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On April 13 2018 03:48 HwangjaeTerran wrote:everything is sexist, everything is racist, everything is homophobic and you have to point it all out to everyone all the time I also wanted to quote a great mind. Show nested quote +On April 13 2018 03:48 Plansix wrote: The words that come out of your mouth are also in your control. can you speak while taking every imaginable individual's feelings into account? who is the authority on who it's okay to offend? personally my ego and gender identity are hurt when people disagree with me
...and noone should give a fuck unless you care enough about your feelings to object. This isn't about tiptoeing around others' feelings, it's about respecting the wishes of other human beings. If you by default don't respect those people because of how they identify, then that's something worth considering.
I called stuff 'gay' as a synonym for lame until someone asked me not to. It didn't cost me anything to change my language, it doesn't represent my stand for something, I do it out of respect for the person that asked me to stop. Its really not that complicated.
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On April 13 2018 03:54 Gosi wrote:Show nested quote +On April 13 2018 03:48 intotheheart wrote: That exam was longer than I thought it would be - he arranged everything to allow the 20-ish students to each have a 10-minute oral component. My exam was to go from 10:00-13:00, but I did my oral at 14:20 or something rofl.
Ah well, that's done. Think it went alright, but we'll see. Now to eat lunch, and prepare an experiment for tomorrow. are you good at oral? I got a 9.5/10 for the oral part, so I guess I'm okay at oral. Not perfect at it sadly. Definitely choked on my words a bit towards the end, but that's fine.
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how are you morons even defending the use of the hard r i'm asian so i get to use it online freely? why's tl ban the use of that word then?
i get it if it means something else in another language, but if the entire history of the word is based on denigrating & debasing a race of people into mere tools or commodities, then using it is not ok regardless of the language/culture/racial background the speaker comes from.
even if it means something else in another language i'd be careful with the context & audience that I was using it with
given that iceiceice was clearly referring to african americans (not even black people in general), and all I can say is that he should educate himself before using words like that. it shouldn't even be part of your normal vocabulary.
On April 12 2018 23:55 Sn0_Man wrote: I think everybody realizes that it was not an entirely appropriate situation for ice to use that term, including himself if you watch the clip he kinda backpedals immediately without acknowledging that he's made a slip.
I don't agree with people's cultural projections that the internet is somehow an american space.
And more to the point I think that making judgements about a cultural term and it's use by people from significantly different cultures is ridiculous and offensive. ? the internet is literally an american invention
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On April 13 2018 07:00 Fleetfeet wrote:Show nested quote +On April 13 2018 03:48 HwangjaeTerran wrote:everything is sexist, everything is racist, everything is homophobic and you have to point it all out to everyone all the time I also wanted to quote a great mind. On April 13 2018 03:48 Plansix wrote: The words that come out of your mouth are also in your control. can you speak while taking every imaginable individual's feelings into account? who is the authority on who it's okay to offend? personally my ego and gender identity are hurt when people disagree with me ...and noone should give a fuck unless you care enough about your feelings to object. This isn't about tiptoeing around others' feelings, it's about respecting the wishes of other human beings. If you by default don't respect those people because of how they identify, then that's something worth considering. I called stuff 'gay' as a synonym for lame until someone asked me not to. It didn't cost me anything to change my language, it doesn't represent my stand for something, I do it out of respect for the person that asked me to stop. Its really not that complicated.
I believe this discussion was sparked by the decision to moderate some possibly offensive words to some individuals who identify with some groups. So not an individual objecting to anything anyone said specifically. So the judgement calls have already been made for all of us as to what groups and what language this protection entails. On behalf of these certain individuals who may or may not exist. So we already are expected to give a fuck. Now this isn't necessarily a problem to me as is since I do not find minorities very relevant. My fear is however that these groups that are protected by default are joined by others, quite possibly objectionable ones. Such developments have already taken place in some places. So as nice people as tl admins well might be I am wary of what I allow them to make judgement calls on. Not that my feelings matter.
There was a somewhat recent case of how power on the internet was seemingly immediately misused here but I can't get into it on my phone.
