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HonestTea
5007 Posts
Anyway, she's really cute, and I see her often because I go to this place every day. The only problem is she's really quiet, so I think she might be really shy. Should I try talking to her? What should I say? Oh, and I promise to keep updating TLnet with everything that happens. So give good advice! | ||
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exalted
United States3612 Posts
Talk to her, it's a little more awkward now because you're in paralysis from analysis (and every day you procrastinate, it will make that eventual conversation that much more weird). If she's really as shy as you think, she'll welcome it and will be glad you did the male responsibility of breaking the ice. If she's not shy, maybe you can leap to sex. | ||
Nyovne
Netherlands19135 Posts
[edit: offcourse talk to her, just make some casual conversation or if that aint your thing get in there with a compliment, something like how you noticed her or w/e cause she was lookin fine. Don't try to be too smoothe just get in there with a smile on your face and feeling comfortable with yourself.] | ||
Klogon
MURICA15980 Posts
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whatever
Mexico693 Posts
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PobTheCad
Australia893 Posts
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GunSlinger
614 Posts
moral of the story: go talk to her! you have to pretend like she is just a casual acquaintance, just go up and talk to her. im sure she would love to talk to you if dont act all goofy and just try to make light conversation. | ||
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brian
United States9633 Posts
On August 20 2006 23:21 Nyovne wrote: Emo alert, please check into the testosterone thread to get your fix. that should be all you need to man up and talk to her. | ||
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Pwntrucci[sR]
Canada1519 Posts
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Jathin
United States3505 Posts
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Manifesto7
Osaka27156 Posts
On August 20 2006 23:16 HonestTea wrote: So there's this girl who works at this place I like to hang out. She's really quiet, in fact we've never talked before. Actually she doesn't talk to anyone while she's working, she just quietly does her job (data management) Anyway, she's really cute, and I see her often because I go to this place every day. The only problem is she's really quiet, so I think she might be really shy. Should I try talking to her? What should I say? Oh, and I promise to keep updating TLnet with everything that happens. So give good advice! Dress up as a hydralisk and jump out at her when she is coming into work. If she screams and runs for cover, forget about it. However, if she pulls a Gauss rifle out and tries to mow you down, then marry that woman asap. Seriously though, if you just hang out there, she might feel like she cant talk to you. Try to get her away from the office setting so she is not under the gaze of her co-workers. Then maybe she can open up a bit. After work coffee is pretty unobtrusive. After you have her, then just go from there to get to know her. | ||
Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
MANIFESTO IS A HOMO | ||
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PuertoRican
United States5709 Posts
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GunSlinger
614 Posts
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OhThatDang
United States4685 Posts
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baal
10541 Posts
what a whimp | ||
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Nyovne
Netherlands19135 Posts
On August 20 2006 23:49 Rekrul wrote: SHUT THE FUCK UP I think HonestTea needs to recruit Rekrul as his Manguide. | ||
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CoralReefer
Canada2069 Posts
2. "i've got some data for you to manage" 3. wink 4. profit | ||
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The Storyteller
Singapore2486 Posts
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caim
United States98 Posts
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rpf289
United States3524 Posts
On August 20 2006 23:21 Nyovne wrote: Actually that isn't emo at all. He's asking for advice on a socially-awkward situation.Emo alert, please check into the testosterone thread to get your fix. [edit: offcourse talk to her, just make some casual conversation or if that aint your thing get in there with a compliment, something like how you noticed her or w/e cause she was lookin fine. Don't try to be too smoothe just get in there with a smile on your face and feeling comfortable with yourself.] Anyways, just talk to her. Don't try to plan your conversation. Trust me--that won't work. Don't go into the situation really expecting much. If she's a quiet person by nature, she might be perfectly content with just not talking. Just go say hi. Go from there. Good luck. | ||
