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MrHoon
10183 Posts
I haven't been in a good mood for days now. My portfolio isn't even done and I am living in hell. This is probably my first and last REAL blog aside from progamer LOL pictures, some nickname poll or something about japanese people.
A WILD TEXTBLOB APPEARS
I am currently 21 and intern in Korea. I also work as a part-time english tutor and spend special time with my family. After staying in NYC for 2 years straight it is so good to see my mom, dad and my dog whos been with me since 3rd grade. I've been here for a good 7 months now. Unfortunately during those 7 months I was working so I barely had any free time. I still have to watch SC vods around 1-3 am KST just so I can catch up. Because of this stressing environment I have been on the edge for a while. But being with my parents was good enough for me, so I just held everything back down. Besides, I have this weird conscience that tells me everyday "DUDE SOMEWHERE IN THE WORLD THERE IS SOMEONE WHO IS HAVING A SHITTIER DAY, SUCK IT UP MOTHERFUCKER." Life was okay (sorta)
Until she came.
My sister and I got along really well when we were young and throughout middleschool. But then when highschool hit, she was different. At first I thought I was being picky. "Hey man its just a phase" so I just let it off. It was around... sophmore year for her when she started screaming at my mother whenever she wanted to talk back. I was very annoyed with this because, well I love my goddamn mom. I also hated fighting, oral or physical. I wasn't much of a fighter, more of a pacifist. When the fighting grew longer and bigger in scale I just hid it away and told myself "this is just a phase, getting in between this will not be a smart idea." So I just didn't say anything. I tried saying something to her once but since I didn't have any fighting experience I was obviously shut down in an instant. So ever since that day I just said "hey maybe Im not good at this, nobody is perfect." Fuck what kind of retard was I lol? I kept quiet and decided not to say get in between stuff until one day after a fight, I saw my mom crying in her closet. I was shocked. At that point of my life I have never seen my mom cry in agony. I didn't know what to do. I tried to comfort her but she just said its okay and told me to go up my room. I walked up slowly. I was confused. Didn't I do the right thing? Wasn't this the solution to every fight? I sat on my chair and kept think what went wrong. The fight wasn't even large scaled, hell she didn't even swear this time. So I just decided maybe I was overthinking it and got ready for bed. My sister then enters into my room and says "Thanks for helping me lil bro" It took me 10 seconds after I heard that to realize that the fight wasn't the thing that changed, but it was me. It was because of me that my mom cried. I could've just said "hey stop" and this wouldn't of even happened. I was so ashamed of myself at that point. That night I couldn't sleep. It was the same feeling I had when my dad told me "santa can't wait in line for 6 hours to buy mario can he?" but alot worse. I needed to learn how to fight back. But I couldn't... Why? Because I hated talking when I was in Highschool. All my friends were elementary school friends so they knew that I only talk when I feel like it. I cried myself to sleep that night (yeah call me a pussy) and I told myself "one day I will make her beg for my mother's apology"
Big white lies
One of my korean friends I knew since I was in elementary school (went to korean school too, then came to us so don't get confused) came to boston and said lets meet up. It was almost end of my junior year and I got into a good art school so I was satisfied. However, I didn't have a car that day. Boston was 2 hours away so I needed a car. My sister said she would drive me there since she is also meeting friends there. Hey, win win situation good enough for me. As my friends and I met my sister gave us a call and said to join her friends at a Korean bar (which doesn't check id btw). So we all meet and I met her friends too. It was all good, until this moment. One of her friends asked me "So where did you get accepted?" Right as I was about to say [School Name Withheld]she cuts me off and says "MY BROTHER GOT INTO OXFORD"
Okay, seriously wtf. I don't even know if you can get a FA Bachelor Degree in Oxford, let alone don't know how the fuck england works.
