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On September 27 2011 21:11 RogerX wrote:
Listen to Idra, you gotta skate. I'm 17 and im not worrying about girls in rl at the moment, just wanna live my youth and play the hell off starcraft 2 instead of spending all of my day being with a girl atm.
Is "you gotta skate" and Idra quote? Did he say it on stream and what does it mean?
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so this girl is from nanyang?
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On September 27 2011 21:15 pangshai wrote:
so this girl is from nanyang?
You're a genius. How did you know?
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On September 27 2011 21:13 Azera wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 21:11 RogerX wrote:
Listen to Idra, you gotta skate. I'm 17 and im not worrying about girls in rl at the moment, just wanna live my youth and play the hell off starcraft 2 instead of spending all of my day being with a girl atm. Is "you gotta skate" and Idra quote? Did he say it on stream and what does it mean?
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Thank you LunarDestiny
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On September 27 2011 21:17 RogerX wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 21:13 Azera wrote:On September 27 2011 21:11 RogerX wrote:
Listen to Idra, you gotta skate. I'm 17 and im not worrying about girls in rl at the moment, just wanna live my youth and play the hell off starcraft 2 instead of spending all of my day being with a girl atm. Is "you gotta skate" and Idra quote? Did he say it on stream and what does it mean? + Show Spoiler +Thank you LunarDestiny
I assume the Urban Dictionary definition is correct? U gotta skate
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It's a TL Meme. IIRC, a guy needed to travel interstate to go to an event and one guy said "u gotta skate"
Anyway, back on topic...
Just take a break from all these shit, nothing good will ever come out of staying in sadness and making decisions while in it. Don't take too long in getting yourself back up.
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On September 27 2011 21:24 SilverSkyLark wrote:
It's a TL Meme. IIRC, a guy needed to travel interstate to go to an event and one guy said "u gotta skate"
Anyway, back on topic...
Just take a break from all these shit, nothing good will ever come out of staying in sadness and making decisions while in it. Don't take too long in getting yourself back up.
I ROFL'd. Team Liquid is such an awesome site.
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Oh come on dude, you shouldn't worry about it at all. As many of us already said, you're only 14, you really don't have to suffer from this crap, you don't even know her personally, so what's the point of getting upset?
You will eventually forget her, it may take a week, it may take two, but I can assure you that it won't be much.
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You're young, I know you don't wanna hear this but I'd just get over it and not worry about it. You're too young to be in a relationship that serious (I doubt you'd be having sex yet, if you are then... o.O). I mean to be fair when I was in middle school I had some sweet week long "relationships" that involved me texting a girlfor a week, saying we were dating, but we never talked face to face before breaking up. That happened.
TL;DR: Buck up dood, you'll be fine!
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On September 27 2011 21:31 Ko1tz wrote:
Oh come on dude, you shouldn't worry about it at all. As many of us already said, you're only 14, you really don't have to suffer from this crap, you don't even know her personally, so what's the point of getting upset?
You will eventually forget her, it may take a week, it may take two, but I can assure you that it won't be much.
On September 27 2011 21:49 GlocKomA wrote:
You're young, I know you don't wanna hear this but I'd just get over it and not worry about it. You're too young to be in a relationship that serious (I doubt you'd be having sex yet, if you are then... o.O). I mean to be fair when I was in middle school I had some sweet week long "relationships" that involved me texting a girlfor a week, saying we were dating, but we never talked face to face before breaking up. That happened.
TL;DR: Buck up dood, you'll be fine!
Both of you are probably right... but if you were in my position, wouldn't you just try to make things work? I don't have the courage though =(
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On September 27 2011 21:53 Azera wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 21:31 Ko1tz wrote:
Oh come on dude, you shouldn't worry about it at all. As many of us already said, you're only 14, you really don't have to suffer from this crap, you don't even know her personally, so what's the point of getting upset?
You will eventually forget her, it may take a week, it may take two, but I can assure you that it won't be much.
Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 21:49 GlocKomA wrote:
You're young, I know you don't wanna hear this but I'd just get over it and not worry about it. You're too young to be in a relationship that serious (I doubt you'd be having sex yet, if you are then... o.O). I mean to be fair when I was in middle school I had some sweet week long "relationships" that involved me texting a girlfor a week, saying we were dating, but we never talked face to face before breaking up. That happened.