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MoltkeWarding
5195 Posts
Do not dwell too much on making the right impression, because you will stumble over it, become paralysed and look like a fool. | ||
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Manifesto7
Osaka27156 Posts
On August 21 2006 01:30 MoltkeWarding wrote: Be yourself. Do not dwell too much on making the right impression, because you will stumble over it, become paralysed and look like a fool. Word yo. Listen to the man with experience. | ||
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Manifesto7
Osaka27156 Posts
On August 21 2006 00:05 PuertoRican wrote: This is why HonestTea will never get laid. Oh the irony. | ||
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
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SuperJongMan
Jamaica11586 Posts
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OverTheUnder
United States2929 Posts
On August 21 2006 02:37 Rekrul wrote: Rican is a pimp. He fucks mad bitches. Hell yeah. more mafia stories plz:o | ||
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FireBatLover
United States203 Posts
and don't take rejection to heart because everyone gets rejected in their lives. here's a side note, if you are above decent looking, be an asshole. women like guys that are assholes even more. let me clarify this alittle more, be more asshole-ish and the women will be more attracted to you. but only do this when you get to know them more, like... friends but not. | ||
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
On August 21 2006 03:10 FireBatLover wrote: not to be cynical, but are you confident in your looks and personality? well, if you are shy then get the courage to talk to her by saying something like "doesn't doing all that data get tedious ( make sure to say it in a humorous tone)?" then end that day. the next day, you complement her on her looks by saying something like, "you look pretty [pause a sec] do you want to go watch a movie or have some coffee?" and that's when all your answers will come. and don't take rejection to heart because everyone gets rejected in their lives. here's a side note, if you are above decent looking, be an asshole. women like guys that are assholes even more. let me clarify this alittle more, be more asshole-ish and the women will be more attracted to you. but only do this when you get to know them more, like... friends but not. l m a o | ||
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Ceril
Sweden1343 Posts
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The Storyteller
Singapore2486 Posts
On August 21 2006 03:10 FireBatLover wrote: women like guys that are assholes even more. let me clarify this alittle more, be more asshole-ish and the women will be more attracted to you. but only do this when you get to know them more, like... friends but not. Doesn't apply to everyone =) But I do remember this poor chap who was desperate to dump his Taiwanese girlfriend, and the harder he tried to be an arsehole the more she clung to him. Of course, these aren't exactly the kind of girls a nice, South Korean boy like you would want, eh Honesttea? =) | ||
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Ilikestarcraft
Korea (South)17731 Posts
edit. and the girls who seem quiet usually end up being party animals -__-;;. | ||
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Nazarene
Denmark996 Posts
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HeadBangaa
United States6512 Posts
You don't want to suffer embarrassment through rejection, do you? That would suck IMO If she tries to talk to you, avoid eye contact. Stare at the ground. This way they feel less threatened. | ||
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fonger
United Kingdom1218 Posts
On August 21 2006 03:10 FireBatLover wrote: "doesn't doing all that data get tedious ( make sure to say it in a humorous tone)?" This is the key, really. You can actually score instantly by yelling "WANNA FUCK LOL," so long as you say it in a humourous enough tone. You may want to leave out the "LOL" if she's not very sophisticated. | ||
IntoTheWow
is awesome32277 Posts
please listen to me. Tey to be different, but no as in differenet to you. Be the the wicked you. Llike if you your suddenly looking into her eyes while shes talking to you, mention her eyes, even if you have to stop her. Be different, be funny, be special, make HER feel speacial. I thinks thats the key. Being honest (no pun itended) but being different or unspectable at the same time. ps: Im drunk! =[ | ||
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itzme_petey
United States1400 Posts
