EPTWeird Parenting Situation - Page 2
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HackBenjamin
Canada1094 Posts
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kamikami
France1057 Posts
On December 08 2011 08:08 Marradron wrote: I'd install some hidden cameras in the meeting area. Just in case. As long as he treads the kid right give him a chance. If anything comes up, he seems drunk, drugged or anything else go to court and have his rights removed. Completely agree ! It's your house, so you can have as many cameras as you want. And if anything turns bad, you can just show the video to the juge lol. | ||
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FreshNoThyme
United States356 Posts
On December 08 2011 07:43 Kurr wrote: Kind of funny that you bitch about him doing drugs when : And you smoke weed too. I guess those don't count as drugs anymore? Kid sounds fucked either way. Caffeine is a drug. Nicotine is a drug. Those are consumed by hundreds of millions a day and people rarely bitch about people taking these "drugs" on the same day as they are around kids. Alcohol is a drug, and yet someone having a few beers one night and visiting their child the next doesn't necessarily endanger the child. Don't generalize so much. | ||
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Whole
United States6046 Posts
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NotJumperer
United States1371 Posts
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Xivsa
United States1009 Posts
On December 08 2011 14:44 Jumperer wrote: Why would anyone ever date a single mom? Because one is not so insecure in dealing with children and exes (in fairness, many aren't as bad as this guy). | ||
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Revolt
United States288 Posts
cuz either way you'll look like a jerk. | ||
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Boonbag
France3318 Posts
you're jealous and that's normal just don't bring up the topic with the kid, it concerns him only elevate yourself and think to some extent there's a small chance this could turn out positive however if hes a busy coke head and is doing all that only to piss his ex off, then don't worry, unless hes a fucken psycho, he will get bored eventually now problem is the kid might get a bit hurt in the process or confused situation sucks, you need a good deal of self control and maturity over this maybe you should prevently, go see a psychologist to help you cope with the situation or even get advice from | ||
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KeksX
Germany3634 Posts
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_awake_
196 Posts
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darkscream
Canada2310 Posts
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Marradron
Netherlands1586 Posts
On December 08 2011 22:07 _awake_ wrote: Why does he have to be in your house while he's visiting his child? Shouldn't he take the child away and return him to your house after he's done? Depends, if the visiting rights are very small. Like a few hours I believe it is normal to do it either under observation or at the childs house. I assume he doesn't get custody in the weekends ? | ||
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zalz
Netherlands3704 Posts
Why should he not be allowed to visit his own child? Sadly, being a good human being is not a requirement for being a father. | ||
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Aelonius
Netherlands432 Posts
On December 09 2011 01:23 zalz wrote: It's his child, he pays child support. Why should he not be allowed to visit his own child? Sadly, being a good human being is not a requirement for being a father. Sadly, the law seems to favour crackheads and obnoxious bitches over hardworking people that have atleast two braincells fully functional. Twisted system over there, in NL (I am dutch) it's much less like that. | ||
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