TL;DR: Buck up dood, you'll be fine! Both of you are probably right... but if you were in my position, wouldn't you just try to make things work? I don't have the courage though =(
I would, who wouldn't? The difference is that there is a time and place for everything. If I'm not wrong, it's probably the year-end examinations in Singapore in like a week or so.
Right now you're in a period of life where academics is your top priority. I know I'm most likely sounding like your parents, but it's the truth.
I've read your previous blog and I can gather that you do not feel confident of yourself. You feel that you are not attractive enough. Now, ask yourself. Do you want a girl that only goes after you solely because you are 'attractive'? There are many other factors that girls(or at least smart girls) consider when looking for a guy. Being attractive does not wholly mean having good looks. I've met some girls that are attracted to certain attitudes and personalities, it just differs from person. There is no point getting a girl that is merely attracted to you based on looks. What if you've met with an accident and have your face distorted?
The girl you mentioned sounds pretty smart, I highly doubt that she falls in the category of "attractive = handsome". She might be looking for other qualities, you'd never know.
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If you don't have the courage, you'll never have anything.
Watch Gurren Lagann.
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On September 27 2011 21:53 Azera wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 21:31 Ko1tz wrote:
Oh come on dude, you shouldn't worry about it at all. As many of us already said, you're only 14, you really don't have to suffer from this crap, you don't even know her personally, so what's the point of getting upset?
You will eventually forget her, it may take a week, it may take two, but I can assure you that it won't be much.
Show nested quote +On September 27 2011 21:49 GlocKomA wrote:
You're young, I know you don't wanna hear this but I'd just get over it and not worry about it. You're too young to be in a relationship that serious (I doubt you'd be having sex yet, if you are then... o.O). I mean to be fair when I was in middle school I had some sweet week long "relationships" that involved me texting a girlfor a week, saying we were dating, but we never talked face to face before breaking up. That happened.
TL;DR: Buck up dood, you'll be fine! Both of you are probably right... but if you were in my position, wouldn't you just try to make things work? I don't have the courage though =(
I would try to make things work, if I knew her. you might want atleast to get to know her first. It can be tough, but don't think that everything's gonna happen magicly (spelling?).
But hey, as I told you before, just don't worry, enjoy life, relax and concentrate on things that in the long run will make you a better person. There's no need to get all depressed.
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Not to try and diminish your blog, but I don't think it's heartbreak for you if you don't even talk to the girl. Also, you're only in (what Americans call) Middleschool. Plenty of time to worry about girls later on.
I read through, and you have some big test coming up? If that's the case, then I recommend getting your priorities straight and study what you can for it before worrying about this girl. The test will come and go, but she'll be around for much longer.
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you'll never forget your first heartbreak ;___;
you seem pretty mature for a 14 year old singaporean anyone, you have a clear plan on what to do. you just gotta put it into action, and really, no choice but to mug :S
i mean, i got freaking A levels in one month plus and that's all i can do but to mug :/
anw, digression aside, your first heartbreak can never be forgotten, but don't do anything ridiculous because of it, ok? even though it's not really a heartbreak as some people pointed out, but oh well, diff people have diff perceptions!
and no, not really. in this internet age, doesn't really seem that creepy. my friends know a lot of other friends that i had no idea they knew via e-stalking lol.
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You need to get some perspective, man. You have no fucking clue what heartbreak is if that's what you're calling this blog. If you've never met the girl personally, it's not heartbreak. When I was 15, my girlfriend of a year ended it with me (after we were spending 5+ hours a day together) and started dating my best friend about a month after.
That was what I think of as a not-too-bad version of heartbreak, as it was the most intense love I've had for someone before or since. It took me about a year to fully recover from the depression because of it. Man up and talk to her before you go declaring your love lost (you saw her HUGGING someone, for god's sake. For all you know, she's writing a blog about how she wishes you would talk to her right now. But you'd never know because you've never even introduced yourself!)
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you gotta skate isn't Idras meme -.-
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wait...i dont get it, how did your heart break over a girl you don't even know?
she was never yours to begin with...i guess you being 14 explains it. I used to think like you too, but you just gotta learn to not dwell on certain things, especially things that you cannot change or influence.
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You are just a kid. You (and nerds in general) have inspired me to write a series of blogs. Stay tuned.
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