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Alright guys, you know that girl that is beautiful,sexy,smart and you think she is into you. Well I have a messed up tale.
A little background information. The chick in question I have known this chick for three years from high school. We were not super close in high school, but we weren't just acquaintances either. We hung out and had a few good discussions and laughs during high school. I message her on facebook to see what she has been doing for you know the past year since I last saw her. Mind you, she friended me on facebook and not the other way around so yeah. That is the background time for some messed up stuff guys.
Alright, so it started with a facebook chat message. We talk about what we were doing in college and things of that nature. During the conversation she brings up troubles with guys which happened to make her tell me she was single. I asked for her number so that I could get in contact with her and maybe hang out with her.
The next part is the most messed up part really. For two months of texting back and forth, now im not bragging but when it comes to women I am "smooth". I put it in quotation marks cause I am only sometimes smooth. So, I would compliment her on pictures things she liked ect ect ect. However, I have a huge weakness that most people have an advantage in. I am terrible when it comes to conversations over the internet/phone after a period of time. This means, I like meeting in real life so that I can hang out and get closer with people in general, not just get close with girls im interested in.
I waited a long time asking her if she was free week after week. She didn't even try to give me the time so I could set up something for us to meet(edit this is more accurate). Honestly there was two reasons why.
One, she wanted to stay single. Two, this only makes sense because of number one mind you, she was scared of not being single anymore or turning me down. These reasons are only because I have known her for three years. If it was someone else, there could be hundreds of reasons really. ( I came up with ideas where we could meet up.) I have to add this or it just makes it seem like I wasn't even trying which I was.
Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out.
I made this blog to say guys if a girl is interested in you, but you supposedly want to give a chance to someone else. Go for the chick that gives you the time of day. If it is the one you want, go for that one. If it is the girl you are just interested in, go for her. Being ignored and having a girl absolutely not want to hang out with you is just the worse. I know, it was two months of pain.
Now do not get me wrong. There are sometimes legitimate reasons for chicks to not be able to meet up with you. However, if a chick does not try at all to meet up with you. You should move on. If she was interested in you, but playing hard to get. That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?
edit: I will have another blog as soon as the girl I am currently getting together with becomes official. It will be a blog about how day9 changed the way I approached women and why I am thankful for day9.
edit 2: Apparently she was busy. Fuck me right? Prefer if your gentle though.
  
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So someone who knew you added you to Facebook and you automatically assume she is interested in having a relationship with you despite the fact she made it pretty clear (at least from the perspective you've given us) that she wasnt, and you're upset?
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On October 06 2013 12:53 ReignSupreme. wrote:
So someone who knew you added you to Facebook and you automatically assume she is interested in having a relationship with you despite the fact she made it pretty clear (at least from the perspective you've given us) that she wasnt, and you're upset?
No, I am upset that someone who I have known for three years did not want to hang out with me at all after two months. She was a cool chick that I was interested in that I wanted to be single just in case something were to happen. If we ended up as friends, I would of been fine with that. However, two months of her not giving me any time to be able to hang out with her. It really eats away at you. It is like you just messaged a friend you were cool with in high school who you may not have been super close with, but you wanted to hang out with that friend since he was a cool dude. This is the same only that it is a girl instead.
That and the text messages were making her seem interested. Mind you two months of texting is quite a bit of texting.
Edit: Like for instance she texted Hey there  with a smiley face. That automatically means she wants the D.
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maybe she has really high standards if shes so cool/pretty
like, higher standards than what you are
also maybe you should know what girls are like, was it her leading you on or did you lead yourself on? you were just assuming that she liked you more than she did
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It's better to learn now than later to just get over girls that aren't interested in you. Even people who eventually get married to their first crush often date around before going back to the first crush. Good job on that.
Erh.. I mean rabble rabble burn the heretic! How dare he post a blog?!
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you are mad because she doesn't want to hang out with you?
she doesn't owe you jack shit
thats borderline scary that you feel this way
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On October 06 2013 15:13 opsayo wrote:
you are mad because she doesn't want to hang out with you?
she doesn't owe you jack shit
thats borderline scary that you feel this way
Are you serious or just trolling? If trolling, HA. If serious, let me laugh harder. First of all, I never said she owed me anything. Second, if a girl texts you and messages you back and forth for over two months, you would think there would be plans to go hang out. Of course I would be mad after two months if there was no plans or literally anything that says we will hang out. Lastly im banning you the next time im on here from my threads. I do not want children in here who know nothing about relationships. Especially the spanish inquisition. No one ever expects them.
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On October 06 2013 14:50 FFGenerations wrote:
maybe she has really high standards if shes so cool/pretty
like, higher standards than what you are
also maybe you should know what girls are like, was it her leading you on or did you lead yourself on? you were just assuming that she liked you more than she did
Well, alot of girls are interested in me. I wouldn't consider myself model quality but 7.8-8.2/10 on the looks scale. If my hair is short I drop down to a 7.4-7.6/10. I would consider myself a decent looking dude. As far as quality of who I am, I would meet all her standards except maybe in the money department but she is a cool chick so I didn't really care about that.
As far as being lead on it is more or less me feeling that way instead of how it actually went down. It was weird how it went down so I cannot really say which was leading on which you know. However, it was me more of being a hurry to meet with her that made me more annoyed than ever. I had other girls interested in me and there was no way in hell that i was going to stay single for very long(it just happens that you get a girl). That was the main issue that was with it. Also, it felt like she seemed to think that I would always be available to her looking back on it. At least it seemed that way. Which would explain why she wasn't so inclined to meet up with me. Despite that, I managed about two months of staying single which was incredible, at least it is to me.
Just the circumstances and the overall position I was in made it worse. Which is why I had to rant a bit at the end of my blog.
edit: I am actually model quality. Especially lego model quality. Have you seen how sexy some of those lego bionicles look? MMMMMMMM
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Just because a girl adds you on Facebook and texts you for two months doesn't mean she has any romantic interest in you. Girls will not often blatantly tell you "Hey, I'm not into you, if that's why you're texting me, stop pls." That's awkward as hell. Plus, most girls like having casual conversations with guys, and/or getting attention. You can definitely judge through a girl's texts if she's into you. I'm sure she was giving you signs, but you might not have picked them up.
Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out.
I made this blog to say guys if a girl is interested in you, but you supposedly want to give a chance to someone else. Go for the chick that gives you the time of day. If it is the one you want, go for that one. If it is the girl you are just interested in, go for her. Being ignored and having a girl absolutely not want to hang out with you is just the worse. I know, it was two months of pain
Secondly, I don't like your whole attitude that being single for 2 months is torture or two months of pain, especially while other girls are asking you out, and it looks like you even went out with a girl during the time. You really need to develop a sense of independence and not have your emotional well being rest on a woman, especially one that you aren't even dating.
Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out.
Lastly, you dated a girl for a while, fully expecting that you will finally unite with your ideal girl after 2 months. Was she just a backup option to you? You post this blog complaining about how you were supposedly led on by some girl, and yet, you lead on some girl to the point of the relationship almost being official. Were you just going to drop in one day and say "Hey listen, this other girl and I have been planning to hook up for 2 months now, and you're just here because being single is torture for me. Cya!" That's really cruel tbh.
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Maybe she can tell that you want to get with her and isn't interested. And the only reason why she hasn't told you straight up is because she'd have to assume things to do that.
And maybe she just doesn't like hanging out with you.
Or maybe she's just been really busy and really wants you so you should spend another two months texting her.
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On October 06 2013 15:28 HappyCamper wrote:I do not want children in here who know nothing about relationships.
are you banning yourself from your own threads then rofl
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I was reserving judgement but the rating of your looks with a non integer has pushed me over the edge.
5 stars.
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a pic of u and her would help TL.net analyze much more accurately
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On October 06 2013 15:28 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2013 15:13 opsayo wrote:
you are mad because she doesn't want to hang out with you?
she doesn't owe you jack shit
thats borderline scary that you feel this way if a girl texts you and messages you back and forth for over two months, you would think there would be plans to go hang out. Of course I would be mad after two months if there was no plans or literally anything that says we will hang out.
Who would think? You thought this, or assumed I should say... and you know what they say about assumptions XD
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Protip: the window of opportunity with about any chick is like 1-2 weeks, NOT 2 FUCKING MONTHS!
This blog really made me scratch my head. in confusion...
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Ignored for 2 months?
Dude, try 2 years.
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On October 06 2013 15:28 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2013 15:13 opsayo wrote:
you are mad because she doesn't want to hang out with you?
she doesn't owe you jack shit
thats borderline scary that you feel this way I do not want children in here who know nothing about relationships.
I'm surprised you can talk down to anyone after chatting up a girl online for 2 months and getting nowhere.
Girl #2 must be thrilled to be the back-up plan.
On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
I fucking tried giving you chance after chance to hang out but you wouldn't even fucking try. FUCK YOU.
I'd say it's her loss... but it really isn't.
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On October 06 2013 22:30 Scarecrow wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2013 15:28 HappyCamper wrote:On October 06 2013 15:13 opsayo wrote:
you are mad because she doesn't want to hang out with you?
she doesn't owe you jack shit
thats borderline scary that you feel this way I do not want children in here who know nothing about relationships. I'm surprised you can talk down to anyone after chatting up a girl online for 2 months and getting nowhere. Girl #2 must be thrilled to be the back-up plan. Show nested quote +On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
I fucking tried giving you chance after chance to hang out but you wouldn't even fucking try. FUCK YOU. I'd say it's her loss... but it really isn't.
