Weird texts

Arisen

United States2382 Posts

March 17 2013 07:36 GMT

So I get out of work at like 2AM and my friend is texting me to see what i was doing and when I get out of work. We chat for a bit after I do get out of work on my way home. She never asked me to come to her place or anything, so I just assume she got out of a bar at the end of St. Patricks and just wants to chat with someone she knows is up. WHen I ask her what she's up to when I finally got home she said her boyfriend never came home and she's about to screw her roomate.

I don't really know what to say. There is a decent age difference between us (10 or so years) and we've only ever really texted and hung out at work. I'm concerned for her because of her boyfriend and whatnot, but it seems like a weird thing to say to a friend. I don't know if it was some type of invitation or what and what I'm supposed to say. It's not like I would sleep with her while she was going out with her boyfriend (I've had to many friends get tore up by their women cheating).

What Am I supposed to say to that? I told her I was sorry her boyfriend didn't come home and I hoped he was safe and remained silent on the other subject. SHould I just pretend like it never happened or what?

nohbrows

United States653 Posts

March 17 2013 07:45 GMT

Maybe it's a subtle plea for help? Maybe she needs some external force to stop her from a very bad decision. Hopefully its not too late. Alternatively, you could delete the text and pretend it didn't happen so you don't get tangled in some very messy business. Either way, good luck dude. Hope it works out.

Crimson

United States311 Posts

March 17 2013 08:06 GMT

It sounds like she's reaching out. Whether it's for help or something else, seems like she needs someone/something.

Either that or she is just drunk.

Zim23

United States1681 Posts

March 17 2013 09:07 GMT

What's really happening is she is pissed her boyfriend never came home and she's assuming he's fucking some girl so she wants to bang her roommate as payback (probably more of a threat than a reality). She's probably reaching out to you to complain or as a backup if her roommate says no. Do yourself a favor and stay out.

talontromper

United States258 Posts

March 17 2013 09:27 GMT

Ya relationships are best left alone unless there are signs of abuse. I have tried to help my friend and his gf, she turned on me and I lost 2 friends as a result. Best advice is to steer clear.

FromShouri

United States862 Posts

March 17 2013 15:59 GMT

Not as bad as getting a random text stating "I'm pregnant and you're the father" and after a very tense 15 minutes of her pleading for me to step up and be a man, I finally convinced her that A)I had no idea who she was and B)She had the wrong number.

ihOpe

192 Posts

March 17 2013 18:57 GMT

tell her your feelings!

MarlieChurphy

United States2065 Posts

March 18 2013 07:26 GMT

Chicks don't cheat for the same reasons dudes do. 90% of the time they cheat because the relationship isn't working for them and they aren't getting their emotional needs met. On top of this, they will usually ALWAYS let the boyfriend know somehow in order to sabotage the relationship into ending.

Guys are more simple, we cheat because we like sex and its a purely physical thing.

These are facts, not opinions.

Back to your story, maybe she knows that you would be someone to tell her bf about this. What you should do; nothing. It's none of your business and she is trying to mix you up into it because she is chaotic. Forget about it. Also, Are you like 31 and she's 21? That's not a healthy relationship to start up for either of you, you know better.

Japhybaby

Canada301 Posts

March 18 2013 14:22 GMT

On March 18 2013 16:26 MarlieChurphy wrote:
Chicks don't cheat for the same reasons dudes do. 90% of the time they cheat because the relationship isn't working for them and they aren't getting their emotional needs met. On top of this, they will usually ALWAYS let the boyfriend know somehow in order to sabotage the relationship into ending.

Guys are more simple, we cheat because we like sex and its a purely physical thing.

These are facts, not opinions.

Back to your story, maybe she knows that you would be someone to tell her bf about this. What you should do; nothing. It's none of your business and she is trying to mix you up into it because she is chaotic. Forget about it. Also, Are you like 31 and she's 21? That's not a healthy relationship to start up for either of you, you know better.

Those are opinions. Girls like sex if a guy knows what he's doing.

B.I.G.

3251 Posts

March 18 2013 14:40 GMT

#10

just laugh and tell her how awkward this is gonna be for her when you meet again at work

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