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JadeFist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States1225 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-11-25 21:11:56
July 22 2009 04:32 GMT
#1


*
Manifesto7
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Osaka27174 Posts
July 22 2009 04:34 GMT
#2
Too much analyzing. If you like her, tell her. If you don't, stay friendly.
ModeratorGodfather
GoShox
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
United States1844 Posts
July 22 2009 04:36 GMT
#3
Whether you've been "friend zoned" or not, if you like her more than a friend, then don't be afraid to ask her out or anything. I'm gonna go all cliche on you here, but life is too short.. don't be afraid to take risks or take chances, would you rather have attempted to do something and have a chance of failure, or not tried to do something and have a 100% chance of failure and looked back at it and regretted it?

If she keeps asking you if you would sit by her, I do think that's a very good thing. But really, you're the one living the situation.. I don't think anyone here is going to be able to read her mind... or any girls mind.

Good luck!
KP_CollectoR
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States744 Posts
July 22 2009 04:38 GMT
#4
On July 22 2009 13:34 Manifesto7 wrote:
Too much analyzing.


Yeah, way too much. TAKE the relationship where YOU want it to go. She can either go with it or not. Be a man and don't compromise for anyone.
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HonestTea *
Profile Blog Joined December 2005
5007 Posts
July 22 2009 04:38 GMT
#5
STOP THINKING

If you don't know if you've been friend zoned, make it clear that you're interested in her and then ask her if she's interested.

What good is it to ask the voicese of TL about the affairs between you two?

I think I've proven very clearly that TL girl advice is useless
returns upon momentous occasions.
kdog3683
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
United States916 Posts
July 22 2009 04:42 GMT
#6
lol, all nerdy guys seem to concoct same chemical hesitations. i'm referring to myself, africans, and particularly bulgarians/ people from my country. asians especially as well.

just grow ssome balls and realize even though you're a nerd, she doesn't know it!
Multiply your efforts.
Kennigit *
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
Canada19447 Posts
July 22 2009 04:42 GMT
#7
On July 22 2009 13:32 JadeFist wrote:
So, if you read my last blog, I'm trying to ask this girl out.

However, I have a terrible fear I may have been friend zoned.

I have only met her twice now, and I will see her again on Friday. She works in the band I'm in.

On Friday, we'll be playing at a Phillies game and then sitting and watching it. She asked me multiple times if I was going to sit next to her in which I responded "yes." Would she ask this so much if I were friend zoned?

She hasn't touched me and I haven't touched her except I nudged her arm with my forearm once. I also have not complimented her or anything.

She has NOT said I'm like a brother or a friend or someone she can "confide" in or any of that bullshit.


She laughs at everything I say, so that's good but the fact that she hasn't touched me and I haven't made advances gets me worried. I feel like she may feel "comfortable" around me.

Kid start being fucking awesome immediately. Shut up. Shut the fuck up right now. Put your hand out. STICK YOUR GOD DAMN HAND OUT RIGHT NOW. NOW CLENCH. DO YOU FEEL THAT!!! THAT'S LIFE. THAT'S LIFE'S BALLS. NOW YOU'VE GOT LIFE BY THE BALLS BITCH WHAT YOU GONNA DO? YOU A HERO OR A BUSTA?!?! WALK UP TO THAT GIRL AN SAY 'SHORTY YOU BE SOOOO FINE I"D ROLL DAT ASS LIKE A STACK'A NICKELS! DAAAAAMMMMMM" Then flick your fingers.

Seriously though, stop over analyzing this. She is one girl. Whatevs.
Kennelie
Profile Joined December 2007
United States2296 Posts
July 22 2009 04:44 GMT
#8
we need ypang here to end this worry of a matter you describe.
ya had ya shot kid!
ilistis
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
United States828 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-22 04:45:48
July 22 2009 04:45 GMT
#9
On July 22 2009 13:42 Kennigit wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 22 2009 13:32 JadeFist wrote:
So, if you read my last blog, I'm trying to ask this girl out.

However, I have a terrible fear I may have been friend zoned.

I have only met her twice now, and I will see her again on Friday. She works in the band I'm in.

On Friday, we'll be playing at a Phillies game and then sitting and watching it. She asked me multiple times if I was going to sit next to her in which I responded "yes." Would she ask this so much if I were friend zoned?

She hasn't touched me and I haven't touched her except I nudged her arm with my forearm once. I also have not complimented her or anything.

She has NOT said I'm like a brother or a friend or someone she can "confide" in or any of that bullshit.


She laughs at everything I say, so that's good but the fact that she hasn't touched me and I haven't made advances gets me worried. I feel like she may feel "comfortable" around me.

Kid start being fucking awesome immediately. Shut up. Shut the fuck up right now. Put your hand out. STICK YOUR GOD DAMN HAND OUT RIGHT NOW. NOW CLENCH. DO YOU FEEL THAT!!! THAT'S LIFE. THAT'S LIFE'S BALLS. NOW YOU'VE GOT LIFE BY THE BALLS BITCH WHAT YOU GONNA DO? YOU A HERO OR A BUSTA?!?! WALK UP TO THAT GIRL AN SAY 'SHORTY YOU BE SOOOO FINE I"D ROLL DAT ASS LIKE A STACK'A NICKELS! DAAAAAMMMMMM" Then flick your fingers.

