EPTThe BS about being a dick, or you both cannot work cause you both are shy is just that, bullshit. Fact is nobody knows until you investigate the scenario, and that will only happen through action as oppose to inaction.
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iNcontroL
USA29055 Posts
The BS about being a dick, or you both cannot work cause you both are shy is just that, bullshit. Fact is nobody knows until you investigate the scenario, and that will only happen through action as oppose to inaction. SEIZE THE DAY | ||
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{ToT}Strafe
Thailand7026 Posts
there great conversation starter if you are still afraid now its never gonna happen. gl other than that I agree with Nazarene olol | ||
Bill307
Canada9103 Posts
On August 21 2006 09:41 HonestTea wrote: Are you guys sure about the whole asshole part? I mean should I just go up to her and be like "hey you SHOULD want to get to know me" You have to understand how quiet she is... I mean it's pretty busy where she works but she never talks to anybody. NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO! Are you seriously listening to these people who tell you to be an asshole o_O? I bet you any money she HATES assholes, and I'm sure you realize this too. Be nice. Be courteous. Be polite. Be friendly. Be yourself. Except for one thing: don't be too shy (maybe a little is okay, for her type) and try not to be insecure. Try not to feel nervous either. Just picture it as a friendly conversation with a nice person. And once you guys run out of stuff to talk about, don't be afraid to end the conversation and get back to work: you can always talk to her again later  .Ultimately, you're going to be a little shy, a little nervous, and it will be a little awkward when you run out of stuff to talk about. That's just fine . She probably feels the same way too! As long as you make an effort not to be so shy or nervous, everything will work out okay.You don't need to be overflowing with confidence and pride. In fact, she probably prefers a guy who is more on the humble side. Humble meaning, you don't obsess over yourself or constantly talk about yourself. You probably don't have to worry about this, though: I'm sure being humble comes naturally to you. Just don't pretend to be someone you're not and you'll do great. (except, you should try not to look or feel nervous or afraid of talking to her) Don't feel too pressured to talk to her. Just, don't be afraid either. If you feel like talking to her, then go up and talk to her . The key is to do what feels natural to you: do what feels right.Lastly, once you and her start talking and get to know each other, don't feel obligated to talk to her every day. Again, don't question it too much: just be confident in your instinct and do what feels right. | ||
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Drowsy
United States4876 Posts
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infecteddna
Slovenia243 Posts
(and for god's sake don't try to be humble) | ||
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[jOyO]
United States920 Posts
its like asking "i saw this money i wanted to pick up, any suggestions?" | ||
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0_0
United States2090 Posts
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decafchicken
United States20059 Posts
Don't be a schoolboy bitch and be all uber polite and complementing her excessively. | ||
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Bill307
Canada9103 Posts
On August 21 2006 14:12 infecteddna wrote: (and for god's sake don't try to be humble) I'm not sure about Korea, but in China the culture teaches that humility is very important. If she has been raised to view humility as an important virtue (which I think she might have) then she is going to want a guy who is humble. Of course he shouldn't go out of his way to be more humble than he normally is. But he shouldn't try to avoid being humble, either. | ||
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PuertoRican
United States5709 Posts
On August 21 2006 03:08 SuperJongMan wrote: Is that a joke? No way... his pic... so unpimp... Korean bitches love it. | ||
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Bill307
Canada9103 Posts
On August 21 2006 14:26 decafchicken wrote: Dont be an asshole, be confident/cocky and humorous Don't be a schoolboy bitch and be all uber polite and complementing her excessively. I consider cocky people to be assholes, fyi =P. | ||
Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
just get her drunk and show her your wallet (but never let her touch it) | ||
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Pacifist
Israel1683 Posts
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Last Romantic
United States20661 Posts
^^V But seriously, humility/kindness > arrogance/vulgarity. By so far. Confidence is good, though. There's a difference between confidence and arrogance. Of course you could just go in YellOw style, shirtless, with a keyboard slung over one shoulder, and show her your gosu SC skills ^~ | ||
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{ToT}Strafe
Thailand7026 Posts
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
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YunhOLee
Canada2470 Posts
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BinGBonG[gamei]
Netherlands514 Posts
 ps u should give her a efteling cd with it! | ||
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SpaCe)Ment-rA
Canada389 Posts
On August 21 2006 04:03 fonger wrote: This is the key, really. You can actually score instantly by yelling "WANNA FUCK LOL," so long as you say it in a humourous enough tone. You may want to leave out the "LOL" if she's not very sophisticated. ROFL MAN! | ||
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CoralReefer
Canada2069 Posts
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