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pyaar
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United States423 Posts
September 30 2011 11:50 GMT
#21
When substitute teachers or whatever told us when I was younger to "sharpen our social skills," it always struck me as a little bit odd, but I've realized there's a lot of truth in that. Socializing is just like anything else: the more you do it, the better you get at it.

My advice to you would be to practice talking to girls you don't care so much about. Try things out to see what does and doesn't work. What might work for me might not work for you, and vice versa, but do realize that confidence is a huge plus in the eyes of girls.

NarutO
Profile Blog Joined December 2006
Germany18839 Posts
September 30 2011 12:03 GMT
#22
Just talk to her. Most girls / women are really happy and friendly about it... because its a huge compliment. Your pick up line or conversation starter... is utterly shit really :s! Earphones are annoying? Wtf..

Just get into a normal conversation. 'Hey sorry didn't want to interrupt you but I've noticed you bla' mostly works and if she sends you into desert, its most likely not because of a pick up line...
Obviously if you behave like a retard or creep she'll give you something funny...
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Azera
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
3800 Posts
September 30 2011 12:09 GMT
#23
On September 30 2011 21:03 mTw|NarutO wrote:
Just talk to her. Most girls / women are really happy and friendly about it... because its a huge compliment. Your pick up line or conversation starter... is utterly shit really :s! Earphones are annoying? Wtf..

Just get into a normal conversation. 'Hey sorry didn't want to interrupt you but I've noticed you bla' mostly works and if she sends you into desert, its most likely not because of a pick up line...
Obviously if you behave like a retard or creep she'll give you something funny...


Sorry, I haven't had much experience with pick up lines T.T
Check out some great music made by TLers - http://bit.ly/QXYhdb , by intrigue. http://bit.ly/RTjpOR , by ohsea.toc.
zeOllie
Profile Blog Joined May 2011
Australia486 Posts
September 30 2011 12:37 GMT
#24
Dude. that was insipirational writing.

and good choice of songs.

you know what. I give you my full support to go up to her and man up and DO IT :DD

and if it fails... (which it won't) there are plenty of other fish in the see.

heres a random quote: success comes from experience which usually comes from failure

so gl hf!!!! and GO GET HER BOY!
When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive - to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.
me_viet
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
Australia1350 Posts
September 30 2011 12:39 GMT
#25
Confidence o young'un. Confidence. Then it doesn't even matter what you say.

lol it's funny cause I pretty much went to the only Selective School in my state back in my days, and we had the problem that everyone else from other schools justs thinks we're a bunch of pompous smart-asses (we were smart-asses but we were nice =[ ).

But yea. Confidence. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. YOU HAVE TL's support behind you =]
Danika
Profile Joined February 2011
Mexico112 Posts
September 30 2011 13:25 GMT
#26
Hey Azera would you like to skype with me i could help you out with your nervouseness; then again i
think the timezone will be a bit of a problem
Btw im really impressed by the way you post your feelings, you should really consider being an author of some kind, (btw im an english teacher myself :p )
srsly the only problem i see in you is building the confidence to talk to her , because trust me with those kind of words you can talk pretty good to girls
If life turns her back on you, grab her ass.
ZeromuS
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
Canada13389 Posts
September 30 2011 13:51 GMT
#27
On September 30 2011 20:40 GigaFlop wrote:
Show nested quote +
On September 30 2011 20:30 Azera wrote:
On September 30 2011 20:25 Demonace34 wrote:
On September 30 2011 20:14 Azera wrote:
On September 30 2011 20:08 Demonace34 wrote:
You are over thinking everything and the line "All I wanted was for us to talk to each other, soul to soul, disregarding our mortal flesh, as equals, just as we would be when we stand at the feet of God." is a bit too much for not actually getting to know her yet.

If you can calm down and just relax and talk to her like you talk to other people you know, you can ease the notch up slowly to show her that you like her. Instead you have these feeling already without getting to know her which is just infatuation.

Relax, talk to her like normal, and take it step by step. At the moment you are going to come off too strong and it is going to push her away.

Good luck. (Where is Rekrul when we need him for girl blogs?)


Yeah, I definitely don't want to come off as too strong. But to clear things up, what I meant by that sentence is that I wanted her to overlook our academic differences =P


Academic differences shouldn't matter, the problem is that you don't feel like you are good enough for her and your confidence is non-existent. I used to be the same way through up to 8th grade and it was the reason I didn't get girls until high school.

If you do like her and she doesn't like you back, then atleast you know and are able to move on to someone else. If you keep doing this you will eventually beat yourself up over it. Either she likes you and you waited forever and she has a boyfriend, or she doesn't like you and you've been missing opportunities with other girls that do or will like you.



Ok then, how should I start conversation. I know I should say a casual "Hi", but what do I do with my hands?

Just talk about whatever, so long as it isn't too personal at first. And as for your hands, don't fidget. If it's a problem, keep them in your pocket or something, or at your sides.


Carry a backpack. Hold the straps while you talk and then make it seem like you are on your way somewhere if things get realy awkward and you get completely denied. Also if she doenst know who you are then its a bad idea to completely ask her out without you and her knowing eachother.
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gzealot
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
Singapore238 Posts
September 30 2011 13:59 GMT
#28
Sorry Azera I will be the one to burst your bubble. Coming from Singapore and studying in the States for 3 years now, I will just say this:

SG girls are totally "cannot make it". (In English, they are just plain bad.)
They aren't really open to cold approaches, and you gotta be really smooth, or look epicly good. Just chill..
Dfgj
Profile Joined May 2008
Singapore5922 Posts
September 30 2011 14:19 GMT
#29
On September 30 2011 22:59 gzealot wrote:
Sorry Azera I will be the one to burst your bubble. Coming from Singapore and studying in the States for 3 years now, I will just say this:

SG girls are totally "cannot make it". (In English, they are just plain bad.)
They aren't really open to cold approaches, and you gotta be really smooth, or look epicly good. Just chill..

