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GigaFlop
United States1146 Posts
On September 29 2011 07:26 LanTAs wrote: I never intended to have Sherman tag along, he kinda intruded =.= and also i didn't count on having one of her friends tag along too One time, I got a girl out to dinner on campus with me. She brought her 3 roomates. You're lucky. | ||
Jibba
United States22883 Posts
On September 29 2011 07:19 LanTAs wrote: Well it was more like going out for lunch :O That's not a date. She probably didn't think it was. | ||
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LanTAs
United States1091 Posts
On September 29 2011 07:33 GigaFlop wrote: One time, I got a girl out to dinner on campus with me. She brought her 3 roomates. You're lucky. Thanks : ), that made me feel a bit better  | ||
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RezChi
Canada2368 Posts
That i'd have to say is a success. | ||
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LanTAs
United States1091 Posts
On September 29 2011 08:08 RezChi wrote: At least she went out with you with a friends when she was ignoring you lol. That i'd have to say is a success. I guess..... still deciding what is my next move | ||
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GigaFlop
United States1146 Posts
On September 29 2011 07:57 LanTAs wrote: Thanks : ), that made me feel a bit better After a few minutes, though, two went back to their dorm, because the place we originally planned to go to was closed. Even so, I thought that it was just going to be me and her. But still, feel lucky. I didn't even get a word in to the girl I liked until after 5 minutes of standing around. | ||
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puppykiller
United States3137 Posts
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LanTAs
United States1091 Posts
On September 29 2011 08:51 GigaFlop wrote: After a few minutes, though, two went back to their dorm, because the place we originally planned to go to was closed. Even so, I thought that it was just going to be me and her. But still, feel lucky. I didn't even get a word in to the girl I liked until after 5 minutes of standing around. y Lol..... yeah that kinda happened a bit today | ||
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althaz
Australia1001 Posts
On September 29 2011 07:33 GigaFlop wrote: One time, I got a girl out to dinner on campus with me. She brought her 3 roomates. You're lucky. How does this not make you lucky?  In all seriousness if a girl is bringing somebody else with her then she either a) didn't realise it was meant to be a date, b) didn't want it to be a date, or c) is a douchebag. a) is the more likely option with the possibility of a little b) mixed in. Just ask the girl "when do you want to go on a date with me?" Girls don't know shit about dudes just like dudes don't know shit about girls so they appreciate straightforwardedness (is that a word, I don't think it is?). In my experience a girl who doesn't outright say "No, piss off" (or words to that effect) when you ask her out can be seducted (I know that word's not real, but love it nevertheless). Maybe = I need to be convinced/reassured/etc before I say yes. | ||
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Courage Wolf
7 Posts
Watch Fast Five and give yourself a huge injection of testosterone. Think to yourself - do the main characters in movies ever act like you do? If The Rock acted like you did in Fast Five, would he be getting any of that young Brazillian pussy? No. Girls are attracted to masculinity, not effimacy. | ||
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garlicface
Canada4196 Posts
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Chill
Calgary26003 Posts
1. Don't give a fuck and tell her directly "Hey, let's go to _______. Just the two of us." If she says why, tell her why. If she says no say "Okay no big deal" and let her go. 2. Don't give a fuck and let her go. Since both end up with you letting her go you might as well try option 1. Just be direct. | ||
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TERRANLOL
United States626 Posts
Yeah. That's how I'd do it. | ||
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LanTAs
United States1091 Posts
On September 29 2011 12:51 TERRANLOL wrote: Alright see none of these chumps know how to solve your problem. You need to invite her someplace classy... like a fine restaurant. Someplace that is SO fine that she has no choice but to say yes. But when she gets there, make sure there are only two seats... one seat for you, and one seat for your friend chad. When she gets there look at her surprised and say "OH I didn't know YOU were coming." And then when she tries to say something, make out with chad right in front of her. And then look at her and leave. Make sure the bill is still on the table so she has to pay for it. Yeah. That's how I'd do it. I'm Fifteen. My Parents are Asian. Thats not happening. Thanks Chill, you're the best :-) i can see why ppl tell me to PM you for girl problems but, this is just about as good : ) | ||