I would agree with you if two things were not true. I have known her for three years so it isn't some "random" chick. I was single for almost nineteen years, I didn't really want a girlfriend at all until recently. I was okay with ending up as friends but I am not the type of guy you can just keep on the sidelines.
edit: so we fuckin or whaT? Cause you seem to be thrilled to be the back up plan.
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On October 06 2013 15:57 Chairman Ray wrote:Just because a girl adds you on Facebook and texts you for two months doesn't mean she has any romantic interest in you. Girls will not often blatantly tell you "Hey, I'm not into you, if that's why you're texting me, stop pls." That's awkward as hell. Plus, most girls like having casual conversations with guys, and/or getting attention. You can definitely judge through a girl's texts if she's into you. I'm sure she was giving you signs, but you might not have picked them up. Show nested quote +Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out.
I made this blog to say guys if a girl is interested in you, but you supposedly want to give a chance to someone else. Go for the chick that gives you the time of day. If it is the one you want, go for that one. If it is the girl you are just interested in, go for her. Being ignored and having a girl absolutely not want to hang out with you is just the worse. I know, it was two months of pain Secondly, I don't like your whole attitude that being single for 2 months is torture or two months of pain, especially while other girls are asking you out, and it looks like you even went out with a girl during the time. You really need to develop a sense of independence and not have your emotional well being rest on a woman, especially one that you aren't even dating. Show nested quote +Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out. Lastly, you dated a girl for a while, fully expecting that you will finally unite with your ideal girl after 2 months. Was she just a backup option to you? You post this blog complaining about how you were supposedly led on by some girl, and yet, you lead on some girl to the point of the relationship almost being official. Were you just going to drop in one day and say "Hey listen, this other girl and I have been planning to hook up for 2 months now, and you're just here because being single is torture for me. Cya!" That's really cruel tbh.
No, you are so far off it isn't even funny. How the hell can you come to that conclusion with what I wrote? The girl that i was supposedly "dating" during that time, I didn't even know her name. It was only really until two weeks ago that we got close and I do not even know how the hell that happened.
Okay let me rephrase that, I have been single for nineteen years due to my choices, but everyone has their breaking point and mine happened to be four months ago. So, yeah it was torture for me.
So, no I was single straight up for about two months before I got taken by a really cool chick that happened. I do not even know how it happened so do not ask me. I guess I was being friendly than we got closer through that is my best guess.
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Your name is HappyCamper.
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A woman adds you to Facebook. That is a thing that happens on Facebook occasionally because people add "Friends" i.e. people they know. That is the design of Facebook. I know this and do not have a Facebook account.
A woman adds you to Facebook. You assume, for no real reason, she is interested romantically. If she was interested romantically, she would meet up with you the first time you ask. What's happening here is you are bombarding someone with requests to meet up, and they don't know how to let you down. They may have even just added you because Facebook has algorithms that can work out the possible relationship networks of people and make suggestions.
It bears repeating that if she was romantically interested, you don't have to ask more than once. This seems to be the crucial piece of information you skip over. All that "pain" and "torture" you endured was brought on entirely by yourself. Your advice to other people to go with someone who responds to you vs. those who don't respond to you is sound, but the situation is still warped heavily in your mind. The reason you go with people who respond to you vs. those who don't is not to be like "LOL DAT TRAIN DUN LEFT" - it's because people who don't respond to you are not interested. She has no responsibility in all this.
Based on the responses I've seen from you so far (very hostile), I can tell you're not good with criticism. So I'll just give it to you as straight and short as it comes. This is a sad, pathetic, and somewhat scary blog. Try to consider this situation from her point of view.
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On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
I waited a long time asking her if she was free week after week. She didn't even try to give me the time so I could set up something for us to meet(edit this is more accurate). Honestly there was two reasons why.
One, she wanted to stay single. Two, this only makes sense because of number one mind you, she was scared of not being single anymore..
I'm going with three: she was afraid that you'd turn her into a hat, but wasn't sure how to say this nicely
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On October 07 2013 03:14 DefMatrixUltra wrote:
A woman adds you to Facebook. That is a thing that happens on Facebook occasionally because people add "Friends" i.e. people they know. That is the design of Facebook. I know this and do not have a Facebook account.
A woman adds you to Facebook. You assume, for no real reason, she is interested romantically. If she was interested romantically, she would meet up with you the first time you ask. What's happening here is you are bombarding someone with requests to meet up, and they don't know how to let you down. They may have even just added you because Facebook has algorithms that can work out the possible relationship networks of people and make suggestions.
It bears repeating that if she was romantically interested, you don't have to ask more than once. This seems to be the crucial piece of information you skip over. All that "pain" and "torture" you endured was brought on entirely by yourself. Your advice to other people to go with someone who responds to you vs. those who don't respond to you is sound, but the situation is still warped heavily in your mind. The reason you go with people who respond to you vs. those who don't is not to be like "LOL DAT TRAIN DUN LEFT" - it's because people who don't respond to you are not interested. She has no responsibility in all this.
Based on the responses I've seen from you so far (very hostile), I can tell you're not good with criticism. So I'll just give it to you as straight and short as it comes. This is a sad, pathetic, and somewhat scary blog. Try to consider this situation from her point of view.
Okay i am getting sick of this fucking type of reply. The thing is I have known her for three fucking years. That is the main issue. If I did not know her for that long, I would agree with you. The thing is that with the situation that presented itself and the circumstances involved it was worse than usually it would be. If a random fucking chick added me to facebook, I wouldn't think twice about it. Even in the beginning i didn't think she was interested necessarily which is why i wanted to meet up. The background information is only background information. It gives you a picture of how the situation started and not necessarily reasons into it being started.
okay circumstances: 1. She wanted to stay single. 2. She was scared that I would either get with her or of turning me down. 3. I never assumed shit about her liking me. 4. I texted her for two months. It isn't like I made my advance "subtle" and it isn't like im some dumbass who cries when a girl says shes not interested in me. 5. Leading can be a few things, she accepts advances in some form or another which she did, but even than I wouldn't label it as just "leading on". 6. In the situation I was in which was there were cool as fuck chicks who are not sluts,whores,bitches, or anything like that. Each of them are high quality chicks. That is why it was torture. Eventually, one of these high quality chicks got me. 7. She never said she didn't want to hang out and only made an excuse of she wasn't free. After two months of that you do get annoyed and pissed off. Thus i vented a bit in MY BLOG on teamliquid, yeah white knights making me more frustrated and angry. Fuck you guys.
Now I have to have a conversation about how if she didn't want to hang out, all she had to do was tell me instead of giving me false hope.
STOP white knighting my fucking blog up. It is not needed and really unnecessary. I made this thread for two reasons 1. to vent a bit since it made me annoyed and pissed. Second, to tell guys to go for the girls that give you the time of day. That is it i am tired of this shit and please keep the white knighting off of my fucking blogs it is unneeded. instead im more pissed cause you fuckers have never had this happen to you apparently and literally you have no idea what you are talking about. Scary the hell you talking about? I am not stalking her at all. I have no intention of hurting her in anyway shape or form. This is literally me telling you that it was torture to me, which it fucking was. Torture is fucking subjective since you have no clue what the other person experienced.
Background information is like a setting almost.
The title, was more for interest sake than it actually being that way. So do not read into the title all that much.
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It's more slamming your dick in a door than torture. She made it pretty clear she wasn't interested in you like that, but you gave her such a creepy vibe that she didn't wanna outright say it.
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On October 07 2013 03:57 QuanticHawk wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
I waited a long time asking her if she was free week after week. She didn't even try to give me the time so I could set up something for us to meet(edit this is more accurate). Honestly there was two reasons why.
One, she wanted to stay single. Two, this only makes sense because of number one mind you, she was scared of not being single anymore.. I'm going with three: she was afraid that you'd turn her into a hat, but wasn't sure how to say this nicely
Why else would you not hang out with someone you have known for three years? Granted she could potentially not want to turn me down, but that would be considered leading on which is why I put that into the title. Even though you could separate both of them into two categories of not leading me on to leading me on. I did not make my advances "subtle", my texting was very colorful in the beginning at least. As time went on, I lost patience and interest.
Edit: those fucking hat transformations man. They always scare off the ladies.
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On October 07 2013 00:04 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2013 15:57 Chairman Ray wrote:Just because a girl adds you on Facebook and texts you for two months doesn't mean she has any romantic interest in you. Girls will not often blatantly tell you "Hey, I'm not into you, if that's why you're texting me, stop pls." That's awkward as hell. Plus, most girls like having casual conversations with guys, and/or getting attention. You can definitely judge through a girl's texts if she's into you. I'm sure she was giving you signs, but you might not have picked them up. Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out.