On August 21 2006 03:10 FireBatLover wrote: not to be cynical, but are you confident in your looks and personality? well, if you are shy then get the courage to talk to her by saying something like "doesn't doing all that data get tedious ( make sure to say it in a humorous tone)?" then end that day. the next day, you complement her on her looks by saying something like, "you look pretty [pause a sec] do you want to go watch a movie or have some coffee?" and that's when all your answers will come. and don't take rejection to heart because everyone gets rejected in their lives. here's a side note, if you are above decent looking, be an asshole. women like guys that are assholes even more. let me clarify this alittle more, be more asshole-ish and the women will be more attracted to you. but only do this when you get to know them more, like... friends but not. you never want to tell a girl that shes pretty. shit goes to thier head. agree with ya on the asshole part. but, if this chick is mature then she wont bite. gotta pull out the confident and iNcontrol moves. tell her that coffee tastes good and you want to have some with her. "Hey I know this great coffee place, come have some with me" leave out "maybe, could, if" words That girl better agree or give you a blunt lie to get out of coffee at that great place. | ||
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rpf289
United States3524 Posts
On August 21 2006 04:09 itzme_petey wrote: Actually, I second that last part. If you give them the opportunity to get out of it, they can take it and not care. you never want to tell a girl that shes pretty. shit goes to thier head. agree with ya on the asshole part. but, if this chick is mature then she wont bite. gotta pull out the confident and iNcontrol moves. tell her that coffee tastes good and you want to have some with her. "Hey I know this great coffee place, come have some with me" leave out "maybe, could, if" words That girl better agree or give you a blunt lie to get out of coffee at that great place.  | ||
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Ilikestarcraft
Korea (South)17731 Posts
On August 21 2006 04:07 IntoTheWow wrote: Being honest ^_^ what does no pun intended mean? Not trying to be funny? | ||
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IntoTheWow
is awesome32277 Posts
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Ghin
United States2391 Posts
^_^ | ||
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HorsementalitY
United States1159 Posts
On August 20 2006 23:35 mr.bad wrote: I'm sure she will like you, you are always contributing to TL ^^ haha...yup show her ur TL resume | ||
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azndsh
United States4447 Posts
if only rl was as simple as playing starcraft... | ||
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MyLittlePwny
Canada171 Posts
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LegendaryDreams
Canada1350 Posts
On August 21 2006 04:09 itzme_petey wrote: you never want to tell a girl that shes pretty. shit goes to thier head. agree with ya on the asshole part. but, if this chick is mature then she wont bite. gotta pull out the confident and iNcontrol moves. tell her that coffee tastes good and you want to have some with her. "Hey I know this great coffee place, come have some with me" leave out "maybe, could, if" words That girl better agree or give you a blunt lie to get out of coffee at that great place. itzme_petey has it. | ||
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HonestTea
5007 Posts
I mean should I just go up to her and be like "hey you SHOULD want to get to know me" You have to understand how quiet she is... I mean it's pretty busy where she works but she never talks to anybody. | ||
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oneofthem
Cayman Islands24199 Posts
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nArAnjO
Peru2571 Posts
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miNi
Korea (South)2010 Posts
On August 21 2006 09:41 HonestTea wrote: Tell us more about her Are you guys sure about the whole asshole part? I mean should I just go up to her and be like "hey you SHOULD want to get to know me" You have to understand how quiet she is... I mean it's pretty busy where she works but she never talks to anybody.  | ||
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Flaccid
8853 Posts
On August 20 2006 23:16 HonestTea wrote: So there's this girl who works at this place I like to hang out. She's really quiet, in fact we've never talked before. Actually she doesn't talk to anyone while she's working, she just quietly does her job (data management) Anyway, she's really cute, and I see her often because I go to this place every day. The only problem is she's really quiet, so I think she might be really shy. Should I try talking to her? What should I say? Oh, and I promise to keep updating TLnet with everything that happens. So give good advice! Shy girls suck. What's the point of talking to her? Are you looking for a fun relationship where you never have a decent conversation because your ladyfriend is too goddamn shy to open her mouth? I bet she'll like totally make out with you too. Edit: My whole point is that if you're making a thread on TL, then chances are you are a person who has trouble taking the initiative and making the first move when it comes to relationships. Obviously this girl wouldn't be right for you because there would be no one of the two of you who pushes things forward. It'd be a boring pairing doomed to failure. | ||