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TimmyMac
Canada499 Posts
On September 29 2011 11:59 Chill wrote: I see two options: 1. Don't give a fuck and tell her directly "Hey, let's go to _______. Just the two of us." If she says why, tell her why. If she says no say "Okay no big deal" and let her go. 2. Don't give a fuck and let her go. Since both end up with you letting her go you might as well try option 1. Just be direct. can we have a separate girl blog forum and let this guy moderate it? in the past week i've seen like 6 threads where its clear the dude is getting avoided but aren't willing to man up and be direct / get rejected | ||
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YoureFired
United States822 Posts
On September 29 2011 13:28 TimmyMac wrote: can we have a separate girl blog forum and let this guy moderate it? in the past week i've seen like 6 threads where its clear the dude is getting avoided but aren't willing to man up and be direct / get rejected How about we just have a checkbox for each blog [ ] Girl Blog? if yes: Chill's Advice 1. Don't give a fuck and tell her directly "Hey, let's go to _______. Just the two of us." If she says why, tell her why. If she says no say "Okay no big deal" and let her go. 2. Don't give a fuck and let her go. If your girl blog is actually more complicated than this, continue. Seriously guys, it's as simple as "she doesn't like you" and "there are way, way better girls out there". Sorry for being an ass and straightforward but that's the truth, I used to do the exact same thing as you guys. | ||
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TheGiz
Canada708 Posts
Bringing a friend to a date is an immediate sign she wants backup, which means she is in some way uncomfortable with you. It also means she doesn't want it to be a date. It also might mean that Sherman is a cock-blocking douchebag asshole who wants to get in her pants (and worse, he's clingy). The only way you could have one-upped Sherman was to out-maneuver him both by being the alpha male in that situation (leading the conversation, making the decisions, asking the questions) and properly deflecting his awkward questions. It's especially tough to do if you're feeling intimidated. The main thing to remember is that because this girl's friend came along and she avoided you beforehand, she's obviously not into you and is not worth your time or effort. If she wants to hang around with douchebags then her poor decisions will garner poor results, like dating douchebags and not you. Conclusion: If you really feel like carrying the situation a little further, locate and knock out Sherman. Even if it doesn't help you with this girl it will most definitely make him look like a bitch. Remember to keep up the aggression if he wants to turn it into a full fight - you wouldn't half-commit to a 4gate, would you? Don't bother with the girl again. Just don't contact her at all. If she wants anything to do with you she'll contact you. If not forget about her. There are so many girls out there it's ridiculous. I'm not a pick-up artist, but when I go to a club and ask a girl to dance, if she accepts I'll dance and if not I just move right on. If I detect that she's not into it or is trying to get away from me, I bail. It's like losing a match in Starcraft - just click on the Find Match button and see how the next one goes; you can't change that last game. There are 10+ other girls there that I could dance with. So good luck in the future. Don't sweat the losses, but relish the wins. | ||
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Probe1
United States17920 Posts
Anyway, it wasn't a date and she either didn't think it was or didn't want it to be. Good luck! (Listen to Chill) | ||
pathy
Taiwan619 Posts
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zalz
Netherlands3704 Posts
On September 29 2011 14:40 Probe1 wrote: Wow you're not kidding Giz, you really are the girl blog guy. Anyway, it wasn't a date and she either didn't think it was or didn't want it to be. Good luck! (Listen to Chill) Self-deception. They always know, they aren't that socially handicapped. Think of it like this. Some girl you really like is asking you to go have lunch, do you bring a friend along? If this guy you really like asks you to have lunch, do you bring your friend along? Even if she is the dumbest creature on this earth and didn't realise it was a date, would she not still have gone alone if she was really into him? Taking a friend along is basically saying "i don't like you and i have a reasonable level of suspecion that you might attempt to rape me" | ||
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