Sad Poem and My Worst. Morning. Ever. - Page 2

On July 27 2012 20:13 bITt.mAN wrote:
Apologize. Then apologize again. Try really hard to empathize with how your mom is feeling, being rejected and (unwillingly) verbally abused. Try to understand the depth of the emotional damage you've been at the center of. Hopefully you'll start feeling much worse as you get to grips with the hurt, but if that's the case, its good to get it out, so get it all out, make the effort to dig all the way to the root of the problem and pain. Really really try as much as you can to NOT RUN AWAY or try distracting yourself and escaping (BW, internet, pron etc) from the problem.
If you can do that, you can truly understand the sort of pain your parents are going through inside, and then you'll truly be in a position for ask for forgivness, and to unite together to seek family harmony. Maybe there are things going on you don't know about or understand, anyone in your position would be confused, but its really key that you commit TOGETHER to uncover, bring to light, work throug, and solve the underlying problems. Trust me, shit like this, if you internalize it, ignore it, try to escape from it and refuse to face it and deal with it - it fucks you up man, and later on down the road it'll take much more work and pain to root it out. Anthough we've reconciled and forgiven eachother now, I've still got doubts about my own worth and adequacy from my Dad taking his alcoholism, stress and frustration out on me. That leaves scars man
So do it now, with a sincere, respectful, yet humble and non-vindictive/spiteful attitude. It will seem hard, but trust me, verily I tell you the truth, it will be much harder to root out if you let the seeds of dissent and family separation grow and mature. Work through it together, get a mediator like your brother in on it, to ensure you don't act out and/or your parents don't either. And let us know. BW bros stick together.

On July 28 2012 01:19 bonifaceviii wrote:
Maybe your mom now knows to throw a glass of water in your face if you're running around in a cape casting spells at night.

On July 28 2012 00:48 3FFA wrote:
Well, I'm going to say something along the lines of. "Mom I need to ask you something... What happened Saturday morning? What did I do that made everyone so angry? I don't understand and it's frustrating. You need to tell me what is going on. I had to wake up and deal with dad calling me stuff like his SLAVE for no reason. I have a right to know."

On July 28 2012 09:57 TORTOISE wrote:
Why don't people make happy blogs?

On July 28 2012 09:57 TORTOISE wrote:
Why don't people make happy blogs?