EPTMy advice to you would be to practice talking to girls you don't care so much about. Try things out to see what does and doesn't work. What might work for me might not work for you, and vice versa, but do realize that confidence is a huge plus in the eyes of girls.
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pyaar
United States423 Posts
My advice to you would be to practice talking to girls you don't care so much about. Try things out to see what does and doesn't work. What might work for me might not work for you, and vice versa, but do realize that confidence is a huge plus in the eyes of girls. | ||
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NarutO
Germany18839 Posts
Just get into a normal conversation. 'Hey sorry didn't want to interrupt you but I've noticed you bla' mostly works and if she sends you into desert, its most likely not because of a pick up line... Obviously if you behave like a retard or creep she'll give you something funny... | ||
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Azera
3800 Posts
On September 30 2011 21:03 mTw|NarutO wrote: Just talk to her. Most girls / women are really happy and friendly about it... because its a huge compliment. Your pick up line or conversation starter... is utterly shit really :s! Earphones are annoying? Wtf.. Just get into a normal conversation. 'Hey sorry didn't want to interrupt you but I've noticed you bla' mostly works and if she sends you into desert, its most likely not because of a pick up line... Obviously if you behave like a retard or creep she'll give you something funny... Sorry, I haven't had much experience with pick up lines T.T | ||
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zeOllie
Australia486 Posts
and good choice of songs. you know what. I give you my full support to go up to her and man up and DO IT :DD and if it fails... (which it won't) there are plenty of other fish in the see. heres a random quote: success comes from experience which usually comes from failure so gl hf!!!! and GO GET HER BOY! | ||
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me_viet
Australia1350 Posts
lol it's funny cause I pretty much went to the only Selective School in my state back in my days, and we had the problem that everyone else from other schools justs thinks we're a bunch of pompous smart-asses (we were smart-asses but we were nice =[ ). But yea. Confidence. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. YOU HAVE TL's support behind you =] | ||
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Danika
Mexico112 Posts
think the timezone will be a bit of a problem Btw im really impressed by the way you post your feelings, you should really consider being an author of some kind, (btw im an english teacher myself :p ) srsly the only problem i see in you is building the confidence to talk to her , because trust me with those kind of words you can talk pretty good to girls | ||
ZeromuS
Canada13405 Posts
On September 30 2011 20:40 GigaFlop wrote: Just talk about whatever, so long as it isn't too personal at first. And as for your hands, don't fidget. If it's a problem, keep them in your pocket or something, or at your sides. Carry a backpack. Hold the straps while you talk and then make it seem like you are on your way somewhere if things get realy awkward and you get completely denied. Also if she doenst know who you are then its a bad idea to completely ask her out without you and her knowing eachother. | ||
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gzealot
Singapore238 Posts
SG girls are totally "cannot make it". (In English, they are just plain bad.) They aren't really open to cold approaches, and you gotta be really smooth, or look epicly good. Just chill.. | ||
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Dfgj
Singapore5922 Posts
On September 30 2011 22:59 gzealot wrote: Sorry Azera I will be the one to burst your bubble. Coming from Singapore and studying in the States for 3 years now, I will just say this: SG girls are totally "cannot make it". (In English, they are just plain bad.) They aren't really open to cold approaches, and you gotta be really smooth, or look epicly good. Just chill.. Seconded, for the vast majority of them. | ||
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Charger
United States2405 Posts
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Chill
Calgary25996 Posts
 I liked it a lot. | ||
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Azera
3800 Posts
On September 30 2011 21:37 zeOllie wrote: Dude. that was insipirational writing. and good choice of songs. you know what. I give you my full support to go up to her and man up and DO IT :DD and if it fails... (which it won't) there are plenty of other fish in the see. heres a random quote: success comes from experience which usually comes from failure so gl hf!!!! and GO GET HER BOY! On September 30 2011 21:39 me_viet wrote: Confidence o young'un. Confidence. Then it doesn't even matter what you say. lol it's funny cause I pretty much went to the only Selective School in my state back in my days, and we had the problem that everyone else from other schools justs thinks we're a bunch of pompous smart-asses (we were smart-asses but we were nice =[ ). But yea. Confidence. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. YOU HAVE TL's support behind you =] On September 30 2011 22:25 Danika wrote: Hey Azera would you like to skype with me i could help you out with your nervouseness; then again i think the timezone will be a bit of a problem Btw im really impressed by the way you post your feelings, you should really consider being an author of some kind, (btw im an english teacher myself :p ) srsly the only problem i see in you is building the confidence to talk to her , because trust me with those kind of words you can talk pretty good to girls Thanks for the support! =) I'll try not to let you guys down. And sorry, I don't have Skype anyways =( Won't know if I don't try... | ||
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GigaFlop
United States1146 Posts
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Azera
3800 Posts
On October 01 2011 00:56 Chill wrote: Nice writing I liked it a lot.Thanks! That really means a lot coming from somebody who has read a ton of girl blogs =) On October 01 2011 01:00 GigaFlop wrote: ^ Then try! D: I definitely will! I think I'll re-read this again in the morning to empower myself again XD | ||
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Blazinghand
United States25558 Posts
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Eufouria
United Kingdom4425 Posts
On October 01 2011 00:56 Chill wrote: Nice writing I liked it a lot.This is a momentous occasion in the history of TL girl blogs. OP your writing is good, really good actually, but its also really hard to give you advice, because its so descriptive. In fact I don't even know if you're looking for advice, on second thought maybe you aren't | ||
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Azera
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Chill
Calgary25996 Posts
If you want to have the highest chance of getting this girl, do not show her your writing. If you want an ego stroke with no chance of strong rejection but little chance of getting her, show her your writing. | ||
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Blazinghand
United States25558 Posts
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Azera
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