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rotinegg
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Froadac
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Zorkmid
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We contacted his family about his suicidal references and we decided to cut off communication with him. He's done much better since then. | ||
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Synwave
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Hope it all works out for you  | ||
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`Zapdos
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DEN1ED
United States1087 Posts
On February 16 2012 01:50 rotinegg wrote: which lead to many arguments and eventually the prohibition of the subject altogether. Anyway, she didn't tell me, but her best friend told me that he was there. Wouldn't her telling you he was there bring up the prohibited subject? Maybe I'm not understanding this correctly but it doesn't seem like she cheated on you or anything. Some stalker guy just keeps coming around and she didn't tell you since it would only cause an argument anyways. | ||
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rotinegg
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Kipsate
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kdramas have happy endings go for it, get yours. | ||
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TheKwas
Iceland372 Posts
That's not an insult btw, most people can't deal with LDRs for very long. I can't, for example. Also, I can't seriously believe that the reason she broke up with you is solely because you lied when you were keeping her best friend's secret. There's clearly more deep, underlying reasons. | ||
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Uranium
United States1077 Posts
On February 16 2012 01:50 rotinegg wrote:Anyway, she didn't tell me, but her best friend told me that he was there. She asked me if her best friend had told. I asked her best friend can I tell, and she said their friendship would take a big hit. I lied, but at the same time best friend decided to change her mind and tell. That's your problem. Friend fucked you over to protect herself. Never trust anyone. | ||
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rotinegg
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Jibba
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On February 16 2012 02:16 TheKwas wrote: Honestly, you're literally on the other side of the world, and you get visually upset when she has contact with other guys (who, it seems, she doesn't even like). If you can't emotionally deal with your girl interacting with other guys, including other guys that romantically like her, then you're not emotionally ready for a LDR. I don't blame her for ending it That's not an insult btw, most people can't deal with LDRs for very long. I can't, for example. Also, I can't seriously believe that the reason she broke up with you is solely because you lied when you were keeping her best friend's secret. There's clearly more deep, underlying reasons. ^ Even I wanted to be that one person in her life that she could go to is problematic because it's not about you. That's just a selfish way to consider her step-father's death. She'll do what she needs to do and talk to who she needs to talk to, and you don't seem comfortable with that. Plus the comment about 'America-borns', being clingy and a lying pact... how old are you? Either way, I think you'll 100% get over it. | ||
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Azzur
Australia6259 Posts
The breakup part sounds a bit crazy - you're breaking up over another guy?? Hmmm... I know this may be hard for you but take this advice on an outsider's viewpoint... She broke up with you because she is tired dealing with your neediness. When a breakup happens over a seemingly trivial thing, something has been boiling for a very long time. Actually, it was possibly a test - if you had called her out on the breakup and didn't respond by begging, I think things would've been better. Actually, I don't understand why she thinks that its acceptable for another guy to continually proposition her and she thinks that it's ok for you not to get angry... if the roles were reversed won't she get upset?? You need to say her actions are not acceptable and that seeing him is a big no. The problem is, the relationship means too much for you and that leads to neediness, and girls don't like this... | ||
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Jibba
United States22883 Posts
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krisss
Luxembourg305 Posts
If you trust her, dont be jealous, if you dont, leave her. Still sorry for you, you will find just another perfect girl. Btw: imho you dont find the "perfect" girl in a club. Think well about sending the gifts. I would not. Whats you plan by doing it? Getting her back? Whats the chance? Not much i guess, and even when it works, will you change about ur jealousy, etc.? Would you accept the proposition of the to stay "friends"? Would you like to talk with her about her new bf, see her with her new bf? I doubt it. Let£s explain it in SC2 vocabulary. YOu are in a game where your behind in supply by 100. If you still want to win the game, you have to invest A LOT of time and energy. Most ppl would tell you to just deal with the loss, and play the next game. It hurts, because it was a good game. But after some time, when watching the replay, you wonder why you kept fighting so hard, when it was obvious that you lost a long time ago. Edit: maybe in Korea/Asia breaking up is not seen as "huge" as in the western countries, i dont know. But in western cultures, i had not 1 friend who could get back her "perfect girl". Maybe for few months, but now for long. | ||
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Roe
Canada6002 Posts
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Monokeros
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rotinegg
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Sayle
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seRapH
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On February 16 2012 02:13 Kipsate wrote: This is like a kdrama kdramas have happy endings go for it, get yours. On February 16 2012 02:30 Monokeros wrote: looking forward to Season 2 when you get back together. would read again. GET OUT OF MY MIND | ||
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