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On August 01 2003 14:00 Beyonder wrote:
hehe thx: for anyone who actually follows this weird story. If she lived in Holland I'd 'go for it' (so to say), and she said she felt the same if I lived close. We'd at least be very good friends.
distance sucks
hehe thx: for anyone who actually follows this weird story. If she lived in Holland I'd 'go for it' (so to say), and she said she felt the same if I lived close. We'd at least be very good friends.
distance sucks
Don't let distance be in your way. Give your relationship a chance if you truly have a very good feeling with her (eventhough you clearly don't know her enough to be sure). If you don't you will regret this all your life. Well at least until you meet another very nice girl, and this may take years...
When I was 24 I went for 3 months to Victoria, BC, Canada, for a training in climate modeling. I was a single in France, for quite a long time, and determined to use my French/foreigner aura to meet girls... (not quite Marshall style tho
)Well canadian girls were out of reach. Not that I don't like canadians, it is just than a foreigner usually makes friend with foreigners, it would be the same if you come to France... I went out a week with a korean (didn't dare ask her about SC
) and a columbian, but nothing I'm really proud of.Then I met Etsuko, a japanese girl visiting my house because she was looking for a room to rent, and the second room were I rented mine was available. Well thing went quickly, and after a month together it was time for me to head back to France...
I had no choice about that, and to stay at least to more years in France to finish my studies.Well I really had a good feeling with Etsuko, and knew our relationship had a chance on the long run. So I asked her if she wanted to foolow me in France. She did.
She finished her English semester in Victoria and joined me a month and a half later. Here's the picture: a japanese girl, speaking ok english and not a word of french, taking the plane to Paris where she doesn't know anybody except a guy (me) who said will be waiting for her a the airport...
That was the summer 2 years ago. We are getting married in 2 weeks.
GO GO GO Beyonder!!!!! Give her a chance, move to the USA or something... if it doesn't work out with her at least you will have learned some english and visited the country.
OK actually it's our second weeding, we are technicaly married since december, but it was just a civilian wadding. Here parents weren't even there. This time it is teh party.
I just read it yesterday again, and thought that post was so nice! :o
