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On February 17 2008 07:16 Jibba wrote:
What kind of hints did she give?
Hinting at stuff like wanting to go to the movies, wanting a valentine for the valentine's day, other little hints. Also, I was talking to her about my past incident with that other girl who liked me(it's in my other blog post... not the one that I liked) and she was talking about how these guys liked her but she didn't like them back and when I told her that the girl liked me because I "stood out" she was like "yeah, well that is true =DD!"
I didn't even know how to respond to any of them >>'
It probably feels like I'm playing hard to get when, in actuality, I'm playing hard to understand and I don't even know it.
T_T!
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United States22883 Posts
God, you are such a girl noob.
I'm afraid of telling you what to do, cause you really need to figure it out on your own so you can repeat it. 
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On February 17 2008 11:04 Jibba wrote:God, you are such a girl noob. I'm afraid of telling you what to do, cause you really need to figure it out on your own so you can repeat it.
Yes, I am a girl noob. I've never had a girlfriend so I don't know what to do when it comes to things like this.
I've got to stop using smileys in my fucking posts... MSN-speak is getting to me.
Fuck, almost had the urge to write a smiley.
ARGH!
[Insert smiley here]
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On February 17 2008 08:01 pyrogenetix wrote:
go for it!
hm i duno i guess as a bf you just need to be supportive and help our out with stuff. =/
I need better advice than this T_T
That alone sounds boring XD
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well first of all dont post pics of her on the internet. just say yes to everything she has to say on monday. its a surefire way of not fucking up.
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Be yourself, dont act like who you arent going to be, its ganna be screwed up in the long run (quoted from another tl.neter? I forgot, well, im still giving credit )
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shes really pretty. if u know she likes u, definately go for her.
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iNcontroL
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I officially hate your blogs
but I like you so I am torn -.-
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United States1655 Posts
If you're sure she's hinting at her interest in you, and you like her too, then go for it. 
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go with the flow.
but god no.
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On February 17 2008 17:05 {88}iNcontroL wrote:
I officially hate your blogs
but I like you so I am torn -.-
Why do you hate them? =[
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*whistle*
Go for it =D
i am a true girl noob, but yea go for it =D
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She looks like such a fuck bunny and she obviously likes you so just be confident and basically act like she’s your woman (don’t hesitate to do what you want to do). That doesn’t mean acting like a dick, be kind to her and show her that you want to please her (without looking like you desperately need her). That’s pretty much it, unless you act like a retard you can’t fuck this up.
Next you just have to worry about absolutely pwning her in the sack. High school boys suck at sex so if you're good you're all set for a long term relationship.
Here, I don't know how good this book is but it's the best I could find with a quick google search: http://static.scribd.com/docs/4b46c9mg72zcr.pdf
It seems to have all the basics. If you work on your pc muscle, peaking and plateauing, and how to have orgasms without ejaculating, you'll be a fuck machine in no time.
Now go forth little one.
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Okay, today is monday.
I woke up thinking "What the hell is the surprise?"
Showered, still thinking "Wtf is she going to do?"
Got in my car, on the way over still thinking. Got butterflies in my stomach along the way. Mom asked me why I was so nervous.
"I'm going to get surprised today" was my answer.
I got there, and, to my surprise, she seemed to have been waiting for me at the band hall(in front of it) cause when I got out of my car she yelled out my name and I was confused at first at who said it. She was hiding something behind her back and when I got up close she pulls out a rose and gave it to me, saying "I wanted to make up for your crappy Valentine's day! ^_^"
I didn't know what to say =[ I kind of like gave a sad face then a happy face then I did a dance then I kind of did a spin and then I bent, and snapped.
Okay, joking aside, I did blush a lot... Kind of turned away, I then turned to look at her and was like "omg.. thank you! If I would have known, I would have brought you something too T_T" and then I hugged her.
