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ReCharge
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Philippines505 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-04-03 20:22:53
April 03 2009 19:09 GMT
#1
I've been playing for half a year (online in ICCUP) and about another half(vs computer), so the thing is, I've gone in and out of D+, I got to that rank 4 times already, then after a lot of bad games, I reset my stats.

Then after a short while I got an 8-0! Yah good for me, but the thing is, I will practically D- hunting that time, (most of the D players I faced had like 800 points or something, so I stopped that piece of crap that I was doing, and faced random guys, not caring if he's D+ or D, now I got 9-11 on my record, which is pretty bad..

Anyway, here's the thing, I wanna mass game, but I'm busy with my life.. I mean, you know, I'm a college student, and it's almost our finals, and EVERYTIME I play, I can't stop thinking of the girl I like, but Im too shy to talk to her.
So I think, that one is a BIG distraction.

So, I'm kinda asking for help, on how to get back to D+, how to concentrate on my studies, and talk to the girl I like at the same time.

EDIT: She's Bisexual!

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David Kim for Bonjwa!
Sprite
Profile Blog Joined August 2008
United States1015 Posts
April 03 2009 19:20 GMT
#2
stop resetting your stats and keep playing, like my teacher says "grow a pair" and talk to the girl and study your butt off.
Firebathero is still the best!
FlamyDeath
Profile Blog Joined May 2008
Netherlands146 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-04-03 19:24:40
April 03 2009 19:24 GMT
#3
Drop out of college, start stalking the girl, play SC all day.

oh wait this is TL >_<

whatever Sprite said then!
We real cool. We Left school. We Lurk Late. We Strike Straight. We Sing sin. We Thin gin. We Jazz June. We Die soon
ReCharge
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Philippines505 Posts
April 03 2009 19:24 GMT
#4
On April 04 2009 04:20 Sprite wrote:
stop resetting your stats and keep playing, like my teacher says "grow a pair" and talk to the girl and study your butt off.



What do you mean "grow a pair"??
David Kim for Bonjwa!
ReCharge
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Philippines505 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-04-03 19:26:31
April 03 2009 19:25 GMT
#5
On April 04 2009 04:24 FlamyDeath wrote:
Drop out of college, get drunk and rape the girl, play SC all day.

oh wait this is TL >_<

whatever Sprite said then!


ROFL! Lol! I saw that
David Kim for Bonjwa!
arb
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Noobville17921 Posts
April 03 2009 19:35 GMT
#6
going 8-0 is nothing its alot harder to keep d+ than it is to get it
Artillery spawned from the forges of Hell
CTStalker
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
Canada9720 Posts
April 03 2009 19:37 GMT
#7
On April 04 2009 04:24 ReCharge wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 04 2009 04:20 Sprite wrote:
stop resetting your stats and keep playing, like my teacher says "grow a pair" and talk to the girl and study your butt off.



What do you mean "grow a pair"??

a pair of testicles
By the way, my name is Funk. I am not of your world
ReCharge
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Philippines505 Posts
April 03 2009 19:40 GMT
#8
On April 04 2009 04:37 CTStalker wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 04 2009 04:24 ReCharge wrote:
On April 04 2009 04:20 Sprite wrote:
stop resetting your stats and keep playing, like my teacher says "grow a pair" and talk to the girl and study your butt off.



What do you mean "grow a pair"??

a pair of testicles


Ow... I got a bit surprised, I usually think (fuck it, Im gonna talk to her whether she likes it or not)
David Kim for Bonjwa!
radar14
Profile Blog Joined December 2002
United States1437 Posts
April 03 2009 19:48 GMT
#9
just get your priorities straight and focus your energies accordingly.

If you're not going to graduate school, girl > grades > starcraft.
If you are going to grad school, grades > girl > starcraft

If you want to wallow in self-pity and think being good at starcraft will compensate for the other parts of your life...well that's just kinda sad.

Grades: go study somewhere away from your dorm/apartment if you aren't already doing so. Study with a friend (consider the girl??) and keep each other accountable. Separate your study time/area with your play time/area. Put in the time and then when you go home just relax. For godsakes don't study on a computer with starcraft (or TL access if possible but that's usually one you just have to suck up)

Girl: Hang out more with mutual friends you have and increase the "chance" encounters you have with her. Don't dress like a bum. And, paraphrasing Dwight Schrute, don't be an idiot.
impatience is a virtue
d(O.o)a
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
Canada5066 Posts
April 03 2009 19:49 GMT
#10
Unless this girl is a lesbian there is no reason you shouldn't have talked to her by now.
Hi.
Zapdos_Smithh
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
Canada2620 Posts
April 03 2009 19:54 GMT
#11
Time management skills perhaps? You will get better with experience as well btw.
ReCharge
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Philippines505 Posts
April 03 2009 20:13 GMT
#12
On April 04 2009 04:49 d(O.o)a wrote:
Unless this girl is a lesbian there is no reason you shouldn't have talked to her by now.