Seconded, for the vast majority of them.
Charger
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
United States2405 Posts
September 30 2011 14:25 GMT
#30
Hell at this point I think just talking to her would be the biggest accomplishment of the situation, regardless of if she shuts you down hard or says yes, it's almost irrelevant at this point. The worst that can happen is she says no and you are no worse off in life than you are now, hell you might even come out ahead with the valuable experience gained.
It's easy to be a Monday morning quarterback.
Chill
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
Calgary25980 Posts
September 30 2011 15:56 GMT
#31
Nice writing I liked it a lot.
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Azera
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
3800 Posts
September 30 2011 15:57 GMT
#32
On September 30 2011 21:37 zeOllie wrote:
Dude. that was insipirational writing.

and good choice of songs.

you know what. I give you my full support to go up to her and man up and DO IT :DD

and if it fails... (which it won't) there are plenty of other fish in the see.

heres a random quote: success comes from experience which usually comes from failure

so gl hf!!!! and GO GET HER BOY!


On September 30 2011 21:39 me_viet wrote:
Confidence o young'un. Confidence. Then it doesn't even matter what you say.

lol it's funny cause I pretty much went to the only Selective School in my state back in my days, and we had the problem that everyone else from other schools justs thinks we're a bunch of pompous smart-asses (we were smart-asses but we were nice =[ ).

But yea. Confidence. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. YOU HAVE TL's support behind you =]


On September 30 2011 22:25 Danika wrote:
Hey Azera would you like to skype with me i could help you out with your nervouseness; then again i
think the timezone will be a bit of a problem
Btw im really impressed by the way you post your feelings, you should really consider being an author of some kind, (btw im an english teacher myself :p )
srsly the only problem i see in you is building the confidence to talk to her , because trust me with those kind of words you can talk pretty good to girls


Thanks for the support! =) I'll try not to let you guys down. And sorry, I don't have Skype anyways =(
On September 30 2011 23:19 Dfgj wrote:
Show nested quote +
On September 30 2011 22:59 gzealot wrote:
Sorry Azera I will be the one to burst your bubble. Coming from Singapore and studying in the States for 3 years now, I will just say this:

SG girls are totally "cannot make it". (In English, they are just plain bad.)
They aren't really open to cold approaches, and you gotta be really smooth, or look epicly good. Just chill..

Seconded, for the vast majority of them.


Won't know if I don't try...


Check out some great music made by TLers - http://bit.ly/QXYhdb , by intrigue. http://bit.ly/RTjpOR , by ohsea.toc.
GigaFlop
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
United States1146 Posts
September 30 2011 16:00 GMT
#33
^ Then try! D:
(╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻ "Shift-Q oftentimes makes a capital Q" - Day[9] || iNcontrol - Alligator from heaven = ^
Azera
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
3800 Posts
September 30 2011 16:07 GMT
#34
On October 01 2011 00:56 Chill wrote:
Nice writing I liked it a lot.


Thanks! That really means a lot coming from somebody who has read a ton of girl blogs =)

On October 01 2011 01:00 GigaFlop wrote:
^ Then try! D:


I definitely will! I think I'll re-read this again in the morning to empower myself again XD
Check out some great music made by TLers - http://bit.ly/QXYhdb , by intrigue. http://bit.ly/RTjpOR , by ohsea.toc.
Blazinghand *
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
United States25551 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-09-30 16:20:59
September 30 2011 16:20 GMT
#35
Don't give up! People can be shy, and even if this doesn't work out you'll have lots of chances.
When you stare into the iCCup, the iCCup stares back.
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Eufouria
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
United Kingdom4425 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-09-30 16:33:06
September 30 2011 16:32 GMT
#36
On October 01 2011 00:56 Chill wrote:
Nice writing I liked it a lot.

This is a momentous occasion in the history of TL girl blogs.

OP your writing is good, really good actually, but its also really hard to give you advice, because its so descriptive.

In fact I don't even know if you're looking for advice, on second thought maybe you aren't
Azera
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
3800 Posts
September 30 2011 17:06 GMT
#37
What would happen if I showed the girl what I wrote?
Check out some great music made by TLers - http://bit.ly/QXYhdb , by intrigue. http://bit.ly/RTjpOR , by ohsea.toc.
Chill
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
Calgary25980 Posts
September 30 2011 17:14 GMT
#38
Depends on your goal. People devise these plans of leaving notes and letters and shit with girls so they don't have to face rejection.

If you want to have the highest chance of getting this girl, do not show her your writing.

If you want an ego stroke with no chance of strong rejection but little chance of getting her, show her your writing.
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Blazinghand *
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
United States25551 Posts
September 30 2011 17:14 GMT
#39
In my experience, it's always been better to say these things than to show what you've written. I've had a 0% success rate with showing written stuff like this, whereas I've had a non-0% success rate with trying to talk earnestly.
When you stare into the iCCup, the iCCup stares back.
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Azera
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
3800 Posts
September 30 2011 17:17 GMT
#40
Well then , I guess Ill just talk to her. If we get together I can show her right? Or is that too creepy?
Check out some great music made by TLers - http://bit.ly/QXYhdb , by intrigue. http://bit.ly/RTjpOR , by ohsea.toc.
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