Seriously though, stop over analyzing this. She is one girl. Whatevs.


lol

edit: and is that you in your profile?
"The man who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones."-William Faulkner *_*_*_Kolll FAN_*_*_*
hcliff454
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Canada127 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-22 04:46:44
July 22 2009 04:45 GMT
#10
Girls generally don't ask guys out, so I don't understand what you're waiting for by not just asking her. If she says no then she's being a huge tease. All I know is that too much analyzing will make it that much worse if she does turn you down.
gl man, and I sincerely hope you get past the forearm graze, cause that doesn't even classify as first base.

EDIT: lawlz@kennigt
dworn it -lz
YPang
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States4024 Posts
July 22 2009 04:48 GMT
#11
On July 22 2009 13:32 JadeFist wrote:
She hasn't touched me and I haven't touched her except I nudged her arm with my forearm once.


....Thats gonna change once u wipe ur mighty sea dragon out
sMi.Gladstone | BW: B high| SC2: gold T_T
SpiritWolf
Profile Joined July 2008
United States127 Posts
July 22 2009 04:48 GMT
#12
On July 22 2009 13:42 Kennigit wrote:

Kid start being fucking awesome immediately. Shut up. Shut the fuck up right now. Put your hand out. STICK YOUR GOD DAMN HAND OUT RIGHT NOW. NOW CLENCH. DO YOU FEEL THAT!!! THAT'S LIFE. THAT'S LIFE'S BALLS. NOW YOU'VE GOT LIFE BY THE BALLS BITCH WHAT YOU GONNA DO? YOU A HERO OR A BUSTA?!?! WALK UP TO THAT GIRL AN SAY 'SHORTY YOU BE SOOOO FINE I"D ROLL DAT ASS LIKE A STACK'A NICKELS! DAAAAAMMMMMM" Then flick your fingers.

Seriously though, stop over analyzing this. She is one girl. Whatevs.


you are my new hero.
YPang
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States4024 Posts
July 22 2009 04:52 GMT
#13
On July 21 2009 06:42 BROUGHT TO YOU BY KENNELIE wrote:
man guys stop shitting urselfs. Next time u see a chick, just wipe out your dick and let the evolution do the speaking. If she doesn't jump on it, prob a lesibian or too afraid of your monster cock anyways.

Edit: if that doesn't work it means you gotta get more booze, not "try harder"

sMi.Gladstone | BW: B high| SC2: gold T_T
imDerek
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States1944 Posts
July 22 2009 05:00 GMT
#14
Just do it
Least favorite progamers: Leta, Zero, Mind, Shine, free, really <-- newly added
kOre
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
Canada3642 Posts
July 22 2009 05:04 GMT
#15
Go ask her out next time you see her. Even if you are "friend-zoned" or "you seem like my brother" kind of deal, doesn't mean you can't convince her you can be "boyfriend" material.
http://www.starcraftmecca.net - Founder
Grobyc
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
Canada18410 Posts
July 22 2009 05:05 GMT
#16
Oh god Kennigit hahahahaha.

Seriously though, the balls help.
If you watch Godzilla backwards it's about a benevolent lizard who helps rebuild a city and then moonwalks into the ocean.
Licmyobelisk
Profile Blog Joined August 2008
Philippines3682 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-22 05:08:54
July 22 2009 05:06 GMT
#17
grab life by the balls ^_^

its like a new pick up line when in a bar then you see a hot chick checking you out, then you clench your fist and scream "I'M GRABBING LIFE BY THE BALLS!" after politely telling her "hi my name is <insert name here>"
I don't think I've ever wished my opponent good luck prior to a game. When I play, I play to win. I hope every opponent I ever have is cursed with fucking terrible luck. I hope they're stuck playing underneath a stepladder with a black cat in attendance a
artofmagic
Profile Blog Joined March 2005
United States1951 Posts
July 22 2009 05:10 GMT
#18
On July 22 2009 13:34 Manifesto7 wrote:
Too much analyzing. If you like her, show her. If you don't, stay friendly.

fixed.

evolve or die
Kennigit *
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
Canada19447 Posts
July 22 2009 05:11 GMT
#19
On July 22 2009 13:45 ilistis wrote:
edit: and is that you in your profile?

no that is superiorwolf
CaucasianAsian
Profile Blog Joined September 2005
Korea (South)11598 Posts
July 22 2009 05:17 GMT
#20
Kennigit is the Man Fucking Toss of Starcraft, The Patrik Fucking Antonious of Poker, The Babe Fucking Ruth of Baseball, The Tony Fucking Hawk of Skateboarding. He tells it as it is. Grab life's balls and make life do what you want it to do.
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