Everyone was like "WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOAAA" and I was like "?????????" What the fuck was this? And then they ask me if I am going to go to Oxford and then she cuts me off again and says "no my dad doesn't want him to be too far away." Okay if I actually did get into oxford I would've gone regardless and my parents (being asian) would support me 100%. I was shocked. I thought to myself wtf is this. Sure I did get some respect but seriously this is fucking retarded. I don't want to lie my ass about College, I already lied my ass off at elementary school and got punished like a motherfucker for it and trust me, Asian discipline >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> euro/america discipline. I glared at her for a second but she didn't even care she was gulping down soju like it was water. When we got outside I told her "wtf was that? that was such a retarded lie" and then she replied "You will thank me for that, now people will respect both of us." OH I see what this is. Ever since this moment, I lost all respect for my sister. I wished this was the only white lie she would do, but after a while she kept making more white lies. Oh funny incident. Last year November I met my sister's friend in NYC and suddenly he tells me "SO I HEARD YOU'RE GOING TO TRANSFER TO CORNELL SO YOU CAN BE WITH YOUR SISTER?" God damn. If by writing a transfer transcript you mean Farming Epic Flyer gold, yes Im halfway done.
HELLLOOO NYCCCC
I was out of my house. I was a free man who will be going to school at the dream city of NYC. Oh boy, what a dream come true it was. Honestly, NYC is not a bad city. Sure besides the weekends its a pretty shady city but boy was it an experience. I lived in a small ass studio at 100 on broadway and the station was 3 blocks away so it was cool. I also worked as a dishwasher in a local pure japanese sushi shop. It had the best and cheapest sushi ever. Sad thing was the New York people preferred the Chinese owned Sushi bars more than the japanese ones so i didn't really wash anything... After living in NYC working and going to school I found out it was really hard to balance everything. This was just the tip of the iceberg yet reality was so cruel. Fortunately, I got alot manlier. I learned how to fend for myself. After being mugged the first time I tried to toughen up so I wouldn't cry like a pussy in my room. Living alone also changed my thinking. I was alot stingier and aggressive than before. Now when I see or hear something I don't like, and it isn't some RL troll I tell them 'fuck you' which btw feels awesome. But nothing lasts forever. After a full year of doing that my body started to wither away and I got exhausted. I couldn't take it anymore. I took a break from school, told them 'my country conscripted me' (btw if your korean friend is a US citizen and he stays away from your school for about 2 years, yeah he lied his ass using this excuss lol). Alot of other things happened too, but that isn't important so I got my ass to korea around May.
When I arrived to Korea, I was relieved I saw my parents. I apologized to them but they said as long as I was healthy they didn't care. But then during the car ride home my mom and dad starts talking about how they were worried about my sister. Apparently she was spending so much money it was ridiculous. See if this was the old me, I would've been worried but I was getting annoyed. I who the hell does she think she is to spend X (not gonna say the amount, but its absolutely ludicrous) much money every month excluding rent? I cooled myself down and tried not to jump the gun. I told myself I was going to talk to her when I see her later on. She arrived around June. She brought her literally retarded dog with her too. I fucking hate that dog. He fucking shits everywhere and she makes me clean it because Im taking a break therefore it is my house (WTF). But I have to clean it, or else my mom will have to and shes too old for stupid shit like that. So everything was going swell and I thought to myself "YEP THIS IS WHAT A NORMAL FAMILY IS SUPPOSE TO BE." Then the first enounter came. It was sunday I believe and I was still in bed. I was waken by some annoying high pitched noise. I was going to ignore it but I had to take a piss so I opened the door. And I see my sister screaming at my mom again. It was 6:30 fucking am. Apparently bunch of her other korean college friends all have jetlag so they are going to drink some soju at the Han Kang River. My mother kept telling her "you arrived today, can't you just wait until tomorrow?" and my sister kept yelling stupid shit like "YOU WOUND'T UNDERSTANDD." There are 3 things I absolutely hate in the whole entire world; 1) Screaming Bitches, 2) Being woken at a free day and 3) Fanboys. I told her to go to sleep and stop being retarded, then she glared at me and told me to "go to sleep you sack of failure, might've well drop out of your shitty school while you're at it." I don't remember what happened, but all I know is that I pimp slapped my sister and her nose was broken. Oh man. She screamed she will sue me for a whole 10 minutes and threatened to take 20 advil pills and suicide LOLOLOLOL. My mother begged me to apologize. So I did, and then she slapped my face. Hey whatever, no pain no gain. Ever since this first encounter my sister and I didn't talk alot, and I was fucking happy about it.
