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Damn. Today kind of sucked hard for me. I did not go to sleep at all during the night so I figures I should go to the gym early morning. I stopped playing sc2 and wen tot the gym at around 530 am until 630 am. This is very good since I need to get back into shape. I enjoy being fit but at the moment I am anything but it /: I used to play football and wrestle in high school for four years so I was constantly working out and dieting hardcore for wrestling. My senior year I had to cut 40 pounds for wrestling. I accomplished this goal in a two month period.
So I left the gym at 630 went home showered and got on my way to school. There was an unusually large amount of traffic heading to the town where my school is located. So instead of taking me the usual 30 minute drive I ended up getting to school in an hour and ten minutes, which made me late for class unfortunately. I arrived late to class and the teacher gave me sort a stern look for interrupting the class with my entrance.
Anyways I get home and immediately pass out since I had no sleep. I went to sleep at 11 am and woke up at around 2 pm. I looked at my phone and zero texts. So i decide to text this girl that I used to talk to frequently. Now I hadn't spoken or texted her in weeks so i figured I wouldn't get a response. She responded immediately ^^ We texted for a span of about 5 hours. It was awesome getting back in touch with her and hearing about what she has been doing recently. She then texts me: I cant text all night we have been dragging this conversation on for too long.
Immediately I'm like wtf......But then I apologized and said night. I mean why do girls have to be so complicated? Just minutes before she was sending smileys and flirting. this brought my whole day down and now I'm just kind of sitting here like did that just really happen? Oh well as the famous quote goes "Life goes on."
 
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you can't be to needy with girls or they will just drop you. Texting is a terrible way to communicate especially with girls.
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Well what else do you suggest? And I seriously wasn't needy, it was texting from both ways. She was asking me questions and I was doing the same. That is why it was so surprising that she texted me that out of nowhere. It seemed like she wanted to talk to me so I continued texting her but the i got that -___-
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you're mad because she wanted to go to sleep? I don't see anything in here that is some kind of feminine conspiracy. Maybe she spent all that time getting mad you didn't ask her to hang out in person instead of texting forever.
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Doesn't sound needy to me. Most girls actually love to text. Kinda weird she'd say that after being so friendly...
It sucks that it was a let down. Sorry you had a bad day T_T
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^ That :/
I mean. That happens to me sometimes. I'll be texting someone. And it's like: well, shit. It's 3:00 am. It's been awesome texting/talking to you, but I need sleep and it's we've been taking for too long.
zzz
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dont let her get too much of the good stuff, text her for abit, get her interested and excited then pull the plug and say u gota go do some stuff. This keeps them wanting more of u and not let them get disinterested.
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Be happily single, it's the least complicated option.
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On September 15 2011 12:42 hai2u wrote:
dont let her get too much of the good stuff, text her for abit, get her interested and excited then pull the plug and say u gota go do some stuff. This keeps them wanting more of u and not let them get disinterested.
Haha, wtf is this? "Be bipolar. Girls love that."
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its only 7 pm here xD and she didn't want to go to sleep prolly homework or something idk whatever it was it just sucks you know? Oh and I had asked her to hang out before but she was always busy that's why we stopped talking so I don't want to push that right now.
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Don't read too much into it. She probably just wanted to sleep and halt this conversation. I'm sure we've all been exhausted and wanted to terminate the interactions without putting forth much effort so we can rest. Next time just be like "Oops, I didn't notice the time either! Nice talking to you again and we'll catch up more later. Night!"
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On September 15 2011 12:43 NathanSC wrote:Show nested quote +On September 15 2011 12:42 hai2u wrote:
dont let her get too much of the good stuff, text her for abit, get her interested and excited then pull the plug and say u gota go do some stuff. This keeps them wanting more of u and not let them get disinterested. Haha, wtf is this? "Be bipolar. Girls love that."
nah man this makes it looks like you got alot of shit going on in your life and that she is not your number one priority. You don't want to be that nice guy who is always available for her, that's pathetic, chicks don't want that.
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On September 15 2011 12:02 Nufo wrote:
Damn. Today kind of sucked hard for me. I did not go to sleep at all during the night so I figures I should go to the gym early morning. I stopped playing sc2 and wen tot the gym at around 530 am until 630 am. This is very good since I need to get back into shape. I enjoy being fit but at the moment I am anything but it /: I used to play football and wrestle in high school for four years so I was constantly working out and dieting hardcore for wrestling. My senior year I had to cut 40 pounds for wrestling. I accomplished this goal in a two month period.
So I left the gym at 630 went home showered and got on my way to school. There was an unusually large amount of traffic heading to the town where my school is located. So instead of taking me the usual 30 minute drive I ended up getting to school in an hour and ten minutes, which made me late for class unfortunately. I arrived late to class and the teacher gave me sort a stern look for interrupting the class with my entrance.