I made this blog to say guys if a girl is interested in you, but you supposedly want to give a chance to someone else. Go for the chick that gives you the time of day. If it is the one you want, go for that one. If it is the girl you are just interested in, go for her. Being ignored and having a girl absolutely not want to hang out with you is just the worse. I know, it was two months of pain Secondly, I don't like your whole attitude that being single for 2 months is torture or two months of pain, especially while other girls are asking you out, and it looks like you even went out with a girl during the time. You really need to develop a sense of independence and not have your emotional well being rest on a woman, especially one that you aren't even dating. Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out. Lastly, you dated a girl for a while, fully expecting that you will finally unite with your ideal girl after 2 months. Was she just a backup option to you? You post this blog complaining about how you were supposedly led on by some girl, and yet, you lead on some girl to the point of the relationship almost being official. Were you just going to drop in one day and say "Hey listen, this other girl and I have been planning to hook up for 2 months now, and you're just here because being single is torture for me. Cya!" That's really cruel tbh. No, you are so far off it isn't even funny. How the hell can you come to that conclusion with what I wrote? The girl that i was supposedly "dating" during that time, I didn't even know her name. It was only really until two weeks ago that we got close and I do not even know how the hell that happened. Okay let me rephrase that, I have been single for nineteen years due to my choices, but everyone has their breaking point and mine happened to be four months ago. So, yeah it was torture for me. So, no I was single straight up for about two months before I got taken by a really cool chick that happened. I do not even know how it happened so do not ask me. I guess I was being friendly than we got closer through that is my best guess.
So you decided to get close with another girl just 2 weeks before you expected to go meet your 'cool chick'? Given that you said you two were about to make it official, those 2 weeks were of a romantic nature. When getting close to someone for 2 weeks, one can develop a strong emotional investment. Heck it doesn't even take 2 weeks - a lot of girls can really develop a strong emotional investment after a single day. You are obligated to tell this girl the very first time there was any romantic interest shown that you are not available. If you ran off with your 'cool chick' after 2 weeks of getting close, the other girl would have been devastated. You got lucky this time. Given that you have been single for 19 years and are inexperienced, it's forgivable, but know that the respectful thing to do would be to tell her straight away. Think about it this way, if the 'cool chick' texted you very early on that she had no interest in you and just wanted to be texting friends, would you be in this rut right now?
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On October 07 2013 04:17 QuanticHawk wrote:
It's more slamming your dick in a door than torture. She made it pretty clear she wasn't interested in you like that, but you gave her such a creepy vibe that she didn't wanna outright say it.
This could be true. However, I have known her for three years so it is highly unlikely that this is the case. If it is, not really my fault. I can do nothing short of a miracle to change her initial impression of me. Which happened three years ago thus highly unlikely she thinks im creepy.
edit: She doesn't think im creepy. I know girls that think im creepy. It is called every asian girl I have tried to get with ever. They just can't handle the pure awesome factor that I am. They feel insecure about themselves so they think im creepy. At least thats what I tell myself at night. Although they are some of the funniest fucking stories you will ever hear.
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On October 07 2013 04:25 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 04:17 QuanticHawk wrote:
It's more slamming your dick in a door than torture. She made it pretty clear she wasn't interested in you like that, but you gave her such a creepy vibe that she didn't wanna outright say it. This could be true. However, I have known her for three years so it is highly unlikely that this is the case. If it is, not really my fault. I can do nothing short of a miracle to change her initial impression of me. Which happened three years ago thus highly unlikely she thinks im creepy.
When you say you've known her for three years, were you two friends, or classmates, or what? Did you talk with her often? Did you two do stuff together in a bigger group of friends?
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On October 07 2013 04:19 Chairman Ray wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 00:04 HappyCamper wrote:On October 06 2013 15:57 Chairman Ray wrote:Just because a girl adds you on Facebook and texts you for two months doesn't mean she has any romantic interest in you. Girls will not often blatantly tell you "Hey, I'm not into you, if that's why you're texting me, stop pls." That's awkward as hell. Plus, most girls like having casual conversations with guys, and/or getting attention. You can definitely judge through a girl's texts if she's into you. I'm sure she was giving you signs, but you might not have picked them up. Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out.
I made this blog to say guys if a girl is interested in you, but you supposedly want to give a chance to someone else. Go for the chick that gives you the time of day. If it is the one you want, go for that one. If it is the girl you are just interested in, go for her. Being ignored and having a girl absolutely not want to hang out with you is just the worse. I know, it was two months of pain Secondly, I don't like your whole attitude that being single for 2 months is torture or two months of pain, especially while other girls are asking you out, and it looks like you even went out with a girl during the time. You really need to develop a sense of independence and not have your emotional well being rest on a woman, especially one that you aren't even dating. Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out. Lastly, you dated a girl for a while, fully expecting that you will finally unite with your ideal girl after 2 months. Was she just a backup option to you? You post this blog complaining about how you were supposedly led on by some girl, and yet, you lead on some girl to the point of the relationship almost being official. Were you just going to drop in one day and say "Hey listen, this other girl and I have been planning to hook up for 2 months now, and you're just here because being single is torture for me. Cya!" That's really cruel tbh. No, you are so far off it isn't even funny. How the hell can you come to that conclusion with what I wrote? The girl that i was supposedly "dating" during that time, I didn't even know her name. It was only really until two weeks ago that we got close and I do not even know how the hell that happened. Okay let me rephrase that, I have been single for nineteen years due to my choices, but everyone has their breaking point and mine happened to be four months ago. So, yeah it was torture for me. So, no I was single straight up for about two months before I got taken by a really cool chick that happened. I do not even know how it happened so do not ask me. I guess I was being friendly than we got closer through that is my best guess. So you decided to get close with another girl just 2 weeks before you expected to go meet your 'cool chick'? Given that you said you two were about to make it official, those 2 weeks were of a romantic nature. When getting close to someone for 2 weeks, one can develop a strong emotional investment. Heck it doesn't even take 2 weeks - a lot of girls can really develop a strong emotional investment after a single day. You are obligated to tell this girl the very first time there was any romantic interest shown that you are not available. If you ran off with your 'cool chick' after 2 weeks of getting close, the other girl would have been devastated. You got lucky this time. Given that you have been single for 19 years and are inexperienced, it's forgivable, but know that the respectful thing to do would be to tell her straight away. Think about it this way, if the 'cool chick' texted you very early on that she had no interest in you and just wanted to be texting friends, would you be in this rut right now?
Oh, no the situation was a bit different than that. The two months i am talking about were before the two weeks of me and the girl that I most likely will be getting with. Literally two days after I was like, "fuck this". Granted, I did fuck up a bit. I agree that you should be careful when getting to know women since anything can have a devastating effect in that case. Although romantic, not what I would describe those two weeks I had with her. I spent at most 3 days out of each week with her. However, I have learned something and you have brighten my mood a bit so there you go. Thus two months of torture followed by me being pissed off. I speak about it today cause it gets on my nerves occasionally.
I say most likely because we have yet to cover the topics of ethics, morals, and religion. If we are to different on those topics than there is nothing I can really do to make that relationship workout. Short of changing who I am which is not an option.
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On October 07 2013 04:28 Chairman Ray wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 04:25 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 04:17 QuanticHawk wrote:
It's more slamming your dick in a door than torture. She made it pretty clear she wasn't interested in you like that, but you gave her such a creepy vibe that she didn't wanna outright say it. This could be true. However, I have known her for three years so it is highly unlikely that this is the case. If it is, not really my fault. I can do nothing short of a miracle to change her initial impression of me. Which happened three years ago thus highly unlikely she thinks im creepy. When you say you've known her for three years, were you two friends, or classmates, or what? Did you talk with her often? Did you two do stuff together in a bigger group of friends?
We would hang out in school for the most part. On occasion I would do things with her outside of school. I wasn't super close with her but I wasn't just an acquaintance either. We would also discuss topics of abortion, government, morals, and religion sometimes in school. I was her friend, not a best friend or a close friend but just a friend. Which is why I can understand her not wanting to hang out with me but it still makes me mad which is why i vented about it a bit. Than all the white knights started white knighting makign me feel even more frustrated.
OH, we did stuff in a bigger group of friends generally. However, I would talk to her during lunch almost every day and sometimes during class when we had free time. So she knows me pretty well as far as what I think about certain things and I know her pretty well on what she thinks about most things. This is why I have no idea why she wouldn't want to hang out once in two months.
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OP seems like a delusional guy who takes criticism very poorly. That's what i've gotten out of this blog n all the comments/replies.
Additionally, he doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed. Two months, and it doesn't seem like he's able to read the "i'm not interested" message that she seemingly quite plainly sent him.
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On October 07 2013 04:48 ffreakk wrote:
OP seems like a delusional guy who takes criticism very poorly. That's what i've gotten out of this blog n all the comments/replies.
Additionally, he doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed. Two months, and it doesn't seem like he's able to read the "i'm not interested" message that she seemingly quite plainly sent him.
I don't know but being called creepy, scary and outright delusional isn't criticism to me and is just plain for lack of a better word cussing me out? Like, I do not really listen or learn from people that do that and I have no reason to. If you respect me than I will respect you. If you do not respect me, why the hell should I take a single word of advice from you?
Edit: I will fuck you though. You are such a freak it turns me on. Yeah talk dirty to me baby.
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On October 07 2013 05:02 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 04:48 ffreakk wrote:
OP seems like a delusional guy who takes criticism very poorly. That's what i've gotten out of this blog n all the comments/replies.
Additionally, he doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed. Two months, and it doesn't seem like he's able to read the "i'm not interested" message that she seemingly quite plainly sent him. I don't know but being called creepy, scary and outright delusional isn't criticism to me and is just plain for lack of a better word cussing me out? Like, I do not really listen or learn from people that do that and I have no reason to. If you respect me than I will respect you. If you do not respect me, why the hell should I take a single word of advice from you?
instead of creepy, scary, and delusional how about hmmmm
mysterious, intimidating, and strong-minded?