So if you actually read down all the way here, you've learned my elder sister is extremely immature for her age and screams alot. So why did I drag you down all the way here? Well today, was the 2nd encounter. Ever since that day, I decided being physical wasn't the brightest idea. Who knew asian women were so fragile? Anyways, today my sister left the house at 10am and came home at 2:30am. I have the flu you see which leads to head splitting migraines and an unstoppable coughing spree. My mom and dad were worried as fuck. Korea isn't the safest place for a drunk ass girl to be going home after midnight. Actually that applies to almost every city... Anyways my mom was really worried and my sister told her to fuck off. To make it weirder, she was with my HS friend (WTF?). My head was splitting and she was fucking annoying me again. So when my mom and dad took the car and went out looking for her, she comes in all tipsy.
That smug on her face, I wanted it to disappear.
I was watching TV as it is the only thing that will let me forget about my migraines. She walks in and says "gimme ur dog." I tell her to take her to go away and sleep since she is drunk. She laughs and says she isn't drunk and tells me to give her the dog. I say no and even my dog bites the bitch (fuck yeahh). I tell her to play with her dog and she says "Its not my dog anymore, taking care of dogs are too hard so I am leaving him here with you. Besides you're not gonna do anything unlike me who is preparing for law school." I wanted to pimp slap her again so bad. I just couldn't because I knew it wasn't worth it. But because of my migraines I couldn't talk properly. I was stuttering which made her laugh and call me a retard. If I slap her now she would win and I don't want to fucking lose. I am sick and tired of losing. I didn't know what to say and she kept looking at me with a pity face and a grin. I had to say something, so I just said the first thing that came up to my mind
"You Whore"
She laughed and said "IS THAT THE BEST YOU HAVE? You must've learned nothing from your school, you should just drop out and save mom and dad's money" she started laughing and slowly walked to the door. No... I need to show her I'm not some little bitch. So as a final desperation comeback I said, "So I heard you spent $X000 dollars a month excluding rent for a while. Whats wrong? Did your friends start to realize how shitty of a person you were? $X000, what is that like X louis vuitton bags? Isn't it too early to buy friends back?" Right as I finished that she bitch slapped me. She smirked and said "hah wait until mom and dad hears about this." Damn right, I did nothing wrong besides you broke the rule anyways. Fuck yeah its going to be a swell day
Then the unexpected happens.
She grins at me then when the call to my father gets through, she starts crying. Oh god. She starts sobbing and weeping and says "YOUR SON CALLED ME A WHORE, ARE YOU GOING TO LET HIM DO THAT?" I have never been so shocked. I couldn't show her I was shocked so I kept, laughing and said stuff like "haha are you serious?" to cover my shock. Then the phonecall comes to me. Man my mom was screaming at me and I told her everything was a lie but the damage has been done. In korea, we call this the "The Water Ghost Tactic" as the Korean traditional water ghosts take other lives with them just because they want other souls to suffer the same way as they did. Goddamn, thats some gay shit isn't it?
So today ended as a shitty day. Fortunately my parents believed me and took away her credit card, money, car keys and everything. They told me to apologize to her, and I did but she said she doesn't want to apologize to me because I am "scary" and I have a 2face thing going on. Its 4:40am right now and I have no fucking idea why Im writing this shit. This might be branded as a fail drama thread or something, but please, just read it as a shitty halo fan fiction.
But man, I have never been so scared of my sister until today.
   
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lol i can picture almost every korean girl in my school like your older sister.
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One of the first blogs that i fully read. One question: is she attractive at all though? or does she just use things she buy to keep her friends?
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wow i read all of that. pretty interesting stuff. you should write a memoir about it lol
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This is hilarious man.