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venusian.kohai
Canada741 Posts
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Mynock
4492 Posts
On August 21 2006 03:10 FireBatLover wrote:"doesn't doing all that data get tedious ( make sure to say it in a humorous tone)?" then end that day. the next day, you complement her on her looks by saying something like, "you look pretty [pause a sec] do you want to go watch a movie or have some coffee?" and that's when all your answers will come. Lol, I tried this approach once - it failed miserably. Then another time I told a girl I'd strangle her with both my hands (she wouldn't lend me a book, the bitch) but that she was too cute for that. And it worked. Go figure. PS.: Oh, but the reason I posted: this thread is useless without pics. -Mynock | ||
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brian
United States9633 Posts
On August 21 2006 10:13 Mynock wrote: PS.: Oh, but the reason I posted: this thread is useless without pics. -Mynock yah it is. | ||
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Chibi[OWNS]
United Kingdom10597 Posts
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Jathin
United States3505 Posts
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Chill
Calgary25989 Posts
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[X]Ken_D
United States4650 Posts
Eventually, she'll leave you for someone who is confident, outgoing and makes her feel good.. .. unless you're rich and/or very handsome. | ||
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Mora
Canada5235 Posts
then again, im not trying to get laid. | ||
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funkie
Venezuela9376 Posts
On August 21 2006 04:07 IntoTheWow wrote: <- Best guide please listen to me. Tey to be different, but no as in differenet to you. Be the the wicked you. Llike if you your suddenly looking into her eyes while shes talking to you, mention her eyes, even if you have to stop her. Be different, be funny, be special, make HER feel speacial. I thinks thats the key. Being honest (no pun itended) but being different or unspectable at the same time. ps: Im drunk! =[ lol, And I was wondering..."Is this really wow writing?" xD. But yes, he's right. btw, stop the talking, and show us pictures. I know you can manage to get some :D | ||
intrigue
Washington, D.C9934 Posts
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iNcontroL
USA29055 Posts
The BS about being a dick, or you both cannot work cause you both are shy is just that, bullshit. Fact is nobody knows until you investigate the scenario, and that will only happen through action as oppose to inaction. SEIZE THE DAY | ||
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{ToT}Strafe
Thailand7026 Posts
there great conversation starter if you are still afraid now its never gonna happen. gl other than that I agree with Nazarene olol | ||
Bill307
Canada9103 Posts
On August 21 2006 09:41 HonestTea wrote: Are you guys sure about the whole asshole part? I mean should I just go up to her and be like "hey you SHOULD want to get to know me" You have to understand how quiet she is... I mean it's pretty busy where she works but she never talks to anybody. NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO! Are you seriously listening to these people who tell you to be an asshole o_O? I bet you any money she HATES assholes, and I'm sure you realize this too. Be nice. Be courteous. Be polite. Be friendly. Be yourself. Except for one thing: don't be too shy (maybe a little is okay, for her type) and try not to be insecure. Try not to feel nervous either. Just picture it as a friendly conversation with a nice person. And once you guys run out of stuff to talk about, don't be afraid to end the conversation and get back to work: you can always talk to her again later .Ultimately, you're going to be a little shy, a little nervous, and it will be a little awkward when you run out of stuff to talk about. That's just fine . She probably feels the same way too! As long as you make an effort not to be so shy or nervous, everything will work out okay.You don't need to be overflowing with confidence and pride. In fact, she probably prefers a guy who is more on the humble side. Humble meaning, you don't obsess over yourself or constantly talk about yourself. You probably don't have to worry about this, though: I'm sure being humble comes naturally to you. Just don't pretend to be someone you're not and you'll do great. (except, you should try not to look or feel nervous or afraid of talking to her) Don't feel too pressured to talk to her. Just, don't be afraid either. If you feel like talking to her, then go up and talk to her . The key is to do what feels natural to you: do what feels right.Lastly, once you and her start talking and get to know each other, don't feel obligated to talk to her every day. Again, don't question it too much: just be confident in your instinct and do what feels right. | ||
