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Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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Chairman Ray
United States11903 Posts
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Bearded Elder29903 Posts
Well what? I have a fiancee that is 4 years older than me, I'm 26, she's 30 and there feels like no difference at all, visually and mentally as well, as she's ex-miss, why would You consider it being rude to being attracked to 1 year older women? I don't get it. Answering Your question : Sure, do it. Give it a shoot, You live once, why would You regret not sending it in the nearest future? JUST GO WITH IT  | ||
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Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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N.geNuity
United States5112 Posts
I don't get arbitrary 30 deadline, considering you're +/- 1 year. | ||
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Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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Bearded Elder29903 Posts
On February 13 2013 16:35 Kaeru wrote: It's not the "30 year deadline" and there isn't much difference between 28 and 29. But there is much difference between someone that is 29 and 23... 34 and 28... 40 and 33. I probably should just marry a Realdoll, The World's finest Love Doll :D I can understand the 29 and 23 difference but not at all actually and 24/28, 40/33 is not much of a difference, trust me, I know a lot of relationships and the age is not a big deal actually if there is no HUGE mental gap between two people. But that's just my opinion and I don't get the "she's turning 30 (or already 30yr old) so I'm not thinking about marrying her, because "she's old". Come on... That is some immature speaking now. I understand You want some younger girl to be Your wife, but do You really put that much attention on age? I mean, love doesn't chose, my sweetie is 30yrs old and I'm 26 as I said and there is no big deal if it comes to age difference and I actually want to marry her  | ||
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krndandaman
Mozambique16569 Posts
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llIH
Norway2144 Posts
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synapse
China13814 Posts
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Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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Bearded Elder29903 Posts
On February 13 2013 17:41 Kaeru wrote: To be honest I don't know why I even feel or think about the age - but for some wierd (and totally unknown) reason it feels soooo important to me (I know it isn't!!!) but I can't remove a feeling. I like her a lot and she is the first girl in about 4 years I've had any feelings for... When I was 26-27 I dated a lot of girls around 18-24 (easily had +40 dates in 2 years), usually I've had to carry most of the conversation because they've been to young to talk to about interesting stuff (I am usually very mature for my age in my conversations as many of my friends are 30-35 years old). If I start talking about parties, movies, music, sex and crazy stuff then they have a lot to say... But when you talk about work, life, great wines, travel and such they tilt their head and seem totally off. With this girl I could just relax and enjoy my meal, enjoy the wine and have a conversation insted of a monolog. Ahh, fuck it. Thanks. I'm gonna send her some flowers and say Hi. THIS. Totally THIS Well You have an answer to Your question, You are mature and if You want some serious relationship You should ship it ASAP. If You want just to hang around, talk about nothing and have a sex, go for some 18-23 girls. Also, a small hint, the older girl is, the better she is in bed :DTake care ! | ||
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Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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Pandemona
Charlie Sheens House51493 Posts
GIRL BLOG WITH REAL GIRL PICTURE!!!! 5/5!! xD Seriously though, your age standards are quite weird bro. She is less than 12months older than you? And you think that is a problem 0.O THAT IS NOT A PROBLEM Got get those flowers, and go see her...NAO!!!! | ||
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Aerisky
United States12129 Posts
Keep up posted on how the situation develops keke~ | ||
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LaNague
Germany9118 Posts
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dakalro
Romania525 Posts
On February 13 2013 17:41 Kaeru wrote: To be honest I don't know why I even feel or think about the age - but for some wierd (and totally unknown) reason it feels soooo important to me (I know it isn't!!!) but I can't remove a feeling. I like her a lot and she is the first girl in about 4 years I've had any feelings for... When I was 26-27 I dated a lot of girls around 18-24 (easily had +40 dates in 2 years), usually I've had to carry most of the conversation because they've been to young to talk to about interesting stuff (I am usually very mature for my age in my conversations as many of my friends are 30-35 years old). If I start talking about parties, movies, music, sex and crazy stuff then they have a lot to say... But when you talk about work, life, great wines, travel and such they tilt their head and seem totally off. With this girl I could just relax and enjoy my meal, enjoy the wine and have a conversation insted of a monolog. Ahh, fuck it. Thanks. I'm gonna send her some flowers and say Hi. Oh really, you were 26+ and you still say "you are mature for your age" ??? You're your age, young adult male, they were children, not much to be surprised there. | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
It IS rude to think of a woman one year older than you as "older women". It is also rude to think of marriage and a long relationship before you had anything sexual to do with that woman. Stop making excuses and talk with her. Have fun with her. Fall in love together if you want. You can figure out "what exactly" both of you want after that. PS: I think it's also rude to post pictures of women you're into without them knowing about it. But that's just me. =P Also this: Also, a small hint, the older girl is, the better she is in bed :D That's how you learn how to ride. <3 | ||
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Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
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Scarecrow
Korea (South)9172 Posts
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
On February 13 2013 22:22 Kaeru wrote: I've been on a few dates with her, we talked a lot, watched movies together and yes I had sex with her. The thing is that the day after we had sex I moved to Bangkok, Thailand and she still lives in Stockholm, Sweden. Waitwaitwait. To me it sounded as if it's ~2months till you see each other again, right? Will that be for a longer period of time or just one visiting the other? | ||
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Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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isleyofthenorth
Austria894 Posts
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
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Muff2n
United Kingdom250 Posts
Still I don't regret it because we both enjoyed the time. But I think you would be better served straight up asking for a fling rather than a serious relationship. Then it is her call if she wants to 'waste' time on you rather than looking for marriage and you can relax in that knowledge if she says yes. If she says no, well at least you have closure! | ||
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docvoc
United States5491 Posts
.EDIT: read some above comments that I missed, if you are going back and forth, it still isn't necessarily what you want, but if both of you are ok with it, then I wouldn't worry too much. | ||
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I_Love_Katheryn
United States41 Posts
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Baum
Germany1010 Posts
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Shady Sands
United States4021 Posts
On February 13 2013 17:00 krndandaman wrote: she's 29? thought she was 22-25 at most. She's asian | ||
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Pucca
Taiwan1280 Posts
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Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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Shady Sands
United States4021 Posts
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
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Sweden552 Posts
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