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Chill
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
Calgary26004 Posts
August 27 2009 21:55 GMT
#41
Haji, I was so confused until I remembered what I wrote on page 1 hahaha
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fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
August 27 2009 22:09 GMT
#42
Okay well even if you do not think that slightly crazy shit is a warning sign, and you are willing to blame her lack of visiting solely on her parents (if she doesn't live with them, they are irrelevant), then you should still appreciate the fact that if distance is ruining the relationship in her eyes, maybe she's not committed enough to it. If you love the person and see them 3 times a week, the time in between is not so brutal that she would be so torn inside that she can't bear it. Either make her understand the impossibility of the situation she is trying to put you in, or let her go. Forcing the relationship to stay in the status quo is the best way to end this relationship negatively. I think you don't want that.
Peace~
Rucky
Profile Joined February 2008
United States717 Posts
August 27 2009 22:16 GMT
#43
Either way....sad.

No matter what people say about letting her go, it's all on you. If you can't because you like her so much for "whatever" the reason, then you won't.

Man, what the heck, that's just me trying to be sensible. She's not worth it if she doesn't want to make it work. 3 days is god damn eternity!!! and 1.5 hours isn't even long distance.

Good luck to you man.
Beyond the Game
Zalfor
Profile Blog Joined October 2005
United States1035 Posts
August 27 2009 22:17 GMT
#44
1.5 is nothing man.

if she's too emo, then u gotta either 1) suck it up and live with it or 2) move on with life
555, kthxbai
thedeadhaji *
Profile Blog Joined January 2006
39489 Posts
August 27 2009 22:21 GMT
#45
On August 28 2009 06:55 Chill wrote:
Haji, I was so confused until I remembered what I wrote on page 1 hahaha


ahaha I was so confused NOW until I saw that you posted right beofre me again
illu
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
Canada2531 Posts
August 27 2009 22:24 GMT
#46
I can't believe that was the kanji for "watashi". It was missing two strokes! =(
:]
Chill
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
Calgary26004 Posts
August 27 2009 22:31 GMT
#47
On August 28 2009 07:24 illu wrote:
I can't believe that was the kanji for "watashi". It was missing two strokes! =(

EGADS!
*Monocle pop*
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CubEdIn
Profile Blog Joined April 2006
Romania5359 Posts
August 27 2009 22:43 GMT
#48
For how long are you gonna be apart like this? Anything more than 6 months will have detrimental effects on your relationship. You should know how much she means to you, and decide if it's worth moving with her or having her move in with you.

BUT it looks like you guys are young so you know. Maybe you're not in the position to make such decisions, in which case, good luck with your commuting.
Im not a n00b, I just play like one.
TSL-Lore
Profile Joined January 2009
United States412 Posts
August 27 2009 23:03 GMT
#49
yeah, we're 22 and 23.
I want to become stronger. -Shindou Hikaru
Manifesto7
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Osaka27179 Posts
August 27 2009 23:08 GMT
#50
Since when is 6 months some magical figure that will have a "detrimental effect" on a relationship?
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AzureEye
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
United States1360 Posts
August 27 2009 23:13 GMT
#51
omg you are fucking complaining about 1.5 hours

i used to drive that much everytime I saw my ex (and no, we didn't break up cause of distance reasons)

Terrans who whine: http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=107788
ShaLLoW[baY]
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
Canada12499 Posts
August 27 2009 23:18 GMT
#52
On August 28 2009 08:13 AzureEye wrote:
omg you are fucking complaining about 1.5 hours

i used to drive that much everytime I saw my ex (and no, we didn't break up cause of distance reasons)



No kidding. Or you could try 6 hours. I'd suggest you don't though.
ALEXISONFIRE ARE FUCKING BACK (sAviOr for life)
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
August 27 2009 23:18 GMT
#53
On August 28 2009 08:08 Manifesto7 wrote:
Since when is 6 months some magical figure that will have a "detrimental effect" on a relationship?

I don't think it was meant to be a magical figure or anything, was probably a ballpark estimate, maybe from past experience on his part?

I don't agree with distance being a problem in relationships - it's how the people in the relationship handle it. A lot of mature people can handle it well, without forming a strain. A lot of people can't. His girlfriend seems to fall into the latter category.
Peace~
Judicator
Profile Blog Joined August 2004
United States7270 Posts
August 27 2009 23:20 GMT
#54
How about you ask her to travel and visit you for a week? Then see if she still complains, if she can't appreciate that, forget it then.
Get it by your hands...
TSL-Lore
Profile Joined January 2009
United States412 Posts
August 27 2009 23:33 GMT
#55
well, ive been with her for about 2.5 years. for the first 2 years, we were really long distance. San Francisco to San diego. Thats about 8 hours driving.

in the last 0.5 years, i've since moved to LA and now we're 1.5 hours apart so its not that bad, but i guess she feels that shes nearing the end of her rope for doing distance with me
I want to become stronger. -Shindou Hikaru
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
August 27 2009 23:39 GMT
#56
I see, that's rather impressive that you've been faithfully (I hope) together for that long despite the distance. This puts everything in a slightly different perspective in terms of how appropriate her reaction is, but it still doesn't change the fact that this is a problem that only has two solutions, and both of which involve a change. You have to talk to her and if you cannot convince her to be more reasonable, then it's time to break up.
Peace~
sudo.era
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States300 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-08-27 23:55:19
August 27 2009 23:52 GMT
#57
On August 28 2009 05:44 Nylan wrote:
This seems like as good a place as any to fish for some decent Japanese learning resources...

Pay me $20 an hour. Seriously. That's really cheap (avg is $35) and I could use the money. PM.
29 fps
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States5725 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-08-28 00:03:39
August 27 2009 23:58 GMT
#58
there's several kana/words written incorrectly. is she a native speaker? or did you write down what she said (that`s a hairy limb).

and lol @ chill's 1st page comment.

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お口の中だけの陰茎。
あなたが取得されていません
すべての子をサポートします。"

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fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
August 28 2009 00:02 GMT
#59
On August 28 2009 08:52 sudo.era wrote:
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On August 28 2009 05:44 Nylan wrote:
This seems like as good a place as any to fish for some decent Japanese learning resources...

Pay me $20 an hour. Seriously. That's really cheap (avg is $35) and I could use the money. PM.

Lol. If someone asked me to teach them a language for money, I could just pretend to know it and make mad money. INTERNET SCAM IMO.

~fps29: He said she is Chinese.
Peace~
29 fps
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States5725 Posts
August 28 2009 00:06 GMT
#60
oh, ok. that's even more strange that she'd write in a language that she is learning and that the OP doesn't understand. that's just weird. it's like she never intended for the OP to find out what that means or something. imagine all the other "secret" messages in the past and maybe later on that she'll be writing. she's messing with his head, no?
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