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the judgement calls 'have not been made for us' cos by definition 'we' are the ones who make them. Reddit or TL or whatever community is just made up of a bunch of individuals, and that a lot of them object to racist language isn't rly evidence of some creeping Gestapo-ism as much as it is people engaging their fucking brains and realising that public figures just throwing round the N word isn't something we want as a society. If YOU want it HJT, fine, but then you're kind of a racist and I dread to think what 'possibly objectionable' groups you want free reign to abuse.
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On April 13 2018 05:07 Artisreal wrote:Show nested quote +On April 13 2018 04:42 Atreides wrote: Yo. I’m frantically throwing all my shit together to leave for shrimping (I just finish last net I was doing for other people at 5am this morning) and I have breath of the wild question real quick.
Do I need to buy and download dlcs now or can I play it for a couple weeks and buy dlcs later? I’ve done no research at all cuz I kind of tried to avoid spoilers but do the dlc only come into effect later on? Thx you can play it later. DLCs are two expansions that can be played after finishing the main quest line with no detriment whatsoever. one can be started at about mid way to the end boss. They are not crucial for the BotW experience in my book. [ OH AND HAVE FUN AND GOOD LUCK DURING SHRIMPING SEASON! May this one be even better than the last!
Thanks!
As far as the other discussion, when I was in high school in Alaska 15 years ago my social circle used “gay” extremely casually and even “f**” quite a lot, but I literally did not know a single openly gay person. On the other hand I have a cousin who is black and never once in my life was I allowed to consider the n-word acceptable. My senior year I dated a girl wayyyyy outside my normal social circle who was CONSTANTLY trying (unsuccessfully) to get people to not use gay like that. I ofc never said it around her xd. It was the first time I ever realized it bothered some people. Then ofc in college I met many gay people and I tried to stop saying it in public but still used with my friends.
Then in grad school I had a gay classmate who I rather enjoyed hanging out with, and one time when I was very upset at something I used “gay” rather strongly as a perjorative when talking to a group and I happened to see this hurt look flash across his face and I felt fucking awful. So I stopped ever using it and it’s not like it was missed. (That said the sole warning I ever got on TL was for jokingly doing it which I don’t even know why since I had long stopped saying it irl)
Obviously people should not use such words. There’s no benefit at all and they surely bother some people, at the same time I think the internet response to things like this is quite stupid. Whatever tho. The environment is shockingly different than 15 years ago that’s for sure and I have many rl friends who think that’s a terrible thing. It’s a pretty hard subject to change someone’s opinion on. The ones who aren’t succeptubke to collective social shaming need to have a personal realization pretty much I think.
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On April 13 2018 08:37 HwangjaeTerran wrote:Show nested quote +On April 13 2018 07:00 Fleetfeet wrote:On April 13 2018 03:48 HwangjaeTerran wrote:everything is sexist, everything is racist, everything is homophobic and you have to point it all out to everyone all the time I also wanted to quote a great mind. On April 13 2018 03:48 Plansix wrote: The words that come out of your mouth are also in your control. can you speak while taking every imaginable individual's feelings into account? who is the authority on who it's okay to offend? personally my ego and gender identity are hurt when people disagree with me ...and noone should give a fuck unless you care enough about your feelings to object. This isn't about tiptoeing around others' feelings, it's about respecting the wishes of other human beings. If you by default don't respect those people because of how they identify, then that's something worth considering. I called stuff 'gay' as a synonym for lame until someone asked me not to. It didn't cost me anything to change my language, it doesn't represent my stand for something, I do it out of respect for the person that asked me to stop. Its really not that complicated. I believe this discussion was sparked by the decision to moderate some possibly offensive words to some individuals who identify with some groups. So not an individual objecting to anything anyone said specifically. So the judgement calls have already been made for all of us as to what groups and what language this protection entails. On behalf of these certain individuals who may or may not exist. So we already are expected to give a fuck. Now this isn't necessarily a problem to me as is since I do not find minorities very relevant. My fear is however that these groups that are protected by default are joined by others, quite possibly objectionable ones. Such developments have already taken place in some places. So as nice people as tl admins well might be I am wary of what I allow them to make judgement calls on. Not that my feelings matter. There was a somewhat recent case of how power on the internet was seemingly immediately misused here but I can't get into it on my phone.
