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When one of them accuses you of being a dick, accept it, admit it and ask them to forgive you. Then make a concentrated effort not to be.
The next time it happens, do the same. Tell them that you don't intend to behave that way and then man up and back up your words with actions.
Take their grief and admit to being it's cause. Don't react negatively, instead assume that everything they say is true and try to fix it.
Eventually, they will understand that you are not a dick. Oh, and most importantly, DO NOT have fun at other people's expense, regardless of who they are. That will just prove that you're a dick.
Last but not least, if you want to speed up the process go apologize to every girl you made fun of last year. Admit that you were an ass and don't try to defend your behavior in any way. Remove every shred of dignity you have and above all, make sure that you do it privately.
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On October 06 2011 05:53 Complete wrote:
Wait until college obviously. You sound like a bit of a douche though fyi, no reason to wind people up 'cos i feels like it and dont cares'
Yeah I know I agree I was arrogant and a bit of a tool, put everybody else was doing it and im sure you could understand me wanting to do it just to fit in and be the same as everyone else. ( of course I realise know that it was definitely not the right thing to do )
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Join the army? You'll learn how to keep your mouth shut when you don't need to talk... lol >.< otherwise You'll just keep digging that grave 
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On October 06 2011 06:00 Geordie wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2011 05:53 Complete wrote:
Wait until college obviously. You sound like a bit of a douche though fyi, no reason to wind people up 'cos i feels like it and dont cares' Yeah I know I agree I was arrogant and a bit of a tool, put everybody else was doing it and im sure you could understand me wanting to do it just to fit in and be the same as everyone else. ( of course I realise know that it was definitely not the right thing to do )
You're still sounding like a dick. Shifting the blame off of yourself (you've blamed the girl for being a bitch and now its everyone else's fault you acted like one).
Man up, accept that you're a dick, and work to correct it.
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You must of REALLY said some stupid shit for it to have carried over years later. Give it time, or wait til university. You're fucked (not literally, unfortunately) until then.
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I am sure you can make some new friends in the football lockers....
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On October 06 2011 05:58 IVFearless wrote:
When one of them accuses you of being a dick, accept it, admit it and ask them to forgive you. Then make a concentrated effort not to be.
The next time it happens, do the same. Tell them that you don't intend to behave that way and then man up and back up your words with actions.
Take their grief and admit to being it's cause. Don't react negatively, instead assume that everything they say is true and try to fix it.
Eventually, they will understand that you are not a dick. Oh, and most importantly, DO NOT have fun at other people's expense, regardless of who they are. That will just prove that you're a dick.
Last but not least, if you want to speed up the process go apologize to every girl you made fun of last year. Admit that you were an ass and don't try to defend your behavior in any way. Remove every shred of dignity you have and above all, make sure that you do it privately.
Yeah actually that was really helpful kind of opened my eyes.. I guess tommorow is going to be the day of trying to rebuild smashed down bridges.
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On October 06 2011 06:04 Swwww wrote:
I am sure you can make some new friends in the football lockers....
Not into that stuff, sorry friend
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Threads like this are why I regret clicking blogs sometimes. Then again some of the best threads are in blogs.
Conundrum!
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On October 06 2011 06:03 garlicface wrote:
You must of REALLY said some stupid shit for it to have carried over years later. Give it time, or wait til university. You're fucked (not literally, unfortunately) until then.
Years later, nah, it was the last year of school so most of it was like 6 months ago or something. as I have said none of the stuff I said was really in my opinion that bad ( of course the people must of felt differently ) and it doesnt excuse me being a dick as I have said.
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On October 06 2011 06:08 Geordie wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2011 06:04 Swwww wrote:
I am sure you can make some new friends in the football lockers.... Not into that stuff, sorry friend
Well if you are from Newcastle the boys in the mens locker-rooms are probably more female than the trolls that inhabit that part of the land...
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On October 06 2011 06:10 Synwave wrote:
Threads like this are why I regret clicking blogs sometimes. Then again some of the best threads are in blogs.
Conundrum!
