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Chinminy
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
New Zealand41 Posts
January 21 2011 12:13 GMT
#1
Just found out a friend committed suicide

I feel like shit and don't know who to talk to about this.

Never even saw it coming, fucken wish I could've done something to prevent this. Who's gonna river me now in poker u sack. Always drew that 3 outer on me.

I miss you bro!

Hope things are better on the other side

RIP my friend



*****
I like... Really don't like flying in BF3
VonLego
Profile Joined June 2010
United States519 Posts
January 21 2011 12:18 GMT
#2
Best wishes man, keep your head up and don't do anything to hurt yourself during your grief.
Rainmaker5
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States1027 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-01-21 12:20:15
January 21 2011 12:20 GMT
#3
Suicide is always hard because it can just sandbag you. There's nothing shows the gap between people as much as it.... In the end, people are the ones with the power over their lives and we can just love them till they go.

RIP
(-_(-_(-_(^_(-_(-_(-_-)_-)_-)_-)_-)_-)_-) CJ Fighting! "Beer -> soju -> whisky is a terrible build"~~ Scrarecrow.
101TFP
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
420 Posts
January 21 2011 12:26 GMT
#4
I had the same happening to me 2 years ago.

What got me through it was to start hating the person who killed himself.
Suicide is just about the most selfish act of all imo.

RIP
People get what they get, this has nothing to do with what they deserve.
don_kyuhote
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
3006 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-01-21 12:41:55
January 21 2011 12:40 GMT
#5
This almost happened to me like few weeks ago.
The thing with friend commiting suicide is, I learned, you are completely blindsided by it.
You think your friend is just fine, but then, BOOM, for no reason whatsoever (to unsuspecting friends) they commit suicide.
It really is "wtf dude, why didn't you talk your problems out with us?"

RIP
For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?
SpiritoftheTunA
Profile Blog Joined August 2006
United States20903 Posts
January 21 2011 12:44 GMT
#6
condolences man
posting on liquid sites in current year
Renoir_scII
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
Canada112 Posts
January 21 2011 12:54 GMT
#7
On January 21 2011 21:26 101TFP wrote:
I had the same happening to me 2 years ago.

What got me through it was to start hating the person who killed himself.
Suicide is just about the most selfish act of all imo.

RIP


I don't want to be disrespectful to the OP and cause trouble in this thread but I have to say that 'hating the person who killed himself' is a very bad way of going about this. It's a very complicated issue and I think to call it 'the most selfish act of all' is a bit obtuse. Most people that kill themselves cannot cope with their situation and the only thing they can think about is a way out.

Sorry for your loss and keep your head up.
hifriend
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
China7935 Posts
January 21 2011 12:54 GMT
#8
fuck that's gotta suck...

sorry man and RIP :|
s.a.y
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
Croatia3840 Posts
January 21 2011 13:04 GMT
#9
rip.

Do you have any idea why he did it?
I am not good with quotes
Osmoses
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
Sweden5302 Posts
January 21 2011 13:17 GMT
#10
Happened to me too a few years back. I just don't think about it, you can never really know what's inside someone else's head. Obviously, it still sucks.
Excuse me hun, but what is your name? Vivian? I woke up next to you naked and, uh, did we, um?
Scaipax
Profile Joined January 2011
Netherlands54 Posts
January 21 2011 13:24 GMT
#11
I know how it feels man, a friend of mine also suicided.

Condolences and RIP.
Grettin
Profile Joined April 2010
42381 Posts
January 21 2011 13:31 GMT
#12
My condolences
"If I had force-fields in Brood War, I'd never lose." -Bisu
Redunzl
Profile Blog Joined January 2010
862 Posts
January 21 2011 13:44 GMT
#13
I've had several friends die or kill themselves in these past few years.
Don't ever blame yourself for their weaknesses or misgivings. Support your friends as best as you can and try to remember the good times but do not dwell or get overly sentimental. Life ... goes... on.
Scorcher2k
Profile Joined November 2009
United States802 Posts
January 21 2011 13:52 GMT
#14
On January 21 2011 21:54 Renoir_scII wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 21 2011 21:26 101TFP wrote:
I had the same happening to me 2 years ago.

What got me through it was to start hating the person who killed himself.
Suicide is just about the most selfish act of all imo.

RIP


I don't want to be disrespectful to the OP and cause trouble in this thread but I have to say that 'hating the person who killed himself' is a very bad way of going about this. It's a very complicated issue and I think to call it 'the most selfish act of all' is a bit obtuse. Most people that kill themselves cannot cope with their situation and the only thing they can think about is a way out.

Sorry for your loss and keep your head up.

Everyone copes in their own way and in a situation like this it is far better to just state your own view if you need to but not to contradict someone else imo. Losing someone close to you means you basically get to feel whatever you want.

I'm very sorry you lost your friend.
Soda
Profile Joined December 2009
United States66 Posts
January 21 2011 14:34 GMT
#15
This happened to me almost exactly a year ago. Try not to think about what you could have done, that's all I can say.
DNB
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
Finland995 Posts
January 21 2011 14:56 GMT
#16
I don't get it why people say that suicide is a selfish act. Why should someone continue living his/her miserable life just because their existence provides comfort for someone else?
101TFP
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
420 Posts
January 21 2011 15:08 GMT
#17
On January 21 2011 21:54 Renoir_scII wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 21 2011 21:26 101TFP wrote:
I had the same happening to me 2 years ago.

What got me through it was to start hating the person who killed himself.
Suicide is just about the most selfish act of all imo.

RIP


I don't want to be disrespectful to the OP and cause trouble in this thread but I have to say that 'hating the person who killed himself' is a very bad way of going about this. It's a very complicated issue and I think to call it 'the most selfish act of all' is a bit obtuse. Most people that kill themselves cannot cope with their situation and the only thing they can think about is a way out.

Sorry for your loss and keep your head up.



Exactly. They look for a way out. A way out for themselves. But if there are people who love you and you think about killing yourself, you shouldn't think about what the suicide does for you (because it obviously rids yourself of all problems you ever had, currently have, or would have in the future).

You should think about what it does to the people around you.
People get what they get, this has nothing to do with what they deserve.
PaPoolee
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United Arab Emirates660 Posts
January 21 2011 15:11 GMT
#18
that must suck, sorry bro! may he rest in peace =(.
Issor
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States870 Posts
January 21 2011 15:49 GMT
#19
Been there. It'll take a while to get through, but it'll happen. Condolences, man.
Cpt.beefy
Profile Blog Joined September 2006
Ireland799 Posts
January 21 2011 16:14 GMT
#20
My Heartfelt sorrow brother. The end of any life is a tradegy. Don't blame yourself and live a life for you both.

RIP
Our Beloved Geoff "inControl" Robinson.
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