After that it was pretty awkward. Everyone had seen what had happened(and I was carrying around a rose on not valentinte's day so it was pretty weird) so everyone was like "WOOOOOooooooooo!!!!!" and asking me where and/or why I got a rose. Was embarrassing XD
What was weird was that we did talk afterwards but it's like she wanted to say something to me but never could. She also would look down and move her foot in a back and forth motion and would change the subject a lot. When she did that I would just poke her and make a "puppy" face(pout?) and she laughs at that a lot.
>_> I went with the flow pretty much. She's probably going to tell me on MSN... where she'll have more "confidence."
I don't know if I should be doing something though... since I've never really had a girlfriend T_T!!!!!
Need halp!!
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United States22883 Posts
WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU.
CALL HER RIGHT NOW. STOP TALKING ON MSN. PICK UP THE GOD DAMN PHONE AND CALL HER AND ASK HER OUT TO DO SOMETHING. MOVIE. FUCKING IN THE BACK SEAT. SETTING SENIOR CITIZENS ON FIRE. WHATEVER GETS YOU OFF, BUT DO IT RIGHT NOW NOW NOW
She'll be extra surprised and probably happy if you make an up front move like that, and if need be tell her you're new at being a bf so you might be shitty, but for god's sake don't be new at it forever.
Okay, joking aside, I did blush a lot... Kind of turned away, I then turned to look at her and was like "omg.. thank you! If I would have known, I would have brought you something too T_T" and then I hugged her. She totally went out on a limb for you, in public no less, and it doesn't sound like you acted super happy about it, even though you might be. From her position, it probably seems like you're not interested and she should give up.
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On February 19 2008 08:20 Jibba wrote:WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU. CALL HER RIGHT NOW. STOP TALKING ON MSN. PICK UP THE GOD DAMN PHONE AND CALL HER AND ASK HER OUT TO DO SOMETHING. MOVIE. FUCKING IN THE BACK SEAT. SETTING SENIOR CITIZENS ON FIRE. WHATEVER GETS YOU OFF, BUT DO IT RIGHT NOW NOW NOW She'll be extra surprised and probably happy if you make an up front move like that, and if need be tell her you're new at being a bf so you might be shitty, but for god's sake don't be new at it forever. Show nested quote +Okay, joking aside, I did blush a lot... Kind of turned away, I then turned to look at her and was like "omg.. thank you! If I would have known, I would have brought you something too T_T" and then I hugged her. She totally went out on a limb for you, in public no less, and it doesn't sound like you acted super happy about it, even though you might be. From her position, it probably seems like you're not interested and she should give up.
I do like her now, but I am too shy ;.;
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United States22883 Posts
Look. You may have thought it was embarrassing to walk around with a flower all day, but I guaranfuckingtee you it was much more embarrassing to decide to buy a single flower after Valentines day and give it to a Starcraft nerd with everyone watching, especially since other guys like her. Stop thinking and just do it.
You do this right. You call her and you'll probably ramble around like an idiot for a bit making small talk and she may even giggle at you, and then you eventually grow a pair and take a deep breath (NOT INTO THE PHONE) and ask her if she wants to go out the next time you're free (I assume weekend.) If you can't think of what you want to do yet, tell her you'll figure it out and let her know, but that you want it to be something nice because she's so sweet and you really like her. If you want to tell her you're new at this, it probably won't hurt. It'll probably make her think you're even cuter. Honestly, at your stage, it's probably better to do it over the phone than in person.
Then the first time you go to her house to pick her up or whatever, you bring her flowers, including the one she gave you if it's not dead (put it in water now) and say something like "I thought these looked prettier with you." Yeah, I know I'm awesome.
BTW, $5 says the original girl you liked will get jealous. Forget about her. She's just your typical tease, this new girl seems really sweet, kind and took a risk on you. Plus she's way cuter, imo.
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Canada12499 Posts
On February 19 2008 09:26 Jibba wrote:
Look. You may have thought it was embarrassing to walk around with a flower all day, but I guaranfuckingtee you it was much more embarrassing you decide to buy a single flower after Valentines day and give it to a Starcraft nerd with everyone watching, especially since other guys like her. Stop thinking and just do it.