God damn. If by writing a transfer transcript you mean Farming Epic Flyer gold, yes Im halfway done.
hahahahahahahaha 5/5
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Canada1122 Posts
Thank god I don't have a sister...
I guess brothers are just as bad but you can fight them
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Seriously, she was getting that money from your parents? How rich are you guys exactly? What kind of parent gives their kids direct access to their bank accounts. I get the occassional 100 euro's a month transferred to my account but thats about it.
On the other hand I don't give a flying fuck about material goods so I dont really care. Your sister sounds like a spoiled bitch.
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On December 31 2008 05:23 Frits wrote: Your sister sounds like a spoiled bitch.
This is a good tl;dr
Very interesting and sad to hear about having a sister like that.
I dont want to sound like a jackass or anything but was she disciplined when she was younger like with a stick?
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I saw how you described it as the "water ghost tactic". But where I live it is usually just known as "every other female tactic".... Seriously though, that is pretty evil of your sister and that was a long read, but at least it was all written out instead of just summed up. Why didn't your parents just make her get a job and only pay her rent?
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Older sisters can be real bitches. You should never be scared of her though, because she is obviously a bully and will sense any sort of weakness on your part. Remember that you are a man and that you can psyhically overpower her if need be. You don't really need to do such a thing, but she should fear and respect you because of that.
It seems like you guys are all very immature.
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infinity21
Canada6683 Posts
Wow what the hell. That's so ridiculous. I don't even know how people can live their lives like that -.-
Your parents should just kick her out of the house =/
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Sounds incredibly callous but that was a very entertaining blog read.
I have a whiny bitchy little brother who does anything to get his way with my parents. i can 'kinda' understand how your feeling.
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5/5, Good read.
GL with all that. 
I used to think my sister was bad, but now I realize it can be a LOT worse. (No offense.)
Edit: P.S.-I lol'ed a few times, but I almost fell off my chair at 'a wild textblob appears'.
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Sucks for you... But yeah older sisters can be bitches for no reason at all, so when you havn't done anything and they're being complete bitches.. You gotta get mean my friend.
Oh.. and when they use the fake crying to get there way, you gotta be one mean bastard.. Til they learn.
Stay strong.
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I hope some of the things I say here wont piss you off but they are facts.
1. Your parents fucked up raising your sister 2. I give you mad props for bitch slapping her, but this should happen more often 3. Cleanining dogshit? LOL i woulda tossed that dog in the backyard or lock that shit up somewhere 4. You should belittle or talk shit to her more because it seems like everything you do all she can do is tell your parents (really...? shes going to law school but act like she's 10) 5. You should have not been a pussy and let her make your mom cry like that. 6. This bitch seems like her life is miserable
Edit: Entertaining read though
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Easy 5/5, but I can't understand why your parents wouldn't just kick her ass out on her own if she's burning away money like that and acts so ungratefully to the people housing her.
On December 31 2008 04:41 MrHoon wrote: If by writing a transfer transcript you mean Farming Epic Flyer gold, yes Im halfway done.
is where I lost it :D
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I'm surprised that calling her a whore didn't hurt her. One time I made the mistake of calling my sister a whore during a heated argument and she burst into tears. Probably one of the d-baggiest things I've ever done.
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Why would you apologize at the end? Isn't that an admission of guilt by you? And whats up with letting her slap you!? Ugh... reaction time and expecting it would've been so much sweeter. Don't hit her back, but just block it and she would've been annoyed
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My only advice I can give you is...
What did the five fingers say to the face?
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Ouch that really sucks man 
I have a sister similar who "tries" to be spoiled and always asks for stuff ($) and gets really pissed at my parents when she doesn't get what she wants (We're half Asian too; coincidence? o.O).
Anyways, the difference between my case and yours I think is that my sister really loves my mom although they get into arguments really often. Also my sister is scared shitless of my dad (he doesn't beat though; his voice is just fucking scary when he shouts T_T). In addition to this, I'm the eldest child and being a male, am closer to my dad than my sister (sweet). Also my dad has known my sister to be a troublemaker. For these reasons I am the more trustworthy in his eyes (I don't abuse his trust) and am able to keep my sister disciplined.