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Drowsy
United States4876 Posts
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infecteddna
Slovenia243 Posts
(and for god's sake don't try to be humble) | ||
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[jOyO]
United States920 Posts
its like asking "i saw this money i wanted to pick up, any suggestions?" | ||
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0_0
United States2090 Posts
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decafchicken
United States20078 Posts
Don't be a schoolboy bitch and be all uber polite and complementing her excessively. | ||
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Bill307
Canada9103 Posts
On August 21 2006 14:12 infecteddna wrote: (and for god's sake don't try to be humble) I'm not sure about Korea, but in China the culture teaches that humility is very important. If she has been raised to view humility as an important virtue (which I think she might have) then she is going to want a guy who is humble. Of course he shouldn't go out of his way to be more humble than he normally is. But he shouldn't try to avoid being humble, either. | ||
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PuertoRican
United States5709 Posts
On August 21 2006 03:08 SuperJongMan wrote: Is that a joke? No way... his pic... so unpimp... Korean bitches love it. | ||
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Bill307
Canada9103 Posts
On August 21 2006 14:26 decafchicken wrote: Dont be an asshole, be confident/cocky and humorous Don't be a schoolboy bitch and be all uber polite and complementing her excessively. I consider cocky people to be assholes, fyi =P. | ||
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
just get her drunk and show her your wallet (but never let her touch it) | ||
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Pacifist
Israel1683 Posts
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Last Romantic
United States20661 Posts
^^V But seriously, humility/kindness > arrogance/vulgarity. By so far. Confidence is good, though. There's a difference between confidence and arrogance. Of course you could just go in YellOw style, shirtless, with a keyboard slung over one shoulder, and show her your gosu SC skills ^~ | ||
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{ToT}Strafe
Thailand7026 Posts
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
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YunhOLee
Canada2470 Posts
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BinGBonG[gamei]
Netherlands514 Posts
 ps u should give her a efteling cd with it! | ||
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SpaCe)Ment-rA
Canada389 Posts
On August 21 2006 04:03 fonger wrote: This is the key, really. You can actually score instantly by yelling "WANNA FUCK LOL," so long as you say it in a humourous enough tone. You may want to leave out the "LOL" if she's not very sophisticated. ROFL MAN! | ||
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CoralReefer
Canada2069 Posts
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Patriot.dlk
Sweden5462 Posts
On August 21 2006 04:07 IntoTheWow wrote: <- Best guide please listen to me. Tey to be different, but no as in differenet to you. Be the the wicked you. Llike if you your suddenly looking into her eyes while shes talking to you, mention her eyes, even if you have to stop her. Be different, be funny, be special, make HER feel speacial. I thinks thats the key. Being honest (no pun itended) but being different or unspectable at the same time. ps: Im drunk! =[ I am so fucking glad that I read that post before I went to bed.. I seriously want a girl. I mean it could be the worst emo thread I've ever written if she don't want me. But the tip about stopping her and compliment her eyes was amazing.. Intothewow.. Teach me more of those | ||
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[X]Ken_D
United States4650 Posts
On August 21 2006 14:29 Rekrul wrote: your guys girl advices suck just get her drunk and show her your wallet (but never let her touch it) LOL | ||
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IntoTheWow
is awesome32277 Posts
On August 21 2006 15:28 Patriot.dlk wrote: I am so fucking glad that I read that post before I went to bed.. I seriously want a girl. I mean it could be the worst emo thread I've ever written if she don't want me. But the tip about stopping her and compliment her eyes was amazing.. Intothewow.. Teach me more of those You dont see to understand the point. The point is being random. It was just an example : [ You can see all guys in clubs going to talk to girl. I hear the conversation and some are really pathetic. You shouldnt be thinking about what to say. Or repeat something you heard somewhere else. I like spontaneus (sp?) people. Else ill get bored. I think girls look for the same thing. | ||