Would you take criticism from me if i called you those things? And I am only typing this out of respect for ya
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On October 07 2013 04:48 ffreakk wrote:
OP seems like a delusional guy who takes criticism very poorly. That's what i've gotten out of this blog n all the comments/replies.
Additionally, he doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed. Two months, and it doesn't seem like he's able to read the "i'm not interested" message that she seemingly quite plainly sent him.
CAN'T YOU SEE HE'S ENTITLED TO HIS BOOTY!?
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On October 07 2013 05:27 Smurfett3 wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 05:02 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 04:48 ffreakk wrote:
OP seems like a delusional guy who takes criticism very poorly. That's what i've gotten out of this blog n all the comments/replies.
Additionally, he doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed. Two months, and it doesn't seem like he's able to read the "i'm not interested" message that she seemingly quite plainly sent him. I don't know but being called creepy, scary and outright delusional isn't criticism to me and is just plain for lack of a better word cussing me out? Like, I do not really listen or learn from people that do that and I have no reason to. If you respect me than I will respect you. If you do not respect me, why the hell should I take a single word of advice from you? instead of creepy, scary, and delusional how about hmmmm mysterious, intimidating, and strong-minded? Would you take criticism from me if i called you those things? And I am only typing this out of respect for ya
I think you can tell from the blog that I took criticism well when people did that. If I seem hostile to them than you are a bit wrong since I had not hostility really in those specific ones. For instance the first one with chairman ray was maybe a little hostile but more so out of frustration than well no idea what the word is but not frustration?
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On October 07 2013 05:31 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 05:27 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:02 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 04:48 ffreakk wrote:
OP seems like a delusional guy who takes criticism very poorly. That's what i've gotten out of this blog n all the comments/replies.
Additionally, he doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed. Two months, and it doesn't seem like he's able to read the "i'm not interested" message that she seemingly quite plainly sent him. I don't know but being called creepy, scary and outright delusional isn't criticism to me and is just plain for lack of a better word cussing me out? Like, I do not really listen or learn from people that do that and I have no reason to. If you respect me than I will respect you. If you do not respect me, why the hell should I take a single word of advice from you? instead of creepy, scary, and delusional how about hmmmm mysterious, intimidating, and strong-minded? Would you take criticism from me if i called you those things? And I am only typing this out of respect for ya I think you can tell from the blog that I took criticism well when people did that. If I seem hostile to them than you are a bit wrong since I had not hostility really in those specific ones. For instance the first one with chairman ray was maybe a little hostile but more so out of frustration than well no idea what the word is but not frustration?
why were you pushed over the top with frusturation with chairman rays post? Was it the whole thing or a part of it that made you see red?
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On October 07 2013 05:35 Smurfett3 wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 05:31 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 05:27 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:02 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 04:48 ffreakk wrote:
OP seems like a delusional guy who takes criticism very poorly. That's what i've gotten out of this blog n all the comments/replies.
Additionally, he doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed. Two months, and it doesn't seem like he's able to read the "i'm not interested" message that she seemingly quite plainly sent him. I don't know but being called creepy, scary and outright delusional isn't criticism to me and is just plain for lack of a better word cussing me out? Like, I do not really listen or learn from people that do that and I have no reason to. If you respect me than I will respect you. If you do not respect me, why the hell should I take a single word of advice from you? instead of creepy, scary, and delusional how about hmmmm mysterious, intimidating, and strong-minded? Would you take criticism from me if i called you those things? And I am only typing this out of respect for ya I think you can tell from the blog that I took criticism well when people did that. If I seem hostile to them than you are a bit wrong since I had not hostility really in those specific ones. For instance the first one with chairman ray was maybe a little hostile but more so out of frustration than well no idea what the word is but not frustration? why were you pushed over the top with frusturation with chairman rays post? Was it the whole thing or a part of it that made you see red?
Well, calling the current chick, a backup chick made me mad. On top of that people were telling me that I was creepy/scary. Not all of them which I am grateful to the ones that didn't. That and he seemed to misunderstand what the blog was about. It was about a friend I knew in highschool who I wanted to hang out with, but she wouldn't give me the time to do it. You can add in the interested in after that but that was the main idea behind the blog. I am not a great writer so I might not have portrayed that correctly.
edit: Since she is a girl. In my opinion, you have to be single in order to hang out especially if you have any interest in her in that way. So since I did, I tried staying single so that I could go hang out with her. If we ended up as friends, that would of been okay with me. It isn't a bad thing to have friends.
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On October 07 2013 05:40 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 05:35 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:31 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 05:27 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:02 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 04:48 ffreakk wrote:
OP seems like a delusional guy who takes criticism very poorly. That's what i've gotten out of this blog n all the comments/replies.
Additionally, he doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed. Two months, and it doesn't seem like he's able to read the "i'm not interested" message that she seemingly quite plainly sent him. I don't know but being called creepy, scary and outright delusional isn't criticism to me and is just plain for lack of a better word cussing me out? Like, I do not really listen or learn from people that do that and I have no reason to. If you respect me than I will respect you. If you do not respect me, why the hell should I take a single word of advice from you? instead of creepy, scary, and delusional how about hmmmm mysterious, intimidating, and strong-minded? Would you take criticism from me if i called you those things? And I am only typing this out of respect for ya I think you can tell from the blog that I took criticism well when people did that. If I seem hostile to them than you are a bit wrong since I had not hostility really in those specific ones. For instance the first one with chairman ray was maybe a little hostile but more so out of frustration than well no idea what the word is but not frustration? why were you pushed over the top with frusturation with chairman rays post? Was it the whole thing or a part of it that made you see red? Well, calling the current chick, a backup chick made me mad. On top of that people were telling me that I was creepy/scary. Not all of them which I am grateful to the ones that didn't. That and he seemed to misunderstand what the blog was about. It was about a friend I knew in highschool who I wanted to hang out with, but she wouldn't give me the time to do it. You can add in the interested in after that but that was the main idea behind the blog. I am not a great writer so I might not have portrayed that correctly.
so a bunch of misunderstandings created by ambiguity through your writing. Well, I think you can see here how improving your writing skills might be beneficial for your next blog post
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On October 07 2013 05:42 Smurfett3 wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 05:40 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 05:35 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:31 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 05:27 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:02 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 04:48 ffreakk wrote:
OP seems like a delusional guy who takes criticism very poorly. That's what i've gotten out of this blog n all the comments/replies.
Additionally, he doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed. Two months, and it doesn't seem like he's able to read the "i'm not interested" message that she seemingly quite plainly sent him. I don't know but being called creepy, scary and outright delusional isn't criticism to me and is just plain for lack of a better word cussing me out? Like, I do not really listen or learn from people that do that and I have no reason to. If you respect me than I will respect you. If you do not respect me, why the hell should I take a single word of advice from you? instead of creepy, scary, and delusional how about hmmmm mysterious, intimidating, and strong-minded? Would you take criticism from me if i called you those things? And I am only typing this out of respect for ya I think you can tell from the blog that I took criticism well when people did that. If I seem hostile to them than you are a bit wrong since I had not hostility really in those specific ones. For instance the first one with chairman ray was maybe a little hostile but more so out of frustration than well no idea what the word is but not frustration? why were you pushed over the top with frusturation with chairman rays post? Was it the whole thing or a part of it that made you see red? Well, calling the current chick, a backup chick made me mad. On top of that people were telling me that I was creepy/scary. Not all of them which I am grateful to the ones that didn't. That and he seemed to misunderstand what the blog was about. It was about a friend I knew in highschool who I wanted to hang out with, but she wouldn't give me the time to do it. You can add in the interested in after that but that was the main idea behind the blog. I am not a great writer so I might not have portrayed that correctly. so a bunch of misunderstandings created by ambiguity through your writing. Well, I think you can see here how improving your writing skills might be beneficial for your next blog post
Well, I have tried making them better. The problem is that I have no talent for writing. Everything you see has been taught to me, but even with that teaching it is still hard for me to make clear and understanding topics and papers. I can write a decent paper on calculation and math topics though.
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On October 07 2013 05:46 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 05:42 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:40 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 05:35 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:31 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 05:27 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:02 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 04:48 ffreakk wrote:
OP seems like a delusional guy who takes criticism very poorly. That's what i've gotten out of this blog n all the comments/replies.
