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On September 03 2008 12:28 XCetron wrote:
There are questions one must always consider with things like this.
Can it get worse?
Will I regret if I do/dont do it?
What can I gain from this?
In the long run, is this really that important?
What are other more important things I should be doing?
1. i can go emo for the rest of my college career and always have a sad look on my face.
2. i can gain my mind and soul back
3. yes
4. focusing on school
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Time is an unlimited resource that no one has infinite amount of, seems like you should be worrying about other stuff and let this settles itself.
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On September 03 2008 12:33 sqwert wrote:Show nested quote +On September 03 2008 12:28 XCetron wrote:
There are questions one must always consider with things like this.
Can it get worse?
Will I regret if I do/dont do it?
What can I gain from this?
In the long run, is this really that important?
What are other more important things I should be doing?
1. i can go emo for the rest of my college career and always have a sad look on my face. 2. i can gain my mind and soul back 3. yes 4. focusing on school
Then best thing I would say is end it. You have better things to do.
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On September 03 2008 12:35 XCetron wrote:
Time is an unlimited resource that no one has infinite amount of, seems like you should be worrying about other stuff and let this settles itself.
Time isnt an unlimited resource @_@
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.. and if he's gonna talk to her about it (i dunno, i just got this vibe that you DIDNT want him to talk to her, just to break it off) then that's cool.
Ah, understood  Just disappearing from a friendship that long is silly, but I'd say (not in this case) there are situations when you're just making a mess if you confess all your feelings to someone you were never that close to. So we're on the same page: It's not so great to spill all your feelings on some girl, since all you accomplish is maybe making them feel guilty or sorry for you, when they're committed to someone else. It's worse to just leave a friend you've been close to without having a talk.
I mean really, would you actually prefer guys telling you all the time while you're in a relationship that they really like you, and can't just be friends? Or just the friends you know well (which is the way I think it is)?
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On September 03 2008 12:36 8Pylon wrote:Show nested quote +On September 03 2008 12:35 XCetron wrote:
Time is an unlimited resource that no one has infinite amount of, seems like you should be worrying about other stuff and let this settles itself. Time isnt an unlimited resource @_@
How is it not?
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On September 03 2008 12:37 XCetron wrote:Show nested quote +On September 03 2008 12:36 8Pylon wrote:On September 03 2008 12:35 XCetron wrote:
Time is an unlimited resource that no one has infinite amount of, seems like you should be worrying about other stuff and let this settles itself. Time isnt an unlimited resource @_@ How is it not?
you fuckin serious? think kid think e.e
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anywho please update us about your decision 
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On September 03 2008 12:38 8Pylon wrote:Show nested quote +On September 03 2008 12:37 XCetron wrote:On September 03 2008 12:36 8Pylon wrote:On September 03 2008 12:35 XCetron wrote:
Time is an unlimited resource that no one has infinite amount of, seems like you should be worrying about other stuff and let this settles itself. Time isnt an unlimited resource @_@ How is it not? you fuckin serious? think kid think e.e
time has been around since....beginning of time, unless theres an end to everything, everywhere, time should continue to exist, no?
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On September 03 2008 12:40 XCetron wrote:Show nested quote +On September 03 2008 12:38 8Pylon wrote:On September 03 2008 12:37 XCetron wrote:On September 03 2008 12:36 8Pylon wrote:On September 03 2008 12:35 XCetron wrote:
Time is an unlimited resource that no one has infinite amount of, seems like you should be worrying about other stuff and let this settles itself. Time isnt an unlimited resource @_@ How is it not? you fuckin serious? think kid think e.e time has been around since....beginning of time, unless theres an end to everything, everywhere, time should continue to exist, no?
i think he means the time WE have available. we have about 100 years to do everything we can before we can't anymore. hence we only have a finite amount of time.
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You have to think if you ever really wanted to be her friend. Did you hope that one day you would gain enough courage to tell her you have a crush on her? Did you hope that maybe she would have a crush on you?
Unless you value her friendship a lot, and think you can get past your feelings for her, you simply need to tell her the truth. There's a good chance you two can still be friends regardless, but this will irk you until you find someone else if you don't say something, or can't get over your feelings for her. If you do decide to tell her the truth, you have to be ready to lose her as a friend. I'm not saying it will happen or anything, but you have to be ready for it.
That said, be ready for a number of outcomes that may occur if you choose to tell her the truth, which I personally believe you should, but do what you wanna do. I hope for the best.
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On September 03 2008 12:42 sqwert wrote:Show nested quote +On September 03 2008 12:40 XCetron wrote:On September 03 2008 12:38 8Pylon wrote:On September 03 2008 12:37 XCetron wrote:On September 03 2008 12:36 8Pylon wrote:On September 03 2008 12:35 XCetron wrote:
Time is an unlimited resource that no one has infinite amount of, seems like you should be worrying about other stuff and let this settles itself. Time isnt an unlimited resource @_@ How is it not? you fuckin serious? think kid think e.e time has been around since....beginning of time, unless theres an end to everything, everywhere, time should continue to exist, no? i think he means the time WE have available. we have about 100 years to do everything we can before we can't anymore. hence we only have a finite amount of time.
but I posted
On September 03 2008 12:35 XCetron wrote:
Time is an unlimited resource that no one has infinite amount of, seems like you should be worrying about other stuff and let this settles itself.
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On September 03 2008 12:39 8Pylon wrote:anywho please update us about your decision
i dno.......... u guys r saying tell her str8 up, some are saying it'll be wussy to end the friendship. either way im crying myself to sleep
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ahh im back sorry XCerton it seems I read your post to fast hahaha MY BAD! O_O but yeah anywho
Just do it @_@
meh..well think about it then do something im off for tonight
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Hey seriuosly sqwert, grow up,don't cry to your sorry self to sleep. Call her right now and tell her how pissed you are about her being with aother guy
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On September 03 2008 12:53 il0seonpurpose wrote:
Hey seriuosly sqwert, grow up,don't cry to your sorry self to sleep. Call her right now and tell her how pissed you are about her being with aother guy
i wana tell her face to face
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If I can give you one more piece of advice... Don't have your mind made up before you even talk to her  You've been friends long enough that she'll probably have something to say, and you'll want to make your decision based on that without being distracted by the temptation of "sticking to your guns."
Personally, I think you'll be fine and that your emotions might be a bit fickle... I can't say that for sure, but you'll definitely get thru it so don't feel too bad :o
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On September 03 2008 12:56 PsycHOTemplar wrote:If I can give you one more piece of advice... Don't have your mind made up before you even talk to her You've been friends long enough that she'll probably have something to say, and you'll want to make your decision based on that without being distracted by the temptation of "sticking to your guns." Personally, I think you'll be fine and that your emotions might be a bit fickle... I can't say that for sure, but you'll definitely get thru it so don't feel too bad :o
/agree
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thx for the advice i really appreciate it, especially from the girl(s). im prolly not going to jump off my roof tonight.
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we have more than 1 girl posting in this thread?
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