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Hey. Basically, in going to college and being my new confident self, as well as a couple friends I got a new girlfriend who's really nice but she's been busy and I've only been with her a little over a week. She's going out to florida for almost a whole month soon and says she wants to talk tommorow so that whole situation is a little awkward, especially since now I have a different girl who asked for my number basically implying she wants me to go round and "snuggle" with her.
I've suddenly found myself in a situation where I'm above the lowest rung of the social ladder and could be with more than just one girl. Thing is, im not sure what she wants to talk about tommorow and for the month she'll be away, we wont be able to contact each other at all, but our parents have already met and we're all added on facebook so there's like pressure instantly added to the situation.
This is probably the worst girl blog ever posted in the history of the world, but I just felt like basically expressing that things are changing for me at least a little.
EDIT: Ok, I've written this down, now where's the fucking delete button for this blog post?
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+ Show Spoiler +On October 02 2012 02:50 EnE wrote: Hey. Basically, in going to college and being my new confident self, as well as a couple friends I got a new girlfriend who's really nice but she's been busy and I've only been with her a little over a week. She's going out to florida for almost a whole month soon and says she wants to talk tommorow so that whole situation is a little awkward, especially since now I have a different girl who asked for my number basically implying she wants me to go round and "snuggle" with her.
I've suddenly found myself in a situation where I'm above the lowest rung of the social ladder and could be with more than just one girl. Thing is, im not sure what she wants to talk about tommorow and for the month she'll be away, we wont be able to contact each other at all, but our parents have already met and we're all added on facebook so there's like pressure instantly added to the situation.
This is probably the worst girl blog ever posted in the history of the world, but I just felt like basically expressing that things are changing for me at least a little.
EDIT: Ok, I've written this down, now where's the fucking delete button for this blog post?
You could have just edited it all out
(Too late, saved forever in the spoiler above!)
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I hope writing everything down makes you realize what you're saying, lol.
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On October 02 2012 02:54 Jombozeus wrote: I hope writing everything down makes you realize what you're saying, lol.
Of course it does, but this is obviously not a legitimate blog it shouldn't still exist. Oh well.
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I guess, why have your parents already met and added each other on facebook if you've been dating for a week?
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You do things like this and then you learn, that's the real lesson. Those words in your post could be about anything, but the emotional footprint they left is what is important, don't forget that.
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she hot? where's the pics?
take a good look at her mother before you give her a ring - that's what she's gonna look like in 20ish years!
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On October 02 2012 02:50 EnE wrote: This is probably the worst girl blog ever posted in the history of the world No kidding. The hell is this 'actually dating girls' stuff? Where's the part where you make awkward, creepy advances and claim victory despite reality?
Lettin' down the girl blogs, man.
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On October 02 2012 03:34 Dfgj wrote:Show nested quote +On October 02 2012 02:50 EnE wrote: This is probably the worst girl blog ever posted in the history of the world No kidding. The hell is this 'actually dating girls' stuff? Where's the part where you make awkward, creepy advances and claim victory despite reality? Lettin' down the girl blogs, man. =(
Where's the part where I have to give you a 5-paragraph comprehensive case scenario analysis on how to say hi to the girl that has this brightest smile ever that turns your shitty day into heaven and so you've been wanting her for the past 6 months because she lives on the floor below and you see her once a week when she's going to the library at the exact time every Sunday because you've been stalking her by asking a friend of a friend who follows her twitter but you're scared because she might have a boyfriend because this alpha male looking douchebag was within 3 meters of her when you last saw her in the staircase?
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All the best for you and your lady~
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On October 02 2012 02:54 EnE wrote:Show nested quote +On October 02 2012 02:54 Jombozeus wrote: I hope writing everything down makes you realize what you're saying, lol. Of course it does, but this is obviously not a legitimate blog it shouldn't still exist. Oh well.
Hey, no worries, I screen-capped it in case you think of deleting it. It's going NOWHERE.
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Its honestly not that bad.
1.It reeks of desperation 2.You have a chance for another relationship and you already seem willing to take it 3.Your parents met while you guys were dating for a week (WHAT THE !@*#) 4.You cannot communicate at all because she is in Florida (Another WTF)
Anyways, your in college, you probably shouldn't be looking for your soul-mate. Dating a few different people seems like a healthy option; but I don't like the idea of dating people simultaneously, that will have to be something you decide for yourself. Your honesty and emotions seem pretty legit.
It could have been worse . Personally I like looking inside someone else's crazy for a little while.
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On October 02 2012 03:55 marttorn wrote:Show nested quote +On October 02 2012 02:54 EnE wrote:On October 02 2012 02:54 Jombozeus wrote: I hope writing everything down makes you realize what you're saying, lol. Of course it does, but this is obviously not a legitimate blog it shouldn't still exist. Oh well. Hey, no worries, I screen-capped it in case you think of deleting it. It's going NOWHERE.
That's exactly why I quoted it in my post
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In matters like these, always follow your dick.
In other news your entire situation is going to be jnrecognizable in a few days so why bother analyzing it now
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On October 02 2012 05:19 Gene wrote: In matters like these, always follow your dick.
In other news your entire situation is going to be jnrecognizable in a few days so why bother analyzing it now
Haha quite true... the second part
On October 02 2012 03:34 Dfgj wrote:Show nested quote +On October 02 2012 02:50 EnE wrote: This is probably the worst girl blog ever posted in the history of the world No kidding. The hell is this 'actually dating girls' stuff? Where's the part where you make awkward, creepy advances and claim victory despite reality? Lettin' down the girl blogs, man.
Lol well if I actually expose myself to social opportunities im honestly not as awkward as I could be for an sc2 player, actually now I've regained any hurt confidence I dont really care what anyone else thinks as long as im enjoying life and sharing that positive energy.
3.Your parents met while you guys were dating for a week (WHAT THE !@*#)
Well, she needed a ride from her house to meet me somewhere... and I don't have a license yet... so my mum had to take her from her house to where we were meeting and her parents invited her to stay around. hahah
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