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so my friend, who i had a crush on since 8th grade, told me she got with her best friend. this made me really .............. i dno how to describe it. i was confused, angry, sad, and lonely. i literally wanted to kill myself. im gonna see her on wednesday again, probably for the last time because i want to get over her by ending our friendship. i was in a similar situation 5 yrs back involving her but i didn't have the courage to talk to her about it, but now i do. i think i had hella chances to get with her after she broke up with her ex, but i was infatuated with another girl.
so tomoro i'm going to ask her if she rly likes the guy, then tell her i still like her, then if she says ye to the first question, i'll end our friendship. but even if i did end our friendship, i would still like her for a long time, and there's the chance that i might regret this. that's the first option.
the second one is to ask her what i should do: move on or wait. i've waited before when she was still with her first bf, but now i don't know if i can wait. it really hurts me to see her with another guy, but i know i had a chance and i didn't take it.
so wat should i do tl? first or second option?
im thinking of going with the second option but anyone with a suggestion can come forth.
ima go listen to sad emo songs now and mope around the house with my head down and looking for a knife to cut my wrist with. =[
 
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Dude you are being a pussy for not being friends with her. Girls are human too, wtf. You are gay for doig something like that.
But I sorta have a similar thing going on, will explain later.
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this is the story of about how my life got twisted upside down and id like to take a moment just sit right there ill telll you how i became the prince of the town called bel air.
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pansy
im in love with a chick with a bf
so im just taking what i can get, seeing her every day, enjoying being with her, hitting on her non stop(she flirts back).
we've layed in each others bed spooning, i've asked her to let me take her out she said no
i watched her walk back to her apartment drunk with her boyfriend. i got SO Fucking jealous i started drinking myself stupid. ironically the immense jealousy kept me sober regardless.
But i still see her, and still every day. If it becomes apparent that she will never leave her boyfriend, im going to end our friendship as well(I'm going to give myself a semester. If it still isn't happening, its over.). It sucks, it hurts, gotta get over it.
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how old are you? truth always works. talk to her. geez, what is up with you boys who can freakin TALK to the girl they are infatuated with? just tell her what you just told us - that it kills you to see her with someone else because i'm assuming she knows that you like her (that's what i gathered) and THEN make your decision.
ugh. boys.
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I think you should go with the option "what grade are you in now?", followed by the song that goes, "You should take English Lit like me, and get raped the shit out of you"
On September 03 2008 11:14 il0seonpurpose wrote:
Dude you are being a pussy for not being friends with her. Girls are human too, wtf. You are gay for doig something like that.
But I sorta have a similar thing going on, will explain later.
I wonder if prehistoric men were friends with their sex slaves?
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but now i do. i think i had hella chances to get with her after she broke up with her ex, but i was infatuated with another girl.
I think not.
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On September 03 2008 11:22 lilsusie wrote:
how old are you? truth always works. talk to her. geez, what is up with you boys who can freakin TALK to the girl they are infatuated with? just tell her what you just told us - that it kills you to see her with someone else because i'm assuming she knows that you like her (that's what i gathered) and THEN make your decision.
ugh. boys.
ugh girls
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Well, you said you go SJSU from the other thread, so I'll take it you are at least 18. So really...not talking to someone/ending a friendship like this is a pretty immature choice IMO.
....plus SJSU's got a bunch of pretty girls (at least that's what all my friends say), so don't worry about it.
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Seriously,dont end your friendship cause shes with another girl. Dont be a dick.
But seriously,threesome. ask her and her friend to come over,get them drunk fuck em both,then tell her you dont like her! From what you describeits win/win
but seriously,dont end your friendship cause shes with another girl. Dont be a dick.
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wait, I'm a bit confused here, where did it say that the girl the OP is interested in is with another girl?
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On September 03 2008 11:29 arb wrote:
Seriously,dont end your friendship cause shes with another girl. Dont be a dick.
But seriously,threesome. ask her and her friend to come over,get them drunk fuck em both,then tell her you dont like her! From what you describeits win/win
but seriously,dont end your friendship cause shes with another girl. Dont be a dick.
i think the best friend is a guy...
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No I think its a girl. Lesbian?
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why does everyone think she's a lesbian? he clearly states it's a guy
ps, all these people who are telling you not to end your friendship are stupid. none of them have any idea what it's like. end the friendship and move on, you'll be better off in the end without it constantly hanging over your head. don't listen to these faggots telling you to think about her feelings before your own, you always have to put #1 first, especially at your age.
PS Gene, what did uncle yubee tell you? girls are all the same. like you said, it sucks, it hurts, gotta swallow your pride and get over it.
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On September 03 2008 03:49 Hawk wrote:
Lot's of entries are fine, so long as they're entertaining/infromative/etc.
When idiots post lot's of stupid shit (off the top of my head, the 324234 hot women blogs, siegetanksandbluegoo's shit, a daily blog about you fucking your stupid 8th grade girlfriend) that's when it gets annoying.
lol
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end the frienship ASAP! move on and avoid future pain.
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On September 03 2008 11:34 yubee wrote:
why does everyone think she's a lesbian? he clearly states it's a guy
ps, all these people who are telling you not to end your friendship are stupid. none of them have any idea what it's like. end the friendship and move on, you'll be better off in the end without it constantly hanging over your head. don't listen to these faggots telling you to think about her feelings before your own, you always have to put #1 first, especially at your age.
PS Gene, what did uncle yubee tell you? girls are all the same. like you said, it sucks, it hurts, gotta swallow your pride and get over it.
yubee, i dont understand. do you think it's better to just end the friendship while the girl has no idea what's going on? or should he at least tell her how he's feeling and if she's a bitch about it, THEN break off the friendship? i could understand if you think that he should do the latter, however, guys who just kinda stop talking to me (then years down the line i find out that they, in fact, liked me or whatnot) really bothered me because i was completely in the dark about the situation. i honestly think he should confront her and tell her how he feels if it's someone he really cares for. if after he's gotten it off his chest and she gives some flakey answer, then it would be alright for him to break it all off.
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