Unfortunately this doesn't seem to be the case for you. I would suggest gaining your parents' trust so that they value your word over your sister's. This wouldn't be too hard I guess seeing how your sister is a bitch (no offense). Like you had said, you shouldn't get physical with your sister. If you call her a whore or anything that she can use against you, you better have an excuse for your parents.
In addition if you two are the only children, and your sister is the way she is, I would suggest you to get closer to your parents. Not only would they trust you more, but I believe that you need to be as close to your parents as possible. I'm not saying live with them forever abandoning your studies and life, but at least show them that you're grateful for everything they've done for you (unlike your sister apparently). With a daughter like that, your parents will need you even more.
I'm no expert on this, but just my 2 cents. Hope you manage to deal with your sister 
Edit: In addition to this, like many people (including you) have said by now, you really should've stood up for your mom instead of letting her cry. Next time your mom and sister have an argument, stand up for your mom. Don't hit your sister but at least try to convince her to not disappoint your parents.
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I was thinking though...you can seriously turn your life into a K-drama.
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yep her life must be miserable :/
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this is a great read, but your sister is a stupid bitch. it made me want to give her a good ol slap across the face.
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You don't even have Epic Flying Training? 
Apart from that, what a great memoir-esque blog. I loved reading it.
edit: Oh and goddamn she is fucking psycho.
Doctor Equinox agrees with zil that this should be a K-Drama.
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MrHoon
10183 Posts
lol she isn't even looking at me now its fucking hilarious
yeah she is spoiled Oh yeah about the money thing We aren't rich but we definately aren't poor. I don't really spend alot of money. I don't eat alot and I have jobs so I used to buy clothes and stuff when I was in NYC by starving, saving money and going to sale sprees lol. Since I tell my parents I can support myself (except for APT rent), they don't really give me any money. So I guess she spends the money I was suppose to spend lol?
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Ever since that day, I decided being physical wasn't the brightest idea. Who knew asian women were so fragile?
LOL
well written story, as horrible as certain elements (sister) of it are
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I held off attending a family new year's thing so I could read this blog, extremely entertaining (I feel kind of bad saying that)
also lol'd hard at the epic flyer gold
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Sucks that your sister changed so much. My older brother also changed when he got into high school and we drifted apart because of that, but he sure as hell didn't turn into a family leech.
I'm surprised you were able to pull off that blog though. Most blogs that rant about family problems are pretty terrible reads.
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MrHoon
10183 Posts
On December 31 2008 05:33 kidd wrote: Older sisters can be real bitches. You should never be scared of her though, because she is obviously a bully and will sense any sort of weakness on your part. Remember that you are a man and that you can psyhically overpower her if need be. You don't really need to do such a thing, but she should fear and respect you because of that.
It seems like you guys are all very immature. Well I never said I was perfect haha, but yeah
Unlike many other households with brother/sister, we never had a fight until end of HS to college. So I really had no idea how to deal with situations like these >.> And I find even telling even my best friend this is unnecessary because well its none of their business.
Oh, and trust me man, my sister is afraid of nothing. I can tell you even if some black guy with a knife comes over and says 'gimme ur bag' she would say something along the lines of 'i think my bag is too high quality for the likes of you poor muggers.' And shes really thickheaded so if she chooses something she goes with it regardless of how poor of a choice it was or not.
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Oh man, what you should of done is; after she slapped you, start screaming "HOW CAN SHE SLAP?!??"
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FUCK WOMEN THEY'RE ALL SPAWN OF THE DEVIL
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Purchase 10 black garbage bags, 5 rolls of duct-tape, a duffel bag large enough to fit your sister, and a bone saw.
Let your sister (But not your parents) see you bring it into the house and put it all in your room.
Be VERY quiet for the next two weeks, enough that your parents will start to notice and possibly bring up in conversation "My, I wonder what has gotten into Mr.Hoon" while your sister may or may not be in the room.
