EPTWhy did I say that? [Girl Blog] - Page 3
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catplanetcatplanet
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9-BiT
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Epishade
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Went to anime club today. I sat near the front and we were watching anime for about 2 hours before break time. I stayed in my seat and Lauren came up to me and started talking with me haha. Didn't even know she was in the club either. So I asked her what she thought of the club and she wasn't quite sure if she'd continue coming (she didn't like everyone yelling out during the shows. Neither did I tbh). Funny that we were both surprised to see each other there but I guess it looks like we're on good terms any ways. After she talked with me though, she sat a few seats away from me with this one girl who showed up wearing bunny ears. I had originally changed my starting seat to move on the same row as her because nobody was sitting with her and she looked nice and I wanted a better look. I didn't end up talking with her at all, but maybe I'll strike up a conversation with her next time (if she shows up anyways). Now I think I'll ask Lauren if that was her friend she sat next to tomorrow in my business class. | ||
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catplanetcatplanet
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what college btw? | ||
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Epishade
United States2267 Posts
On August 29 2013 06:20 THEPPLsELBOW wrote: Hey man, definitely appreciate the more natural approach. What's not natural though is thinking/rationalizing her or your behaviors especially over a span of a few days. Next time you ever ask yourself, should I just go ask a girl out despite all odds? Just do it immediately after that thought crosses your mind or the next time you see her if you start liking her. Try that line of thinking for a while, it could grow on you  How is thinking/rationalizing someone's behaviors over a few days not rational? I thought what I did was hasty and much more forward than usual anyways. How would you know someone liked you without rationalizing their behaviors? My decision to ask Lauren out came maybe 2 days before I actually did it. Of course, I had no idea that the opportunity would arise for me to actually ask though. Had she sat somewhere else instead of just a seat away from me, I likely wouldn't have made the effort to ask her. On August 29 2013 12:30 catplanetcatplanet wrote: you sly dog you what college btw? University of North Carolina at Charlotte | ||
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puppykiller
United States3130 Posts
Congratz on making a move, most guys can't do that unless they have a very high level of certainty that the girl will accept them. You are now more awesome that idk, 80% of guys? Some number... you can choose or not lol. I think what your experiencing is something that used to happen to me a lot when I first started chatting up girls. It would go clearly bad, and I would rationalize the interaction as awesome as a way of coping with putting myself more out there than I was comfortable with. That being said if you want to actually get a girl friend you might want to play it slow like most guys and get to know a girl and eventually ask her out. | ||
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MarlieChurphy
United States2063 Posts
On August 28 2013 15:28 babylon wrote: The fact that she turned him down pretty hard is probably a sign that she was never really sending signals in the first place, much less "goin for it." She sounds like she was just being friendly and OP misinterpreted it.  But gg, good on OP for clearing it up. Sorry, I didn't mean build up a deep freiendship. I meant shoot the shit with her in class, joke around, ask her a couple things; gauge her interest a bit more. Then at the end of class get her number or ask her on a date. If I was you, I would actually try again and do this: http://www.simplepickup.com/how-to/getting-her-number-without-saying-word/ | ||
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