Uhm,, She is kind of a Bisexual ~_~
David Kim for Bonjwa!
Exteray
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
United States1094 Posts
April 03 2009 20:13 GMT
#13
Yea I started with 12-0 and now im 35-40 haha..

but "how to get back to D+, how to concentrate on my studies, and talk to the girl I like at the same time." seems contradictory. It's hard to concentrate on studies if you mass game. I struggled with the same thing recently. I'm in a rigorous quarter system in a very competitive college and I realize that I really need to dedicate a lot of time to studies. I just give myself strict rules.. things like only SC on weekends and no more than like 6 games a week maybe

And about the girl problem just like be yourself. Approach her like a good friend would ;-)
Cpt.Cocaine
Profile Joined June 2008
Canada299 Posts
April 03 2009 20:13 GMT
#14
Get your balls surgically removed so you won't care about the girl anymore.

You should also drop out of college.
Exteray
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
United States1094 Posts
April 03 2009 20:14 GMT
#15
On April 04 2009 04:48 radar14 wrote:
just get your priorities straight and focus your energies accordingly.

If you're not going to graduate school, girl > grades > starcraft.
If you are going to grad school, grades > girl > starcraft

If you want to wallow in self-pity and think being good at starcraft will compensate for the other parts of your life...well that's just kinda sad.

Grades: go study somewhere away from your dorm/apartment if you aren't already doing so. Study with a friend (consider the girl??) and keep each other accountable. Separate your study time/area with your play time/area. Put in the time and then when you go home just relax. For godsakes don't study on a computer with starcraft (or TL access if possible but that's usually one you just have to suck up)

Girl: Hang out more with mutual friends you have and increase the "chance" encounters you have with her. Don't dress like a bum. And, paraphrasing Dwight Schrute, don't be an idiot.


I agree!
Augury
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
United States758 Posts
April 03 2009 20:19 GMT
#16
Pretty sure it's Starcraft>Girl and future you can worry about the side effects of dropping out of college :D
Patriot.dlk
Profile Blog Joined October 2004
Sweden5462 Posts
April 03 2009 21:14 GMT
#17
Starcraft is great because you can always get 10-10 stats (as in playing people of your own level) and this will never change for you.

Stick to playing when you feel like it and reward yourself after hard studies. Being in love is a blessing go with it or don't
o3.power91
Profile Blog Joined November 2007
Bahrain5288 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-04-03 21:22:59
April 03 2009 21:20 GMT
#18
On April 04 2009 04:48 radar14 wrote:
just get your priorities straight and focus your energies accordingly.

If you're not going to graduate school, girl >starcraft > grades.
If you are going to grad school, starcraft > grades > girl.
If you want to wallow in self-pity and think being good at starcraft will compensate for the other parts of your life...well that's just kinda sad.

Grades: go study somewhere away from your dorm/apartment if you aren't already doing so. Study with a friend (consider the girl??) and keep each other accountable. Separate your study time/area with your play time/area. Put in the time and then when you go home just relax. For godsakes don't study on a computer with starcraft (or TL access if possible but that's usually one you just have to suck up)

Girl: Hang out more with mutual friends you have and increase the "chance" encounters you have with her. Don't dress like a bum. And, paraphrasing Dwight Schrute, don't be an idiot.

Mastermind
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Canada7096 Posts
April 03 2009 22:44 GMT
#19
On April 04 2009 05:13 ReCharge wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 04 2009 04:49 d(O.o)a wrote:
Unless this girl is a lesbian there is no reason you shouldn't have talked to her by now.


Uhm,, She is kind of a Bisexual ~_~

aren't most girls?
Piy
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
Scotland3152 Posts
April 03 2009 23:14 GMT
#20
Revise for your finals or you'll think your a bit of a penis when SCII comes out.

As far as the girl goes...ask her out if you want, don't if you don't. A friend is more important than someone who'll have sex with you anyway. tbh imo sex is totally unimportant, people should get over that fact and try and get on with eachother, rather than constantly trying to get girlfriend --> get sex.

but i disagree with radar. If shes a proper bisexual in school shes probably weird. Wear colours that clash. Weird people love that :p
My. Copy. Is. Here.
ReCharge
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Philippines505 Posts
April 03 2009 23:32 GMT
#21
On April 04 2009 08:14 Piy wrote:
Revise for your finals or you'll think your a bit of a penis when SCII comes out.