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SpaCe)Ment-rA
Canada389 Posts
On August 21 2006 04:07 IntoTheWow wrote: <- Best guide please listen to me. Tey to be different, but no as in differenet to you. Be the the wicked you. Llike if you your suddenly looking into her eyes while shes talking to you, mention her eyes, even if you have to stop her. Be different, be funny, be special, make HER feel speacial. I thinks thats the key. Being honest (no pun itended) but being different or unspectable at the same time. ps: Im drunk! =[ That indeed explains the orthograph... | ||
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FireBatLover
United States203 Posts
now i'm just going say that you are an "average guy" well because i don't want to be an asshole about it. what you should do is take my advice from previous post, the first paragragh and that's all. either she will like you or NOT, and be confident. PS: notice how the word confidence is being thrown around. | ||
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{ToT}Strafe
Thailand7026 Posts
On August 21 2006 14:52 Rekrul wrote: stepping on feet isn't a good idea when you're a giant didnt say i step on girls feet, besides hes korean hes no giant | ||
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{CC}StealthBlue
United States41117 Posts
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Patriot.dlk
Sweden5462 Posts
On August 21 2006 15:32 IntoTheWow wrote: You dont see to understand the point. The point is being random. It was just an example : [ You can see all guys in clubs going to talk to girl. I hear the conversation and some are really pathetic. You shouldnt be thinking about what to say. Or repeat something you heard somewhere else. I like spontaneus (sp?) people. Else ill get bored. I think girls look for the same thing. Actually I practice your ways already as in trying to be myself but "the funnier me" when being around her and naturally I try to make her feel special. That example was a very good one becouse it's like the perfect thing to mix it up with.. And im not at all the kind of a guy who thinks before talks but naturally sometimes when I come up with a funny thing to say or someone teach it to me I will use it and add it to my arsenal. Lines are very very bad but in the middle of a funny conversation it will be powerful to compliment on her eyes like that and I know that for sure becouse it was like evreka when I read it.. Also, I hang with her already and we talk for 1-2 hours every time at least so i couldnt even think before talk if I wanted to | ||
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FireBatLover
United States203 Posts
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Night[Mare
Mexico4793 Posts
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[X]Ken_D
United States4650 Posts
On August 21 2006 15:55 Night[Mare] wrote: you should just buy her some flowers and tell her how you've been waiting for a moment to talk to her :p. Might work or more likely to creep her out if she isn't attractive to him  | ||
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ahk-gosu
Korea (South)2099 Posts
LOL BURN. NOICEEEEEEEE. and yes do talk to her. dont end up regretting missing your chance. thats how you become an emo. | ||
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itzme_petey
United States1400 Posts
For me an asshole is one who will.. "beat me up", "call the cops on me", "tell the boss that I took a 16min break". To a girl an asshole is "a guy with a cute facade where he is tough", "likes to tease", more "teasing", "CONFIDENT", "will call her on stuff she does thats stupid". I agree with the posts where people say that assholes do get the GIRL. They will not however, get women. You gotta gauge the chick to see where she is on the scale. ![[image loading]](http://img100.imageshack.us/my.php?image=tlscalene1.jpg) | ||
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Jathin
United States3505 Posts
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Bill307
Canada9103 Posts
On August 21 2006 15:55 Night[Mare] wrote: you should just buy her some flowers and tell her how you've been waiting for a moment to talk to her :p. Might work lol HonestTea, never ever do this | ||
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MoltkeWarding
5195 Posts
I actually like this idea, it appeals to me. If I were the girl, I would be won over. Except if you're ugly. | ||
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IntoTheWow
is awesome32277 Posts
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itzme_petey
United States1400 Posts
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Jathin
United States3505 Posts
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SCNewb
Canada2210 Posts
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thedeadhaji
39489 Posts
A) yes. | ||
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decafchicken
United States20078 Posts
