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Canada2419 Posts
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Makavillin
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On March 24 2012 15:34 OpticalShot wrote: I came to this blog eager to offer advice... but I'm afraid I have no words of wisdom to offer. Instead, I think I'll take some of your messages and have a moment of recollection. This... Going through the same thing, except my situation is a little worse. Actually, a lot worse. Great advice. My problem is I have a terrible time moving forward. In the past, I dwell on the moment for months but as soon as I break free I come to a realisation that being single is just as great as being with someone. Thanks for this. | ||
Risen
United States7927 Posts
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Makavillin
113 Posts
On March 25 2012 03:54 Risen wrote: This is why I have a no talking to exes policy. Want to talk to your ex while we're in a relationship? End it. I agree. I'd be all for it if women could be trusted but I find too often now days they cannot. | ||
RogerX
New Zealand3180 Posts
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Spieltor
327 Posts
On March 25 2012 03:54 Risen wrote: This is why I have a no talking to exes policy. Want to talk to your ex while we're in a relationship? End it. the grass is always greener.. The reason people go back to their Ex is because they're chasing a fantasy, and if a chick really does go back she's being rewarded (like a pavlovian dog) for her behavior, so she will do it MORE in the future. There's a reason that a study proved that females with less sexual partners over a lifetime can have a more stable marriage in the future, and it will last longer. (note: men can do the same thing, if women reward them like pavlov for changing "up"). She didn't love her ex enough to stay with him. She didn't love you enough to stay with you, because going back to china means getting back with her ex. Its a simple case of "I need anyone to love me/tap it". She's the immature one. | ||
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United States538 Posts
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