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{CC}StealthBlue
Profile Blog Joined January 2003
United States41117 Posts
June 16 2008 21:30 GMT
#1
Would it be a good move if I asked her out when she is at work, yea or nay. Granted this is the only time I see her, but still I have doubts when it comes down to the timing...

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"Smokey, this is not 'Nam, this is bowling. There are rules."
Niji-z
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
United States208 Posts
June 16 2008 21:34 GMT
#2
Since you only see her at work, I would suggest doing it during her break, or before/after work, so as not to distract her from what she's doing or make her feel rushed to answer.
Rawr.
rA.Hippie
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
Denmark714 Posts
June 16 2008 21:46 GMT
#3
^ What he said, but it can be kinda hard to time that well. Why don't you just ask her if she has 2 minutes to talk, if she hasn't you'll wait, if she has then.. YOU GO BOY. :D
I love teh shisha.
BigSausage
Profile Joined July 2007
Canada194 Posts
June 16 2008 21:53 GMT
#4
pics
Salv
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
Canada3083 Posts
June 16 2008 21:55 GMT
#5
A guy named BigSausage asking for pics.

Hahahaha

I would agree with Niji, don't ask her DURING the actual job. If you two sometimes get off work at the same time, that would be a good time to ask how she would like to go out sometime.
YPang
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States4024 Posts
June 16 2008 22:11 GMT
#6
Yes ask her out at work, but don't literally ask by saying "Hey wanna go to the mall tomorrow with me?" It makes it look like you're asking her for approval, you always want the girl to chase you not the other way around, if she starts acting cocky, you need to bust her about it, and make it look like she's trying to pick you up. This way of asking is also very direct and she knows where your coming into, sometimes girls play hard to get if she knows you're taking her out.

Instead i suggest you ask her like this, "I'm going to the mall tomorrow, you should come". By saying it this way, it at least makes it look like that you have a life, and not desperate or needy for her, and you'll go to the mall with or without her, giving her the message that you're independent. Plus its easier for you to ask it this way, and easier for her to answer as well. She can easily say "no i'm busy" without feeling like she rejected you, and you're not really asking her to go out with you, but if she wanted to she can.
sMi.Gladstone | BW: B high| SC2: gold T_T
Hittegods
Profile Joined April 2007
Stockholm4641 Posts
June 16 2008 22:12 GMT
#7
Jesus Christ, another PU-artist goes to work on TL.
This neo violence, pure self defiance
Kennelie
Profile Joined December 2007
United States2296 Posts
June 16 2008 22:33 GMT
#8
WTF Yang since when have you become pimp? Shit on b.net all you talk about is girl troubles and here you are giving tips LMFAO!!

Well what yang said is pretty str8...But also it can backfire on you and she can be like "Really you have nobody else to go to the mall with? What a loser life you have!"

Just be straightforward about it, I mean shit if you have the girls attention enough during work I am more then likely sure you can take her out...Do you have the girls number yet? If not I am sure you can get it as soon as you ask for the date...

MEH imo I don't talk to co-workers just for the fact if it doesnt work out it can be awkward times around the work area...There's this 30 year old chick (im 22) around my office that was chasing me for like the first couple of months she started....I then just gave in and asked for her number and then totally blew her off by not calling her in a timely manner...I made it seem like if my life was too busy to involve her...She then gave me a cold shouldered for about 2 weeks and now I believe she regrets it...She tries so hard to spark up a conversation with me, but now I give her the cold shoulder...Too many bitches in the sea to be dating one at the workplace is what im trying to get at...

Good luck...
ya had ya shot kid!
{CC}StealthBlue
Profile Blog Joined January 2003
United States41117 Posts
June 16 2008 22:35 GMT
#9
She is not a coworker.
"Smokey, this is not 'Nam, this is bowling. There are rules."
Binky1842
Profile Blog Joined July 2004
United States2599 Posts
June 16 2008 22:49 GMT
#10
i wouldnt ask while at work either. just ask for her number and call her when shes off work and go grab lunch or something.
"The zoo could not confirm that Binky was the attacker, but only Binky had blood on his face following the incident"
anch
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
United States5457 Posts
June 16 2008 23:02 GMT
#11
On June 17 2008 06:30 {CC}StealthBlue wrote:
Would it be a good move if I asked her out when she is at work, yea or nay. Granted this is the only time I see her, but still I have doubts when it comes down to the timing...

oh reading the co-working posts threw me off also.

So.. this is like you a (client/customer) visiting her (maybe a storekeeper, agent, etc)
completely not co-worker.

good luck.
mikeymoo
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
Canada7170 Posts
June 16 2008 23:31 GMT
#12
On June 17 2008 06:46 rA.Hippie wrote:
^ What he said, but it can be kinda hard to time that well. Why don't you just ask her if she has 2 minutes to talk, if she hasn't you'll wait, if she has then.. YOU GO BOY. :D


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Profile Blog Joined January 2008
United States898 Posts
June 16 2008 23:47 GMT
#13
I agree with yangpans advice... you gotta make it seem like you're doing HER a favor by asking her to go with you.
Niji-z
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
United States208 Posts
June 17 2008 02:53 GMT
#14
On June 17 2008 07:35 {CC}StealthBlue wrote:
She is not a coworker.
lol thanks for telling us sooner. D:
Rawr.
Freaky[x]
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
Canada995 Posts
June 17 2008 03:25 GMT
#15
what is she then? somebody you're stalking that's working at a fast-food place or a waitress?

either way, we need to know, we might find you better solutions
davidgurt
Profile Joined September 2006
United States1355 Posts
June 17 2008 04:32 GMT
#16
On June 17 2008 07:35 {CC}StealthBlue wrote:
She is not a coworker.


Is she your boss?
There's crashing?
{CC}StealthBlue
Profile Blog Joined January 2003
United States41117 Posts
June 17 2008 04:47 GMT
#17
She is a waitress where I regularly eat lunch with friends and we have pretty good chemistry I think and for the past few weeks I have been pondering about asking her out.

And fuck no she is not my boss. See my previous blog post.
"Smokey, this is not 'Nam, this is bowling. There are rules."
evanthebouncy!
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
United States12796 Posts
June 17 2008 05:32 GMT
#18
SHES A WAITRESS?!
"Hey baby wanna eat w/ me? I'm all alone"
*giggles*

Can't be too hard, just wait for her to come out of work all tired w/ a rose or something, and be confident.
Life is run, it is dance, it is fast, passionate and BAM!, you dance and sing and booze while you can for now is the time and time is mine. Smile and laugh when still can for now is the time and soon you die!
evanthebouncy!
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
United States12796 Posts
June 17 2008 05:33 GMT
#19
Seriously ask her out to a dinner and get served by somebody else? :p
Life is run, it is dance, it is fast, passionate and BAM!, you dance and sing and booze while you can for now is the time and time is mine. Smile and laugh when still can for now is the time and soon you die!
Luddite
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States2315 Posts
June 17 2008 06:35 GMT
#20
you should do it like he does it in office space. Just be like "hey let's go to a better restaurant, the one across the street."
Can't believe I'm still here playing this same game
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