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Froadac
United States6733 Posts
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Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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Froadac
United States6733 Posts
On February 16 2013 19:28 Kaeru wrote: People keep asking girls if they want a relationship - I don't get why! If you end up in a relationship you do, if you don't then you don't. The question is 99% of the time awkward. Anyway, at number 3. You are at her place, she stops you and it ends up with you two ending up. Why didn't you just have sex with her there? Just throw her in the bed, hold her down like a man go... You've talked to her for 4 days, that's a lot...! I'll be honest, this was sort of hte type of response i was expecting. This was not the decision I made for these reasons 1) Oh yeah, go from never having kissed a girl to sex 2) I don't think she was necessarily in it for that at that point, neither was 3) Roommate returned 4) Sense of morals that whether correct or incorrect would take a lot of breaking to contradict 5) lack of any sort of preparedness As a sisdenote i ended up staying overnight. not like it really matters but i forgot to include htat. In terms of the question: quite possibly, I have no clue. I care at this point because it seems like a bullshit excuse. I mean, maybe its true but it doesnt seem terribly congruent, and to say the very least I wasn't trying to use her purely for the sex | ||
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Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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TOCHMY
Sweden1692 Posts
On February 16 2013 19:28 Kaeru wrote: People keep asking girls if they want a relationship - I don't get why! If you end up in a relationship you do, if you don't then you don't. The question is 99% of the time awkward. Anyway, at number 3. You are at her place, she stops you and it ends up with you two making out. Why didn't you just have sex with her there? Just throw her in the bed, hold her down like a man and go... You've talked to her for 4 days, that's a lot...! If she's sleeping with multiple guys, turn her over and take a good grip of her hair with one hand, around her throat with the other and just shove your aggressions straight into her. Edit: I like to add. Unless you're in-love with her seriously, why do you care if she is dating multiple guys? Just have sex with her and ignore her for a while. I don't mean the candles and shit sex, fuck her hard. (sorry ended up with lots of edits) My thoughts exactly.. This is the kind of girl you don't have relationship with. You fuck her, if both of u likes it, you fuck some more. If not.... then move on. | ||
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Aerisky
United States12129 Posts
Sucks to hear Froadac--I suppose she just wasn't for you from the sound of it. I say ignore the bitch, not worth a friend unless you're lonely and you can forgive her too. She still sounds weird though. Just my opinion. | ||
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Calliopee
Denmark151 Posts
Either way - 2 months later having dealt with all sorts of stupid questions and alot of blame of myself I realised 2 things: Falling in love should be fun Being in love should be EASY I'm not talking about being in a relationship - fuck me that shit can be harder than most stuff you'll ever face - but the early phases should never cause all kinds of anxiety and blame - if it does, take a long hard look at yourself and the girl you're chasing - chances are there's something fundamentally wrong. My thoughts are you're better off with another girl - nothing wrong in having standards and asking for exclusivity (is that a word?) is definatly something worth expecting from a girl. You'll be happier with another for sure. | ||
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ktimekiller
United States690 Posts
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Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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sc4k
United Kingdom5454 Posts
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mordk
Chile8385 Posts
-This is your first experience with a girl Why is this a problem? Basically, if this were me, I'd become fuckbuddies with her right at the spot, I really wouldn't mind if she had multiple dudes, I'd just have a lot of fun with her. But, if you've never had sex with a girl, this isn't a good course of action. My advice, let her go, she seems like more trouble than you need. | ||
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
Sexual anxiety man, the only way you're going to get over it is by doing it. Fuck a relationship with this girl. As someone else said "Bang bang" | ||
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SamsungStar
United States912 Posts
On February 16 2013 22:54 sc4k wrote: Dude you weren't friendzoned if she kissed you passionately twice haha!!! She sounds faintly insane and weird. Definitely not relationship material. You aren't in the wrong for thinking bad of her. She needs to sort her shit out. Nah, it depends on the age. In your 20s, especially late 20s, making out means absolutely nothing. Plenty of girls do it recreationally or just to see if the guy is a good kisser. They'll even do it out of boredom or they're feeling playful at the time. I wouldn't put any stock in it, tbh. Especially if the girl is very sexual. Some ppl are pretty fked up. | ||
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mordk
Chile8385 Posts
On February 17 2013 00:51 SamsungStar wrote: Nah, it depends on the age. In your 20s, especially late 20s, making out means absolutely nothing. Plenty of girls do it recreationally or just to see if the guy is a good kisser. They'll even do it out of boredom or they're feeling playful at the time. I wouldn't put any stock in it, tbh. Especially if the girl is very sexual. Some ppl are pretty fked up. Still fun though, you just have to avoid getting involved. Have toooons of fun! | ||
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SamsungStar
United States912 Posts
On February 17 2013 01:05 mordk wrote: Still fun though, you just have to avoid getting involved. Have toooons of fun! Lol it's fun if you are relatively immune to herpes  | ||
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phosphorylation
United States2935 Posts
On February 17 2013 00:51 SamsungStar wrote: Nah, it depends on the age. In your 20s, especially late 20s, making out means absolutely nothing. Plenty of girls do it recreationally or just to see if the guy is a good kisser. They'll even do it out of boredom or they're feeling playful at the time. I wouldn't put any stock in it, tbh. Especially if the girl is very sexual. Some ppl are pretty fked up. Indeed for many girls making out means jack. I tend to look for girls for whom this is not the case.. | ||
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Froadac
United States6733 Posts
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r.Evo
Germany14081 Posts
On February 17 2013 03:11 Froadac wrote: Yeah, I dunno. And here she is today being like yay I"m going to blahblah i'tll be fun and I'm like really? That's bait. Casual response among the lines of "Oh, that sounds cool. Have fun!" and she'll be all over you again soon. Would be careful with her though, not because of any of your initial reasons (most of which are excuses to make you feel better about this scenario), but because she's not even remotely as tough as she pretends to be. | ||
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ProV1
United States980 Posts
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krndandaman
Mozambique16569 Posts
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