Additionally, he doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed. Two months, and it doesn't seem like he's able to read the "i'm not interested" message that she seemingly quite plainly sent him. I don't know but being called creepy, scary and outright delusional isn't criticism to me and is just plain for lack of a better word cussing me out? Like, I do not really listen or learn from people that do that and I have no reason to. If you respect me than I will respect you. If you do not respect me, why the hell should I take a single word of advice from you? instead of creepy, scary, and delusional how about hmmmm mysterious, intimidating, and strong-minded? Would you take criticism from me if i called you those things? And I am only typing this out of respect for ya I think you can tell from the blog that I took criticism well when people did that. If I seem hostile to them than you are a bit wrong since I had not hostility really in those specific ones. For instance the first one with chairman ray was maybe a little hostile but more so out of frustration than well no idea what the word is but not frustration? why were you pushed over the top with frusturation with chairman rays post? Was it the whole thing or a part of it that made you see red? Well, calling the current chick, a backup chick made me mad. On top of that people were telling me that I was creepy/scary. Not all of them which I am grateful to the ones that didn't. That and he seemed to misunderstand what the blog was about. It was about a friend I knew in highschool who I wanted to hang out with, but she wouldn't give me the time to do it. You can add in the interested in after that but that was the main idea behind the blog. I am not a great writer so I might not have portrayed that correctly. so a bunch of misunderstandings created by ambiguity through your writing. Well, I think you can see here how improving your writing skills might be beneficial for your next blog post Well, I have tried making them better. The problem is that I have no talent for writing. Everything you see has been taught to me, but even with that teaching it is still hard for me to make clear and understanding topics and papers. I can write a decent paper on calculation and math topics though.
it takes practice. And since you have no talent, it might just take a little bit extra to get to where talented people can normally write, but it's not impossible to make your writing better, just difficult
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On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?
Now here is my rant. Fucking really chick why the hell would you like not even try to hang out with me. Fucking bitch mother fucking hell. I am so pissed and annoyed it isn't even funny. I fucking tried giving you chance after chance to hang out but you wouldn't even fucking try. FUCK YOU.
Apparently responding to statements like this by saying that the other person isn't at fault is "white knighting" now. Misattributing guilt and responsibility as above is not how a healthy individual deals with situations in life.
HappyCamper, your _.-*-.-~own personal blog~-.-* is not free from criticism when you make posts like you did. People that are trying to get you to examine your mindset you respond to by attempting to insult them.
You want to get mad because someone said that your paragraph up there was creepy given that the woman did nothing to deserve it? You can get angry, that's fine. You can interpret it as a personal attack. But responding to it by insulting people (calling them children or saying they're "white knighting") is an out so that you can dismiss it in your mind. I really think it's something you should consider. Feel free to hate my guts. But think about why you're getting these kinds of responses.
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Good stuff. Be sure to tell us about your future endeavors.
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Sounds like she dodged a bullet.
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On October 07 2013 06:49 DefMatrixUltra wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?
Now here is my rant. Fucking really chick why the hell would you like not even try to hang out with me. Fucking bitch mother fucking hell. I am so pissed and annoyed it isn't even funny. I fucking tried giving you chance after chance to hang out but you wouldn't even fucking try. FUCK YOU.
Apparently responding to statements like this by saying that the other person isn't at fault is "white knighting" now. Misattributing guilt and responsibility as above is not how a healthy individual deals with situations in life. HappyCamper, your _.-*-.-~own personal blog~-.-* is not free from criticism when you make posts like you did. People that are trying to get you to examine your mindset you respond to by attempting to insult them. You want to get mad because someone said that your paragraph up there was creepy given that the woman did nothing to deserve it? You can get angry, that's fine. You can interpret it as a personal attack. But responding to it by insulting people (calling them children or saying they're "white knighting") is an out so that you can dismiss it in your mind. I really think it's something you should consider. Feel free to hate my guts. But think about why you're getting these kinds of responses.
That is a rant. It is speaking feelings not critical thinking. I even said thats a rant. Rants are for venting off frustration, that is what they are for.
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Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out. Yeah, you're a mess.
I mean, you're definitely not going to listen to us now. But maybe in 5 years you'll stumble onto your old account, read this blog and realize how ridiculous it was.
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On October 07 2013 08:15 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 06:49 DefMatrixUltra wrote:On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?
Now here is my rant. Fucking really chick why the hell would you like not even try to hang out with me. Fucking bitch mother fucking hell. I am so pissed and annoyed it isn't even funny. I fucking tried giving you chance after chance to hang out but you wouldn't even fucking try. FUCK YOU.
Apparently responding to statements like this by saying that the other person isn't at fault is "white knighting" now. Misattributing guilt and responsibility as above is not how a healthy individual deals with situations in life. HappyCamper, your _.-*-.-~own personal blog~-.-* is not free from criticism when you make posts like you did. People that are trying to get you to examine your mindset you respond to by attempting to insult them. You want to get mad because someone said that your paragraph up there was creepy given that the woman did nothing to deserve it? You can get angry, that's fine. You can interpret it as a personal attack. But responding to it by insulting people (calling them children or saying they're "white knighting") is an out so that you can dismiss it in your mind. I really think it's something you should consider. Feel free to hate my guts. But think about why you're getting these kinds of responses. That is a rant. It is speaking feelings not critical thinking. I even said thats a rant. Rants are for venting off frustration, that is what they are for.
We have a vent your frustration thread. http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=235432¤tpage=124
This is a blog and as such people can and will respond to whatever you post, and tell you you're an idiot for behaving like you've described. And you are one of course.
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To the OP: your ID is quite ironic.
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Gonna need pics before we can accurately judge if you're in the 7.8 to 8.2 range.
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On October 07 2013 09:15 Blisse wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 08:15 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 06:49 DefMatrixUltra wrote:On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?
Now here is my rant. Fucking really chick why the hell would you like not even try to hang out with me. Fucking bitch mother fucking hell. I am so pissed and annoyed it isn't even funny. I fucking tried giving you chance after chance to hang out but you wouldn't even fucking try. FUCK YOU.
Apparently responding to statements like this by saying that the other person isn't at fault is "white knighting" now. Misattributing guilt and responsibility as above is not how a healthy individual deals with situations in life. HappyCamper, your _.-*-.-~own personal blog~-.-* is not free from criticism when you make posts like you did. People that are trying to get you to examine your mindset you respond to by attempting to insult them. You want to get mad because someone said that your paragraph up there was creepy given that the woman did nothing to deserve it? You can get angry, that's fine. You can interpret it as a personal attack. But responding to it by insulting people (calling them children or saying they're "white knighting") is an out so that you can dismiss it in your mind. I really think it's something you should consider. Feel free to hate my guts. But think about why you're getting these kinds of responses. That is a rant. It is speaking feelings not critical thinking. I even said thats a rant. Rants are for venting off frustration, that is what they are for. We have a vent your frustration thread. http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=235432¤tpage=124This is a blog and as such people can and will respond to whatever you post, and tell you you're an idiot for behaving like you've described. And you are one of course.
First off, fuck you. I hate people like you. Second, my behavior had nothing to do with the situation. I could have been behaving extremely well. Which I do, I have little to no emotional background(in person). The only time I let my emotions slip is when I need to vent out a bit of frustration about any situation and that is what a blog can be used for. There are many reasons for a blog, but calling me an idiot on my own fucking blog. It is unneeded and unnecessary.
behavior the way in which one acts or conducts oneself, esp. toward others. Listen you self righteous prick. If you were put in that situation that I was put in. I doubt you would behave any differently. Oh excuse me, unless your a fucking beta than you wouldn't get a single dam girl period.
This blog more or less was a closure blog basically saying, " fuck this situation, im moving on". I thought I would share it with people so that I could tell people that it is better to go after girls that want to hang out with you over girls that don't even try to. With the other reason being, venting out my frustration over a fucked up situation. It was way more fucked up than you realize. The situation as simply as I can put it is this ( different from circumstances mind you) . I did not want to be single anymore ,but I wanted to go hang out with this cool chick. That is two conflicting emotions/feelings. Because of this confliction, I went through some serious fucking shit mostly due to the fact that I wanted to hang out with this chick but I can't hang out with her if I am not single. If, she messaged me right now saying lets go hang out. I would have to say I cannot hang out anymore, I apologize for that. Something along those lines. You can say I put myself into that fucked up situation, but it does not change the situation. Sometimes situations happen that are out of your control. This was one of them. Mostly due to the fact that people I have known for three or four years that I respect generally get more leniency on alot of stuff. So much so that it took me two months to say fuck this.
Now she is not blameless in this. You fucking white knighters, are saying its not her fault. That isn't completely true, she did stuff that caused the situation to be worse. If she wasn't interested in hanging out, all she had to do was say," I don't want to hang out with you at all." Now, I mgiht be thats kind of fucked up, but now its even worse. Cause now its me being thats really fucked up and im annoyed on top of it. Eventually, even with my increased leniency on people i generally respect. I hit a limit that said fuck you. And I moved on from that.
According to the MISC on the BodyBuilding website: A white knight is defined as a male that treats woman as goddesses and does nothing but shower then in compliments on how wonderful and beautiful and special they are. Maybe be used as a noun or a verb. Simply put, girls are never at fault. Really, people are seriously going to say that they are not white knighting my blog up? lets get some examples.
It's more slamming your dick in a door than torture. She made it pretty clear she wasn't interested in you like that, but you gave her such a creepy vibe that she didn't wanna outright say it.
it's because people who don't respond to you are not interested. She has no responsibility in all this.
Is two examples enough baby? You want more? Look at what you fucking wrote.
edit: Yeah I still hate people like you. Also, still no fucking clue if she is interested in hanging out or not. Even though i told her to tell me if she wasn't. Frustration max but in calm mode.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
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On October 07 2013 11:54 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 09:15 Blisse wrote:On October 07 2013 08:15 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 06:49 DefMatrixUltra wrote:On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?
Now here is my rant. Fucking really chick why the hell would you like not even try to hang out with me. Fucking bitch mother fucking hell. I am so pissed and annoyed it isn't even funny. I fucking tried giving you chance after chance to hang out but you wouldn't even fucking try. FUCK YOU.
