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Nufo
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Release
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Elegance
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Disposition1989
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ggrrg
Bulgaria2715 Posts
Although, I'd like to add that getting to know people on facebook is not impossible. A friend of mine "met" his girlfriend that way. They had never seen each other before. He just saw her pic on a friend's wall, sent her a message, they talked for quite a while until they finally met and now they have been together for almost an year. I guess that's rare though  | ||
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Release
United States4397 Posts
Watch "How to Catch a Predator." Although it is fake a fuark, it should dissuade you from online... | ||
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N.geNuity
United States5111 Posts
if you are in some small stupid town then I do feel for you :/ join a club or organisation of some sort. It doesn't even have to be something you're super into, as there are various things like running clubs where some people take it super serious and some people jog and talk. But they all will meet at a park at X time and head off and have fun and talk. | ||
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mordk
Chile8385 Posts
So just go, talk. | ||
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tests
United States160 Posts
If a girlfriend, you need to start the conversation to break the ice, but not in a way where it seems obvious you are trying to make a move. If a friend, try to start a conversation by commenting on something about the person, either a trait, an object he or she is wearing, etc....and then try to relate it to something you like and see if there are any similarities. Best of luck. | ||
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Nufo
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Nufo
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docvoc
United States5491 Posts
, that should be plenty lol. Plus if the people there aren't good enough, go to the nearest big city every once in a while for a club or something, you shouldn't be far, plus no matter how small there will be people with hobbies similar to yours. | ||
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Nufo
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Suc
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babylon
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Daeny
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Maybe join the football team or something like this. | ||
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FallDownMarigold
United States3710 Posts
Are you still in school? If you are just get more social with people, that's easily the simplest place to get the ball rollin | ||
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zalz
Netherlands3704 Posts
You meet the weirdest people, especially when you go alone. One night I went out, I sat at some random bar and started talking with the people behind the bar for a bit. Eventually, some girl appeared next to me, ordering like five beer. She wasn't all that attractive, but it was early in the night, so might as well flex them mad charms. I started talking to her and I felt like we were hitting it off pretty well. She got her five beers and then asked if I was there with anyone else, and since I wasn't I said that I wasn't, then she asked if I wanted to sit with her and her friends. So, fair enough, I get up and follow her to some corner table where four other people were sitting. I introduce myself, bla bla bla, I try to insert myself into the conversation as best I can for someone that they don't know. Always a big risk of joining any group, never let yourself get too excluded or you end up looking like a creeper. So, after a few hours of drinking, they decide to go to some guys appartment and ask if I want to come along. Another good idea when going out alone, accept any offer that people make you, especially the ones that may very well end in murder or rape. But it wasn't so bad. We just went to this guy's appartment (student, so tiny as fuck) and one of them suggested we play dungeons and dragons. Then we proceeded to roleplay dungeons and dragons until like 04:00. I never played D&D before or since, but it was a pretty fun and memorable night. I never saw any of them again, didn't add them on facebook either. I have met some people that I met more often, one person that I even consider a pretty good friend. Going out alone is severely under-rated. You run into way more weird stuff than when you go out with friends. | ||
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