I dont really care what you think, you obviously have a lot of time on your hands if you feel the need to comment on every blog you do not approve of. I didnt write this just for you.
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On October 06 2011 06:11 Swwww wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2011 06:08 Geordie wrote:On October 06 2011 06:04 Swwww wrote:
I am sure you can make some new friends in the football lockers.... Not into that stuff, sorry friend Well if you are from Newcastle the boys in the mens locker-rooms are probably more female than the trolls that inhabit that part of the land...
haha, thats what people say but there actually are alot of gorgeous girls here.
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On October 06 2011 05:27 Geordie wrote:
EXAMPLE : I walk into our maths class and I sit down and the bitch who on our seating plan ( chilidsh I know )
Childish? You sound enough like a child to me to justify it XD
Seating charts <3
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On October 06 2011 06:15 micronesia wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2011 05:27 Geordie wrote:
EXAMPLE : I walk into our maths class and I sit down and the bitch who on our seating plan ( chilidsh I know ) Childish? You sound enough like a child to me to justify it XD Seating charts <3
I agree
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Pretty much everything fearless said is good advice. I used to be the schoolyard bully in elementary school (I was a tiny little asian kid but when u start throwing rocks and get suspended NO ONE fucks with you lol). Girls of all sorts used to despise me, but I think after being scolded and suspended enough times I ended up being the bookworm nerd who did little talking. Eventually people looked past what I used to do as a kid.
Going into middle school and high school I still had a few grudges (cause girls will be girls) against me but if you talk to them differently then even those hard feelings will go away.
Although it has only been 6 months, if you take the time to man up to their rightful bitching and calmly tell 'em your sorry then things should lighten. BTW you get more bonus points the less dramatic you do it- I've seen guys with no balls bow their goddamn heads and whimper out their apologies, don't do that.
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If you're not willing to accept the consequences of being an asshole, don't be an asshole. And that's coming from a fucking pro.
I can't go a week without being called a dick, an asshole, or some other random word with similar connotations at least twice. And I love it. It means that other people don't have power to control me through petty guilt about the fact that I'm honest and direct, and just happen to hate about 70% of people I meet.
If you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
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On October 06 2011 06:12 Geordie wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2011 06:10 Synwave wrote:
Threads like this are why I regret clicking blogs sometimes. Then again some of the best threads are in blogs.
Conundrum! I dont really care what you think, you obviously have a lot of time on your hands if you feel the need to comment on every blog you do not approve of. I didnt write this just for you.
Actually I don't, I just randomly clicked this but your acceptance of seating charts pretty much sums up my point. Oh and the fact that you blog this to get opinions shows you care.
I care for you too <3
Probably not in the way you care for me though
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On October 06 2011 06:25 Synwave wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2011 06:12 Geordie wrote:On October 06 2011 06:10 Synwave wrote:
Threads like this are why I regret clicking blogs sometimes. Then again some of the best threads are in blogs.
Conundrum! I dont really care what you think, you obviously have a lot of time on your hands if you feel the need to comment on every blog you do not approve of. I didnt write this just for you. Actually I don't, I just randomly clicked this but your acceptance of seating charts pretty much sums up my point. Oh and the fact that you blog this to get opinions shows you care. I care for you too <3 Probably not in the way you care for me though
Well let me correct that, I dont care about the opinion of people like you who sit their thinking that every blog must tailored towards your needs or something... if you dont like the blog I guess just dont comment?
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On October 06 2011 06:25 Synwave wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2011 06:12 Geordie wrote:On October 06 2011 06:10 Synwave wrote:
Threads like this are why I regret clicking blogs sometimes. Then again some of the best threads are in blogs.
Conundrum! I dont really care what you think, you obviously have a lot of time on your hands if you feel the need to comment on every blog you do not approve of. I didnt write this just for you. Actually I don't, I just randomly clicked this but your acceptance of seating charts pretty much sums up my point. Oh and the fact that you blog this to get opinions shows you care. I care for you too <3 Probably not in the way you care for me though
Hey Geordie letsee you stand up to this man and show us how much of a dick you are. Cause he's playing you easily and patting you on the head in the end- Oooh the disrespect!
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