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Dazed.
Canada3301 Posts
Not sure what I'm gonna do. I got kicked out of a group before [this group] like a year and a half ago, and found other friends. God damn. Not really asking for advice or anything along those lines, just bitching. Why the hell are people so fickle and untrustworthy? Ugh, I now dread that hour of lunch. I am actually one of those kids who dread the lunch hour. God dammit.    | ||
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ish0wstopper
Korea (South)342 Posts
your friends just kicked you out? cant be something just random though u had to have done something... | ||
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Dazed.
Canada3301 Posts
On December 07 2008 15:12 ish0wstopper wrote: Nope. Just a fickle group. One day they just randomly declare someone who hangs out with us "greasy" [which basically means un-cool] and dodge them. I mean, I admit I have a somewhat abrasive personality, but there really was no reason argument or slight, anything along those lines. wtf... your friends just kicked you out? cant be something just random though u had to have done something... | ||
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Avidkeystamper
United States8552 Posts
That sucks man. | ||
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Caller
Poland8075 Posts
in all seriousness its adolescence and more likely than not your group is transitioning into have sex with girls stage so get rid of anybody that is a threat or not attractive/attracted to girls. or theyre doing weed. | ||
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Ganfei
Taiwan1439 Posts
They aren't friends then...obviously | ||
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clazziquai
6685 Posts
On December 07 2008 15:17 NoobsOfWrath wrote: What the fuck They aren't friends then...obviously This is exactly what I was thinking. They aren't your true friends imo...true friends would never do this to any other friend.. | ||
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fight_or_flight
United States3988 Posts
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stanley_
United States816 Posts
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ilovezil
United States4143 Posts
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ilj.psa
Peru3081 Posts
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SpiritoftheTunA
United States20903 Posts
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Seraphim
United States4467 Posts
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Guss
Sweden712 Posts
On a more serious note being shut out from a group sucks even if they are jerks cause uve hung out with them for a long time. Try to find other people to hang with and in the meantime i guess try to stay strong and dont let them "get to you". If your not socially handicapped youll find new friends in no time  GL | ||
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shavingcream66
United States1219 Posts
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shavingcream66
United States1219 Posts
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IzzyCraft
United States4487 Posts
On December 07 2008 15:31 Seraphim wrote: Yeah. They're not your friends. Period. Took me a long time to find my long term friends ie 2nd grade haha. know them up still nou and vid game party when we are all toghter. | ||
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Divinek
Canada4045 Posts
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SpiritoftheTunA
United States20903 Posts
On December 07 2008 16:04 Divinek wrote: Well if you've been kicked out of two groups of friends then there has to be something wrong with you. ![[image loading]](http://images.despair.com/products/demotivators/dysfunction.jpg) | ||
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BanZu
United States3329 Posts
On December 07 2008 16:04 Divinek wrote: Well if you've been kicked out of two groups of friends then there has to be something wrong with you. It's the same group, learn to read nub. The idea of being kicked out of a group is absurd; never seen anything like that happen (maybe in elementary school or kindergarten lmao). Guess the best thing you can do is just forget about them as well. | ||
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Energies
Australia3225 Posts
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Fontong
United States6454 Posts
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Jizz
Australia224 Posts
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Not_Computer
Canada2277 Posts
There are always better people around than that, just need to find them. Good friends you can count on one hand are far better than a hundred "acquaintances" that would be willing to back stab you if it ever deemed profitable. | ||
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{CC}StealthBlue
United States41117 Posts
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MrHoon
10183 Posts
2) Get to good university, work your ass off 3) Get a 200k job. 4) Meet them 11 years later at highschool reunion 5) Laugh at their welfare checks and 11 children. You're young and it isnt the end of the world, suck it up | ||
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SpiritoftheTunA
United States20903 Posts
On December 07 2008 17:04 MrHoon wrote: 1) Get really good grades 2) Get to good university, work your ass off 3) Get a 200k job. 4) Meet them 11 years later at highschool reunion 5) Laugh at their welfare checks and 11 children. You're young and it isnt the end of the world, suck it up 6) kill them | ||
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Dazed.
Canada3301 Posts
On December 07 2008 17:04 MrHoon wrote: 1) Get really good grades 2) Get to good university, work your ass off 3) Get a 200k job. 4) Meet them 11 years later at highschool reunion 5) Laugh at their welfare checks and 11 children. You're young and it isnt the end of the world, suck it up Lol. | ||
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inlagdsil
Canada957 Posts
Also, how does this group work? Are there a few people who basically talk for the group and are the most forceful members? That's lots of questions, but I just want to get a better idea of the situation before saying anything. Do some people in the group, when not with everyone else, still feel compelled to ignore you? If not, then maybe getting closer to them will slowly ease you back into the whole group. People do weird things in highschool. It can be hell for many people, with strange social pressures and expectations. Things get a lot better after highschool, people no longer watch and judge everything you do, social interactions are more relaxed. No matter what happens this year, it probably won't matter in the near future. | ||
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Dazed.