As far as the girl goes...ask her out if you want, don't if you don't. A friend is more important than someone who'll have sex with you anyway. tbh imo sex is totally unimportant, people should get over that fact and try and get on with eachother, rather than constantly trying to get girlfriend --> get sex.

but i disagree with radar. If shes a proper bisexual in school shes probably weird. Wear colours that clash. Weird people love that :p


Yah, but I've had a crush on the girl for 10 effing years! And Im a 17 year old guy... I use to talk to her alot, but when I got to college I got a little busy, and didn't see her, then when Christmas came, I got the time to see her and the gang, but sadly, my "shyness" if you'd like to call it that way, got control of me, so I can't even talk or look at her anymore...
David Kim for Bonjwa!
writer22816
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
United States5775 Posts
April 03 2009 23:47 GMT
#22
On April 04 2009 04:48 radar14 wrote:
just get your priorities straight and focus your energies accordingly.

If you're not going to graduate school, girl > grades > starcraft.
If you are going to grad school, grades > girl > starcraft

If you want to wallow in self-pity and think being good at starcraft will compensate for the other parts of your life...well that's just kinda sad..


This.
8/4/12 never forget, never forgive.
Snet *
Profile Blog Joined September 2006
United States3573 Posts
April 03 2009 23:55 GMT
#23
Add me on iccup I'm up for practice games anytime I'm online.

Username: snet

I'm C- Protoss.
ReCharge
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Philippines505 Posts
April 04 2009 00:16 GMT
#24
On April 04 2009 08:55 Snet wrote:
Add me on iccup I'm up for practice games anytime I'm online.

Username: snet

I'm C- Protoss.



Sure I'll be glad to
David Kim for Bonjwa!
Snet *
Profile Blog Joined September 2006
United States3573 Posts
April 04 2009 01:36 GMT
#25
He almost raped me with cannons on Medusa PvP. I think he'll get C- just fine before the season ends.
ReCharge
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Philippines505 Posts
April 04 2009 01:41 GMT
#26
Yah, lucky break, haha, would have been a great game, it if wasnt for the mouse lol
David Kim for Bonjwa!
slained
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
Canada966 Posts
April 04 2009 21:33 GMT
#27
"but sadly, my "shyness" if you'd like to call it that way, got control of me, so I can't even talk or look at her anymore..."

that's pretty insane.. Just go hey, i haven't talked to you for a while. From there on just say whatever you feel like you can. You could just go what have you been up to and talk, or you can ask her to hang out. Just do yourself a favour and effing talk to her.

msg me SlaineD/mG.SlaineD for games with a C ish all race player
ReCharge
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Philippines505 Posts
April 04 2009 23:39 GMT
#28
Alright thanks guys, appreciate all your help Finally talked to the girl :D
David Kim for Bonjwa!
Divinek
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
Canada4045 Posts
April 05 2009 01:22 GMT
#29
Stop caring about ranks so much man
Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity.
Oh goodness me, FOX tv where do you get your sight? Can't you keep track, the puck is black. That's why the ice is white.
PH
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
United States6173 Posts
April 05 2009 01:38 GMT
#30
This is quite a blog...

He managed to make it a grades blog, real life blog, girl problem blog, an SC help blog AND an iccup blog all in one.

wow.
Hello
ReCharge
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Philippines505 Posts
April 05 2009 02:19 GMT
#31
On April 05 2009 10:38 PH wrote:
This is quite a blog...

He managed to make it a grades blog, real life blog, girl problem blog, an SC help blog AND an iccup blog all in one.

wow.



I am quite surprised myself, and yet, a lot you guys were able to give me great answers, and help :D
David Kim for Bonjwa!
inertinept
Profile Blog Joined May 2008
Bangladesh1195 Posts
April 05 2009 02:21 GMT
#32
dont worry about your record dude. Each rank is exceedingly more difficult then the last.

if you think thats bad, i went from 30-10 to now 45-45. =D
With a gust of wind, perhaps.
ReCharge
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Philippines505 Posts
April 05 2009 02:37 GMT
#33
On April 05 2009 11:21 inertinept wrote:
dont worry about your record dude. Each rank is exceedingly more difficult then the last.

if you think thats bad, i went from 30-10 to now 45-45. =D



Alright thanks, it makes me feel better about myself, since most people gets into this kinds of situation anyway
David Kim for Bonjwa!
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