Apparently responding to statements like this by saying that the other person isn't at fault is "white knighting" now. Misattributing guilt and responsibility as above is not how a healthy individual deals with situations in life. HappyCamper, your _.-*-.-~own personal blog~-.-* is not free from criticism when you make posts like you did. People that are trying to get you to examine your mindset you respond to by attempting to insult them. You want to get mad because someone said that your paragraph up there was creepy given that the woman did nothing to deserve it? You can get angry, that's fine. You can interpret it as a personal attack. But responding to it by insulting people (calling them children or saying they're "white knighting") is an out so that you can dismiss it in your mind. I really think it's something you should consider. Feel free to hate my guts. But think about why you're getting these kinds of responses. That is a rant. It is speaking feelings not critical thinking. I even said thats a rant. Rants are for venting off frustration, that is what they are for. We have a vent your frustration thread. http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=235432¤tpage=124This is a blog and as such people can and will respond to whatever you post, and tell you you're an idiot for behaving like you've described. And you are one of course. First off, fuck you. I hate people like you. Second, my behavior had nothing to do with the situation. I could have been behaving extremely well. Which I do, I have little to no emotional background(in person). The only time I let my emotions slip is when I need to vent out a bit of frustration about any situation and that is what a blog can be used for. There are many reasons for a blog, but calling me an idiot on my own fucking blog. It is unneeded and unnecessary. behavior the way in which one acts or conducts oneself, esp. toward others. Listen you self righteous prick. If you were put in that situation that I was put in. I doubt you would behave any differently. Oh excuse me, unless your a fucking beta than you wouldn't get a single dam girl period. This blog more or less was a closure blog basically saying, " fuck this situation, im moving on". I thought I would share it with people so that I could tell people that it is better to go after girls that want to hang out with you over girls that don't even try to. With the other reason being, venting out my frustration over a fucked up situation. It was way more fucked up than you realize. The situation as simply as I can put it is this ( different from circumstances mind you) . I did not want to be single anymore ,but I wanted to go hang out with this cool chick. That is two conflicting emotions/feelings. Because of this confliction, I went through some serious fucking shit mostly due to the fact that I wanted to hang out with this chick but I can't hang out with her if I am not single. If, she messaged me right now saying lets go hang out. I would have to say I cannot hang out anymore, I apologize for that. Something along those lines. You can say I put myself into that fucked up situation, but it does not change the situation. Sometimes situations happen that are out of your control. This was one of them. Mostly due to the fact that people I have known for three or four years that I respect generally get more leniency on alot of stuff. So much so that it took me two months to say fuck this. Now she is not blameless in this. You fucking white knighters, are saying its not her fault. That isn't completely true, she did stuff that caused the situation to be worse. If she wasn't interested in hanging out, all she had to do was say," I don't want to hang out with you at all." Now, I mgiht be thats kind of fucked up, but now its even worse. Cause now its me being thats really fucked up and im annoyed on top of it. Eventually, even with my increased leniency on people i generally respect. I hit a limit that said fuck you. And I moved on from that. According to the MISC on the BodyBuilding website: A white knight is defined as a male that treats woman as goddesses and does nothing but shower then in compliments on how wonderful and beautiful and special they are. Maybe be used as a noun or a verb. Simply put, girls are never at fault. Really, people are seriously going to say that they are not white knighting my blog up? lets get some examples. It's more slamming your dick in a door than torture. She made it pretty clear she wasn't interested in you like that, but you gave her such a creepy vibe that she didn't wanna outright say it. it's because people who don't respond to you are not interested. She has no responsibility in all this. Is two examples enough baby? You want more? Look at what you fucking wrote.
there is social ettiquite that needs to be followed. saying fuck you isn't good social ettiquite
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On October 07 2013 08:49 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out. Yeah, you're a mess. I mean, you're definitely not going to listen to us now. But maybe in 5 years you'll stumble onto your old account, read this blog and realize how ridiculous it was.
Even a fucking admin really. I am at fault yes, but she is also at fault. She is not blameless. Do guys really fucking think girls are blameless.
It's always the guy's fault omg like totally. Yeah, shes pretty so she cannot do anything wrong. Do you not see the issue I am having with you people? There is post upon post telling me the same bullshit. This totally lowers my standards of the teamliquid community. I thought the teamliquid community was a cool community with adults that have lives. THat have lived through these fucked up situations. Now, I think it is full of beta white knights that have no clue what they are talking about. For instance, rekrul coolest fucking dude I know of (except day9) in the teamliquid community said nothing about that and only asked for pictures. Rekrul has lived life and I don't know if he supports what I did or not but he understands it.
edit: be more like kwark, he was sarcastic. I like sarcasm, makes me chuckle.
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On October 07 2013 12:10 Smurfett3 wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 11:54 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 09:15 Blisse wrote:On October 07 2013 08:15 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 06:49 DefMatrixUltra wrote:On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?
Now here is my rant. Fucking really chick why the hell would you like not even try to hang out with me. Fucking bitch mother fucking hell. I am so pissed and annoyed it isn't even funny. I fucking tried giving you chance after chance to hang out but you wouldn't even fucking try. FUCK YOU.
Apparently responding to statements like this by saying that the other person isn't at fault is "white knighting" now. Misattributing guilt and responsibility as above is not how a healthy individual deals with situations in life. HappyCamper, your _.-*-.-~own personal blog~-.-* is not free from criticism when you make posts like you did. People that are trying to get you to examine your mindset you respond to by attempting to insult them. You want to get mad because someone said that your paragraph up there was creepy given that the woman did nothing to deserve it? You can get angry, that's fine. You can interpret it as a personal attack. But responding to it by insulting people (calling them children or saying they're "white knighting") is an out so that you can dismiss it in your mind. I really think it's something you should consider. Feel free to hate my guts. But think about why you're getting these kinds of responses. That is a rant. It is speaking feelings not critical thinking. I even said thats a rant. Rants are for venting off frustration, that is what they are for. We have a vent your frustration thread. http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=235432¤tpage=124This is a blog and as such people can and will respond to whatever you post, and tell you you're an idiot for behaving like you've described. And you are one of course. First off, fuck you. I hate people like you. Second, my behavior had nothing to do with the situation. I could have been behaving extremely well. Which I do, I have little to no emotional background(in person). The only time I let my emotions slip is when I need to vent out a bit of frustration about any situation and that is what a blog can be used for. There are many reasons for a blog, but calling me an idiot on my own fucking blog. It is unneeded and unnecessary. behavior the way in which one acts or conducts oneself, esp. toward others. Listen you self righteous prick. If you were put in that situation that I was put in. I doubt you would behave any differently. Oh excuse me, unless your a fucking beta than you wouldn't get a single dam girl period. This blog more or less was a closure blog basically saying, " fuck this situation, im moving on". I thought I would share it with people so that I could tell people that it is better to go after girls that want to hang out with you over girls that don't even try to. With the other reason being, venting out my frustration over a fucked up situation. It was way more fucked up than you realize. The situation as simply as I can put it is this ( different from circumstances mind you) . I did not want to be single anymore ,but I wanted to go hang out with this cool chick. That is two conflicting emotions/feelings. Because of this confliction, I went through some serious fucking shit mostly due to the fact that I wanted to hang out with this chick but I can't hang out with her if I am not single. If, she messaged me right now saying lets go hang out. I would have to say I cannot hang out anymore, I apologize for that. Something along those lines. You can say I put myself into that fucked up situation, but it does not change the situation. Sometimes situations happen that are out of your control. This was one of them. Mostly due to the fact that people I have known for three or four years that I respect generally get more leniency on alot of stuff. So much so that it took me two months to say fuck this. Now she is not blameless in this. You fucking white knighters, are saying its not her fault. That isn't completely true, she did stuff that caused the situation to be worse. If she wasn't interested in hanging out, all she had to do was say," I don't want to hang out with you at all." Now, I mgiht be thats kind of fucked up, but now its even worse. Cause now its me being thats really fucked up and im annoyed on top of it. Eventually, even with my increased leniency on people i generally respect. I hit a limit that said fuck you. And I moved on from that. According to the MISC on the BodyBuilding website: A white knight is defined as a male that treats woman as goddesses and does nothing but shower then in compliments on how wonderful and beautiful and special they are. Maybe be used as a noun or a verb. Simply put, girls are never at fault. Really, people are seriously going to say that they are not white knighting my blog up? lets get some examples. It's more slamming your dick in a door than torture. She made it pretty clear she wasn't interested in you like that, but you gave her such a creepy vibe that she didn't wanna outright say it. it's because people who don't respond to you are not interested. She has no responsibility in all this. Is two examples enough baby? You want more? Look at what you fucking wrote. there is social ettiquite that needs to be followed. saying fuck you isn't good social ettiquite
I agree, but calling me an idiot makes me want to say that. Being a css player that I am, I talk quite a bit of shit. A general 10man of css goes as follows. I call them fucking bitches,retards,trash,garbage, and terrible players. I get the same dam shit. They call me that. However, it is two way trash talking and since css is a big part of my life. I cannot really change that without some serious no css.
edit: this is not an exaggeration. This happens every ten man almost.
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What you don't realize is it is ONLY IN HIGHSCHOOL where you can't date more than one girl at a time. After that it is free reign to date as many girls at the same time until you have the "exclusive' tag. I suggest you start early and have given both the time of day anyways.
