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On June 13 2012 15:14 Iplaythings wrote:Show nested quote +On June 13 2012 09:22 Synwave wrote:
Sorry but "love" doesnt get bored with a person and want to ditch them. I detest when people throw the word that they love someone and proceed to in no way act that way or show it.
Man up and let her finish her exams before you fuck her over with your loving boredom. I doubt youre gonna check this but please do fucking note that I said I was starting to loose interest in her, poor choice of words that is, there's reasons for me not being in love with her anymore that I'd rather not put up this public, one thng is explaining "what is going to happen" another thing is "why does this happen" that's helluva more complicated.
Of course I will check it. If you only want to say partial things then you're going to have to expect people to respond in a way you find incorrect. The simple fact that you think you are in love with someone within a couple months, and then get bored with them a few months later means that you have no real concept of what love is.
You got infatuated, and now you arent. You can say how we the readers of your blog only know the partial truth and its helluva too complicated for us to understand your real reasons and that may or may not be true. Personally I dont buy it but giving you the benefit of the doubt still leaves me with the problem that I can only respond to what you did write, not some half hidden super truth that Im unaware of.
TLDR: You blogged, people responded, its public. Using the excuse that the readers dont know the whole truth is a cop out.
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On June 13 2012 15:34 Synwave wrote:Show nested quote +On June 13 2012 15:14 Iplaythings wrote:On June 13 2012 09:22 Synwave wrote:
Sorry but "love" doesnt get bored with a person and want to ditch them. I detest when people throw the word that they love someone and proceed to in no way act that way or show it.
Man up and let her finish her exams before you fuck her over with your loving boredom. I doubt youre gonna check this but please do fucking note that I said I was starting to loose interest in her, poor choice of words that is, there's reasons for me not being in love with her anymore that I'd rather not put up this public, one thng is explaining "what is going to happen" another thing is "why does this happen" that's helluva more complicated. Of course I will check it. If you only want to say partial things then you're going to have to expect people to respond in a way you find incorrect. The simple fact that you think you are in love with someone within a couple months, and then get bored with them a few months later means that you have no real concept of what love is. You got infatuated, and now you arent. You can say how we the readers of your blog only know the partial truth and its helluva too complicated for us to understand your real reasons and that may or may not be true. Personally I dont buy it but giving you the benefit of the doubt still leaves me with the problem that I can only respond to what you did write, not some half hidden super truth that Im unaware of. TLDR: You blogged, people responded, its public. Using the excuse that the readers dont know the whole truth is a cop out.
You got a point and you're right about what you say, sorry.
English isn't my first language so I suppose that's bound to create some misunderstandings (to me, in love = infatuated, etc.)
The reasons why I didn't go into the whole "why" is that it's hard for me to put words on it as it's just a gut feeling and I know I get frustrated when I get that as a response, and it didn't have much to do with why I made the blog.
Best way to describe is our relationship is becoming stale and progressless and she hasn't really done much to make it progress while she constantly wants to be in contact and I can't say "no, I want to be alone" without hurting her? Uhh it's tough as fuck to descrie and ariticulate - one of the reason why I didn't bothered with it in the first place.
Though you might disagree but emotions are a fucking random thing and can change from day to day which also includes who you love or not, I might get it confused though as I'm still young and this is my first GF in the teenage years - consider me an inexperienced fellow which alot of people who've responded has mentioned..
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This is probably a problem on her end. She stopped doing whatever it was that made you feel attracted to her
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On June 13 2012 16:56 Iplaythings wrote:Show nested quote +On June 13 2012 15:34 Synwave wrote:On June 13 2012 15:14 Iplaythings wrote:On June 13 2012 09:22 Synwave wrote:
Sorry but "love" doesnt get bored with a person and want to ditch them. I detest when people throw the word that they love someone and proceed to in no way act that way or show it.
Man up and let her finish her exams before you fuck her over with your loving boredom. I doubt youre gonna check this but please do fucking note that I said I was starting to loose interest in her, poor choice of words that is, there's reasons for me not being in love with her anymore that I'd rather not put up this public, one thng is explaining "what is going to happen" another thing is "why does this happen" that's helluva more complicated. Of course I will check it. If you only want to say partial things then you're going to have to expect people to respond in a way you find incorrect. The simple fact that you think you are in love with someone within a couple months, and then get bored with them a few months later means that you have no real concept of what love is. You got infatuated, and now you arent. You can say how we the readers of your blog only know the partial truth and its helluva too complicated for us to understand your real reasons and that may or may not be true. Personally I dont buy it but giving you the benefit of the doubt still leaves me with the problem that I can only respond to what you did write, not some half hidden super truth that Im unaware of. TLDR: You blogged, people responded, its public. Using the excuse that the readers dont know the whole truth is a cop out. You got a point and you're right about what you say, sorry. English isn't my first language so I suppose that's bound to create some misunderstandings (to me, in love = infatuated, etc.) The reasons why I didn't go into the whole "why" is that it's hard for me to put words on it as it's just a gut feeling and I know I get frustrated when I get that as a response, and it didn't have much to do with why I made the blog. Best way to describe is our relationship is becoming stale and progressless and she hasn't really done much to make it progress while she constantly wants to be in contact and I can't say "no, I want to be alone" without hurting her? Uhh it's tough as fuck to descrie and ariticulate - one of the reason why I didn't bothered with it in the first place. Though you might disagree but emotions are a fucking random thing and can change from day to day which also includes who you love or not, I might get it confused though as I'm still young and this is my first GF in the teenage years - consider me an inexperienced fellow which alot of people who've responded has mentioned..
Ah! Yeah you misusing infatuation with the word love did lead me to completely misunderstand your blog and responses. It makes a lot more sense now.
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On June 13 2012 05:06 Iplaythings wrote:
So well I need a place to rant cus my innards aren't feeling too good atm.
I'm in a relationship with a really nice and sweet girl my age, she's got the looks and everything physical but what I can't fucking comprehend is that after 4 and a half month I'm starting to loose interest in her.
It's not the first time it happend, but the other time it was caused by myself being depressed for a weeks time, which happens to me from time to time..
However, back then I was able to assure myself that it was because of me and my own fucked up mind that made me a depressed fuck, not the relationship between me and my GF, this time is just more plain out painful that I'm loosing interest and really consider breaking up..
And the fucking plainful thing is that it's obvious to me that she's in love with me and I don't wanna hurt her.
Now I know what most of you who read this is gonna think: "Man the fuck up and get it out of the world" - well yeah I intend to face-to-face even as I want to ease the shock for her, problem is that I have no real opportunity to meet her in person, got dumped once before over a text and I'm not gonna do it over a text, that's for fucking certain.
So why have I no opportunity to meet her? Wellp cus she's studying for her oral exams (which I don't have any of this year).
And god fucking damn it, as I write this I manage to make her said by saying that people could get the impression that she was easy cus of her looks.
Fuck
My
Life
Of course she's gonna misunderstand that, why the fuck now.
Ah well back on topic, what really fucks me up is that I want to get this shit out of the way and I dont want to fuck over her exams, but guess I'll have to.
Good, I hope that next time I write a (girl) blog it'll be at a happy occasion
Well, you've clearly had sex, that's when you get bored. Not kidding. You become disinterested in her and focused on sex.
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