Canada3301 Posts
On December 07 2008 17:09 inlagdsil wrote: Fairly often. If they don't kick them out, there's often one person who they bitch about. Do they often "kick out" people? On December 07 2008 17:09 inlagdsil wrote: If so, what happens over time, are they let back in? Usually the person either realizes their fags and leave, talking to them semi occasionally, but sticking with their new group of friends, or come back months later and the cycle repeats.On December 07 2008 17:09 inlagdsil wrote:Also, how does this group work? Are there a few people who basically talk for the group and are the most forceful members? I would say there are two people generally domineer the group, but not through force of their personality. Basically these two people are just good friends with everyone inside the group, and therefore can control what goes on and exclude people.On December 07 2008 17:09 inlagdsil wrote:That's lots of questions, but I just want to get a better idea of the situation before saying anything. Thats the thing that pisses me off *a lot*. When alone, every member of the group will talk to me, we will laugh, blah blah. They are nice, and act normal. When were in a group, they fuck off and ditch me. Excluding one kid I haven't really ever talked to, so I presume he just dislikes me and convinced the others to go a long with it. But fuck them in general, im not going to ease my self back into a group for the second time, only to be dicked around with again...Do some people in the group, when not with everyone else, still feel compelled to ignore you? If not, then maybe getting closer to them will slowly ease you back into the whole group. On December 07 2008 17:09 inlagdsil wrote: Yeah I know. I try to be a bit detached when shit things happen, or else I would be a lot more stressed out in life. I just don't know what im really going to do for the next few months in regards with friends. People do weird things in highschool. It can be hell for many people, with strange social pressures and expectations. Things get a lot better after highschool, people no longer watch and judge everything you do, social interactions are more relaxed. No matter what happens this year, it probably won't matter in the near future. | ||
LosingID8
CA10828 Posts
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Empyrean
16986 Posts
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koreakool
United States334 Posts
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h3L
Bulgaria33 Posts
Good Luck mate. And sorry for the emotional outburst but similar situations bring back memories | ||
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b3tty
Canada216 Posts
and if there really isn't, then these people aren't even worth being friends with that random booting out of a circle of friends shit is wrong. ditch them and don't go back | ||
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Frits
11782 Posts
On December 07 2008 18:51 b3tty wrote: there's always a reason behind shit like this : I and if there really isn't, then these people aren't even worth being friends with that random booting out of a circle of friends shit is wrong. ditch them and don't go back GEEZ MOM, thanks for the peptalk | ||
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Vivi57
United States6599 Posts
It's really amazing what being away from people for 6 months can do. | ||
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CharlieMurphy
United States22895 Posts
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Nytefish
United Kingdom4282 Posts
But then I remembered when I was in school, there were so many retarded social groups and arbitrary classifications of people. At that age there is a huge amount of peer pressure and if your old friends turn out to be morons then there's not much you can do. | ||
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JMave
Singapore1803 Posts
On December 07 2008 15:26 ilovezil wrote: Well, I think a lot of it has to do with just finding the right people to hang out with in the first place. It's also not about how many friends you have, but what kind of people they are, as cliche as that sounds. Yes this. I've farted, burped and snorted many times in front of my friends(including girls) and they still are really close to me and I meet up with them regularly. So yeah find some good pals. They are for life. As for those people, they're just superficial friends where you can never talk about in depth stuff like things that you hold in your heart like how you find stuff about yourself and family that you feel needs change. PS: Its also funny how you just fart sometimes and its as though nothing happened. | ||
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evanthebouncy!
United States12796 Posts
![[image loading]](http://www.megatonnews.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/10/toboxx360scrntf2spy.jpg) be happy they didn't send pyro after you. But hmm on a serious note you need to make "true" friends. Not people you hang out, but people you can trust and confess to? | ||
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evanthebouncy!
United States12796 Posts
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vnlegend
United States1389 Posts
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Frits
11782 Posts
On December 07 2008 19:57 CharlieMurphy wrote: how bout you stop being a pussy and kick their ass. trust me, if he could beat them up they wouldnt have stopped hanging out with him in the first place | ||
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Fzero
United States1503 Posts
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Mooga
United States575 Posts
Be glad that they kicked you out and find some real friends. | ||
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arb
Noobville17921 Posts
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Salv
Canada3083 Posts
On December 08 2008 02:40 Mooga wrote: It sounds like your "group" is just a huge ego competition -_- Be glad that they kicked you out and find some real friends. Agree | ||
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Divinek
Canada4045 Posts
On December 07 2008 16:08 BanZu wrote: It's the same group, learn to read nub. The idea of being kicked out of a group is absurd; never seen anything like that happen (maybe in elementary school or kindergarten lmao). Guess the best thing you can do is just forget about them as well. Oh I read it as a group other than this group. The same concept still applies though. | ||
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anotak
United States1537 Posts
it worked for me | ||
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Frits
11782 Posts
On December 08 2008 05:26 anotak wrote: drop out of high school and go to college it worked for me Isnt doing good in high school a prerequisite for going to college? | ||
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clazziquai
6685 Posts
On December 08 2008 05:56 Frits wrote: Isnt doing good in high school a prerequisite for going to college? LOL, so true. | ||
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