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you were merely validation for her. feels good knowing someone desires you, doesn't it? but clearly she wasn't interested in you, but didn't have enough self-esteem or respect to turn you down. you said it yourself in your blog - there are other girls interested in you (unless you were lying or exaggerating which I think you were if you're getting this hung up over a rejection or lack of interest). look, i understand how you feel, but try to learn a lesson in this.
edit - I've learned in life when many people are telling me the same thing (as much as i don't want to hear it!), I should at LEAST be inclined swallow my insane amount of pride, tell myself that I probably don't know shit, and look into what is being said. You have two choices - suffer the same pain from being the same person, or allow the truth to set you free.
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On October 07 2013 13:07 beachbeachy wrote:
you were merely validation for her. sounds like she has low self-esteem and is not worth pursuing. you said it yourself in your blog - there are other girls interested in you (unless you were lying or exaggerating which I think you were if you're getting this hung up over a rejection or lack of interest). look, i understand how you feel, but try to learn a lesson in this.
I will try to take a lesson from this. However, due to the type of person I am. This can happen again. I give people I have known for awhile that I respect alot of leniency. She was one of those people. Now she isn't one of those people anymore.
I am hung up about it because I knew her for so long. That is the reason why.
edit: No, I have people in this blog telling me the exact opposite of what those people are saying. What you are saying, is the exact opposite of what they are saying. They are saying it is entirely my fault whereas you are saying it is both faults. It is more correct logically to assume that we both did something fucked up. Which we did.
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On October 06 2013 16:52 Rekrul wrote:
a pic of u and her would help TL.net analyze much more accurately
also screenshots of the conversations
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1001 YEARS KESPAJAIL22272 Posts
Man girlblogs that explode are always the best
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On October 07 2013 13:48 lichter wrote:
Man girlblogs that explode are always the best
Glad i could be of service sir. :D
edit: Zamnal blog was the shit. Did he ever get with kiett?
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On October 07 2013 13:49 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 13:48 lichter wrote:
Man girlblogs that explode are always the best Glad i could be of service sir. :D
Not enough pics though, so zaMNal still #1
MindBreaker is definitely #2
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That isnt being lead on. She isnt interested, simple as. Dont worry, i think we all made the same mistake when we were 14.
Your "rant" sounds borderline serial killer.
You we're ignored because she doesnt like you (and i'd say she made a lucky escape with that anger.)
But i mean, you're a 7.8 to 8.2 on a 10 scale, who the fuck could say no to that?!
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On October 07 2013 14:52 Capped wrote:
That isnt being lead on. She isnt interested, simple as. Dont worry, i think we all made the same mistake when we were 14.
Your "rant" sounds borderline serial killer.
You we're ignored because she doesnt like you (and i'd say she made a lucky escape with that anger.)
But i mean, you're a 7.8 to 8.2 on a 10 scale, who the fuck could say no to that?!
I know right?
Being angry is natural, it happens to everyone. I am human so I do have my breaking points here and there. It happens that this blog was one of those breaking points, but I did learn something from it so it is not an entirely bad blog. I am alot calmer now than I was when I made this blog so I don't really care anymore. Bad day, and a bad week in general. Today was okay cause I got to vent all that frustration away.Shit talking awwww yeaaaaa.
My rant sounding serial killer like. Not really, serial killers have alot of different things that are wrong with them but I was venting frustration mostly about the situation.
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United States42568 Posts
I also often wonder why girls don't understand their moral obligation to give me attention and sex. They seem to be unable to grasp this, their most basic biological function. Honestly it makes me angry. Maybe we could start some kind of subreddit where we could express this anger to each other.
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On October 07 2013 15:37 KwarK wrote:
I also often wonder why girls don't understand their moral obligation to give me attention and sex. They seem to be unable to grasp this, their most basic biological function. Honestly it makes me angry. Maybe we could start some kind of subreddit where we could express this anger to each other.
Well, confidence is very close to arrogance. So, why the hell not? On top of that we could add a subreddit of why women should only be in the kitchen making sandwiches.
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On October 07 2013 11:26 CecilSunkure wrote:
To the OP: your ID is quite ironic.
Yeah, I get that alot. However, I rushed the shit out of this blog so I don't know if its ironic. It is like an m249 in office pub maps. You just gotta spray. You will eventually hit something.
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Braavos36374 Posts
On October 07 2013 14:52 Capped wrote:
That isnt being lead on. She isnt interested, simple as. Dont worry, i think we all made the same mistake when we were 14.
Your "rant" sounds borderline serial killer.
You we're ignored because she doesnt like you (and i'd say she made a lucky escape with that anger.)
But i mean, you're a 7.8 to 8.2 on a 10 scale, who the fuck could say no to that?!
well 7.8 to 8.2 really depends on the map
pretty sure Hitchhiker 7.8 would be worse than Fighting Spirit 2.0
all depends on the scale
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On October 07 2013 16:01 Hot_Bid wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 14:52 Capped wrote:
That isnt being lead on. She isnt interested, simple as. Dont worry, i think we all made the same mistake when we were 14.
Your "rant" sounds borderline serial killer.
You we're ignored because she doesnt like you (and i'd say she made a lucky escape with that anger.)
But i mean, you're a 7.8 to 8.2 on a 10 scale, who the fuck could say no to that?! well 7.8 to 8.2 really depends on the map pretty sure Hitchhiker 7.8 would be worse than Fighting Spirit 2.0 all depends on the scale
Motherfucking BLUESTORM Hot_bid thats the scale its on. Also can you do more epic things like enter more maxim magazine contests? Actually I want to see you enter a topless contest at a club. DO IT
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Braavos36374 Posts
i would but right now topless id estimate myself at a 6.5, 6.6, need to at minimum get to 6.9-7.1 to enter a contest.
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On October 07 2013 16:16 Hot_Bid wrote:
i would but right now topless id estimate myself at a 6.5, 6.6, need to at minimum get to 6.9-7.1 to enter a contest.
We need pictures to make sure this is true. How do I know your not a 9 or above if I don't have a picture. 
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1001 YEARS KESPAJAIL22272 Posts
When I google "hotbid naked" it gives me hotbigtitties.com
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I would approve of Hot_Bid pictures.
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? lol
you ask her 'week after week' for 2 months? do you have one ounce of respect for yourself?
you let your 'emotions slip'. type out your anger on the internet. 'frustration max'
disgusting blog
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On October 07 2013 16:41 ibanez wrote:
? lol
you ask her 'week after week' for 2 months? do you have one ounce of respect for yourself?
you let your 'emotions slip'. type out your anger on the internet. 'frustration max'
disgusting blog
MMMMMM but not even close to the disgusting things I would do to you. Like cover you in butter and call you a cooked crab. All the disgustingness
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On October 07 2013 16:43 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 16:41 ibanez wrote:
? lol
you ask her 'week after week' for 2 months? do you have one ounce of respect for yourself?
you let your 'emotions slip'. type out your anger on the internet. 'frustration max'
disgusting blog MMMMMM but not even close to the disgusting things I would do to you. Like cover you in butter and call you a cooked crab. All the disgustingness
ye i wouldn't meet you either
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On October 07 2013 11:58 Rekrul wrote:
this can't be real
8/10 troll blog.
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On October 07 2013 17:03 ibanez wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 16:43 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 16:41 ibanez wrote:
? lol
you ask her 'week after week' for 2 months? do you have one ounce of respect for yourself?
you let your 'emotions slip'. type out your anger on the internet. 'frustration max'
disgusting blog MMMMMM but not even close to the disgusting things I would do to you. Like cover you in butter and call you a cooked crab. All the disgustingness ye i wouldn't meet you either
Comeon baby stop playing hard to get. You know you want my butter all over you. Stop being crabby and give in.
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On October 07 2013 17:06 IgnE wrote:8/10 troll blog.
It is actually not a troll blog. This is a blog detailing one of my breaking points of frustration and situations. I am going through withdrawals and I needed to vent even if it wasn't really correct.
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On October 07 2013 11:58 Rekrul wrote:
this can't be real
You're the coolest guy he knows ^.^
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On October 07 2013 15:40 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 15:37 KwarK wrote:
I also often wonder why girls don't understand their moral obligation to give me attention and sex. They seem to be unable to grasp this, their most basic biological function. Honestly it makes me angry. Maybe we could start some kind of subreddit where we could express this anger to each other. Well, confidence is very close to arrogance. So, why the hell not? On top of that we could add a subreddit of why women should only be in the kitchen making sandwiches.
I've never dated a girl that was better in the kitchen than I am. This came from necessity, I'm a big guy, and I like food, so I learned how to cook well in order to make good food. Culinary skills in the other gender are dying. I lived with a girl who fucking burned water somehow..... Seriously, I came home to the appartment I was living in to a big cloud of brown smoke and the fire alarms going off like crazy..... And it smelled fucking terrible..... So, in my view, a woman who stays the fuck out of the kitchen is better in my books.
On a serious note, what the fuck man? This was described as a train wreck, and while it's not literally a train wreck, all I can say is "what the fuck man?". She doesn't owe you anything, and you come off sounding like you feel you are entitled to something. Fix your attitude.