You aint in your own house, of course you can't just be the shitty person you truly want to be. It's not your house, it's not public domain. It is an open, yet policed, forum. That isn't suddenly news, though you may not have realised it.
And this would have spawned from an individual (or several separate individuals) voicing for a safe space. Same actions, grander scale, still built on mutual human respect.
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I look at GD and have flashbacks from US-Pol thread smh
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Not quite sure what we're talking about here but u guys can say his name, voldemorts not real ppls
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GOT CARRIED AWAY SORRY FAM
In other news hearthstone is godawful.
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On April 13 2018 08:47 kollin wrote: the judgement calls 'have not been made for us' cos by definition 'we' are the ones who make them. Reddit or TL or whatever community is just made up of a bunch of individuals, and that a lot of them object to racist language isn't rly evidence of some creeping Gestapo-ism as much as it is people engaging their fucking brains and realising that public figures just throwing round the N word isn't something we want as a society. If YOU want it HJT, fine, but then you're kind of a racist and I dread to think what 'possibly objectionable' groups you want free reign to abuse.
who is this "we" and where and when did this "we" make these decisions? collective decision-making doesn't happen after the fact
if YOU want it KOLLIN, fine, but then you're kind of a fascist
and I did not outright object, I would however appreciate a list of banned words the community has decided on now I know why that's unlikely to materialize, and that is also why this battle always emerges with the N word
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i like all the new builds in the expansion except for shudderwock. i dont mind getting OTK'd, but shudderwock decks just run on the animations even when its way past their rope timer. i had the incredibly bad displeasure of sitting through a 30 minute turn cause he played shudderwock without a win condition (since i azari'd him).
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i thought that one south park episode wouldve changed something the one with the bikers
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So, Doom 2 teased
so we have
Doom Doom 2 Final Doom Doom 3 Doom Doom 2
????????????????
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On April 13 2018 18:55 HwangjaeTerran wrote:Show nested quote +On April 13 2018 08:47 kollin wrote: the judgement calls 'have not been made for us' cos by definition 'we' are the ones who make them. Reddit or TL or whatever community is just made up of a bunch of individuals, and that a lot of them object to racist language isn't rly evidence of some creeping Gestapo-ism as much as it is people engaging their fucking brains and realising that public figures just throwing round the N word isn't something we want as a society. If YOU want it HJT, fine, but then you're kind of a racist and I dread to think what 'possibly objectionable' groups you want free reign to abuse. who is this "we" and where and when did this "we" make these decisions? collective decision-making doesn't happen after the fact if YOU want it KOLLIN, fine, but then you're kind of a fascist and I did not outright object, I would however appreciate a list of banned words the community has decided on now I know why that's unlikely to materialize, and that is also why this battle always emerges with the N word If I want people not to use terms of racial abuse I'm a fascist? Lol ok man. Collective decision making happens before the fact when lots of individuals come to the conclusion that saying the N-word on a stream isn't ok. I don't think ice is a racist, just ignorant, but that doesn't make what he did right. Lots of people share that opinion. That doesn't make them fascist, and it doesn't mean there's some collective effort to silence free speech - just that a lot of people think using rly racially charged words on a stream to thousands of people. If that's your definition of fascism, you lead a lucky, sheltered life man
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that's great now you can use that same logic to see why I'm not a racist for simply not wanting to blanket ban words and next time you can do that before implying so also this wasn't just about racist words so you are stomping all over minority issues by reducing it into one
On April 13 2018 19:58 Faruko wrote: So, Doom 2 teased
so we have
Doom Doom 2 Final Doom Doom 3 Doom Doom 2
????????????????
they should just start adding more dooms after the doom so you get doom doom doom doom doom and eventually it'll sound onomatopoeia of the soundtrack
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this concern trolling is getting old
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On April 13 2018 20:57 yamato77 wrote: this concern trolling is getting old If it's this bad in the general discussion thread, can you imagine how awful it would be in a news thread?
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On April 13 2018 19:58 Faruko wrote: So, Doom 2 teased
so we have
Doom Doom 2 Final Doom Doom 3 Doom Doom 2
???????????????? I thought it went Doom Doom 2 Final Doom Doom 3
And now DOOM and DOOM2?
Or am I just insane?
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