talk to her friends. Don't talk about her with others. Tell her you want this so that you can really see for yourself the commitment you have in the relationship. I would suggest not going around and picking up girls. It will come back and bite you in the ass. After the break, if you still feel that you don't desire to see her or talk to her, you will know. It will be obvious. Best of luck to you with this.

gl hf.
Kingsp4de20
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
United States716 Posts
December 29 2009 02:02 GMT
#64
Had the same exact problem, broke up with my girl firend she had no idea why and was heart boken, but in the end i feel less stressed and i feel free again, back to bangin randoms again woot!
YPang
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States4024 Posts
December 29 2009 02:10 GMT
#65
bone her
sMi.Gladstone | BW: B high| SC2: gold T_T
General_Han
Profile Joined August 2009
Australia6 Posts
December 29 2009 04:06 GMT
#66
Scyper

Not that i've had a lot of direct experiece with girlfriends before, but still.

My gut feeling suggests that the longer you drag this on, the more hurtful it gets for your girlfriend. If you're sure that you have lost interest permanently then it's probably best to tell her so and break the relation. preferably sooner rather than later. I think a relation where only one side wants to continue is not good for either or you.


weaksauce
Profile Blog Joined March 2007
369 Posts
December 29 2009 12:34 GMT
#67
"i took her first kiss"

*backs away from computer and heads to shower*
even if he DID detect penis - cubEdin
MountainDewJunkie
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
United States10346 Posts
December 29 2009 13:12 GMT
#68
Unusual quantity of gifts from significant other = I'm cheating on you and feel guilty!
[21:07] <Shock710> whats wrong with her face [20:50] <dAPhREAk> i beat it the day after it came out | <BLinD-RawR> esports is a giant vagina
sky_slasher
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
United States328 Posts
December 29 2009 18:39 GMT
#69
ppl lost interest over time, both boys and girl. It's natural.

U don't have to "break up" with her. Try something called polyamory.

http://www.polyamorysociety.org/
ghostWriter
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
United States3302 Posts
December 29 2009 18:52 GMT
#70
If you break up with her, you will regret it. Guaranteed.
Stick it out, you'll come to appreciate her at the very least.
Sullifam
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