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Hong Kong9153 Posts
this [girl blog] has been immortalized
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You're using the words beta and pretending that you're alpha as fuck and what not. we don't know her motivations so no one can judge her properly, but we do know your motivations as you've outlined here, which is going to be put in the best light for you as possible. and frankly, your motivations are crap and make you a horrible person. and you're an idiot for pretending that you're still a decent person when all you wanted to do was fuck her. you expect people to sympathize with that? or do you expect people to reply telling you how you're being a twat. and the reason this remains as entertaining as it is, is because you've deluded yourself into thinking that only 'alphas' like the admins think your behavior is appropriate, and now you're in some obvious state of denial where you're trying to appear like that nice guy who can handle criticism with lots of smileys and happy faces. I like girl blogs like these.
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OP, thank you. This was quite an amusing read.
And yeah, if you ask a girl out and she doesn't make an effort to meet up, she's not interested.
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Seems like most of the responses are trying to make what is a pretty mediocre girl blog into something more entertaining. The OP putting his "score" into such specific decimal points (and the part about the hair being short...) was pretty good, and made him sound like some sort of DBZ character (his hair length and power level are intertwined). Outside of that, there isn't much here that sets it apart from most of the high school/ early college girl blogs.
On a side note, TL seems to love/hate girl blogs that involve more than one girl.
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On October 07 2013 13:53 lichter wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 13:49 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 13:48 lichter wrote:
Man girlblogs that explode are always the best Glad i could be of service sir. :D Not enough pics though, so zaMNal still #1 MindBreaker is definitely #2
was MindBreaker the guy who was racing for a girl and never delivered? is that true i agree with you.
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United States10328 Posts
what the hell is going on LOL
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1001 YEARS KESPAJAIL22272 Posts
On October 08 2013 00:36 Topin wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 13:53 lichter wrote:On October 07 2013 13:49 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 13:48 lichter wrote:
Man girlblogs that explode are always the best Glad i could be of service sir. :D Not enough pics though, so zaMNal still #1 MindBreaker is definitely #2 was MindBreaker the guy who was racing for a girl and never delivered? is that true i agree with you.
zaMNal is the dude in love with Kiett and MindBreaker is the "race for the girl" dude, yeah
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FREEAGLELAND26781 Posts
On October 08 2013 01:08 ]343[ wrote:
what the hell is going on LOL
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343 is a solid 3.43 on a 10 scale.
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On October 07 2013 15:37 KwarK wrote:
I also often wonder why girls don't understand their moral obligation to give me attention and sex. They seem to be unable to grasp this, their most basic biological function. Honestly it makes me angry.
It makes me angry too... 
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On October 08 2013 00:10 HardlyNever wrote:
Seems like most of the responses are trying to make what is a pretty mediocre girl blog into something more entertaining. The OP putting his "score" into such specific decimal points (and the part about the hair being short...) was pretty good, and made him sound like some sort of DBZ character (his hair length and power level are intertwined). Outside of that, there isn't much here that sets it apart from most of the high school/ early college girl blogs.
On a side note, TL seems to love/hate girl blogs that involve more than one girl.
all good movies involve a love triangle
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This is creepy. Sounds like she was probs interested, then you freaked her out... I'm going to say you were too full on / needy judging from your post.
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On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
edit: I will have another blog as soon as the girl I am currently getting together with becomes official. It will be a blog about how day9 changed the way I approached women and why I am thankful for day9.
I am very interested in what sage advice you received from day9. Please do update us.
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On October 08 2013 23:37 Calanthe wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
edit: I will have another blog as soon as the girl I am currently getting together with becomes official. It will be a blog about how day9 changed the way I approached women and why I am thankful for day9. I am very interested in what sage advice you received from day9. Please do update us.
Did you accidentally log off Kwark
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Why does this blog have such low ratings?
Entertaining blogs deserve high marks what is wrong with you people.
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Northern Ireland22208 Posts
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If she did not have the heart to say "hey dude i'm really not interested, and i will not be in the near future, you're wasting your time," assume she does not hold herself to the same moral standards that you do. Move on. When you're on fire you gotta keep that fire! It keeps the hyenas at away.
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Hey guys, if a girl talks to me it means she wants the D, right?
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On October 10 2013 00:30 -Kaiser- wrote:
Hey guys, if a girl talks to me it means she wants the D, right?
No. Women are not sexual objects created to please you, creep.
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On October 10 2013 01:08 Japhybaby wrote:Show nested quote +On October 10 2013 00:30 -Kaiser- wrote:
Hey guys, if a girl talks to me it means she wants the D, right? No. Women are not sexual objects created to please you, creep.
Troll successful
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I believe I speak for most people when I ask... How old are you?!?!
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On October 10 2013 01:08 Japhybaby wrote:Show nested quote +On October 10 2013 00:30 -Kaiser- wrote:
Hey guys, if a girl talks to me it means she wants the D, right? No. Women are not sexual objects created to please you, creep.
Wooooooooooooooshhhhhhh
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If she says she wants to stay single, it means she's not interested in you.
No girl wants to be single, but sometimes they would prefer it to being with YOU. Take it as a hint from now on.
Unless you're fucking her already, then it could mean a lot of things.
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Russian Federation3631 Posts
archiving this. I've made this mistake once in forgetting, never again.
+ Show Spoiler +On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
Alright guys, you know that girl that is beautiful,sexy,smart and you think she is into you. Well I have a messed up tale.
A little background information. The chick in question I have known this chick for three years from high school. We were not super close in high school, but we weren't just acquaintances either. We hung out and had a few good discussions and laughs during high school. I message her on facebook to see what she has been doing for you know the past year since I last saw her. Mind you, she friended me on facebook and not the other way around so yeah. That is the background time for some messed up stuff guys.
Alright, so it started with a facebook chat message. We talk about what we were doing in college and things of that nature. During the conversation she brings up troubles with guys which happened to make her tell me she was single. I asked for her number so that I could get in contact with her and maybe hang out with her.
The next part is the most messed up part really. For two months of texting back and forth, now im not bragging but when it comes to women I am "smooth". I put it in quotation marks cause I am only sometimes smooth. So, I would compliment her on pictures things she liked ect ect ect. However, I have a huge weakness that most people have an advantage in. I am terrible when it comes to conversations over the internet/phone after a period of time. This means, I like meeting in real life so that I can hang out and get closer with people in general, not just get close with girls im interested in.
I waited a long time asking her if she was free week after week. She didn't even try to give me the time so I could set up something for us to meet(edit this is more accurate). Honestly there was two reasons why.
One, she wanted to stay single. Two, this only makes sense because of number one mind you, she was scared of not being single anymore or turning me down. These reasons are only because I have known her for three years. If it was someone else, there could be hundreds of reasons really. ( I came up with ideas where we could meet up.) I have to add this or it just makes it seem like I wasn't even trying which I was.
Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out.
I made this blog to say guys if a girl is interested in you, but you supposedly want to give a chance to someone else. Go for the chick that gives you the time of day. If it is the one you want, go for that one. If it is the girl you are just interested in, go for her. Being ignored and having a girl absolutely not want to hang out with you is just the worse. I know, it was two months of pain.
Now do not get me wrong. There are sometimes legitimate reasons for chicks to not be able to meet up with you. However, if a chick does not try at all to meet up with you. You should move on. If she was interested in you, but playing hard to get. That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?
edit: I will have another blog as soon as the girl I am currently getting together with becomes official. It will be a blog about how day9 changed the way I approached women and why I am thankful for day9.
edit 2: Apparently she was busy. Fuck me right? Prefer if your gentle though. On October 06 2013 12:57 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2013 12:53 ReignSupreme. wrote:
So someone who knew you added you to Facebook and you automatically assume she is interested in having a relationship with you despite the fact she made it pretty clear (at least from the perspective you've given us) that she wasnt, and you're upset? No, I am upset that someone who I have known for three years did not want to hang out with me at all after two months. She was a cool chick that I was interested in that I wanted to be single just in case something were to happen. If we ended up as friends, I would of been fine with that. However, two months of her not giving me any time to be able to hang out with her. It really eats away at you. It is like you just messaged a friend you were cool with in high school who you may not have been super close with, but you wanted to hang out with that friend since he was a cool dude. This is the same only that it is a girl instead. That and the text messages were making her seem interested. Mind you two months of texting is quite a bit of texting. Edit: Like for instance she texted Hey there with a smiley face. That automatically means she wants the D. Well, alot of girls are interested in me. I wouldn't consider myself model quality but 7.8-8.2/10 on the looks scale. If my hair is short I drop down to a 7.4-7.6/10. I would consider myself a decent looking dude. As far as quality of who I am, I would meet all her standards except maybe in the money department but she is a cool chick so I didn't really care about that.
As far as being lead on it is more or less me feeling that way instead of how it actually went down. It was weird how it went down so I cannot really say which was leading on which you know. However, it was me more of being a hurry to meet with her that made me more annoyed than ever. I had other girls interested in me and there was no way in hell that i was going to stay single for very long(it just happens that you get a girl). That was the main issue that was with it. Also, it felt like she seemed to think that I would always be available to her looking back on it. At least it seemed that way. Which would explain why she wasn't so inclined to meet up with me. Despite that, I managed about two months of staying single which was incredible, at least it is to me.
Just the circumstances and the overall position I was in made it worse. Which is why I had to rant a bit at the end of my blog.
edit: I am actually model quality. Especially lego model quality. Have you seen how sexy some of those lego bionicles look? MMMMMMMM
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You have issues, it's like you feel you 'won' or something. Maybe she just needed a friend.
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