On August 21 2006 17:31 MoltkeWarding wrote: I actually like this idea, it appeals to me. If I were the girl, I would be won over. Except if you're ugly. But you're not a girl. I think that would be fucking creepy. | ||
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OverTheUnder
United States2929 Posts
On August 21 2006 17:31 MoltkeWarding wrote: I actually like this idea, it appeals to me. If I were the girl, I would be won over. Except if you're ugly. But how could you be won over with knowing his................ ok so I wont post it, but I know I can't be the only one who is tempted;p | ||
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lil.sis
China4650 Posts
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Tealjackit
4 Posts
That just presents yourself as a shallow person who only tries to meet good looking people. I don't know if that's true or not...I hope it isn't. I really don't think the best way to get to know someone is by complimenting them. Your compliments will only be limited by what you can see from afar. ALSO, gathering information someone is NOT something you should continue doing. It is generally very creepy. SOME people might see it as flattering...but it's a LOT safer to just approach a person directly. If they want you to know anything about them, they will tell you. Plus, you will actually have something to ask and talk about once you establish a conversation-able relationship. If you already know all this shizz, what's the point =.=. Since your manager probably told her you asked about her, it's best to just be honest. I would just say "hi my name is ___ i actually asked your manager about you, which I kind of regret cause I actually think it's kind of creepy...so I hope you can forgive me." wait for a response, probably "thats okay" ......hopefully she smiles while she says that.....if she looks really serious then.....i would reccomend you give up at that point. I have a friend that gets hit on a lot at work and she hates it. Usually girls aren't looking for boyfriends at work, at least the girls I know keep their work life and social life seperate. Please don't be over-persistent. There are plenty of fish in the sea. oh yes, and these kids who talk about smooth talking.....=.= i think they watch way too many movies. | ||
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Last.Midnight
Australia906 Posts
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Pacifist
Israel1683 Posts
On August 29 2006 14:22 Tealjackit wrote: I made an account for the sole purpose of telling you that you should NOT tell her you noticed her because "she is looking fine." That just presents yourself as a shallow person who only tries to meet good looking people. I don't know if that's true or not...I hope it isn't. I really don't think the best way to get to know someone is by complimenting them. Your compliments will only be limited by what you can see from afar. ALSO, gathering information someone is NOT something you should continue doing. It is generally very creepy. SOME people might see it as flattering...but it's a LOT safer to just approach a person directly. If they want you to know anything about them, they will tell you. Plus, you will actually have something to ask and talk about once you establish a conversation-able relationship. If you already know all this shizz, what's the point =.=. Since your manager probably told her you asked about her, it's best to just be honest. I would just say "hi my name is ___ i actually asked your manager about you, which I kind of regret cause I actually think it's kind of creepy...so I hope you can forgive me." wait for a response, probably "thats okay" ......hopefully she smiles while she says that.....if she looks really serious then.....i would reccomend you give up at that point. I have a friend that gets hit on a lot at work and she hates it. Usually girls aren't looking for boyfriends at work, at least the girls I know keep their work life and social life seperate. Please don't be over-persistent. There are plenty of fish in the sea. oh yes, and these kids who talk about smooth talking.....=.= i think they watch way too many movies. lol sorry sir but you got owned | ||
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rpf289
United States3524 Posts
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evanthebouncy!
United States12796 Posts
On August 21 2006 18:00 decafchicken wrote: But you're not a girl. I think that would be fucking creepy. Nah, girl likes suprises. Do it! OoOO nvm you already got a response? Edit: AHHAHAHA :p thx mate, good one. | ||
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AcrossFiveJulys
United States3612 Posts
Ummm just because Honest Tea admitted that he had a crush on an immaterial channel-monitering device doesn't mean that he no longer needs advice on trying to woo her... tealjackit seems like he knows how to get with bots. Please don't be rude Pacifist, and Honest Tea, I wish you the best in winning over the bot. | ||
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Mynock
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