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meeple

Canada10211 Posts

October 26 2009 18:21 GMT

CaucasianAsian

Korea (South)11570 Posts

October 26 2009 18:26 GMT

Get a job, yes. That really helped me make friends and it really forces you to be social with people. Maybe work at a subway or something like that, or be a waiter.

Binky1842

United States2599 Posts

October 26 2009 18:29 GMT

yeah, get a job where you're forced to interact with people. like in the mall or something. from there you can meet regulars and have better, and a bit more open convo with them over time. just be around people a lot, isuppose.

you seem to have a good grasp on what you need to do though. job, clubs, maybe hit up the night life?

CrimsonLotus

Colombia1123 Posts

October 26 2009 18:32 GMT

I think joining something like a club may be the best idea.

Sometimes is hard to socialize when you don't have too many things in common with other people, thus not having something to talk about and that allows you to relate with others.

Having some activities in common with others gives you a solid base from which to jump start some friendships.

MiniRoman

Canada3953 Posts

October 26 2009 18:36 GMT

Go to a close bar and strike up conversation with the bartender, keep going and meet the regulars. Really just start talking to people, you're missing out.

RaGe

Belgium9945 Posts

October 26 2009 18:54 GMT

When I first arrived at college, my first friends were those that went outside during class breaks for a smoke and started talking about the lameness of the class. I guess smoking has some benefits.

In the end, in your case, all you need is one good friend. Through him you'll get to know other people automatically and build a social circle really quickly.

Whiplash

United States2928 Posts

October 26 2009 18:55 GMT

Clubs are huge. If I wasn't in 1 of the clubs I am in now I would have about 50 less friends.

Also make sure its people you can be "yourself" around, no sense faking anything.

niteReloaded

Croatia5281 Posts

October 26 2009 19:24 GMT

I discovered that being social is overrated.

I wasn't very social before, then I was, then I realized it's not what I really want, at least not with the kind of people I meet. I enjoy aloneness. I think.

GiYoM

Korea (South)94 Posts

October 26 2009 19:39 GMT

join a dance school or a health club or a yoga club. good way to meet nice people, nice girls. if its ur first time at the health club, get a personal trainer until u know a bunch of people there

HeaDStrong

Scotland785 Posts

October 26 2009 19:54 GMT

#10

ohh man it sucks a lot... i was so isolated in my first 2 years of university, but i did it to myself... it messed up my head, so not worth it.

i got over it, but i wont be able to give you advice from my own experience- my solution was not general enough.

but i think social gatherings are not the best way to get friends or talk to ppl, it should be something where talking to people is only of secondary importance, it takes away the pressure.

decafchicken

United States19975 Posts

October 26 2009 20:21 GMT

#11

job/club

thats pretty much how i made all my friends at uni so far, through playing rugby and working at teh cafeteria

FyRe_DragOn

Canada2055 Posts

October 26 2009 20:39 GMT

#12

im kind of in the same situation as you, im not very social and have to force myself to interact with people..i joined a soccer league in a sport/social club bcuz i wanted to get back to being more physically active as well, and it helped alot although im still not nearly as social as i should be. Im taking university atm and i miss my job not because i liked it, but because it allowed me to interact with more with people on a regular basis

Heyoka

Katowice25012 Posts

October 26 2009 20:59 GMT

#13

Clubs are the best. Ones where you have to be physically active are particularly awesome.

Spartan

United States2030 Posts

October 27 2009 00:08 GMT

#14

Honestly, I'd say don't be afraid to meet friends nearby through online means. It's pretty common nowadays, more-so than one would think.

Hypnosis

United States2061 Posts

October 27 2009 00:14 GMT

#15

i dont understand how asking a forum how to socialize will help you man. THE INTERNET IS NOT REAL LIFE stop asking for advice and learn something on your own.. Chances are you are a major introvert so learn an instrument or something.

plated.rawr

Norway1676 Posts

October 27 2009 00:18 GMT

#16

Meet people through hobbies or interests. Clubs, dates, parties and stuff will develop from there. The net's great since you can probably just google your local area and whatever hobby you prefer, and find some social hobby gatherings which revolve around it.