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How do you approach a girl?

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nimysa
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States383 Posts
July 12 2008 00:33 GMT
#1
Yes, I lack proper charisma but I need help with this. What is you're method of approaching girls, like for instance if you saw an attractive girl in the library or some other place, how would you approach her to ask her out or pursue something more enticing? What are some helpful advice and tips?

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Wizard
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
Poland5055 Posts
July 12 2008 00:38 GMT
#2
do you have any idea how many threads there have been like this? Use search. or [brilliant idea here] don't ask an internet forum.

I have no idea why people always ask these questions. You go up to the girl and you ask her out. It's that simple. don't try to act cool, don't try to rub off your charisma [if you have it]...be the person you are every day to your friends, family, etc. If she says no, no loss, there's another couple billion women out in the world; if she says yes, good for you.
sAviOr[gm] ~ want to watch good replays? read my blog: http://www.teamliquid.net/blog/wizard
mikeymoo
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
Canada7170 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-07-12 00:41:16
July 12 2008 00:39 GMT
#3
*tap tap*
optional steps-
"Hey, I think I've seen you somewhere before, I'm [NAME]."
*she looks confused*
"No? Hm? Are you sure you've never [ACTIVITY] before?"
"No? Maybe I saw you at [LOCATION]?"
"What book are you reading? That looks interesting, what is it about?"
"Sorry, what's your name again?"
-end of optional steps
*ask her out*

Or you could go get some chloroform.

EDIT: Optional areas.

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Wizard
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
Poland5055 Posts
July 12 2008 00:41 GMT
#4
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sAviOr[gm] ~ want to watch good replays? read my blog: http://www.teamliquid.net/blog/wizard
paper
Profile Blog Joined September 2004
13196 Posts
July 12 2008 00:49 GMT
#5
On July 12 2008 09:39 mikeymoo wrote:
*tap tap*
optional steps-
"Hey, I think I've seen you somewhere before, I'm [NAME]."
*she looks confused*
"No? Hm? Are you sure you've never [ACTIVITY] before?"
"No? Maybe I saw you at [LOCATION]?"
"What book are you reading? That looks interesting, what is it about?"
"Sorry, what's your name again?"
-end of optional steps
*ask her out*


that's just creepy
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GoShox
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
United States1842 Posts
July 12 2008 00:50 GMT
#6
Use a Starcraft pick-up line, I'm pretty sure it works every time.
boesthius
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States11637 Posts
July 12 2008 00:51 GMT
#7
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conCentrate9
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
United States438 Posts
July 12 2008 01:14 GMT
#8
"Let's see if you can dodge my lurker spine!"
mikeymoo
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
Canada7170 Posts
July 12 2008 01:19 GMT
#9
On July 12 2008 09:49 paper wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 12 2008 09:39 mikeymoo wrote:
*tap tap*
optional steps-
"Hey, I think I've seen you somewhere before, I'm [NAME]."
*she looks confused*
"No? Hm? Are you sure you've never [ACTIVITY] before?"
"No? Maybe I saw you at [LOCATION]?"
"What book are you reading? That looks interesting, what is it about?"
"Sorry, what's your name again?"
-end of optional steps
*ask her out*


that's just creepy


Not if it's done in the right tone. Not for everyone obviously.
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Night[Mare
Profile Blog Joined December 2004
Mexico4793 Posts
July 12 2008 01:21 GMT
#10
i'd recommend reading some of david deangelos advice. Pretty good, it has worked for me, although i had to wait a bit to completly assimilate.

the basic idea is to act "cocky and funny". Coockiness will make the woman attracted to you, while the funniness will stop woman from seeing you as an arrogant jerk. You might not understand how this works, as it's not logical. If you want more insight to this then read what i posted a bit in the beggining. =)
Teamliquidian townie
Showtime!
Profile Joined November 2007
Canada2938 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-07-12 01:37:17
July 12 2008 01:32 GMT
#11
5 second rule: if no one claims her, she's yours.

There are many ways of going about it.

In fact, the 3-5 second rule works well if you're trying to break the ice with a stranger. Works like this. You make eye contact, raise 3 or 5 fingers, start the countdown and she'll be like "wtf is he doing?!?!", approach her once all your fingers are down and say something witty and funny, such as: "someone's a little shy. I noticed you were looking at me and there's no point yelling across the room, so I thought I would introduce myself. I'm ____."

Keep it simple. Cockiness only works to a certain extent. You don't want to come off as arrogant, but you do want to 'own' the room, or place to a certain extent because women like men who are confident.

There are 8 simple 'roles' you can play it. Note: choose wisely because not all girls like the same roles.



Anyway, there are lots of tools to help you out. D'Angelo's kit is okay for starters.
Mini skirt season is right around the corner. ☻
Wizard
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
Poland5055 Posts
July 12 2008 01:32 GMT
#12
On July 12 2008 10:14 conCentrate9 wrote:
"Let's see if you can dodge my lurker spine!"

rofl
sAviOr[gm] ~ want to watch good replays? read my blog: http://www.teamliquid.net/blog/wizard
thoraxe
Profile Blog Joined March 2007
United States1449 Posts
July 12 2008 01:33 GMT
#13
Or use pheromones that turns girls crazy like in that movie Oceans 13, although it may also cause ALL of the girls in the library to drool all over you.
Obama singing "Kick Ass" Song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yghFBt-fXmw&feature=player_embedde
ShaLLoW[baY]
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
Canada12499 Posts
July 12 2008 01:36 GMT
#14
On July 12 2008 10:33 thoraxe wrote:
Or use pheromones that turns girls crazy like in that movie Oceans 13, although it may also cause ALL of the girls in the library to drool all over you.


I'm sure that would be an acceptable side-effect.
ALEXISONFIRE ARE FUCKING BACK (sAviOr for life)
Ancestral
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States3230 Posts
July 12 2008 01:43 GMT
#15
I've asked several random girls out and been rejected, it helps a lot with confidence (in that you realize that failure isn't actually all that bad, you just move on).

My problem is all the girls I'm legitimately attracted to are already close friends .
The Nature and purpose of the martial way are universal; all selfish desires must be roasted in the tempering fires of hard training. - Masutatsu Oyama
ShaLLoW[baY]
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
Canada12499 Posts
July 12 2008 01:51 GMT
#16
On July 12 2008 10:43 Ancestral wrote:
My problem is all the girls I'm legitimately attracted to are already close friends .


Quoted for sad-but-truth
ALEXISONFIRE ARE FUCKING BACK (sAviOr for life)
ZhenMiChan
Profile Blog Joined November 2007
Netherlands1181 Posts
July 12 2008 01:56 GMT
#17
hai
Studying Chinese~
useLess
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
United States4781 Posts
July 12 2008 02:01 GMT
#18
the only correct answer to this question is "drunk"
Moonlight Shadow
Mastermind
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Canada7096 Posts
July 12 2008 02:15 GMT
#19
On July 12 2008 11:01 useLess wrote:
the only correct answer to this question is "drunk"

ya, that usually works.
Chef
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
10810 Posts
July 12 2008 02:23 GMT
#20
"Baby, let's go some place far away. Don't worry, I pack light, everything we need is right here in my pants *feels groin*"
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