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On August 20 2006 23:21 Nyovne wrote:
Emo alert, please check into the testosterone thread to get your fix.
[edit: offcourse talk to her, just make some casual conversation or if that aint your thing get in there with a compliment, something like how you noticed her or w/e cause she was lookin fine. Don't try to be too smoothe just get in there with a smile on your face and feeling comfortable with yourself.] Actually that isn't emo at all. He's asking for advice on a socially-awkward situation.
Anyways, just talk to her. Don't try to plan your conversation. Trust me--that won't work. Don't go into the situation really expecting much. If she's a quiet person by nature, she might be perfectly content with just not talking. Just go say hi. Go from there. Good luck.
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Be yourself.
Do not dwell too much on making the right impression, because you will stumble over it, become paralysed and look like a fool.
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On August 21 2006 01:30 MoltkeWarding wrote:
Be yourself.
Do not dwell too much on making the right impression, because you will stumble over it, become paralysed and look like a fool.
Word yo. Listen to the man with experience.
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On August 21 2006 00:05 PuertoRican wrote:
This is why HonestTea will never get laid.
Oh the irony.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
Rican is a pimp. He fucks mad bitches. Hell yeah.
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Is that a joke? No way... his pic... so unpimp...
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On August 21 2006 02:37 Rekrul wrote:
Rican is a pimp. He fucks mad bitches. Hell yeah.
more mafia stories plz:o
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not to be cynical, but are you confident in your looks and personality? well, if you are shy then get the courage to talk to her by saying something like "doesn't doing all that data get tedious ( make sure to say it in a humorous tone)?" then end that day. the next day, you complement her on her looks by saying something like, "you look pretty [pause a sec] do you want to go watch a movie or have some coffee?" and that's when all your answers will come.
and don't take rejection to heart because everyone gets rejected in their lives. here's a side note, if you are above decent looking, be an asshole. women like guys that are assholes even more. let me clarify this alittle more, be more asshole-ish and the women will be more attracted to you. but only do this when you get to know them more, like... friends but not.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On August 21 2006 03:10 FireBatLover wrote:
not to be cynical, but are you confident in your looks and personality? well, if you are shy then get the courage to talk to her by saying something like "doesn't doing all that data get tedious ( make sure to say it in a humorous tone)?" then end that day. the next day, you complement her on her looks by saying something like, "you look pretty [pause a sec] do you want to go watch a movie or have some coffee?" and that's when all your answers will come.
and don't take rejection to heart because everyone gets rejected in their lives. here's a side note, if you are above decent looking, be an asshole. women like guys that are assholes even more. let me clarify this alittle more, be more asshole-ish and the women will be more attracted to you. but only do this when you get to know them more, like... friends but not.
l m a o
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So... how long till people seeking for "relations +help" on google gets tl as first option?
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On August 21 2006 03:10 FireBatLover wrote:
women like guys that are assholes even more. let me clarify this alittle more, be more asshole-ish and the women will be more attracted to you. but only do this when you get to know them more, like... friends but not.
Doesn't apply to everyone =) But I do remember this poor chap who was desperate to dump his Taiwanese girlfriend, and the harder he tried to be an arsehole the more she clung to him.
Of course, these aren't exactly the kind of girls a nice, South Korean boy like you would want, eh Honesttea? =)
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haha honesttea sounds like me.
edit. and the girls who seem quiet usually end up being party animals -__-;;.
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wtf, stop with these threads... if you want to talk to her, go over and start a fucking conversation.
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Man, she'll probably tell you off.
You don't want to suffer embarrassment through rejection, do you? That would suck IMO
If she tries to talk to you, avoid eye contact. Stare at the ground. This way they feel less threatened.
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On August 21 2006 03:10 FireBatLover wrote:
"doesn't doing all that data get tedious ( make sure to say it in a humorous tone)?"
This is the key, really. You can actually score instantly by yelling "WANNA FUCK LOL," so long as you say it in a humourous enough tone. You may want to leave out the "LOL" if she's not very sophisticated.
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is awesome32277 Posts
<- Best guide
please listen to me. Tey to be different, but no as in differenet to you. Be the the wicked you. Llike if you your suddenly looking into her eyes while shes talking to you, mention her eyes, even if you have to stop her.
Be different, be funny, be special, make HER feel speacial. I thinks thats the key. Being honest (no pun itended) but being different or unspectable at the same time.
ps: Im drunk! =[
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On August 21 2006 03:10 FireBatLover wrote:
not to be cynical, but are you confident in your looks and personality? well, if you are shy then get the courage to talk to her by saying something like "doesn't doing all that data get tedious ( make sure to say it in a humorous tone)?" then end that day. the next day, you complement her on her looks by saying something like, "you look pretty [pause a sec] do you want to go watch a movie or have some coffee?" and that's when all your answers will come.
and don't take rejection to heart because everyone gets rejected in their lives. here's a side note, if you are above decent looking, be an asshole. women like guys that are assholes even more. let me clarify this alittle more, be more asshole-ish and the women will be more attracted to you. but only do this when you get to know them more, like... friends but not.
you never want to tell a girl that shes pretty. shit goes to thier head. agree with ya on the asshole part. but, if this chick is mature then she wont bite. gotta pull out the confident and iNcontrol moves. tell her that coffee tastes good and you want to have some with her.
"Hey I know this great coffee place, come have some with me"
leave out "maybe, could, if" words
That girl better agree or give you a blunt lie to get out of coffee at that great place.
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On August 21 2006 04:09 itzme_petey wrote:Show nested quote +On August 21 2006 03:10 FireBatLover wrote:
not to be cynical, but are you confident in your looks and personality? well, if you are shy then get the courage to talk to her by saying something like "doesn't doing all that data get tedious ( make sure to say it in a humorous tone)?" then end that day. the next day, you complement her on her looks by saying something like, "you look pretty [pause a sec] do you want to go watch a movie or have some coffee?" and that's when all your answers will come.
and don't take rejection to heart because everyone gets rejected in their lives. here's a side note, if you are above decent looking, be an asshole. women like guys that are assholes even more. let me clarify this alittle more, be more asshole-ish and the women will be more attracted to you. but only do this when you get to know them more, like... friends but not. you never want to tell a girl that shes pretty. shit goes to thier head. agree with ya on the asshole part. but, if this chick is mature then she wont bite. gotta pull out the confident and iNcontrol moves. tell her that coffee tastes good and you want to have some with her. "Hey I know this great coffee place, come have some with me" leave out "maybe, could, if" words That girl better agree or give you a blunt lie to get out of coffee at that great place. Actually, I second that last part. If you give them the opportunity to get out of it, they can take it and not care. 
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On August 21 2006 04:07 IntoTheWow wrote:
Being honest
^_^
what does no pun intended mean? Not trying to be funny?
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is awesome32277 Posts
That it was not my intention making the joke : ]
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