Anyways I get home and immediately pass out since I had no sleep. I went to sleep at 11 am and woke up at around 2 pm. I looked at my phone and zero texts. So i decide to text this girl that I used to talk to frequently. Now I hadn't spoken or texted her in weeks so i figured I wouldn't get a response. She responded immediately ^^ We texted for a span of about 5 hours. It was awesome getting back in touch with her and hearing about what she has been doing recently. She then texts me: I cant text all night we have been dragging this conversation on for too long.
Immediately I'm like wtf......But then I apologized and said night. I mean why do girls have to be so complicated? Just minutes before she was sending smileys and flirting. this brought my whole day down and now I'm just kind of sitting here like did that just really happen? Oh well as the famous quote goes "Life goes on."
Can a mod change the title to feminine complex?
There's a good chance that she was saying it in a joking manner and you misinterpreted it because it was text and not speech.
If not, it might be a subtle signal to not get any ideas. Girls can be complicated like that.
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No worries guys I'm talking to a really fine girl right now :D She needed help studying for her biology test and I'm gosu at Biology. So here I am skyping with her (:
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Maybe it was a "why are you still making small talk five hours later, hurry up and ask to hang out" kind of message. You seem a little quick to take offense. It's hard to convey tone over texts, so I wouldn't jump to conclusions that quickly. Oh well.
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5 hours!??! I limit my text conversations with girls to 2 hours Maximum... any more and it just seems draggy as hell.
Protip: face-to-face is the best way to communicate.
Protip2: never help girls with homework lol... surefire way to get friend-zoned.
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actually, some girls find smart guys attractive
and yeah don't worry too much about it... she maybe wanted to talk to you more but she REALLY had to do her hw or something so that was the only way she could think to tear herself away from you ^^, if i ever need to stop texting someone i'll throw my phone far away somewhere so i don't feel tempted to reply, and she was nice enough in this situation to give you a warning that she wasn't going to be talking anymore.
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woman are insane, they all have their own ways of dealing with shit, good luck figuring them out. I on the other hand, have chosen the "i literally dont give a shit" route, and some girls like that. WHY!? cuz most are idiots i think, woman, they are needlessly complex.
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On September 15 2011 12:43 NathanSC wrote:Show nested quote +On September 15 2011 12:42 hai2u wrote:
dont let her get too much of the good stuff, text her for abit, get her interested and excited then pull the plug and say u gota go do some stuff. This keeps them wanting more of u and not let them get disinterested. Haha, wtf is this? "Be bipolar. Girls love that."
Not really... it just shows that there's more to your life than texting some girl.
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On September 15 2011 13:58 bloopie wrote:
5 hours!??! I limit my text conversations with girls to 2 hours Maximum... any more and it just seems draggy as hell.
Protip: face-to-face is the best way to communicate.
Protip2: never help girls with homework lol... surefire way to get friend-zoned.
Well that explains my problems.
I think that nothing happened: just be careful not to read too much into stuff like this.
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On September 15 2011 12:42 hai2u wrote:
dont let her get too much of the good stuff, text her for abit, get her interested and excited then pull the plug and say u gota go do some stuff. This keeps them wanting more of u and not let them get disinterested.
this is actually a great piece of advice. listen to this man.
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On September 15 2011 12:42 hai2u wrote:
dont let her get too much of the good stuff, text her for abit, get her interested and excited then pull the plug and say u gota go do some stuff. This keeps them wanting more of u and not let them get disinterested.
this guy is right.
don't respond to texts right away all the time. pull her in, and then push her away. make her work for your attention.
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Yep, what others are quoting over and over... you can't satisfy her texting-crave completely, because next logical thing is to drop you afterwards (since she is completely satisfied!). Don't cut the conversation too early - I'd roughly go for the timing when you've exchanged one pretty exciting story and she's eager to transition to the next. Cut it off saying you have to do something important (better be important because you're cutting her off) but don't give any more detail than that (keep her guessing).
But at the end of the day... it's just text. Next-to-meaningless. Now go call her up for a lunch or dinner.
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On September 15 2011 12:24 Nufo wrote:
Well what else do you suggest? And I seriously wasn't needy, it was texting from both ways. She was asking me questions and I was doing the same. That is why it was so surprising that she texted me that out of nowhere. It seemed like she wanted to talk to me so I continued texting her but the i got that -___-
The needy part is you being like "wtf" because after 5 (fucking) hours she says that she has been texting too much (Which she has, and so have you been) I mean did you expect her + you just to text for ever into eternity ? :V
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I never said wtf to her that was just a thought in my mind btw.
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