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So, mom is a pathological perfectionist, admitted authoritarian, and social recluse.
More or less, she's always right, you're (read: me) always wrong, and nothing is ever her fault. She always has a convenient, and occasionally, clever excuse for her behavior.
Tonight, she barges into my room, tells me I need to go downstairs to talk to her, and the tone of her voice indicates to me one of two things: (1) it's urgent, or (2) she's going to yell at me, blame me for things I had no part of. Of course, it's the latter.
She gives me a rather stern lecture on how a recent event this evening involving a family member was my fault, despite the fact that I was neither present for said event, nor had any knowledge of said event. Then she tells me that I either need to start following all of her draconian rules or I have to leave.
I wouldn't normally take this type of behavior seriously, except for that she's recently been making small comments suggesting she wants me out.
Basically, she seems to want me out, and I want to get out, too.
It's good to know a quiet, shy kid who does nothing other than go to class and try to enjoy his life is such a bad son.
 
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Sorry to hear that, how old are you?
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Could you live on campus or split rent with a friend or something? Sounds like it wouldn't be so bad living away from your mom if you could.
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I'm considering both options at the moment.  It won't be bad living away from my mom; it's just more that I always resist change, even when I know it's for the best.
Plus, if I were to rent my own place, that'd mean I'd have to work part time, which is something I was hoping to avoid while attending class.
Oh well; life can't always work the way you want it to.
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Kennigit
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I cant be in my house for more than 15 minutes without fighting with my mom...maybe its a white 20 year old guy thing :S . But yeah, get the fuck out by any means necessary
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Sorry to hear that, Kennigit. Although it's good to know I'm not the only one that doesn't get along with their mother at all. 
Edit: Come to think of it, when I do have the opportunity to leave, I think the hardest part will actually be telling her I'm leaving. I know she's going to give me a really hard time.
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Was about the same for me when I was 20. Not as bad though. We were not really fighting, just didn't get along very well. I moved out and it was the best decision I ever made.
I do get along really with my mother now too.
My advice, move out! 20 is a good age for it.
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your mom sounds exactly like mine, february 10 was my birthday, what do i get? She banned me form PC and didn't talk to me for 2 weeks ... best birthday ever.
I don't drink, dont do drugs, i got into university, i dont go to a lot of party's and etc
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Jeez Rob. I'm 20 and get along with my parents perfectly. You must be a bad son!
<3
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On February 21 2008 14:50 MeriaDoKk wrote:
your mom sounds exactly like mine, february 10 was my birthday, what do i get? She banned me form PC and didn't talk to me for 2 weeks ... best birthday ever.
I don't drink, dont do drugs, i got into university, i dont go to a lot of party's and etc
whoa ... seems like overkill 
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Don't tell her when you're leaving. Just print up a three-feet squate picture of goatse and hang it up in the living room for when she comes home, and let her draw her own conclusions.
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hm, my family isn't like that.
All I can say is good luck.
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I'm 19 and in a dorm at college, and I constantly yearn for the chance to go back and spend time with my family. My mom and I get a long very well, so do my brother and I. Although they're separated, my dad and I do as well.
I guess it's because of all the things we've gone through together.
I don't know your situation, but I hope that spending time apart you can have a better less "intrusive" relationship with one another, and that you find change is good and everything becomes better off.
Good luck!
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Yes soon 21 and still getting yelled by your mom, yes that deserves a blog because it's the worst thing that can happend in anyone's life when their mom kicks them out let's all show sympathy. Wait, let me take a day of my life...no nvm they would put me on Ophra and everyone would cry a reaver but anyway um...time to move on? ._.
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oh noes, its the blog police
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On February 21 2008 18:04 Redemption. wrote:
Yes soon 21 and still getting yelled by your mom, yes that deserves a blog because it's the worst thing that can happend in anyone's life when their mom kicks them out let's all show sympathy. Wait, let me take a day of my life...no nvm they would put me on Ophra and everyone would cry a reaver but anyway um...time to move on? ._.
You're just being a cunt, stop it.
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On February 21 2008 18:22 Energies wrote:Show nested quote +On February 21 2008 18:04 Redemption. wrote:
Yes soon 21 and still getting yelled by your mom, yes that deserves a blog because it's the worst thing that can happend in anyone's life when their mom kicks them out let's all show sympathy. Wait, let me take a day of my life...no nvm they would put me on Ophra and everyone would cry a reaver but anyway um...time to move on? ._. You're just being a cunt, stop it.
MOMMY! He's mean to me MOM get him! rofl...
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