After that, any time she starts to step out of line, just look agitatedly at her, and then smile ever so slightly and look away.
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On December 31 2008 17:44 Lemonwalrus wrote: Purchase 10 black garbage bags, 5 rolls of duct-tape, a duffel bag large enough to fit your sister, and a bone saw.
Let your sister (But not your parents) see you bring it into the house and put it all in your room.
Be VERY quiet for the next two weeks, enough that your parents will start to notice and possibly bring up in conversation "My, I wonder what has gotten into Mr.Hoon" while your sister may or may not be in the room.
After that, any time she starts to step out of line, just look agitatedly at her, and then smile ever so slightly and look away.
lol.... I don't think that'll work... lol
I used to read Korean novels (translated to Chinese) when I was in HS, all the main female characters are really bitchy, but apparently guys dig that shit?
Thinking about it, the guys were really violent, always fighting, maybe you should try that... she might show you more respect.
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your sister seriously feels too protected
I know what I would do, but that wouldn't work for you, since if you were me it'd never happen like that, so you gotta figure things out for yourself
some suggestions:
you can't lose it and then hit her cus in their guts women don't respect that, so if you're gonna hit, don't lose it. and you kept apologizing, WTF? do NOT apologize when asked to, just walk away. you have to be consistent in your message. I bet she pushes all kinds of buttons and you respond in a totally predictable way. if you gonna insult her you have to be unfazed by her bs, casually go for her insecurities and be right (women just get stomped by men they can't make into a fool). if you just know you're right and look it, she'd self-destruct.
so far she's attacking your insecurities, and it works. she knows you, I hope you know her.
and one thing I'm curious: is your sis hot? that makes a big difference.
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Smack that bitch and show her who's boss. Take her dog and punt it out the window, then take her stuff and throw it outside and tell that bitch to get out and never come again. How the fuck can you deal with this shit? That is unacceptable, man up dude!
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MrHoon
10183 Posts
Seems like people do not understand quiet well 1) I DO NOT want to apologize. But I have to, why? Because if I don't my mom and dad will be more and more stressed out. I rather take the fall then have my mom and my dad suffer more.
If you don't understand this part, my dad is a very busy man. He is a good father for someone who works for a long ass time. My mom is just a housewife so she doesn't have a job. Now imagine, you're married, you get home from 12-14 hours of work and want to sleep. But suddenly your daughter starts screaming saying 'ur stupid son won't fuking listen.' Wouldn't you want all of this shit to just go away? I rather just apologize to let my dad just rest.
2) Yeah she is attacking my insecurities. But yeah I get back at her with her insecurities. She gets touchy whenever I talk about her spending money and friends etc.
3) wtf, I am not asking for advices from people who laugh at 1a2a3a jokes.
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what are they gonna do, chase you down, twist your arm and make you? politely tell them to get some rest, that you can't apologize, and then walk away. a half-hearted apology squares things for...a day? just encourages your sis to repeat
all families go through drama. sooner or later somebody gotta put his foot down, seeing as your dad's not the type, you do it. but hey your words don't carry weight cus the way you keep submitting. makes me sicks that she keeps going to the authority figure of you and make you bow, even though you're the considerate one.
either man up and be consistently one way (which is respectable) or cut off contact and ignore her.
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Wow fucked up sis huh. Hope it gets better.
Is she hot? Because if she is, its a greater reason to hit her more!!!!
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MrHoon
10183 Posts
First of all .risingdragoon, I did not put everything up on this blog because I felt it wasn't necessary to share everything therefore most of the things you wrote sounds wildly retarded to me. Secondly, I have never asked for your adivce (2nd time Im telling you). Also, I didn't come here to baww about my fucking sister's retarded decision and actions, I came here to share a story. If I wanted to bawww about this shit I would've done it on some smurf account. My father does put his foot down but she is so thick headed it does not work (I already said this too). She does not make an authority figure of me. She used to like 1 year ago but not anymore. And seriously what the fuck would I gain from shouting at each other for 6 fucking hours and getting nowhere? Shes so thickheaded regardless of what happens she would still believe she is on top of everyone. Whats the fucking point would it be if yelling for 6 fucking hours has the same damn results as fucking fake apologizing? Do I want to waste my 6 hours just yelling? Hell no I have other shit to do.