You do this right. You call her and you'll probably ramble around like an idiot for a bit making small talk and she may even giggle at you, and then you eventually grow a pair and take a deep breath (NOT INTO THE PHONE) and ask her if she wants to go out the next time you're free (I assume weekend.) If you can't think of what you want to do yet, tell her you'll figure it out and let her know, but that you want it to be something nice because she's so sweet and you really like her. If you want to tell her you're new at this, it probably won't hurt. It'll probably make her think you're even cuter. Honestly, at your stage, it's probably better to do it over the phone than in person.
Then the first time you go to her house to pick her up or whatever, you bring her flowers, including the one she gave you if it's not dead (put it in water now) and say something like "I thought these looked prettier with you."
LISTEN TO THIS MAN
DO IT
NOW
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United States22883 Posts
On February 19 2008 09:30 ShaLLoW[baY] wrote:Show nested quote +On February 19 2008 09:26 Jibba wrote:
Look. You may have thought it was embarrassing to walk around with a flower all day, but I guaranfuckingtee you it was much more embarrassing you decide to buy a single flower after Valentines day and give it to a Starcraft nerd with everyone watching, especially since other guys like her. Stop thinking and just do it.
You do this right. You call her and you'll probably ramble around like an idiot for a bit making small talk and she may even giggle at you, and then you eventually grow a pair and take a deep breath (NOT INTO THE PHONE) and ask her if she wants to go out the next time you're free (I assume weekend.) If you can't think of what you want to do yet, tell her you'll figure it out and let her know, but that you want it to be something nice because she's so sweet and you really like her. If you want to tell her you're new at this, it probably won't hurt. It'll probably make her think you're even cuter. Honestly, at your stage, it's probably better to do it over the phone than in person.
Then the first time you go to her house to pick her up or whatever, you bring her flowers, including the one she gave you if it's not dead (put it in water now) and say something like "I thought these looked prettier with you." LISTEN TO THIS MAN DO IT NOW
Each time I come up with these ideas, I fall in love with myself a little bit more. Then again, I'm the single one here who got dumped for WoW LOLOFLMAO!
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On February 19 2008 09:32 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +On February 19 2008 09:30 ShaLLoW[baY] wrote:On February 19 2008 09:26 Jibba wrote:
Look. You may have thought it was embarrassing to walk around with a flower all day, but I guaranfuckingtee you it was much more embarrassing you decide to buy a single flower after Valentines day and give it to a Starcraft nerd with everyone watching, especially since other guys like her. Stop thinking and just do it.
You do this right. You call her and you'll probably ramble around like an idiot for a bit making small talk and she may even giggle at you, and then you eventually grow a pair and take a deep breath (NOT INTO THE PHONE) and ask her if she wants to go out the next time you're free (I assume weekend.) If you can't think of what you want to do yet, tell her you'll figure it out and let her know, but that you want it to be something nice because she's so sweet and you really like her. If you want to tell her you're new at this, it probably won't hurt. It'll probably make her think you're even cuter. Honestly, at your stage, it's probably better to do it over the phone than in person.
Then the first time you go to her house to pick her up or whatever, you bring her flowers, including the one she gave you if it's not dead (put it in water now) and say something like "I thought these looked prettier with you." LISTEN TO THIS MAN DO IT NOW Each time I come up with these ideas, I fall in love with myself a little bit more. Then again, I'm the single one here who got dumped for WoW LOLOFLMAO! You're not alone in that regard T.T
and seriously, wtf? It's soooo fucking obvious she wants you right...fucking...now. I don't give a shit if you're new at this, if you don't make a move right...fucking...now you'll regret it for a long time. Trust me.
Also if you don't make a move right...fucking...now, she WILL get tired of waiting and she WILL move on. Trust me on that as well.
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