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It's amazing what people manage to do by simply bitching just bitching and some how pin it on you. I had a good day, classes went smooth, I exchanged numbers with a cute girl, and had a good tasting hamburger for lunch.
But nevertheless I somehow manage to get hit by the roaming bitch train that is my family. I guess my first mistake was cashing in change which came to the amount of a whopping eight bucks which I then put into my gas tank for tomorrow.
I got bitched at for not working, cause apparently I was showing laziness when I was seen sitting on the couch watching the news, my fucking bad. I get crap from work in which they ask me why I haven't responded to their pages. Which in fact I have had they checked their inbox, or even voicemail they would realize that.
But the worst came from my mother, who brought up my grandfather who I was very close to. I was unable to return the GPS I had used in order to find my way to a job interview and also unable to pay her 50 bucks I owe which is a monthly pay off, reason being they helped me last semester. She pretty much accused me of thinking I could get away with not paying since he had died. That hurt, and resulted in me walking into my room and punching a hole in my wall.
Then I got a reminded that if I quit Methodist they won't hire me back. Like I could give a fuck. But they also added that there was also a possibility that if I am hired at UPS I could fail. Then what was I going to do, I thought I would probably go work at the bowling alley till I found another job.
I really hope I get that job.
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Damn..... That's all I can say..
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That's some fucked up shit by your mother.
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Family always find the right words to fuck you up when your having a nice day.
edit: I made a hole in my wall too like 1 year ago 
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Maybe cause you're almost 23 and living at home? And punching holes in your parent's walls? I don't know. You just need to calm down and stop sweating what people say when they're frustrated.
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damn that sucks to have family that doesnt support you. I hope for your sake you arent to many years away from moving out.
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On August 29 2008 08:26 PsycHOTemplar wrote:
Maybe cause you're almost 23 and living at home? And punching holes in your parent's walls? I don't know. You just need to calm down and stop sweating what people say when they're frustrated.
u shouldnt post here if ur gonna bitch at him too.. even if ur right.. come on the guy isn't looking for more bitching...
I could of told him the same thing.. cuz Im 20 with a nice job, decent income, my own place etc... (of course i got my other bigger issues) but the matterfact is... that you always say negative things about everybody.. the day they ban u I ll throw a party
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Are you a full time student? How many classes are you taking?
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I feel you man. Except it's not my family, but my city that's a bitch. I live in NYC and go to school in downtown manhattan, and I get shit like this every day. I've learned to ignore the dickheads, but no matter how hard I try, they end up either pissing me off or ruining my mood completely for the rest of the day. I hate NYC
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Do not let it bother you, people say hurtful things because they hurt.
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My sister can be the same way. Usually we are fine together, but if she feels like it she can ruin my entire day in the course of one sentence. Now that I go to school 120 miles away though it happens much less frequently. To jinw(lots of o's), if they don't know you/matter to you, you shouldn't let it get to you. GL and have a good day tomorrow.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
punching holes in walls is fking great and feels good
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On August 29 2008 08:38 fusionsdf wrote:
Are you a full time student? How many classes are you taking?
Yes. Five classes.
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Calgary25997 Posts
All I can say from my perspective is when people have said things to me I can spin it to make them sound bitchy even if they're right. Like when I was "trying me best to get a job" and was getting yelled at, I mean yes I was trying, but I certainly could (and should) have been doing better. So maybe take a second and see if their words have any weight.
Because you seem to have a long string of explanations for everything that you did wrong.
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Stuff like this happened to me too but for different reason last year.
I made a hole in a door  . i kneed it. I wanted badly to punch my mother but well i know that i cant do that so i chose to punish the door.
End: I had to buy some spackling and paint the fucking door again and i moved because i cant stand to live with my parents. I think you should do the same and i hope you will get your job.
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Now your bedroom has a hole in the wall.
You should've done that to your parents' room.
Don't let it get to you. You know you're doing the best you can so just be confident and stick to ur guns.
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I covered the hole with a Guild Wars poster.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
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On August 29 2008 10:03 {CC}StealthBlue wrote:
I covered the hole with a Guild Wars poster.
LMAO!
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I once punched a hole in the wall after losing a game in starcraft...
But man, I never would of thought of covering it up hahahaha
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punching a hole in the wall can be a good experience when your angry. It releaves some anger, takes attention off of your anger and on to your throbbing hand, and gives your a since of strength and empowerment. But not to soon after that you see that you made a hole in your wall and wonder "How the heck am i going to fix this...."
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