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51444 Posts
needs a rek to destroy her
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On December 31 2008 22:59 GTR-2-Go wrote: needs a rek to destroy her I actually thought something along those lines too. This looks like a problem that needs to be solved outside of the family, if you catch my drift...which you obviously do, since you made the joke first...
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Thanks for sharing. 
If I read this story before coming to Korea, my head would have been full of 'WTF's. But after staying here a while, learning about K-culture and meeting some truly crazy Korean bitches I can understand better... But to have one as a sister.. I feel for you 
I think the main thing is that her credit card and money got taken away...
Happy Birthday AND New Year(?) btw Mr Hoon.
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Happy birthday
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Slap her every time, at least then you'd feel good about something for the rest of the day.
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After reading it again for entertainment purposes, I've come to the conclusion that your sister needs some serious dick.... oh happy Birthday =)
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On December 31 2008 22:22 MrHoon wrote: First of all .risingdragoon, I did not put everything up on this blog because I felt it wasn't necessary to share everything therefore most of the things you wrote sounds wildly retarded to me. Secondly, I have never asked for your adivce (2nd time Im telling you). Also, I didn't come here to baww about my fucking sister's retarded decision and actions, I came here to share a story. If I wanted to bawww about this shit I would've done it on some smurf account. My father does put his foot down but she is so thick headed it does not work (I already said this too). She does not make an authority figure of me. She used to like 1 year ago but not anymore. And seriously what the fuck would I gain from shouting at each other for 6 fucking hours and getting nowhere? Shes so thickheaded regardless of what happens she would still believe she is on top of everyone. Whats the fucking point would it be if yelling for 6 fucking hours has the same damn results as fucking fake apologizing? Do I want to waste my 6 hours just yelling? Hell no I have other shit to do.
What did you put it up for? I hope it's not just sympathy, cus you have it, but that won't help your problem.
It sounds wild to you cus of the way you think does not deserve respect. If the person creating the drama thinks she's in charge, there's gonna be drama no matter what.
It's funny to me that you try to think and decide for your parents, when they're the parents and can take care of themselves, but you come up with all kinds of excuse to talk yourself down and do nothing about your sis. You remind me of the conservative fatalist who grills himself over an issue for a long time and in the end makes the wrong choice.
No more for me.
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Make your parents stop giving her more money than she absolutely needs to have. Oh, and proceed to call her out in front of her friends, this is the worst thing you can do to her, because she obviously is an attention-bitch and wants to be admired. Nothing worse than destroying her reputation..
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How old is your sister exactly? O.o, she acts like shes 10, and gj finally standing up to her :D
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You should dispose of her dog, if you know what I mean.
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Physician
United States4146 Posts
maybe Rekrul was right about English teachers in Korea, even if they are part time only..
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this is why i dont want girls
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On December 31 2008 22:22 MrHoon wrote: First of all .risingdragoon, I did not put everything up on this blog because I felt it wasn't necessary to share everything therefore most of the things you wrote sounds wildly retarded to me. Secondly, I have never asked for your adivce (2nd time Im telling you). Also, I didn't come here to baww about my fucking sister's retarded decision and actions, I came here to share a story. If I wanted to bawww about this shit I would've done it on some smurf account. My father does put his foot down but she is so thick headed it does not work (I already said this too). She does not make an authority figure of me. She used to like 1 year ago but not anymore. And seriously what the fuck would I gain from shouting at each other for 6 fucking hours and getting nowhere? Shes so thickheaded regardless of what happens she would still believe she is on top of everyone. Whats the fucking point would it be if yelling for 6 fucking hours has the same damn results as fucking fake apologizing? Do I want to waste my 6 hours just yelling? Hell no I have other shit to do. Maybe yelling for 6 hours and get respect for life from ur sister would be a pretty good deal ? That's how life always works.
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